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@Zigzag Idiot but what has it to do with me? Because you told that it's my main problem :))

@Moreira and do you accept that if you don't get it at all you will feel desperate?

Well, to certain extent yes! It's like a Game, as you're trying to build the blocks of self-actualization and put them upon each other, you should keep an eye for another tiers. The irony is that the whole game of hierarchical structure never ends you should fill them constantly, it's like you're playing the game of Tetris for all 5 tiers For instance, if you're doing the consciousness work, get a healthy relationship and be an expert handling that and then fulfill yourself and the partner from that

Sex is both survival need and a supernatural cosmic activity that always has been diminished in importance by people! if you're trying to avoid it for your own personal development, make sure it will go one full cycle and get back and will backfire on you ASAP! Make sure that one of the building blocks of Self-Actualization is the foundational needs and if you don't check out with that the whole building of self-actualization would collapse Try to embrace it utterly, the urge for sex will only diminish that one day you cut down your own genital organ intentionally! ( but then again the consequences would come up as compulsions and disorders :))) ) P.S : SEX IS BOTH ANIMALISTIC AND SUPERNATURAL THING!

it boils down to the addiction of people to playing the victim and having the victim mentality and projecting the problems out to the external forces, but the people don't understand it's not the problem of an individual figure, it's all about the collective creation!

@Zigzag Idiot Thank you! But why Saturnine? :))

Nice job Boy! I'M A BIG-BELIEVER IN SELF-RESTRAINT A few days ago, i tried to shake the habit of drinking stimulants like Black Tea, Green Tea, Coffee, i had a bad headache yesterday due to the lack of stimulant in my brain! one thing you should keep in mind that the EGO will always produce pain and suffering to get you back to the prior condition, don't give up on that!

YOUR MAIN PROBLEM IS THAT YOU're MORALIZING EVERYTHING you're always in your head and overanalyzing everything, you make meaning of every situation in your head, and that could even make matter worse One point, that I wanna make is that we're always in our heads and not fully awake in entire body, there's not right and wrong in this life, and you could do anything you want in your life even the things that your parents are feeling disgusted about!

Creativity is that you're having sex with something and you get a baby from it! THAT'S ALL! for instance, let's assume, somebody is interested is physics, he is so immersed in it that he becomes one with it (it's like he's having sex with physics) and the baby is a new creative idea in physics field.

your main problem is that you think that other people can decide what you should/ should not do, the truth is that there is no right and wrong and all the rights and wrongs are your own perception, so from now on, make a decision that serves your own agenda, not others!

THE PROBLEM ISN'T THAT YOU ARE ALONE, it is when you say that you are alone and at the same time. you FEEL AWKWARD AND GUILTY about yourself and that feelings ripple through the whole space and it makes the girl to walk away from you.

Well, instead, try to do your everyday mundane activities consciously, what I mean is that you should do all of your activities done throughout the day slowly and consciously (improving your concentration) , what you're missing is that you think that you should do nothing in order to improve your consciousness, but you could do everything that you want and simultaneously working on your concentration and awareness!!