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Not all women put on makeup when going out, babe. And secondly I was just asking how your makeup habits are. You avoiding the question already tells me enough. ?

Do you all doll up and go on actualized dot org? ?

So why do some woman use a lot of makeup and some don't? They can just be happy with the beauty nature gave them but they have to artificially prop up their beauty when they go into public places. I guess you are in denial about your intentions. Do you put makeup on and just sit at home all day in front of your TV? ?

And your point is what? You are just posting a picture without explanation what you are trying to say. Obviously not all women. Only women that need it.

Get into grounding yourself. I studied chakra system and that helped me. I had the same issues you had. Leo's stuff made me airy fairy. That is not good. Stop listening to Leo's advice for a while.

I don't think women all doll up and sit at home. Obviously they are in self denial. What do you want them to say? I'm putting make up so a dude approaches me, seduces me, takes me out and fucks my brains out?

Reminds me of this: it didn't end well

She isn't understanding why I read so many books and why I'm meditating a lot which I'm not. Only doing 30 minutes meditation per day. In my view, we don't have to have corresponding lifestyles. Super advanced therapist probably will be expensive. My therapist at the moment is covered by my health insurance. It is a middle-aged woman with a lot of experience, I think I will just go to her until my basic survival issues are solved.

My therapist is blue-yellow. She isn't interested in spirituality. I rarely talk about it anyway, and that is not the reason for me going there anyway. The reason why I opened this thread is because Leo said that therapists are doing a disservice to their clients if they don't know anything about spirituality. The topics we walk about is childhood trauma, self-image, confidence, procrastination, productivity and assertiveness. I wish I could change my therapist but it is not easy, especially now with the pandemic. There are waiting lists so I should be happy that I get help at all. What does the client miss out on when she is not stage green? I'm interested in your views.

People connect well when they are on the same level.

Study nofap in relation to the corresponding Chakra. There are some yoga exercises that can help make nofap easy. I'm experimenting with this so I can't say much about this at this point.

Ok, I think I need to work on being authentic.

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I can't compete with this.

https://images.app.goo.gl/yX46uqxaXWG2917u9 Recently I read a book on cakras and everything makes a lot more sense to me. I don't get why Leo doesn't use it to explain things. People would stop asking stupid questions like "if I reach enlightenment, can I do whatever I want?". I don't get why there are no books on chakras on Leo's book list Perhaps there are but I missed it? Something else I noticed: Spiral Dynamics and the Chakra system match up. Both are about consciousness so it makes sense.

Anodea Judith has good books about it. It doesn't feel new age. I wanted to try Kriya Yoga, but the learning curve is steep. Sticking my tongue in my nose is not that easy.

The problem is that most people are not fun when they are being authentic.

Girls just follow their instincts like a robot but the culture can modify their instincts. The answer to the question depends in which country you ask it.

Leo had a video about chakra's if I remember correct, why did he delete it?

There are some days that I just don't have the balls. I don't have the strong intent but I do have the challenge to approach 10 girls per week. This is what happens: I go to the city walk around. Look for suitable targets. Don't approach. Walk around. Get frustrated and go home. I can approach but this only happens when I have high libido which means no masturbation. Context: I'm doing a pickup course right now and there are weekly approached. I have to do these approaches. How should I deal with the frustration of not doing any pickups? It is very easy. All I have to do is walk up to her say hi + make a comment about her appearance or environment. A lot of times I don't get eye contact and that is normal because it is day game. Sometimes I do get eye contact and it is too late and I already walk by her. I'm getting frustrated at myself and that is not helping. I would appreciate how to deal with lousy days.

I don't have a lot of friends, and close friends are non existing. I'm going to therapy for this but it is not easy. I know what I have to do but I don't have a lot of chances to meet people with the lockdown. My biggest issue is low self-esteem, low self-image, and attachment fears. Probably I have more issues but I just gave a quick summary. Taking action is most important step for me. I'm not taking enough action. And making close friends is even harder for me than getting a gf.

Ow damn. 2-3 hours? That is some commitment. There is a big city 30 minutes from my place. I would definitely try a new city if I knew I could do 10 approaches. Then it would be worth it.

I live in a small-medium city. I don't want to just ruin my reputation by doing the spray and pray strategy. I don't know. Perhaps I'm just bullshitting myself into not doing pickup. I care way too much about not disturbing girls.

I managed to squeeze one approach out of my supermarket visit. She wasn't interested and that is OK. It was a direct approach which I don't do. I got over it instantly. I'm just happy I tried it. It is all about stacking reference experiences and evolution of the skill set.

@Nahm usually I have buts but this time I don't have any buts left. Only shows that things learned in pickup can be applied anywhere else. If I master this narrative thing that you are talking about I'm hoping I can solve my procrastination and addiction problems too.