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Yea, that is the core issue. It is a childish trait I need to sort out. I don't know how though. No worries

It is written in his book Integral psychology but it was a year ago I read his book.

I know this and I hate this. ? She is also different though.

To be honest I think this girl was feminine to begin with. She made me make all the choices even though I asked her opinions on our decisions for the day. I was just kind of flabbergasted about extreme position she took against Elon Musk. At that moment I didn't know how to respond to it without being confrontational. I also know she doesn't like my spiritual side. She is all science and materialist. And she is very stubborn about this topic. So it is not just her position on Elon Musk. It is just her stubbornness as a trait that I don't like. This has nothing to do with male or female. It is just a trait. I don't know why you guys have to fit everything in the masculine-feminine frame.

Psychology is NOT a real science to begin with. It is a soft science and it can't be compared to the hard sciences. It is subjectivism through the lens of objectivism. Wilber has some great things to say about this.

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Pff. I don’t know what happened. Previously life seemed so mundane but now it seems so magical. Similar to when I was a child. I have been doing a lot of prayer. I always thought it was similar to meditation but prayer is totally different ball game.

I don't like to take it is in the morning. I hate tripping on an empty stomach. I usually eat a big breakfast and wait for 4-5 hours. Drink a lot of water to flush it down. Do some exercise to feel good in my skin and some meditation. But yesterday I took it at 17:00 and it was way to late.

Maybe I shouldn't have said all. The rich people I met in the last few weeks. Even the ones who were good people had a healthy egoism.

I noticed how all rich people are self absorbed and egoistic. This is not a coincidence. Hot girls can smell success off of you. You don't need to be rich but you need some success in your life. The whole thing that the OP should understand is why should girls fuck around with "loosers" so to say. They don't want to spawn loosers. They want to spawn the winners of life.

@Karla nice trip report. So the only stuff you do is set intentions and surrender? Sounds so easy. I have trouble with surrendering.

Biggest theme is taming of the ego

@Princess Arabia ? @mr_engineer I couldn’t have explained it better.

@Sugarcoat @Sincerity obviously you can’t pick up on a joke. I thought you two were brainy. ?

Wise man. I would just tell her how it is but I first want to get laid. I don't like arguments either. Stingy much? I obviously hit a cord somewhere. lol

In investment they say never put all of your eggs in one basket. It is the same with dating as a guy. I wish somebody told me this in the beginning so that is why I'm making this thread. You should never be more invested in a girl as she is invested in you. Your strategy as a guy should be to make little emotional investments until you find an investment that provides you a return on emotional investment! That is the most important principle in game. Most guys make the mistake of emotionally investing in a girl while she barely knows you and she doesn't give a shit about you. You have to understand that if you are a hot girl you are being bombarded by attention. This attention last between the age of 15-25 for the girl where the girl in on the magic school bus getting unlimited free attention (which they think will last forever). And for a lot of girls this attention gets to their head and they develop a huge ego which makes them think they can get away with shit. Never fall for the frame of the girl. Owen talks about this in Blueprint decoded. The sexes value the opposite sex in different ways. If a girl respects you whether or not plays a huge rule in the value evaluation for women. I won't go into the details here because it is a sensitive subject (mods throw around with warnings like it is chrismas) so if you are interested in it I might post my summary if there is enough interest.

After 2 years of serious pickup I came to this conclusion. I have become a totally different person. Before I was a total nice guy who wouldn’t hurt a fly but if you deal with women long enough those attributes fly out with the window sooner or later. Women are no different than Mother Nature. It makes the rules of the game and within these rules you have to compete to gain the right to breed. It is no different in nature. Dating is very easy to understand if you look at how animals do it. Especially mammals or other species who are even closer to us. Therefore it is totally useless to start a crusade against Mother Nature as some red and black pillers do. There is still a lot of value in red pill philosophy but one shouldn’t adopt the negative vibe that comes with it. Any red pill advice is still better advice than advice from women’s groups. Obviously one shouldn’t ask a fish how to catch it. Most of dating is monkey see monkey do. There is very little mental understanding required. If you try to understand it and it is nice to know but it is totally useless in terms of results. It might even hamper your results. The best is to find men who are naturals are just do monkey see monkey do. Most of social skills is unconscious and should be done from a non intellectual brain wave state. 90% is vibe. If you get the vibe down you will be surprised what you can get away with. I know a natural guy who literally breaks every pick up rule and human decency rule in the book and still gets away with it because he has an appealing vibe. It is mind blowing.

International politics is a huge chess board. You expand where you can expand otherwise your opponents will. If Russia or China had the power the US has they would do much more unethical stuff to solidify their position.

Somehow you got Andrew Tate involved in this thread. He lives rent free in your head and you are not even aware of it. ?

@Something Funny nobody is using the name Andrew Tate more than you. Perhaps you should look into that and where that shadow comes from lol.

@Something Funny @Thought Art that is not true

@Someone here Because you are infringing on her space. As I told you in the thread, just make little emotional investments, if you don't get it back, and push for a phone number, you are not mutually emotionally invested so she will ghost you. And if no girl doesn't want to invest in you, you need to make yourself more attractive. A girl can smell if you are a winner or a looser in life. They have thousands of years of instincts to screen out loosers.

@Thought Art I got warnings for much less. My last warning was about my joke about spiral dynamics red (I called it phase red light district) so if guys want to extract certain wisdom they should watch 30 hours of blueprint decoded by Owen because I’m not sharing the juicy details anymore. Certain mods have ruined it.

Strong SD blue becomes successful from discipline, ethics and serving a higher purpose than yourself. Their riches don’t come from spirituality per se. Becoming spiritual and non materialistic doesn’t convert into riches as far as I’m concerned. I know SD blue people who aren’t rich because they haven’t developed the virtue of discipline.

1/5 is 20% not 40%. In Romania wages are very low. It is one of the reasons why he is there. As for paying his tutors, we don't know how much they get paid. There are tons of guys who are willing to work for him for free just to get access to his social and business circle.