PatternsFormThought

And wow yeah, all those people just whacking off to porn right now, pretty much in every moment for the rest of our lives there's probably at least one strange person in the world whacking off to porn haha. They're no different to a dog dry humping some persons random leg. It's humorous.

Complete disidentification (with beliefs here - for me it would involve ensuring that I'm not creating any false narratives that I'm personalising) while completely identifying everything (relevant) in the experience. Thus the absolute removal of denial. If one knows that some unpleasant emotions are present then one should investigate said emotions, experience them fully through a process of vipassana, which is no judgement, invalidation or lack of experiencing the authenticity of them. Simply allowing the process to wash over you; learn and grow from the experience most of all. I wish I could impart this lesson easily but I can't, all I can say is that its available to those that really wish to experience it. That is, well a bird just took the mate of another bird right now, a lion just killed a gazelle, thousands of people died today, thousands of people were born today. Literally right now, probabilistically, there's thousands of humans cheating on other humans, from the physical (so with respect to sexuality) to the ideological (professing alternate views contrary to their tribe).

@ColdFacts It can be interesting but interesting here has its limits relative to alternatives. Deluded people are more capable of throwing things. @Shadowraix My knowledge is less than 5% concerning Yoga, so feel free to improve my knowledge here. I would be grateful. What are your thoughts on the described method in the video?

@ColdFacts People have no reason to look at themselves a certain way (other than for practical purposes) from my perspective, simply because there is no self. Happy to share further evidence here. I've already stated I don't try to change beliefs of people that are being unreasonable; unreasonable here is simply a situation that is untenable in as much as saying that I can't be bothered with it, I'm enjoying the awareness I have at that moment to care for related conversation. That's all that needs to be stated from my end so far. If you have any questions, would like to discuss things more by all means we can go further. Regardless please feel free to believe what you wish in relation to our interaction, I am not phased at all.

"if you can't do that you should stop judging others." @ColdFactsI'm not, merely disagreeing with a perspective does not equal someone judging someone else. If I believe that most of life is just a game of beliefs, there's probably a low likelihood that I'm going to be judging anyone. Here I'm noticing events, sharing observations in relation to those events. If people do not wish to have any influence over their beliefs, not that I said this or meant it to be inferred, I wouldn't waste my time on someone that wasn't trying to be reasonable. What would be the point? I have more cool things to do. I haven't violated any rules as far as I can tell so far, no rule has been clearly shown (evidence - argumentation) to be in violation. The problem with humans in general I've noticed is they tend to get offended in the context of disagreement, given this discussion board is more likely to attract people interested in self improvement my advice here is to become comfortable with disagreement. Sensible disagreement with oneself is extremely important in my experience at improving beliefs. Beliefs pave the way to a better life I've found, we can't avoid it, a simple example is your beliefs playing out in relation to this response I'm having right now which I'm guessing, merely based on the pattern so far, is going to be negative. Once the human nervous system gets emotionally locked, until this is unhinged confirmation bias will be hard to escape. So if you like, I can play this belief game with you and we can just pretend that I've done something wrong here as opposed to making a harmless thread title that was just me having a laugh. @Shadowraix Agreed. "Me saying be careful was to not point to a fear of theorizing but to be aware of when theorizing starts to take you away from your goal. " What seems to be occurring though is that people are connecting the need for meditation with the reduction of unnecessary theorisation when instead as noted, simply focusing on (1) the better theorisation in relation to belief and the art of thought (2) utilising intelligence to direct self control in regulating the energy of ones mind, say silencing it as necessary, would more likely return a more sensible result. On that note, if there is to be any meditation whatsoever the kind that I recommend is as illustrated at the 32 minute mark of the following video. Here they teach a person to shift from one emotion to the next, this can obviously be transposed to the activity of shifting to any number of states. This is more pertinent to point two. My prediction is that this would lead to improvements in peoples well being more than meditation, especially in the context where people attempt to treat the subject of thought and thinking in an un-nuanced way of which I've said Eckhart does. To reiterate the above problem noted here with disagreement: Simply stating that I disagree with someone does not mean I don't like them or think they don't have interesting things to say. I like Eckhart and I've learned a lot from him. Disagreement is not negative, unquestioned beliefs are (in comparison). "But it becomes easy to get lost in the mental masturbation. " Yeah, so just create systems and try to improve those systems. This goes at the heart of what I said in the thread regarding (1) complete disidentification (belief wise) (2) striving for complete identification (cognitively - increasingly better act of differentiating what is happening, etc). To me, mental masturbation is just due to over-identification. Because if you're not identified, well you're just going to try and limit it to what seems most sensible relative to the context of the cognitive resources you have at that time.

