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Do you play with your dick?

This topic misses the mark so hard, it is not even funny. I wish live was as easy as applying self-love to shame. 😂 In my opinion shame is not an unhealthy emotions. All of our emotions are healthy emotions but the thing is how do you deal with the emotion? In a healthy way or unhealthy way? If anything shame can be a powerful emotion to get your shit straight. That is if you transmute it in a healthy way.

@Emerald Exceptions do exist. But when shit hits the fan, women will conglomerate around real men. Not men like freaking Jack Black. And obviously we are talking about archetypical energies. No need to create false dichotomies: one can be warm hearted and be cold hearted at the same time depending on the situation. I have both and it can be sensed. When I walk into a room, the men know what is up and the women too. I need to work on warm heartedness though to be honest. I think you haven't watched the Peterson video. He explains it very well. You need to develop the animal first before you can tame it.

Exactly, if somebody broke into your house and was trying to get you. You wouldn't call freaking Connel West or god damned Reggie Watts. Lmao... you would call a real man.

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I had this only a handful of times. I don't know how I managed to do it. I remember it as very pleasant and non draining. Normal ejaculation and normal orgasm is very draining in terms of energy. But this multiple orgasm thing was not that. Do you guys have exp with this?

When shit hits the fan, I doubt those guys would be any use to you or anybody else. Neither would you feel safe. My definition of healthy masculinity is a man who tamed his inner animal. I like Peterson’s philosophy on this one.

@Inception you know a way to have sex without feeling depleted?

Some girls just like embodiment of raw masculine energy while others want a mix between masculine energy and feminine energy.

Women can get inherently horny I think, especially during the time of the month. But from my experience, women just don't horn dog out of nowhere. From my experience, when I get horny, it is easy to get her horny because feminine women just mirror your state most of the time.

They call it that way nowadays 😂 I'm going to use that line on girls hahah

If you misuse your sexual glands by watching a lot of porn it can cause problems. Old school guys still can get their dick up at 60. My 55 year old dance instructor got his 30 something year old wife pregnant while young brothers can't get their dick up to save their lives. Sexuality and spirituality can't be separated. It is the same thing.

@Princess Arabia What is on your chin? lol

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Level of consciousness by David Hawkins is a good model to see how these emotions are connected. It is not enough to understand an emotion. You have to link it. Another great book on this topic is called emotional equations or something. I forgot the name.

@Schizophonia he has good taste in girls but little too old for her lol

The guy in the pic

Basically the answer to every negative emotion is self acceptance and self love. But actually transmuting the negative emotion to a positive one is a whole ass different skill.

Shame is a social emotion. But it is hard wired into our survival brain. Shame basically has to do with fitting in the group aka following others. While to be good with women you have to be shameless but in a light hearted funny way.

@RendHeaven agreed

You need to set boundaries

Who is that?

If anything men today are too feminized. And her solution for these men is to become more feminine. 😭 Usually these problematic men were raised by problematic women and didn’t have a good male role model.

We all have our shadows that we project onto the world and onto people including the opposite sex. I think Emerald is just no different. She has problems with the opposite sex (admitted daddy issues) and tries to fix these internal issues with external solutions (trying to fix the world) but imo she totally misses the mark. She has a huge shadow for somebody who is trying to fix others. Especially if you want to tackle huge issues like abstract concepts as battle of the sexes you need to be shadow free. I think a lot is already explained by Jung himself. Reading his stuff is so essential.

So what is your solution to the shame then? Don’t you think these guys can’t feel this shame? They do. It is just in capability of not being able to process it. I think you have weird ideas about what men discuss about among themselves. Most men are level headed about their issues. I don’t see a lot of men complaining compared to women complaining about men.