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just observe everything in the long-term. it's right that I may sleep better after the fulfillment of jerking off to porn, but is it good for me in the long run? of course, not. you have certain fantasies and every girl has certain and special fantasies. remember by not jerking off to those bubble collection. you'll get the urge to learn the ropes to perform in the world, create your own porn scenes with your own girls if you are willful enough!

my gene

coz most of the time, you should zoom out right to the big picture and see the big picture and the thing is that not 100% of the things he say is true so getting the big picture and getting the important points could help you.

@Rasheed Don't be obsessed with taking serious notes and memorizing everything that he says line by line. you can take notes but carelessly, because for me, I actually watch them mindfully and try to get the big picture, when ever I've done watching all of them, I could start to re-watch them for taking notes. that's my plan for actualized.org.

some people are shitposting...

@Raptorsin7 of course, it's easier said than done, if I'm don't feel sleep and not tired at all, I can reach into that state even in less than 30 seconds.

You should set the frame of your work on "materialism" and "no-metaphysics-at-all"! for example, introducing the evolution of the stage orange science, explaining how we as humans are evolved from a tiny cell or denying all of the mambo-jumbo or voodoo done by people around the world. because simply a hardcore stage orange person doesn't hold any place for any kind of superstitions. if the society is mainly orange, that'd be easy for a person as a higher blue person to evolve up to stage orange from lower stages and maintain his or her place there. if you are not familiar with the examples, I recommend you to check out "the spiral dynamics stage orange examples mega-thread"

@Raptorsin7 as I said, you can't eliminate thought by thought or a voice with another voice, if you'd do, another thought would rise, an observer camera is needed to observe everything unconditionally non-judgmentally, that's not any part of the mind but coming out of space and time. a mediator should not be a human inside his/her meditation, the problem with beginners is that a beginner gets so empty that he gets back to thought to meditate again or he might speak to himself to make himself back to present moment, because he thinks if he doesn't have thought, he can't meditate properly as he learned with techniques, but he doesn't know that all process of profound meditation is done automatically when techniques are internalized in the long-run. hope you get the point.

it should be a long-term plan without you being disappointed from them not making progress in the long run. you should push them forward gently without them knowing you're doing it. this should be done incrementally and has its own subtly and delicacy. you should throw new ideas and thoughts every now and then and provide evidences and examples from other parts of the world without leading them to develop resistance or create negative argument. they're higher blue, right? you should pull them up to the different tier of stage orange and explain about the prosperity and successes of orange countries and their people. explain it as if you're actually an orange girl and you feel into it while illustrating the examples. it'd get easier for you every time they're evolving up. it's a long process but it should be done constantly without being discouraged.

that's your own mind problem, everyone of us are always trying out different lenses in our life and unfortunately your mind is programmed with that viewpoint and It's not a normal thing because every relationship whether it's with your friends, colleagues whether it's intimate relationship requires "trust" at first place. that could be problematic much more in intimate relationship, for example, if I turn to my girlfriend and ask her: do you trust me? and she'd beat around the bush in order to not to deliver the right answer, I'd get colder. that's the bitter fact! so if you want to take a step to change your viewpoint and take the healthiest one, I'd recommend you to push yourself further and further to be social to make the prior belief weaker and weaker. beware that your mind will try to maintain the status quo by collecting the related evidences.

you can discover unswallowable truth one after the other but stick with modern life simultaneously. don't let the facts demotivate you in life, at the end of the day, truth is ultimately a source of joy and motivation.

@Nivsch Well Said, Bro!

You're a great subject changer GOD and Devil aren't the same. "the source" is primordial but any devil is transient and imaginary. PERIOD.

"STUPIDITY" is the most valuable thing that you can receive from celibacy

Nicely put! Gotta think of that! Tnx!

Remember this key insight: whenever you're practicing developing a new habit, EGO will kill you to get back on your former habits. how? it will produce pain and suffering.

coz I'm fuckin' MEEEEEEEEEE!

@StefiKSM don't let over-excitement fool you! remember so many professionals use it without facing any dangers, but this doesn't mean you won't experience any! so start from minor safe dosage or postpone it and do it after you've done significant profound meditations. have you been great inside your meditations?

parents transmit bad behaviors subconsciously to their children so subtly that It would shock us to death investigating the psychology of that! so consider a bad or abusive case of a mom who transmits her behaviors delicately to her daughter and the daughter as a future mom to her daughter and this chain of negative effect will run its course till a mom becomes aware of the malicious pattern and takes action on altering that behavior for the good! so don't underestimate the effect of her mom on her. on the other hand, maybe she has hyperactivity and she wants to release that extra energy by acting out and behaving mischievously! so in that case, don't underrate visiting a psychiatrist.

@Rasheed yes, no matter what! you got the point precisely! as a matter of fact, as our senses pumped with more awareness energy, we have more tenancy to avoid negative things for our body automatically. so your body is a an intelligent biological machine which can be more and more intelligent if it gets more consciousness. so your body will know what it will need in the given situation. you may avoid meat at any cost in your normal life but in extreme situations it can change its preferences for survival. so let's imagine a person with substantial heightened awareness is in the middle of nowhere and can witness its body dying in minutes, the body can even decide to kill snake to fill up the stomach.

working on being superior is not bad. the obsession is bad in anything. working on your self-esteem will more induce the decision to evolve and go higher and higher in different domains of life.

we're just playing the maze game to get out of the maze of EGO.

@MAYA EL I'm substantially unconscious and I don't deny that and I don't like to fool myself even when people around me can fool themselves.

@Rasheed I don't deny the underlying negative energy of the meat, of course, the energy of the meat is not the same as vegetable, nobody can deny that. but what I'm trying to say is that one can achieve higher state of consciousness, thus higher metaphysical energies that even negative energies in the environment and nutrition can't have significant effect on the psyche of the given individual. a glass of water can't pollute the lake. does it? here I'm talking about the possibility of the predominance. otherwise If I talk about us including me and you, of course we're vulnerable to the negative nutrition and their substantial effects.

@M4sti first of all, welcome to this forum and congratulations on joining, dear new-fledgling newbie! I guess it's your first time in this forum and you'll get used to it. second of all, you should be able to learn and draw distinctions between hard drugs, psychedelics and normal nutrition like vegetables and meat, then we'll be able to discuss about the above topics.