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Great point you made there. Being authentic is definitely a skill. I have some in deprogramming to do to be more authentic.

Self acceptance was your default. You need to undo, not do.

@Knowledge Hoarder she didn’t reject me. What I tried to illustrate is that it is part of the game. Pickup is not called game for nothing. You need how to learn to play just like how children learn to play in kindergarten. Taking it personal is a game killer. I caught her jealous and that was just - fun - to see. I enjoyed it and I don’t need more out of it. I already got the other one that is hotter anyway.

@Knowledge Hoarder some girls don’t need a honey boo. They need that **** that is off limit. Nobody wants something that everybody can get. That premium shit that one has to work for is just valued more. It is just human psychology. Today I was in the gym and this hot piece didn’t give me any attention although I looked at her couple of times. So I went and I talked to a hotter girl and I caught her looking at us with jealousy and she quickly looked away. Never let a bis take you for granted. She should be walking on egg shells for you.

When you reject a guy it hurts his ego. A guy with self respect doesn’t chase a girl who rejected him. And that is why you secretly like him right now. ?

Don’t take anything personal. Just find one that matches your vibe frequency and use her to level yourself up. After a while, if you leveled yourself up enough, you will be the one who will be doing the rejecting. Dating is very selfish , so are girls, so develop yourself and be fun to hang out with. Offer more than you take. Don’t be a value suck. She needs to get the feeling she is winning by being with you; she shouldn’t get the feeling she is letting you win by being with her. This is very important. If you give her the vibe that she is letting you win by being with you, you are done. