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I really didn't get that DM. Leo wouldn't approve of it so you are lucky I'm keeping it a secret. I gave an extreme example. My point is that without lying surviving becomes very difficult. Even in first world countries and especially in second and third world countries.

@Enlightenment thanks for the heads up

If they were really aliens they would show themselves. At they would definitely not blink like that. I know because I asked them.

Reality is brutal and it does not care about being fair to you." -- Leo Gura Should you be fair to life if it is not being fair to you?

He is having an insight.

Something that can be touched.

Idealism and realism is a spectrum depending on the situation and person.

I usually get annoyed at pretty girls because of their attitude. If they want to be treated well they should not respond to assholes.. The nice guys become assholes because that is what pretty girls respond to.

No. I'm an egoistic fucker.

I'm already more buffed than the average guy, I'm tall, and dress already better than most people. The thing is that I'm Turkish in an European country. Some girls like that but also a lot of them don't like it. I look friendly but some do get surprised when being approached. I'm too much in my head (judging myself) instead of being in my heart (understanding myself). Judging also causes me to approach less, take less action and be reserved. My successes happened in the last 2 weeks so I'm not even long in the game but I have been overanalyzing myself. I do get insights from analyzing my approaches/conversations but there is a lot of time going in this and my LP is suffering because of it. I'm a thinker and not a doer. Making the switch to being practical (taking actions) instead of being theoretical (analyzing, researching, learning pickup) is a struggle for me. The ratio right now is 20%/80%. It should be the other way around but that is not me. I feel like I would leave a lot of lessons on the table if I analyze less and use that spare time to approach.

So recently I have been doing pickup. I got multiple girls numbers in the same city. Now I have to tell you I'm a shy and I just cringe at the idea of one of the girls seeing me with another one. I know I just shouldn't care. I'm not exclusive with any of the girls. How should I approach the situation if I encounter one girl when I'm walking with another? The only dates possible right now is taking walks. Edit: typo

With pickup you can learn so much about yourself. The lessons I learned about myself can be applied to other areas in my life.

It has probably has to do with the scarcity vs abundance mindset in the grander scheme. It also has to do that I'm socially awkward in social interactions that are more than 1 vs 1; I don't know how to deal with such social situation in a graceful manner. It is a matter of lack of experience. At the core I'm afraid I will lose these girls but now that I'm thinking about it I don't need to be afraid about losing fish now that I know how to catch fish. I always afraid of doing day game, I made a breakthrough in the last 2 weeks. A lot of rejections, and I'm linking that to "I'm ugly". It is very hard to unwind that.

Thanks for that insight. I noticed that too. Women have strong third eye or something. They pick that up. I think some even pick up that I'm miserable deep inside although but somehow they are OK with because I'm a good conversationalist, funny and I listen.

What success rate should a guy aim for with day game?

I don't know about introducing them to each other. I could do that but what if I don't want that. Is saying hi without small talk enough? Or would that be rude? Thanks. I'm having g success but until now I'm aiming below my league until I get comfortable and get a good foundation. Talking to smoking hot girls is still an issue for me. A lot of them reject me. I think they don't like my appearance.

That is like saying shit is awesome. Well, if shit wasn't shit, there would be different shit and it would become something else and that would be awesome too.

Read Teal Swan's books on shadow work. It is amazing.

Same with me. I did vegan a while back and it was the worst decision of my life. Something that is such an effort and a struggle can't be natural. And most of the time people find out it doesn't work out anyway.

Dude. We had this discussion.

@CBDinfused Buddhist assign the element air (which is nothing) to the heart chakra. I suggest you look into that to understand why love is nothing.

Do meditation everyday for an hour for 30 days straight and see if that improves your concentration. Don't be too quick with putting labels on yourself like ADD.

LoL. I thought you were a dude who put makeup on.