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Love is an emotion and not an object in the form of a female body for example. It is projected onto the world and transcended of the physical world. It is the time and timeless coming together. If you read David Hawkins this should be common knowledge.

You programmed your body to eat shit, so when it eats real food, it is not satisfied.

Caramelization of the food is different from burned food

I noticed that I get enormous passion when I talk to a 9 or a 10. Unfortunately my inner game is not that advanced enough to hook one in. I was contemplating about it this morning: why do I get so much passion from such beauty's of nature. It is obviously my male energy (I have high testosterone) that gets polarized against her female energy. Then I had the idea, is it possible to find such a passion in myself so I'm not dependent an another? Passion is really a powerful force. Now I'm familiar with the energy that caused the mythological war between the Trojans and the Greeks, the beauty that unleashed 10000 ships across the Aegean sea.

I only drink it when clubbing because it gives me so much value in terms of confidence, having fun and letting go. The poison is worth it.

Dropping truth bombs in this one

What do you guys think? It is basically the same message Andrew Tate gives but in a more political correct way. I experimented with this advice and implemented it and it turns out to be true. Just being a SD stage green airhead is no good to anybody. You are just there with your dick in your hand mentally masturbating about some airy fairy shit. One needs to integrate the lower SD stages to reach SD yellow which I'm currently at. One needs that capacity and competence to attack your problems. And sometimes you need to fuck a ***** up and sometimes it is some other kind of problem. It is amazing to be in the boxing ring and strike the fear of god into the other person. If you integrate the "monster" it really trickles down to your being. It changes who you are in the core. And after that how you will deal with problems and work will be different. How other people will treat you will be different just by your presence.

I did some anima integration in the last few days and what I really missed was self-acceptance which is a discipline of the anima I think. Anima integration really fucked me up. Self-acceptance developed me more than self-development itself. This guy explains it from a non Jungian perspective: He doesn't talk about the anima animus directly but I think it is the same subject. Self acceptance = anima = role of the mother Self improvement = animus = role of the father Looking back to my parental household: anima was missing completely

Andrew Tate is my role model to integrate my animus visa-vi anima and it is working great. I don't think I will be stuck on him, eventually I will phase out on him. But just copying some of his life style aspects like boxing, push ups every day, chess, work, and how he carries himself in the private and public sphere has helped me a lot without becoming toxic..... I think I'm drawn to Andrew Tate because he is my polar opposite. He is an extreme narcissist and I'm an extreme empath, so those two poles cancel each other out when the two are integrated. So finding a more moderate role model won't be as effective for my anima animus integration. I can sense this.

Some of you guys didn’t get the point. The point is that males and females love in a different way. Female love is very pragmatic and selfish while male love is selfless and sacrificing. But wait… It is obviously a stereotype but observe it for yourself and you will see it is true. A woman will sacrifice but she will never sacrifice for a looser. It is always for a male that is “above” her that they sacrifice for. But the thing is that the guy who has all the girls at his feet don’t value a low value girl’s sacrifice. It is hypergamous nature.

Every man who transcended his life emulated Heracles in one way or another freeing Prometheus.

I'm looking for a website that has summaries or articles on the best works of stoicism.

His book maps of meaning is a solid book, unfortunately with a lot of chatter and academic squabbling which is sometimes hard to follow but he does a great job connecting mythology and science. You don't understand what he says. Transcendence happens through integration

I'm too soft hearted and I don't trust myself enough. But I found a fix: I'm not ASHAMED of being a red blooded male. Feminists are really toxic, they are trying turn the tables. It is the FEMALES that are HYPERGAMOUS and judge males ruthlessly. Most guys are good hearted romantics, they just want a girl pretty face and good heart but females demand much more from the guy. And they UNASHAMEDLY come to this topic and try to turn the tables on us. The audacity.. It is like 20% of the top shelf guys get to fuck 80% of the girls. There is a huge segment of guys who are sexless, loveless and depressed but I don't see feminists talk about these guys because they don't give two flying fucks. Those guys can die (not breed) because they don't meet the female dating strategy.

Andrew Tate became a monster but he didn't tame it. That is why spirituality is so important to transmute the animal ego.

Fair enough but you only cater to female mating strategies which are different from male mating strategies. In the same way you tell girls to judge males on this and that, we judge females on our own way. I don't think this forum should cater to female mating strategies alone. Obviously this forum is a SD green bubble so I do get that it can be distressing for some to reading these truths but outside of the bubble what I say is mainstream knowledge. The world doesn't revolve around SD green! You already said that majority of men think like me but CONTEMPLATE why that is? Because females REWARD a certain type of men: I would love be just a studious dork and be with girls but that is not being rewarded by hot females. I get this narrative is not appeasing to high consciousness females who are a little bit older but they should aim for a different type of guy like you say yourself. If you are 30 as a female you won't have the same dating options as when you were 20, and I'm not saying that to bully females I'm saying that because this forum is based on truth and not appeasement of emotions. Last week I met another beautiful lady in a dance school. We were very much into each other and we were having a great time, dancing, talking and having fun. But something happened that happens a lot: I felt like she was too good for me, and I started second guessing, stuttering, being in my head, and eventually I told her I was going to the bathroom and then acted like she didn't exist. After a while i decided to go back to her and she was cold to me. Obviously she didn't do anything wrong; I gave her a mixed signals and acted weird. This only happens if I really like a girl and I think it has to do with my mother who didn't love me enough. But in general my experience with top shelf girls is that being heavy hearted (due to trauma) or having insecurities is punished heavily. I'm not bitter about it, I understand it and I'm working on it. True, I wasn't contesting that. My biggest goal is self development, trauma healing, and becoming a more loving person. It just happens that beautiful girls trigger my traumas so that is what I'm focusing on.

