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You never had regrets? Wow. I do have regrets but I try to turn that into lessons. There is such a thing as to being to picky. Yea I'm interested in feminine women, so I have to change my attitude a bit. Currently I'm not chasing at all. Even if I get a phone number from girls I like I secretly hoped she will text me. I'm also not looking for a gf so I'm lazy but still it rubs me the wrong way if they don't.. ? Currently working on developing my warrior archetype so it can balance out the other archetypes: especially my weak/dysfunctional lover archetype. My life purpose is my first love and I don't think I'm going to change that because I'm into self-development and I can't sacrifice that for a girl right now. Last year I was disappointed after some dates, so I'm not planning to be the adorer anytime soon. At best I will take the lead, and in my book, taking the lead and chasing is not the same. It was a bad joke

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Well that is just your preference then but I doubt you would be happy and probably have some regrets too. To be honest, only older females like 30+ and who are a little bit desperate are chasing me. The young feminine girls who are in the age range 20-25 aren't chasing me so I do have to change my approach a little too I think. You are right that they only signal receptivity, they don't want to take the masculine role so perhaps you are right but I don't how it works for the top G's. I'm not a top G and I don't have my shit together. It is funny because last night I was in a dance school, and I was sitting and the dance instructor said, "why are you sitting? " I said, there are no girls for me to ask for a dance, he said "if you are sitting no girl will come to you and ask you for a dance". ?So probably he meant to say what you said about being open and signalling openness.

That one is the alien consciousness.

That is a huge age gap, people weren't looking?

Let go of your spiritual ego. I have trouble with this too. But I think God doesn't have favourites. God judges you on the merits of your heart.

The egg versus sperm cell comparison is not a good metaphor. For example if a top G decides not to fuck an average girl, there is no chase between the egg and the sperm to begin with. Of course any average looking girl can be knocked up within half a hour if she wishes but she wants to be knocked up by a high quality guy, a guy she likes, and that will stick around.

Women chase in their own way, obviously women don't chase like men, they would be viewed like sluts but they do chase in their own way (the way you explained), and they compete. That is chasing too. I'm not top G but just regular guy but when one girl likes me in a venue, sudden more than one girl likes me and they compete and become hostile toward each other; while in the beginning when there was no competition they weren't that receptive towards me. Top G's (men who are the total package) are too busy with their life purpose. They don't have time to run behind cinderella and jump through all her hoops that she lied out for him. That is just a fantasy that females developed thanks to Disney movies. And that is why there will be tons of lonely women by 2030: 45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030, Per Recent Projection https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030 And on top of that most women have too high of an expectation for what kind of men they can get visa-vi what they are offering in terms of beauty and so on. Of course women can settle for a simp or an incel and in that case, Emerald and you are right. You two girls would be the adored and the guy would be the adorer but the thing is that most girls in their prime won't settle for a looser. So in some way you girls are right. I'm not pulling down my pants that quickly.

You have access to inner circle of infinite consciousness and wisdom. Don't play games with us.

Finally the godfather has seen the light.

Come on. You are a mod. It should be easy for you.

I make my own meals. My roots are in the Mediterranean so lots of fresh meat and veggies, healthy carbs. This morning I ate eggs with rucola, olives, tomatoes, cucumber, and so in. In the Mediterranean healthy food is more common.

I hacked ADE. This allows you to keep the ebook forever. Then I put it in my pocketbook. It was a great device to underline stuff but not a great device to type notes in. That is why I usually underline and not write notes.

I never had trouble with that. My parents always bought healthy food and later in life I just carried that along. I'm too lazy to eat shit tons of food, so I only eat the essential stuff which is healthy, nutritious, dense and fresh. It is all about habits. Humans are habit machines.

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You should become a psychologist and get your PhD then ? I talked to dozens of psychologists and believe me. This guy knows what he is talking about.

@Lila9 I don’t agree with Emerald that a woman chasing a man emasculates the woman. Nor does this have any basis in any psychology literature. For example there is a literal king. And all females want to be with this king. Does that emasculate those woman that are doing the chasing? No, this is when the feminine instinct kicks in when she competes with the other females. You can see this behavior in apes too. It is in the nature of woman to lock in a high status male. And a high status man doesn’t chase pussy. Why is your pussy better than all those other pussies? That is how a high value man thinks because he has options. Power = having options And woman want a male they can respect which entails he has some power of his life, circumstance, and business. You and Emerald have watched too many Disney movies. No offense.

@Something Funny @Salvijus The psychologist in the video already explains why that is not possible starting from 0:21 This guy is really smart with high creds. He is a smarter than anybody on this forum especially on the field of psychology and relationships. Of course go and test what he says through direct experience. That is much better than arm chair philosophizing.

@Daoguy @PenguinPablo kobo looks good. Kindle is closed system. I don’t like that.

@Salvijus @Something Funny ask god why he created it like this ? It is called duality. Honestly, most of the things we are discussing is already explained by the guy in the video. You guys need to rewatch the video.

@Emerald I wouldn’t call it aping the lover archetype. And the guy doesn’t switch and bait to take the position of the feminine beloved. The alpha males have integrated their lover archetype (they usually got a lot of love from their mothers and thus from females in adult life) so they are not desperate for love and they are less likely to adore the feminine. Thus these guys develop the warrior archetype (detached from love) who are not focused on love but on their life purpose. feminine love is already integrated into their psyche so they don’t search it in external female. The top G has an integrated lover and warrior archetype (focusing on their life purpose instead of focusing on a female) and thus unlocks the king archetype (according to Robert Green who is a Jungian psychologist) and the king archetype is able to love his partner who can bear children for him. But it is a different kind of dynamic. The balance of power remains in the hands of the male, not the female. It is very rare a relationship will work out if the female gets the upper hand when the female has conquered the male.

Being the adorer is more fun than being adored from my experience but the guy in the video talks about what is best for the guy strategically, not what feels best. Being detached is a much better dating strategy for the guy. That is why proposes the guy should be the adored, not the adorer. The guys who detached are the alpha males and get to fuck the best girls from my observation. Also in terms of social dynamics, being the guy that is adored will put you on top of the social food chain in a particular social matrix. If you are the guy who adores the sexy women they will see you as lower value than them. The top G aka most popular guys are adored by girls and respect by males. Observe it for yourself. Mind you that guys and girls have different mating and social strategies.

People like that are too much invested into their eating habits. It is hard to change.

Will there be practical application to alien consciousness or will it be like spiritual porn?

@Something Funny you have to choose your own frames. A person with a victim mindset doesn’t choose his own frame but copies the frames of others. You have to develop a certain swagger and balls while still being grounded in reality. My gold standard for choosing beneficial frames is to take on the frame that is most beneficial for me while still being grounded in reality.