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Price of healthy food depends on your location. For example if you live in middle of nowhere in Russia, eating healthy will be costly. Fruits and vegs are expensive: it doesn't grow there. Where I live eating healthy is cheaper than eating unhealthy. If you can change locations. As for healthy diet, my diet always revolves around greens. It is a simple diet and I like it.

This is the first time I'm seeing Leo interacting with another human being. It was kind of weird. I thought he would be as much or more charismatic as in his solo videos. His chest hair saved his charisma a little bit though.

I don't have good experiences with feminists. They demand equal pay while they work part time and their male counterparts work full time. Since a year or something I'm following "feminists". These are not prominent feminist but just girl next door types. Most of them are just man hating on social media and saying sexist stuff to men. If we said the same stuff to them we would be lynched on social media.

Feminism has definitely a dark and toxic side:

I went through the program in 2 days. The instructor is a technical dude. I believe he is an engineer or something and his model for PUA resembles that. It is very resembled and technical and I liked that. The downside is that it is a dump of information. It isn't structured like a program with theory and exercises every week. Luckily I did another program. The other program I did was on weekly basis. Todd's program is great. Today I practiced his stuff in the field and I noticed the confidence "the system" gave me. The system is basically a tool to resort back to when you are lost in the game. What I liked the most about the program is the road map that Todd gives. It shows how to develop your skills as a beginner, intermediate, and advanced gamer. I didn't even know these nuances. This program is probably the most broad program on the market. Todd seems like a nerdy and stiff guy but his model fits very well with natural game. Eventually you want to depend on natural game but as a beginner your natural game will suck. This is where this program comes in and helps you. The downside of this program is that it is theory based and not action based. If you are a newby and newer took action I wouldn't recommend this program. First do action based PUA programs and then come back and do this program. There are some programs out there that are on weekly basis and requires you to take action every week.

@Superfluo Hot Seat at home by Tyler is on my list. Is Tyler's blueprint decoded covered by the newer Hot Seat at home? I tried watching blueprint decoded but it was so much fluffed up and long-winded that I stopped. The thing with game is that it has to be learned in the field. You need boots on the ground. For me Todd's system was the missing part. It is like a Swiss knife (outergame). It is better to have it than not have it. I think you guys don't understand what Todd's program is for. He says you shouldn't depend on the system. The system is only there to fall back to if you are stuck or start plateauing.

So which programs are a good supplement to Todd's system then? Todd is not even with RSD anymore and this program was made after his departure. Todd's system actually gives a roadmap how to go from basic to advanced. I haven't seen other programs doing that. In my opinion Todd's system is the broadest a PUA program can be. Stuff like "female perspective" and "social game" is secondary. These stuff can be learned first hand in the field.

There are actually exercises in this program. I totally missed it. lol. @Leo Gura it is not a typical PUA program but I know what you mean.

In the last I made such a paradigm shift regarding myself versus dating, that other paradigms in my life are shaking too. Because if I was wrong about my dating paradigm, my other paradigms might be faulty too.

Dude, just try it.

It could be temporal. I never had bi-fantasies but I do recognize what happens after no-fap: sex fantasies.

Like supplicating to other people. If you boil it down it comes down to this: when you meet somebody your worldview and the other person's worldview collapse. The nice people always supplicates to the other person's world view to get "favors" or some certain psychological need met. A jerk has a very strong worldview: they don't supplicate. Women love this. If your world view as a man is stronger than hers, you basically penetrate her world view. And after that you can penetrate her in more literal ways. Stereotypical woman is passive. I always thought women don't like me. The problem was not that women didn't like me. I wasn't penetrative. It is a matter of paradigms.

Put hot water in a bowl Put your face above the bowl Put a blanket over your head. Problem solved.

Seriously since I have started becoming a jerk my life regarding women has become so easy. I think the bottom line is that if you are nice to people people get suspicious and rightly so. Niceness should be a tiny cherry on top of the cake; it shouldn't be the cake itself.

Her books helped me a lot to put things together. These tidbit videos are nice but but they are just rehashes.

Being an asshole/being nice is surface level. People use it as a mask to get what they want. Both sides of the spectrum can be used as a strategy to get what one want. In some areas of life or in some countries it requires to be nice to be successful so people are nice(like in business). In other countries or areas life it is not so good to be nice (like in pickup). I use both and I recently cut the bullshit about "I'm nice". It goes deeper than that. Nicying your way in life as a philosophy doesn't work. Sometimes you just have to be a raging dick.

I'm fascinated about strategy. It brought orderliness in my life. Love to binge on some good strategy books. Ps: already read all the strategy related books on the book list.

That is not awkwardness. You haven't seen awkwardness.? He was actually goofy, self amusing and not invested. That is what game is. If you get clingy and have self doubt, awkwardness reeks off of you.

Hissy fits are so funny.

What you desire is what you want and what you want is what you do. You need to find a way to change your desires. That is where the magic happens.

I would recommend you start from zero. You have mental constructions about yourself that are incorrect. Perhaps I'm wrong but it is worth trying. Drop all assumptions about yourself and try to experiment, learn and start to study yourself like it is the first day in your life. Drop all ego. Between the lines of your post I'm reading all kind of negative emotions. You need to meditate and let these emotions go so that you can relax. Relationships happen when you relax. You have to trust yourself. Just have blind faith that you will be ok. Just try it for couple of months and if it doesn't work you can go back to your old ways. Being good in relationships also demand experience. You lack experience and only way to get experience is massive exposure. Read the book the 5 second rule and just do it. If your action/thinking ratio is 10%/90%, flip that around. You know what to do, are you willing to do the emotional labor? You have to be honest to yourself first of all.

Most people who get banned look it up on purpose. Leo be like:

Tell her that it is not her beauty that it is the problem but her huge ass ego.

I get that. Don't micromanage by overanalyzing things. I started making progress when I focused on the learning process, instead of focusing on certain desired outcomes. I recommend the book Mindset by Carol Dweck. What do you recommend to somebody who doesn't have the hot girl social circle for dating? Or more precisely.. how does one break into those circles?