@Ulax It might seem to you like that but I know my intention when I made this topic.

That is not what I said. I wouldn't choose an average 10 over a high conscious 7 for mating. For short term dating (aka self improvement, fun, etc) I would go for 10's but for long term dating I would obviously choose the higher conscious one even if she is a 7. I like your posts but you definitely have a female bias, in the same way I have a male bias. It is normal since males and females are polar opposites. We don't desire the same things in a relationship as the sexes and we have different mating strategies. Why do you want males to cater to female dating strategies? You should know this and you seem a little bitter towards men. When females find out I have traumas they treat me as shit. But I'm not bitter about it because I understand their value scanning. Why should I be bitter towards females because they don't accept me as a traumatized male? It is against their mating strategy. This topic is not pickup. If I find a 10 and she is also a high conscious girl I would marry her. From the feminist perspective, the male dating strategy will look like pickup because they don't have compassion for the male perspective in dating. Unfortunately even on a high conscious forum it is not common. No. Emerald is making a lot of assumptions. I'm a very loving person and I want to date and have sex with beautiful females and I'm not ashamed about it.

@Devin thanks

That is what I’m saying: it really depends on which phase I’m in my life. If I’m not looking for a long term relationship I don’t care how high or low conscious she is. I’m just looking at how fun and sexy she is. I don’t know how to put this in other words. Do you know what is disheartening? How I get treated by females as shit because I have insecurities because of traumas. Am I bitter about it? No. I know how nature works. Survival and sex is survival of the fittest so they don’t want a guy who has insecurities and traumas. Survival = ruthless Especially for males who have to fend for themselves. If you are a hot girl you can just date up without doing much self improvement. But can a 7 become an 8? Why not? If she goes to the gym and eats healthy she can raise her sexual value for short term dating. Or she can do therapy to become a more loving person and thus raise her wifey material value. But no therapy and no fitness will make a 7 a 10.

Would I rather have a highly conscious 7 or an average 10? It really depends in which phase of my life I’m. At this moment I value a 10 more than a 7 because that is just where I’m at and it is nothing wrong with that. Females are trophies so if I can get 10/10 that will mean I broke the genetic code: I get to breed with the top shelf if I want. After having dated 10’s I will find out they are shallow and I might aim for high conscious females but time will show how this process will develop. Females decide who gets to breed and who not. If you are a hot female it doesn’t matter which social class you are in: You can date up and fuck up. While it does matter for a guy in which social class he is born; but not every guy has that luck while if you are a hot female it doesn’t matter. Females are the ones who are hypergamous and judge men on their social status and power. Don’t try to turn this around. Males are not hypergamous, they are the true romantics and just look at a girl’s face and heart, while girls look at other things. Even in this topic you can see how judgemental females are of the male perspective while they would never date/fuck down, only fuck/date up.

So I encountered this girl outside of the super market. We vibes really well because we study the same science. Suddenly she says: “is this your pickup routine?” I couldn’t deny so I said “yes, did it work?”. She says no because “you have to put more effort in, I don’t know you enough”. This was her first shit test and I fucked up majorly. I basically couldn’t produce any game. And I forced the situation by asking about her school and stuff. Afterward I said I needed to go and if she wanted to grab a coffee and she said no. I feel like I messed up because her non verbals gave away she liked me but I couldn’t build to comfort. She literally told me at one point I don’t know if you are a human or an animal in a joking way to tell me there is a lack of trust from her side. How would you have dealt with this situation?

@Lila9 @Judy2 I’m sorry if my words hurt your feelings but I don’t do it intentionally. Like it or not we males and females judge females on their sexual and reproductive value. And most of the time in a very harsh way. But don’t forget that females are equally harsh towards males while judging us towards the merits of your value judgement. Males and females judge the opposite sex on different merits. Females are judged on their looks and males are judged on their competence, potentiality of competence, wealth and potentiality of wealth and social rank. Females are hypergamous. So you ladies only fuck up and not fuck down. As you can see it is much harder to be a valuable male than a valuable female. We males have to go through blood, suffering and tears to become a valuable male and a valuable female is born sexy and the only thing she needs to do is thank god and L’Oréal. This topic is harsh because survival is harsh. I recommend you learn from it and become conscious ladies instead of being revolted by it and looking the other way. It is not males who are picky it is females that are not picky when choosing partners.

It is not a zero sum game. If the guy has self esteem it doesn't happen at the expense of the female. So I don't get your equation and what the other half of the equation is. High value men aren't born. They are made. While high value females are born and they don't have to do anything other than to thank god and Loreal.

Stop playing stupid. We aren't talking about podcasts.