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That is what I was thinking. Perhaps Leo has a plan. Now everybody wants to hear it while before it only a few would give a rats ass.

No, I'm definitely boring. I heard that I'm boring once or twice. I'm working on it though. When girls find me boring (I can see it on their face), they always try to pull that trick of getting something material out of me. This pattern happened more than once so I got a good nose for it. I just need to be more fun and add more value to the dates. In that case, they won't ask me for material favors because she already got hers if you know what I mean. I mean I do get it. They go on a date with me for the fun, perhaps I'm a little boring and silent at times, and they think, what they heck am I doing here? Let me at least get a coat out of this. Haha

I have been thinking about the same and I honestly there is no magic pill. You just have to run through your karma; be weird, needy, get it out of your system by acting it out and noticing the neediness in your body and letting it go. Mindfulness is indeed curative.

The first thing he will be doing in Kiev is to put-in.

To boil it down it comes down to thinking versus feeling. if you feel too much start thinking and if you think too much start feeling. Talk from your emotions and feelings. When you enjoy the other will. And if they don’t it is their problem.

Go out and take some dancing classes instead of staying at home with your dick in your hand. If you are average and not weird, you will at least some reference experiences and you will start getting out of your shell. Put yourself in situations that are structured for people to socialize.

I know I'm the Self, but so are those other people who never awaken, suffer all of their lives and die a miserable death, without awakening.

Some people never awaken, what about that?

From the book letting go: ”when we look at the truth of what is behind the feeling we have already moved up the scale from apathy to fear” I obviously get what Hawkins explained here but according to the scale there is the feeling grief between apathy and fear. Does that mean we can skip LOC levels? I read two of his books and it is a bummer that he doesn’t address such basic things.

I don’t know if that metaphor fits. According to spiral dynamics one can’t skip phases. One can only pass through it very swiftly. I think the same counts for the LOC model but I’m not sure.

My opinion on Julien RSD: The only RSD instructor worth your money is Tyler. All the other instructors are just monkeying Tyler.

This product is fairly priced. It is about 300-400 dollar. But if you really want to get to the core just buy the book the charisma myth and human magnet syndrome. You will be off a lot cheaper. Julien is usually all over the place. I don’t like his teaching style. That is my personal opinion. He also has some book reviews on his channel. If you are smart just read the books he is reading and you won’t have to buy is programs.

True but there is a difference between doing something out of fear (out of survival) and doing something out of a higher more positive emotion. This. And he should also get into transactional analysis. The book games people play is great.

Ask the question “what for??” to get to the bottom of the feeling. Keep asking that question. And eventually you will find out that it is about fear and survival. Back in the day it was important that people liked you. Not today. So let go of that fear. if you are afraid you won’t be able to create abundance anyway. It is an inside job.

So I have been offline for some time. This is what kept me busy: I started taking salsa dancing classes. It is a great source to meet people, to get better with dancing which helps with confidence and being lose I discovered that I'm uptight in my body, girls pointed this out to me and this is just something I would never discover intellectually David Hawkins stuff is paramount for me: I level bellow 200. It is not weird that I'm not having great success. Haven't done any approaches because I keep getting the same result: getting date and girls losing interest in me because of my LOC, why would I keep hurting myself with approaches? I will stop approaching until I reached LOC 200-250 I started doing brainspotting and in the near future I will start with primal therapy I discovered that Transactional analysis is great for analyzing approaches/interactions in general! Before reading about transactional analysis I was blind about human interaction! Just read David Hawkins stuff and just go out in the field!

Develop your own sexual power so you won't be intimidated by other girl's sexual power.

Usually girls get bored by me although they tell me I'm such a good guy because I'm so nice as a person. So I got enough of that and I started experimenting with being a dick. And I noticed that girls love a dick. The ones I was being a dick too clearly hate me and they are also massively attracted to me. It is like this: hate on the front, attraction behind the front. The problem is this: I don't know how to deal with this situation. I clearly get attraction. I know this because when I ignore them they start hitting on me and trying to push my buttons. So how to talk to a girl who both hates you and feels attracted to me? In the past I just tried to "be myself" and I just lose the frame and act beta. Currently she just wants to pick fights with me. I want to enter the talking stage which requires her to show me basic respect. I don't have her phone number yet.

What is this INTP ESTJ talk? Is there a book on the book list that I missed?

Banter is just being playful. Being playful is not limited to humans. Animals do it too but obviously not verbally. Just imagine tiger cubs playing with each other. Humans do the same but they do it with words.

What I noticed about banter from people who are good at it: Their "darts" are aimed at the other They don't take anything personal and expect that from the other side The whole spiel is to feel how much you can push the envelope to find the edges/borders of what is allowed to be said and what is not allowed to be said

I read a lot of books about archetypes and his book is the best on the subject. He also has some books on the specific archetypes. For example one of his book specifically focuses on the magician archetype. Unfortunately those book are out of press and you can only find low quality pdfs. There are some rare copies on the internet but it is like 150-250 for a second hand copy.

It will be like a butcher trying to do a heart surgery if you don't know what you are doing.

I have great respect for the sufi order and rumi. Other than that I don't have a high regard for islam although my family background is islamic.

Perhaps you shouldn't expect them to understand you. It is not because they don't want to, they aren't capable. You have to show them you are happy, that is the most important thing you can show them. If they can sense you have no boundaries they will try to trespass your boundaries and try to control you.

Orange has higher intelligence and technology.