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With pickup you can learn so much about yourself. The lessons I learned about myself can be applied to other areas in my life.

It has probably has to do with the scarcity vs abundance mindset in the grander scheme. It also has to do that I'm socially awkward in social interactions that are more than 1 vs 1; I don't know how to deal with such social situation in a graceful manner. It is a matter of lack of experience. At the core I'm afraid I will lose these girls but now that I'm thinking about it I don't need to be afraid about losing fish now that I know how to catch fish. I always afraid of doing day game, I made a breakthrough in the last 2 weeks. A lot of rejections, and I'm linking that to "I'm ugly". It is very hard to unwind that.

Thanks for that insight. I noticed that too. Women have strong third eye or something. They pick that up. I think some even pick up that I'm miserable deep inside although but somehow they are OK with because I'm a good conversationalist, funny and I listen.

What success rate should a guy aim for with day game?

I don't know about introducing them to each other. I could do that but what if I don't want that. Is saying hi without small talk enough? Or would that be rude? Thanks. I'm having g success but until now I'm aiming below my league until I get comfortable and get a good foundation. Talking to smoking hot girls is still an issue for me. A lot of them reject me. I think they don't like my appearance.

That is like saying shit is awesome. Well, if shit wasn't shit, there would be different shit and it would become something else and that would be awesome too.

Read Teal Swan's books on shadow work. It is amazing.

Same with me. I did vegan a while back and it was the worst decision of my life. Something that is such an effort and a struggle can't be natural. And most of the time people find out it doesn't work out anyway.

Dude. We had this discussion.

@CBDinfused Buddhist assign the element air (which is nothing) to the heart chakra. I suggest you look into that to understand why love is nothing.

Do meditation everyday for an hour for 30 days straight and see if that improves your concentration. Don't be too quick with putting labels on yourself like ADD.

LoL. I thought you were a dude who put makeup on.

Not all women put on makeup when going out, babe. And secondly I was just asking how your makeup habits are. You avoiding the question already tells me enough. ?

Do you all doll up and go on actualized dot org? ?

So why do some woman use a lot of makeup and some don't? They can just be happy with the beauty nature gave them but they have to artificially prop up their beauty when they go into public places. I guess you are in denial about your intentions. Do you put makeup on and just sit at home all day in front of your TV? ?

And your point is what? You are just posting a picture without explanation what you are trying to say. Obviously not all women. Only women that need it.

Get into grounding yourself. I studied chakra system and that helped me. I had the same issues you had. Leo's stuff made me airy fairy. That is not good. Stop listening to Leo's advice for a while.

I don't think women all doll up and sit at home. Obviously they are in self denial. What do you want them to say? I'm putting make up so a dude approaches me, seduces me, takes me out and fucks my brains out?

Reminds me of this: it didn't end well

She isn't understanding why I read so many books and why I'm meditating a lot which I'm not. Only doing 30 minutes meditation per day. In my view, we don't have to have corresponding lifestyles. Super advanced therapist probably will be expensive. My therapist at the moment is covered by my health insurance. It is a middle-aged woman with a lot of experience, I think I will just go to her until my basic survival issues are solved.

My therapist is blue-yellow. She isn't interested in spirituality. I rarely talk about it anyway, and that is not the reason for me going there anyway. The reason why I opened this thread is because Leo said that therapists are doing a disservice to their clients if they don't know anything about spirituality. The topics we walk about is childhood trauma, self-image, confidence, procrastination, productivity and assertiveness. I wish I could change my therapist but it is not easy, especially now with the pandemic. There are waiting lists so I should be happy that I get help at all. What does the client miss out on when she is not stage green? I'm interested in your views.

People connect well when they are on the same level.

Study nofap in relation to the corresponding Chakra. There are some yoga exercises that can help make nofap easy. I'm experimenting with this so I can't say much about this at this point.

Ok, I think I need to work on being authentic.