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If you are hot shit you can get away with a lot.

If you get caught in a negative vibe you will bite your own tail. You will get what you give. It is crazy how child like women are. All they want is good or right vibes. I don’t know who said it but women are children at heart. If you use logic or negativity they will shut down.

I like Neil, he is a cool guy but he is full of something

There is truth in red pill but their vibe is so negative. If you can extract the golden nuggets from red pill without adopting a negative vibe you are set.

@Ulax I wouldn’t say they are full of shit obviously but I guess you are right. I need to learn to play social games. @ZzzleepingBear NA didn’t help me with anything. I helped myself. If I was at the mercy of NA I would be like one of them, forcing myself to stay clean. Those NA guys didn’t look healthy and happy.

Chess is mostly pattern recognition. If you just raw dog chess with intuition you will be pummeled.

If you play chess against a friend he will give you pointers and leeway. Sometimes I play chess not to win but to try things out, play with positions and learn. I would say in those games I’m not competitive.

@Ulax chess can be seen as play and collaborative and in other times it can be seen competitive. You need both. If you play chess from emotions you will get fucked over real quick. Yea your emotions should be serene and no negative emotions should be in your body which will make you relax, present and aware but that doesn’t mean you should play chess from emotions. Just look at grand masters. They are all stoics. Some people are just…: I dunno ?

What is your setup? What foods you prepare for a 1-2 week plan? You do sports ? How often you shower? How often you drink water? What techniques you use? What other prep you do? How much sleep? You take other precautions? You talk to people?

You only get what you can give. You only reap what you sow. Find ways to give and people will give it back to you in three folds. Only a homeless person asks why he doesn’t get enough. If he got his stinky ass up and started thinking what I can give to people, he would be rewarded for his labor/service/products of his labor. Yes. People give something for nothing but that is out of pity and you don’t want that. Also stop listening to “all is love and shit”. There is no free love. Get up and start making sacrifices.

Thing with autistic people is they try to use logic. Logic and worry is a killer for vibing. You need to find your own vibe and “surf on it” not worry what you say. Logic comes from the head, vibe comes from the body. You need to loosen up your body and stop being so stuck up all the time.

Women are hypergamous but it shouldn’t be used as a limiting thought. Get her out of the logical brain mode.

@something_else Indirectly

Online dating will reveal you are ugly or not.

I bought several products and got some coaching and I discovered that most people who make a lot of money aren’t even that smart. They are just go-getters. It is painful to see how low IQ they are and they still make more money than most blue collar workers. If you are above average guy you should be insulted by this on a deep level.

If you seek outside authority to recognize you how would go about it to dismantle that need?

If I don’t sport for couple of days I get antsy

@dude you became a wage soldier or you earned your money as a free man?

@Swarnim good points. You can even learn from homeless person. Namely: what not to do in life.

Recently I talked to a psychotherapist (not as a client) and I was baffled by her. She was overweight and looked unhealthy and I caught myself judging her. I thought "how could she help others if she is not able to help herself?" and I felt guilty that I was judgemental but at the same time I thought there was some truth to that. I wouldn't hire her although I know she might help me or not. I think good judgement is key to survival and quality of life. It is a not taught anywhere and it is a very tricky topic. When I'm in the decision process to follow somebody or take any advice from them I always ask myself do I want to become like that person more than listening to the sweet little lies this person is trying to sell me but that is just me.

@Javfly33 what about sports? If you think that is irrelevant that is kind of weird

Nope but I’m working on it. Consistency instead of perfection.

@Ulax what I said was a rule of thumb. Not an absolute. For example I take advice from Leo although I don’t want to become like him. But if I did everything that Leo did like doing 30 day 5 MeO DMT challenge I would become like him.

Yea

Not to question what you said but helped you how? I know you talked about your issues. How you solved them? Or did they just told you things you needed to hear to feel better. Because those people who haven’t embodied the wisdom are very good at telling you what you need to hear so you think you are making progress.