Checkout this thread where towards the end I talk about things mainly being a game of beliefs (not survival):

God like everything is just a belief with a set of experiences attached to that belief, some of those experiences are valid, some invalid. In the context of God, that belief is unwarranted relative to my experiences. I am a theist, but I'm a theist in the context of realising the power of belief, not God. To me God is indoctrination as far as I can tell so far, I'm open to alternative viewpoints, and I'm definitely not an atheist, to me that is equally unreasonable relative to my set of experiences.

@Leo Gura if you have a specific sentence, paragraph in mind that you'd like me to more properly address please state which one so I can do so accordingly along with addressing any further questions you may have in relation to said statements. Stating a claim as you have though without the necessary room for discussion in order to generate elaboration that leads closer to reason however is something that isn't going to be entertaining to cogency. In fact the reasoning I've provided in this comment is enough to say that your actions have only accomplished what you've stated, the spreading of ignorance in the form censoring something from someone that was sincerely attempting to address dogma on the subject. Censorship only leads to the perpetuation of dogma, as already stated, I was merely being humorous regarding the thread title, I note this immediately in the original thread.

" spreading ignorance here agressively you will be banned." @Leo Gura Belief without evidence, logical or otherwise. There's only a few other alternatives that can be reached if someone wishes to make a claim without argument like this. I'm really very unsure what the big fuss is about.

@Leo Gura "The way you frame this whole topic is trolling and demonstrates a lack of nuance. If you want to discuss things feel free to start specific threads, but just ranting against meditation or enlightenment without acknowledging the vast diversity of legit spiritual paths is just spreading your own ignorance. Nuance! Naunce! Nuance! All of this is much more complicated than you currently understand. Be here to learn, not to rant." I'll end with what I stated in this thread again: If you have a retort, please add otherwise censoring me without rebuttal that is more nuanced isn't fair. I'm free and open to whatever ethics are being played and don't mind accordingly regarding what actions are taken, merely just making this point. " One thing I'm noticing about Lisa Cairns for example (I listed her above - she's interesting to listen to) is her trivialisation and in doing so a kind of demonising of survival (in the video I listed above), now although I think its appropriate to critically think about the nature of our existence and why we continue to exist there is little utility in generating negative/related conclusions about those that seem to be reasons. She's getting people to think about their existence, I think that's great, but it seems like she's leap frogging to "survival doesn't matter". How would she know? She wouldn't. This is just a fun play she's having in this moment with beliefs and Leo does the same thing. There's nothing wrong with it per se, its amusing, but I'm not sure they're really aware of what they're doing as much as they think they are or of which they need to be in order to speak sensibly about the subject. Many people in self help are often irrational like this without realising. Its not their fault of course, its just a happening in real time, but its important for us to be aware of so we can avoid doing it. Its not a survival game that's being played, it's a belief game that's being played, that's all. "

One thing I'm noticing about Lisa Cairns for example (I listed her above - she's interesting to listen to) is her trivialisation and in doing so a kind of demonising of survival (in the video I listed above), now although I think its appropriate to critically think about the nature of our existence and why we continue to exist there is little utility in generating negative/related conclusions about those that seem to be reasons. She's getting people to think about their existence, I think that's great, but it seems like she's leap frogging to "survival doesn't matter". How would she know? She wouldn't. This is just a fun play she's having in this moment with beliefs and Leo does the same thing. There's nothing wrong with it per se, its amusing, but I'm not sure they're really aware of what they're doing as much as they think they are or of which they need to be in order to speak sensibly about the subject. Many people in self help are often irrational like this without realising. Its not their fault of course, its just a happening in real time, but its important for us to be aware of so we can avoid doing it. Its not a survival game that's being played, it's a belief game that's being played, that's all.

A big thing to help others that I notice is that people aren't aware enough about the negative connotations they form around thought and how those negative connotations arise. The more aware they made themselves here the more they'd be able to intelligently re-educate themselves on the process of their thoughts and thinking as opposed to demonising it in some unconscious invalid way without even realising. Eckhart Tolle for example talks a lot about reducing thought. BUT instead of looking at him as a spiritual teacher look at him as a human and look at the context of his conclusions. He was being harmed heavily by his negative thinking. It created delusions about his lack of life success and his subsequent conclusions about the future. He discovered a window of beauty outside the storm of his destructive thinking, a quieter more invisible aspect of himself existed and in lieu of this, reached the conclusion that thought was the cause of much of his suffering. He then abstracted (a thought) and determined that "a lot of thinking" was the cause of much suffering on planet Earth and in doing so, a restriction on peoples capabilities to living well and in peace. If Eckhart had of focused more on the technique and methods in the use of thought as opposed to broad generalisations I think he would be doing the subject much more service. This isn't a slight on Eckhart, he is just a brain in a body expressing the limited amidst the infinite, there's no real Eckhart there of course, however it is this identification that people make on people, themselves and others that lead them into group think as opposed to developing more coherent narratives about these subjects.

It's basically pseudo religion in many social circles concerning these spiritual topics as they don't really experiment. They just find out what another person believes and then copy, many do worse and preach.

Intelligence instructing self control can also be a means of decreasing and or moderating thought. To state that someone must be sitting down, decreasing thought or anything along these lines is merely a belief pertaining to another set of beliefs. Beliefs via non-experimentation (or a lack of thorough experimentation) is merely indoctrination. There's nothing wrong with the amount of theorisation, I could do it non-stop. Exactly what is at a loss if it is good theorisation in a good state with more positive than negative outcomes compared to any other activity? I recommend looking at the dogma you have in relation to theorisation, "be careful" on this topic is another common thread which points to an irrational fear. Thought is beautiful, one cannot even perceive existence without thought, because it takes the awareness of perception to achieve this which is a thought in itself. It all comes down to quality (opposite here: fear), evaluation (opposite here: dogma) and experimentation (opposite here: indoctrination).

If anyone wants a good insight on potential enlightenment/enlightening what I recommend is the following combination: 1. On one hand simply practice DISIDENTIFICATION, make a concerted effort with your mind to have a disidentification practice in all your efforts in life. 2. In your contemplations, strive to IDENTIFY correctly through questions and the seeking of better interpretations in relation to the thing you're studying, doing, etc. That is the most sensible path I can ascertain in relation to enlightenment, everything else is unquestionable dogma and therefore indoctrination. I'm not saying you won't get results from taking on conventional understandings, however many of those results will be delusions combined with positive results. This is why there needs to be individual authority, which is the questioning process, of all that you choose to take in. That's true spirituality to me, everything else is among other things as noted, someone trying to brainwash you into their belief system, whether it be spiral dynamics, the stages of spiral dynamics or otherwise. All of the stuff that any self help person talks about, all these spiritual teachers, every finding within every religion, every scientific field, every single thing that anyone including myself talks about here and otherwise is just noise to your own path, its not the "truth" regardless as to how much anyone wants to believe it is the case. At the end of the day they're just beliefs contradicting the present moment and to the extent that is the case, the extent that said beliefs should probably be questioned, further developed, refined and improved.