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Obviously age plays a role for a lot of girls. It is not just a number. It is biology but you shouldn't be obsessed by your age. All you need to know it plays a role. Other variables than age are much more important. Focus on what you can influence. Accept your age. It is not easy but you have to. If you don't accept your age and who you are and how you look, it is going to be creepy. It is only creepy if you don't accept a part of yourself. Just own it up. It is not easy and I'm not talking from an ivory tower here.

Identify your NEAREST, not biggest obstacles and focus on that. Imagine you are on a road, and you are walking, there is a small obstacle in front of you but bigger obstacles in the distance. Your priority should be to focus on what is right in front of you so you can keep going and don't get stuck or slugged down. It really depends on your situation. Everybody's road is different. Also focus on meta-skills and push the niche spirituality stuff to the side.

@The0Self @Kalki Avatar @Vibroverse thanks guys. I like the formula. It made it clear for me. Currently contemplating it. I noticed that contemplating in sets is baring fruits. Otherwise it just doesn't stick.

I'm highly sensitive during trips. I once smoked some weed with a girl and she was over-analyzing me and it was just awful. I can't imagine taking LSD or something with such people.

What you focus on will become bigger, so if your spouse is in front of you over-analyzing if you are going crazy or not, you will go crazy. But do you need a trip sitter though? Just lock yourself in a room and give her the keys.

Perhaps, it is the lockdown, or perhaps it is the spiritual work but sometimes I feel flabbergasted about certain phenomenon. It is probably, but I´m not certain, the conceptual lens that I put off. If you thought the world worked a certain way but it doesn´t, there is an invested interest in your old ways, and dropping those feels like something bad. At the same time, my old maps of the world didn´t make sense and didn´t gave me value. The mistake I´m making is that I´m dropping one and jumping on another. It is tricky.

Foods already have shit tons of natural salt. I use very little (sea) salt.

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@_Archangel_ don't judge orange. They have a business to run and bills to pay. They are orange-green and they ask 2-4k for a program. I think overal they are positive influence.

When you are judging others you are judging yourself. Wtf. I read and heard this many times but first time my paradigm just collapsed in front of my eyes: I was looking at these fat ladies on YouTube who want to lose 10 kg in 1 month time. I said "these bitches are really dumb. It is not about short term success, it is about life style change". Then I struck me: I'm no different when it comes to productivity. This doesn't mean one shouldn't judge. Expressing is always better than suppressing. Only when you express you can really get to know yourself. Do you guys know any good books on judgement?

I have a bird. They seem so peaceful. An animal life is simple. As long as they can get food and water they are fine. The human wants more. Wants to fuck up. Wants more than it needs. Wants sense of security, self esteem and self actualization. Wants to posture to others. Living in spiritual solitude is like being that bird I think or no Just? Just eating, shitting and being.

We also have to be careful that we are not judging judgement. There is a thing called good judgement. I would call that egocentric rather than egoistic.

Pick two or three subjects (no more!!) and try to connect them. Spend 1 month on that. After a month rinse and repeat for three other subjects.

I notice that a lot of people around me are fine with how things work on the surface. Whether it be on the subject of work, relationships, and other subjects. Can you really blame them? Sometimes it just enough to understand shit on the surface. Especially if you don't have time to dig deep because of time. It really made me think about when it is wise to understand something on the surface and when to understand something deeply.

I feel like there is no way back.

That is what I'm trying to be. Just be the observer and use intuition to enfold. Does that answer my question about LP and being versus doing?

If you want to achieve your LP as a human, there is a lot of work and perhaps even stress. Can someone explain to me how LP fits into being? Being able to tolerate stress and not suffer is hard. I rather just be a bird, but then I won't reach my full potential and suffer too.

I guess you are right. Dating is like poker I guess. Deception is part of the game and one shouldn't expect the opposite side to show their cards. But as they say, don't hate the player, hate the game. Nobody is forcing anybody to play the game. I get frustrated by the game too but I don't have any other option than to be a better manipulator. This works. Women can unconsciously sense when you are full of cum. It is crazy how this works.

If we are honest to females, we won't get anything, that is why we are forced to play your games to get the honey.

To shit together like in Roman times.

Why do you think a lot of men don't understand females? Like she said in the video. Females won't say what they want. They want the male to figure it out. We males just tell what we want. We don't play games. I'm not talking about this forum. I'm talking in general.

I like how she explains everything from 1st person in such a mindful way. Especially cross referencing about male/female perspective on a stripclub with the female equivalent was eye opening. Male perspective on sex is very straightforward. The female perspective is not so straightforward. It kind of makes sense why most men are clueless, especially with feminism running amok.

Stop looking for a quick fix. If you have a structural problem, you need a structural fix. I recommend the book "Mindset" by Carol Dweck.