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If she waits like 3 days to respond they say you should wait that same amount or more and not text immediately, do you guys agree which playing such games? I believe posturing both on text and in life is a big part of game. If she gets the sense she can get you easily, there is no game. It is just part of human nature. In my opinion it should not be even called game. As a guy you should value yourself at least 2x more than her. That is how to deal with hotties. And this girl I’m talking about is 9,5/10. They are very different than 7-8 ish girls.

Don’t resent her nature. It is like resenting a wolf for being a wolf which is weird. Instead you should love and respect the wolf for what it is from a distance. And if you want to get with her you need to learn the game she wants to play. Everybody is now talking about maturity while previous week nobody talked about it. I think it is not the end and be all of things. And it is also not a superior trait to have. Why would I feel better towards a baby because I’m more mature? Should I not play with a baby because I’m mature and it is not? It doesn’t make sense. People are taking the topic maturity out of proportion. Nobody is 100% mature and if you think you are you are fooling yourself so find it in yourself and enjoy it. Immaturity = inner child = joy in life Personally I think you want to get with her and you can’t because you are boring and you are hiding behind the fad of maturity to ease your pain. Being mature is being able to tolerate and not demonize immaturity like a dad you who is having fun with his baby while it shits all over the place.

So basically whatever a woman says you should be the opposite. ?

@integral I’m doing fine. I’m not just getting the quality of girls that I want but I don’t even care because I have bigger fish to fry. I stopped doing pickup for 10 months or so. Only doing self development and deep meditation and some social stuff. Just meditating has done more for me than the other stuff. If the inner battle is won the outer will manifest. Already defeated some addictions which I’m happy about. It gave me back my self respect and allowed to appreciate myself more.

If you wasted years, did you really wasted years, or was it just a dream? How do you guys look at it? I feel like it took a lot of time to fix certain things in my life and I do have self compassion and understanding towards it, but at the same time I don't have true peace with my mistakes on an emotional level. Although I do have my whole life in front of me, I was very foolish in my early 20'ies.

It is more important with what kind of energy you look at her. She will sense every small drop or hike of energy. Girls are attuned to that. If you have the right energy she won’t care where you look. If she gives you those Bambi eyes or fuck me eyes you are good.

Some people are in love and have sex, in that case it is an expression of love. But there are also a lot of people who don't have love in their hearts and use sex to fill the gap in their empty hearts.

You want love more than sex.

This is sexual transmutation: transmuting lust into love

If it is draining you are doing it the wrong way. Follow your natural instincts. If you do it will be the opposite of draining.

Err, you don't want them.

Quantum field responds to your thoughts and other people are part of the quantum field so yes.

I have great relationships with older women. I'm childish and I'm with admitting that because that is what I'm at this moment. I think I trigger their mother instinct or perhaps I don't and they just like me; I'm not sure about that. Also women in their late 30'ies and 40'ies are drawn to me but I'm not drawn to them. Especially in the summer, these women are throwing themselves at me. But I don't like women older than myself. Probably you are right about me and younger women, they can smell the thirst or I don't know what they smell but they just don't dig my vibe. I have had a lot of traumas also so there are times that I don't have a light vibe but a more heavy vibe. Young girls just want to have fun and I'm not always fun. This is not easily fixed but I'm doing a lot of release work exercises by Joe Dispenza and David Hawkins. You definitely watched too much porn. Lmao.

So if I had a hot sister, my life would have been different. And I also saw the last comment you deleted. ?

Most males got sex through religion in the past. Their community would hook them up with a wife. Nowadays a bottom feeder don’t get to breed. Perhaps with a desperate female who is on the edge of becoming infertile who wants children. Women don’t choose partners with their brain but with their emotion so you need to find a way to be able to incite certain emotions in her that will make her like you. Being authentic is the dumbest advice ever. What does that even mean. At the end you will find to fix your masculine chemistry to flourish and live and attract a female. People using these buzz words without even knowing what they mean. Most females say they want a certain type of man and they choose another.

Don’t forget the soy milk.

Masculine energy that compliments her amount of feminine energy is what creates attraction. Fine balance between those two energies to create the right alchemy. That is why attraction can’t be forced because it is alchemic.

Finally a mod who gets it. There is a reason why people model themselves after the image of Andrew Tate. If you don’t get it you are not very conscious.

@Princess Arabia I don’t know what we are arguing about. I think we agree that Leo’s and Andrew’s work can be taken productive or destructive depending on the person’s interpretation. @somegirl why you deleted that before me reading it. Now I can’t take you serious.

Hahah. A guy with an abundance has it for the choosing. It is not OP who will be deciding. I don’t know you but statistics don’t lie. Andrew type of guys get rewarded by females through sex all the time while nice guys don’t. If I have to choose between these two extremes I’m Andrew Tate all the way without any shame. You never gave a nice guy a chance so don’t try to take the higher ground here. ? I rather be a somebody who can fuck a brother up, makes money, self confidence and competence. You don’t want a guy who plays an instrument lmao, you just want a competent guy who knows what he is doing within and outside of the sheets. Obviously there are not two extremes but you are not getting my point. If a guy like Andrew Tate showed up without his bad reputation you would be all over him. Especially girls like you. ? there have been multiple incidents like that.

There are people who followed Leo Gura and jumped off the bridge. No joke. Of course interpretation huge part of this discussion. Personally I think Andrew Tate never killed anybody but he did some bad stuff. That doesn’t mean one can’t mirror himself after him in his positives. Most girls cringe at nice guys but they bend over backward to guys like Andrew Tate. The problem isn’t the guys. The OP would never give a nice guy a chance. He has to be “adventurous” aka Andrew Tate type of guy.

Andrew Tate doesn’t follow anybody. In the same way he wouldn’t want people to follow him like a guru. Obviously there are people who do but those guys don’t understand his high teachings.

We know why you won’t be speaking ?

Without you asking Does that mean anything? Usually it is older women who sprinkle their open relationship status into the conversation without me asking. But I’m not interested in older women so I never nibbled the bait but what do you guys think? Also do you think women being nervous around you is a good sign or a bad sign? I thought nervous women around me was a bad sign but I found it means they like you and they walk on egg shells. Nowadays I’m just going out for socializing so I’m not out there to get me some. Mostly meditating and contemplating and going out once a week to develop my social skills.