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Omg, that guy in the video (Adam) aged like 10 years in 2 years time.Haven't seen his video in a while. I'm always shocked how fast people age who do a lot of psychdelics.

You can change your self image in two ways according to the book Through real life experiences: real successes and failures Or by using the hack of visualization Your nervous system doesn't know the difference. So if you are visualizing success all day and actually feeling the sensations of success, the primitve part of your brain doesn't even know the difference. You are not only rewiring your subconscious self-image which is subconscious by definition but also your body. Success chemicals are being released in the body and you are gearing yourself for success. If you are interested in this work I recommend Joe Dispenza, his work is even better.

I’m a guy who always wants to proof something so when dealing with myself that is also the case. If I’m worth it I want proof but in self esteem self image books they say “you are worth it just because”. Is there not something like reality? You want you self image (the map of yourself) fit reality?

@puporing @Rokazulu ok. So if god decides his creation shouldn’t exist anymore I should be in peace with that? That strikes at one of my core fears: letting go of control. I mean, it is not even in my own hands and if it is not in my locus of control I should be at least content with whatever comes my way. Being fearful and going out like a wuss is not how I want to go out. I want to go out as a warrior.

Post your favorite comedians and their performances

Some of these are very disappointing lol

The body is the portal to your feelings so if you can't feel emotions that doesn't mean you don't have emotions, you just can't feel them because you pushed them in your unconscious the solution is to get to the physical sensations, get out of your head and into your body (root chakra) and stay with the bodily sensation As a rule of thumb: give more attention to your bodily sensations than to your mental activity

Any good book recommendations on this topic?

@Leo Gura should one burn every set to the ground? There is this one girl I like but she is a little standoffish. I don’t know whether to give her time or keep trying to lead.

Your self image and the emotions you have about that image will attract experiences with the same emotions. It is a self reinforcing system.

Perhaps I was projecting a little bit. I would still have fun while finding my soul mate. If he doesn’t want to have fun because he thinks that is taking advantage of girls, then he has to be in peace with his thirstiness. Can’t have the cake and eat it too. should he jump on those girls? There are girls that want to be jumped on. The thing is that it has to be mutual. Mood has to be right. ?

Go into shared activities. That is how most people meet other people. It is a natural way to meet people and it is not forced. Once you get the hang of it you could use the skills to meet people outside of shared activities. Probably as a child you didn’t do a lot of shared activities and you didn’t learn these skills. You can still learn them.

On hot girls like 9/10's: More push Less pull Such a key point!

No, I couldn't find it. By the way, psycho cybernetics doesn't mention requisite variety. I reread the book. Some sources on cybernetics does mention requisite variety but in my opinion it is just a synonym for creativity/lateral thinking. All these authors come up with their own terminology.

There are two ways of development in this work in my opinion Being authentic is like being naked. (This is the core principle: letting go) Being gamey (pickup style) is like having a nice mask on. (Principle of social calibration) Both is important and self-development should be geared towards the individuals complexes and deficiencies. For a lot of people though they lack the authentic vibe. What really helps is this. For one week just be totally authentic; no cap; no questions asked. Just push as much as you can to be authentic Next week; have the social calibration mask on and push yourself to the limit to socially calibrate in situations repeat; start from 1 It is really difficult to train both being authentic and being gamey. It is a much better strategy to isolate them and train them in isolation… and go for the extreme. In the extreme is where you learn. And what is extreme is subjective to you!

Dude, those questions aren’t even the topic. He wants sex and he isn’t getting it because of niceness and phantoms in his head how integrity should look like. It is a classical example of the nice guy syndrome.

The attitude "ME ME ME ME AND ME" is a clear sign of victim mentality. I've developed my consciousness that I can instantly sniff it. It is consciousness below LOC 200 and problematic in so many ways. To be good in socializing one has to move from egocentric to sociocentric.

In essence the problem is your self-image, the unconscious programming that runs you. Your life experience and especially your childhood experiences influence this self-image. You unconsciously gravitate towards your "personal myth" that you created for yourself.

@Identity study the nice guy syndrome. There are some good books with exercises to get out of it.

If you subcommunicate your desire for casual sex, there will be girls who will be open for it. And they will understand it is just casual sex; you don't need to spell it out; and not spelling it out doesn't mean you have low integrity. I think the mistake you make is that you are spelling things out, which takes the sexual tension away. You are tucking your dick between your legs so you can conform to your idea of how integrity should look like.

Thanks for the advice guys. I took a lot of notes and I have a lot of things to work on so I appreciate it The most difficult part for me will be to silence my hyper thinking, and I won't be to silence my thinking with thinking. And that is a frustration for me as a thinker. Meditating and shit is a real hassle for me but when I do it for 30 minutes or something I never regret it. I'm going to do my best to drill in the habit of meditating because just thinking just doesn't cut it any more. This is not a problem that I can think my way out of.

My therapist really doesn’t know how to deal with this. My previous one didn’t know how to deal with it either. I can feel certain senses fine when it is frustration, happiness, sadness, horniness and such. But there are just certain emotions I can’t feel. When my grandfather died I was sad but I couldn’t cry or emotionally process it. The energy just gets stuck in the body and it is unhealthy. My guesses are that my mechanism for emotional processes is broken or something. I wasn’t allowed to show a lot of emotions in my childhood. The strange thing is that with psychedelics I’m able to have those suppressed emotions but a lot of times I’m even suppressing my emotions during a LSD trip which causes a lot of suffering. I don’t suppress it on purpose. I know what I’m doing at the moment but I just don’t know how to not do it. My therapist advices me not to take psychedelics and he forwarded me to haptotherapy and psychomotoric therapy. Both are body based therapy instead of talk therapy. I hope this works but if it doesn’t I really don’t know where to go from there. My last option would be to take 500 ug LSD to see if that will smash my overcontrolling ego.

I talked to a very hot blond girl in the gym. A text book natural game pickup. I was surprised by myself. Letting go in game is such a huge aspect. Perhaps it is the biggest component. Only problem I encountered was at the end. I have some resistance towards success and getting the number is always a formality. She could definitely feel the awkwardness at the end while the whole ordeal was only good vibes. I was funny, lose, expressive and all in all was ok. Currently I'm just focusing on letting go during interactions. All the other pickup routines, tricks and theory are just theory on top of this basic skill. All the other will fall in place once you master letting go properly anyway. It is sad that this fact is not emphasised enough in pickup theory!

PUBG, sometimes CSGO and chess.

@JonasVE12 thanks, I think you are right. Ketamine would be a bad choice for me. LSD on the other hand did overwhelm my ego and I had couple of good emotional releases. On low doses it is torture though because my ego just hangs on and resist the experience tooth and nail. My problem in a nutshell is this. I can feel my bodily sensations, and I have some emotions here and then but when I decide to just sit with them by brain takes over and I'm just analysing and overthinking instead of just being with the feeling. Meditation would do me good to calm the mind but I'm only to do it for 30 minutes and not on a regular basis. I guess I just have to make a harsh distinction between thoughts (yang) and feelings (yin) and just not respond to the thoughts and just live based on feelings for some while? There are actually people like this. They don't think at all and they just operate on feelings alone.