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Ben Shapiro still could get pussy left and right. I liked what Leo said here: A guy who is good with women has to have the CAPACITY to be both a full on asshole in a masculine way. It doesn't mean that guy has to BE it. Women can feel if a man has the capacity to be a dick, to be dangerous, to be masculine. If a guy is paralyzed and can't demonstrate that he has to be the capacity to be a dick, her pussy will dry quicker than a than a desert.

I didn't know Pagan was doing coaching.

I wouldn't call that a meta skill. Meta skills are very specific and watered down skills. For communication you need multiple skills to be able to do it effectively. Also communication can't be used with every aspect of life.

I used the search function but I couldn't find a thread that lists all the meta-skills Structure versus content Separateness versus sameness Explicit versus implicit Open-mindedness versus close-mindedness

I have categorized Actualized meta skills like this: Skills of the higher observer: Structure versus content Separateness versus sameness Explicit versus implicit Needy vs Non-Needy Perception Skills of the intuition and EQ Introspection Letting go Open-mindedness versus close-mindedness Meditation (with various sub-skills) Skills of the intellect: Question' ability - asking quality questions Self deception - attunement to your own and other self-deception This is not the full list, but the list we got until now. More can be added if you have suggestions. Meta skill = skill that can be applied in all areas of life

How Lives Imitates Chess is a book that is an eye opener. If I was less conscious I would just be an asshole and not give two fucks. The average person doesn't have the resources and time to be nuanced and if women rather have an asshole than a kind person, so be it. They ask we deliver. From a female perspective that is true.

@Etherial Cat That metaphor wasn't really nice so I apologize. I was using the pickup-frame which is low consciousness. Currently not looking for a long term relationship. I'm not at that stage. On the long term I definitely need to change my mindset though. I agree on that.

Is bringing awareness to their mechanism judging? There is definitely a part of me that judges and I'm trying to let that go. There was definitely a part of me that just didn't get women, but now I do and I'm not trying to "fix" them. I'm rather fixing myself.

@preemo I guess people who are not musicians can still learn from this book?

If you look at the model of David Hawkins is this a good figure of speech? I discovered that understanding sticks more with me when I use figure of speech. These abstract shit don't stick with me. I'm easily getting lost in the content.

The frustrating part is that most women are not even aware or honest that they want an asshole. There was a period in my life that I just expected women to be upfront about their intentions and values. At the moment I don't even try to enlighten them. They are what they are. See a donkey for a donkey and life will be easier if you want to ride the donkey.

Who dat?

@Jacob Morres meta skill is a skill you can use in multiple areas in life. https://www.fearlessculture.design/blog-posts/the-metaskills-you-need-to-thrive-in-the-21st-century#:~:text=A meta-skill is a,%3B meta-skills are permanent.

What I noticed. All these meta skills are skills of the higher observer but it also uses the intellectual and emotional modes. The higher observer is a constant though. I see the emotional and intellectual mode as a muscle. The eye, the higher observer can only do his job if you the capacity to control/release the emotional and intellectual modes. What I noticed. All these meta skills are skills of the higher observer but it also uses the intellectual and emotional modes. The higher observer is a constant though. I see the emotional and intellectual mode as a muscle. The eye, the higher observer can only do his job if you the capacity to control/release the emotional and intellectual modes.

True. Leo calls it introspection and he has a video about it.

Implicit understanding is a skill too. It is being able to connect the dots. It is one of the bedrock skills a person can have. That is why it is called "meta skills".

You don't see the value of not getting lost in the content of a topic? Or not getting lost in the content of life? If that is not a skill, what is a skill?

She read the book the way of the superior man Pickup lines and shit are really secondary. It is really about what (male) energy you are projecting outwards.

I hope he posts his video early so that I have enough time to pick enough chicks to do an orgy for valentines day

Leo uses this phrase a lot but isn't it incomplete? I would say: The moon is a conceptual place unless you have been there. And if SpaceX offers trips to the moon and you personally exp the place it is not conceptual when you are there.

I get that. When I look outside my window I see the moon, it is round. I don't have to be there on the surface.

What about rover exploration vehicle that is on the moon right now? That is direct experience I think. Ok. Soon going to start with Rupert. I hope it will become clearer after that.

It is not hunting. It is dancing. Prey don't want to be captured but women do. With hunting mentality you still can get pussy if you are high value. You can use both mentalities but it really depends on what you want; just pussy or a relationship? If you want a relationship you will need to dance as in figure of speech. Show her that you are high quality male and that you can provide for her. If you just want pussy, you need to camouflage your high quality traits (if you have some), and just be fun and pump out good emotions for her, let her qualify herself to you in exchange for fun. If you are fun,pussy will come.

I was walking in the park. I got approached by a woman. We had a nice chat and the vibes were really good. At a certain moment she dropped a few times she has a bf. I still got her phone number. Why is she even approaching me. Doing all the sneaky stuff and maneuvering to get close to me and to talk to me. And say she got a bf. I'm not simping. I was spot on with my general vibe. I didn't need to game. Lately I'm just trying to be natural and non needy. I'm trying to just let it happen. Did I do something wrong?

Usually they don't. They position themselves to be approached and make it easy for us but they do want their innocence to be kept. She didn't approach me, we just started talking and one thing let to another.