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@Javfly33 I thought about that this week actually. It is great that you say the same thing I thought. I'm doing meditation and Joe Dispenza style of praying. I hope it will work out. I don't want to be embarrassed or let this girl slip out of my hands.

@Javfly33 ED can be caused because of many reasons. I think my situation is as follows: I just trained by brain to have sex with a lcd screen. By the way I'm super fit, I'm going to the gym 5 times a week now, and I feel the masculine energy radiating from my groin area. The problem is the ignition which is in the brain. There is only one way out: no-fap for 90 days to rewire the brain and sproud new dopamine receptors. Problem is that she won't be hanging around for 90 days. This girl has a big sex drive.

Have plan B too. I recommend you write a business plan for yourself with yearly goals. If this website idea catches on, there will be competitors popping up like mushrooms.

After death you get truth, according to my grand parents.

@Javfly33 yea of course, I started reading "Letting go" (it taught me the letting go technique and the hierarchy of consciousness) and power versus force (basically letting go of resistance). I coupled what I learnt with shadow work to reprogram my sub conscious mind. Sad thing is that me stopping porn has put me in a flat line. I have basically ED right now because I bombarded my dopamine receptors with porn during corona. She wants me to fuck her but I can't. I don't want to invite her and get embarrassed. Fuck this shit. It is all my own doing but I can't help but to be a little bit angry towards myself.

@JosephKnecht I love stories. They are easy to remember. I wish I could fish with a net. I don't have the social circle and there is corona. I just have to do a lot of approaches and stay open minded because I do get desperate from time to time. @Javfly33 today I went to the gym. I work from home. There was no opportunity to meet new girls. I'm looking around. I never see guys approach girls on the street. How the fjck is everybody meeting girls? By the way I did chitchat to some people at the gym and made a friend. I tried to talk to a girl too but she didn't seem to be interested.

It is a great product for introverts and people who want to prop up their "charisma": https://www.charismaoncommand.com/ I really loved this product because they give action steps/exercises after every module. The modules range from confidence, to storytelling, to presence, to comedy and much more. Charlie who is the maker of this program connects these different subskills wonderfully. His advice can be very simplistic but it works amazingly. You just have to take action and not rush through the program. Yesterday I got into conversations with a bunch of people and I was wondering like "how the fuck did that happen?". And it happened so consistently that I felt that change in myself. Personally I don't know any other program that is better. This program really gives the person an overall view on interpersonal skills. I'm going to use this program as a framework for my further research.

Thanks, preety.

@Keyhole interesting username; why did you chose it?

That is what she said.

Have you talked this with your partner? You need somebody to share your described experience with. If you are not comfortable sharing this information with your partner, you may want to focus on that. I´m having similar problems and what I really try to do is being an `open box`instead of a `closed box`. Closing yourself because of your feelings just retards one´s development. Relationships expose who you really are.

What struck me the most was that those antifa guys attacked the kid with skate boards or whatever they could find to smash at him or throw at him. The dude just killed two people just minutes before. What did people expect he would do? I guess it is the mob mentality that blinded them. Personally I wouldn't engage or chase an armed dude, if I had no other choice, go for the kill and not hit him over the head with a skateboard.

It was one of the best movies I saw. It is very metaphorical. What do you guys think the movie is about?

Probably because of the warm climate of lately. Is it still usable?

It was more than 10 years ago that I saw him. He was a head taller than me and bulkier so he would pull me up and stuff. Basically take advantage of me because he was taller and bulkier. Today I came across him in the gym and it seems the roles reserved. I was tall and muscular and he was fat and feminine. He couldn't even look me in the eye after he greeted me, because I couldn't recognize him. We had some polite chitchat and I noticed anger boiling up midway the conversation. I reacted to the emotion by telling him "you know, now I'm equally tall" and looked him dead in the eye. He got the sub-communication. It was in the locker-room so I could easily beat him up but I didn't. Doing that would make me no better than him. I was beyond that point anyway. His sub-communication of not being able to look me in the eyes, acting afraid, insecure, to me told me chapters about his life. He looked like that incel-meme on the internet. I threw out some questions to get a taste how his life looked like. He has no job. No girlfriend. He is unhappy and things won't change for him any time soon. I was kind of flabbergasted how much I changed compared to 10 years ago when comparing him to myself. Anyway, personally I don't think there are a coincidence, recently I managed to get my first "real" girlfriend. Something I wanted all my life but which I couldn't get.

You can live in the best location for meeting a partner but you can still not meet anybody. Something to think about.

@Applegarden true but I also know some bullies from highschool (from back in the day) that are doing really well and are in a much better position than me.

@andyjohnsonman I watched that episode long before but thanks

@Value it provided closure.

If you can tilt your dick while it is hard, it is easier to hit the right spots. I accidentally discovered this trick and it works. Kegel exercises are good. Not only for the technique I described but also for endurance. Women need at least 20 minutes of that good stuff. I mean it is also important to have a good health to get strong erections.

I'm watching hodgetwins from time to time and I love how full of life they are.

I vape powder form in an electric vape. Once you get the technique down it is good. It burns too fast because temp control is difficult.

Who told you meditation is enough? There are different techniques for enlightenment. I think Leo has a video on it. I can't remember it. Basically all these techniques are centred around pumping your consciousness up. It is about integration I think. Meditation is not enough if you don't integrate your knowledge. Same counts for psychedelics or any other way of enlightenment. By the way I procrastinate on meditation too much. I'm going to start again.

@Kiko the law of state transference says that the other person feels what you feel. So if you are insecure or doubting, she will feel that, and why would she trust in you if you don't trust in yourself? You need to develop a trust with yourself that it will be ok. In your head it should already be a done deal. Personally I expect girls to make moves too, it doesn't work. If she is feminine, you have to be the masculine force.

Self help can be divided in: the money part, personal relationships part and spirituality part In self help they say one should focus on one part of your life, ace that part of your life and then move on. What are your guys opinion about that? Do you guys think certain parts of your life should have a priority?