hamedsf

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  1. let me tell you something. haters gonna hate. jealous people gonna be jealous. that's 100% and you can't stop it. your belief isn't rational. build a high-quality life for yourself but keep it as a secret. don't show it off. that's the good solution.
  2. too much knowledge isn't bad until you just fill up your head with them and not implementing them. like you talk the talk, but you don't walk the walk.
  3. that's the basic of manipulation. getting defensive and calling you a judge-mental! regarding the moral stuff and consequences of sleeping with a woman who has husband doesn't worth it. she is simply a cheater and exercising her options for fun. screw that monkey branching creature NOW! ?
  4. Yes, I recommend seeking a professional advice for that.
  5. don't determine your happiness by the attraction of opposite sex for now. I know it's hard but you should be okay with it. if you don't attract attention from females, you might as well, do things that make a personal and special lifestyle for yourself. building and living that life style full of passion and joy will attract the attention of a female.
  6. what? egoic thinking! trying to rescue yourself and move into another stage of life isn't egoic thinking.
  7. I can do it and it requires kinda mental power to do so. I can even visit people when they are asleep at night for the sake of protecting them.
  8. excuse is excuse. if she acts or says she is busy it means she doesn't wanna make time for (you) but at the same time she has free time for others! she kinda wants to forget all about her ex. that's why subconsciously she wants to ignore you too. basically, I wouldn't make it further if somebody comes up with excuses. so let her go like you have never before! ?
  9. your post is long and I'm just answering the header of the thread. parents are lovely and most of 'em love their children by their heart (excluding the ones who have serious mental disorder and hate their children) but the fact that parent loving their kids by their heart doesn't mean they wouldn't abuse or manipulate you. sometimes, your father or mom would intentionally or unintentionally emasculate you in order to make you submissive to listen to their words instead of taking action by your own personal life agenda. so finding a decent source of income and living independently would make you much mature. hope it helps.
  10. just tap into your strong will which burns you out in the process. growth needs some pain and suffering and human beings always wanna shortcut that process.
  11. I would make a harem of girls and still protect their ass one by one if an external man comes over. Sneaky ?
  12. don't take it personally but still I'm telling the truth. women aren't interested in the type of the guy who is okay with his girlfriend to have sex with another guys. a female needs a protective man (not necessarily a jealous tho)
  13. I hope you remember the old-term cuckold...why do they use it as an insult? just because cuckold is a doormat in a relationship.
  14. I'm not gonna destroy your thread but I should say I know how much I provide value to people here who need serious help as a mentorship role and I'm even not afraid of getting banned permanently by expressing myself freely. coz I know what I do here overall increases the quality of forum and when shit hits the fan, I'm not gonna come back as a second account, when I'm done I'm done!
  15. I guess there are pros and cons to everything including modernism and conservatism. I've found good things both from modernism and conservatism. I might have collection of behaviors mixed with modernism and conservatism (or even traditionalism) so holding prejudice against conservatism is another prejudice in and of itself. I'm saying this to all my respectful moderators! I might throw something controversial here and there but all in all, I'm here to help people grow.
  16. at first time of my datings, I wasn't comfortable going down on girl and lick her. you know it can get smelly as hell and you wouldn't believe that smell comes from that gorgeous face, but you should get yourself accustomed to such dirty behaviors. sex gets its meaning when it gets dirty. so I wouldn't go with vanilla sex, coz it's damn boring. otherwise, if you're not interested in women, I recommend check out your testostrone level.
  17. that can happen if you don't discharge the tank for more than two weeks, and it'd get even painful if you got aroused or had a long hot shower. if you are on no fap, my recommendation for you to get engaged in a demanding physical exercise that make you sweat. if not, jerk off and be done with it then you might as well think about replacing your hand with the hand of a girl who has a pink pussy.
  18. if you're a gorgeous girl and still helping him get out of that shitty situation, I should say bravo to you. but if things doesn't work in the long run (like it's been a year and he's still stuck), warn her and if he doesn't take it seriously, maybe it's time to part ways.
  19. everything is like that too, girl. you don't need to focus on the hugeness of the goal, focusing on doing it piece by piece will make a huge pile of shits getting done.
  20. @ciclonado yep, good boy. expose yourself and feel right into it.
  21. that applies to the level of testosterone too. there's a significant drop in that hormone in a few decades.
  22. I used to be like that when I was teen just because I had a pretty vivid dream of demons in my childhood. you gotta be aware of the fact that your ego is reacting to the darkness. ego is insecure when everything gets dark. then it projects insecurities as something external like demon or something similar. now I can meditate in darkness at 4:00 am without my ego reaction, all disappeared! observe those reactions and let 'em go!
  23. so general. what's that something?
  24. let's take the example of sugar. sugar looks like porn. men get addicted to porn because the brain thinks it's doing the evolutionary obligation while men deceiving the brains! sugar for our taste bud means lots of energy! we consume it because we feel we could get lots of energy just because in our evolution process, we got rewired so! it happened because natural sugar were and are still the best, like sugar coming from fruits (watermelon) but our body confuse the artificial sugar with the natural sugar and that's why we get rewarded and addicted so fast.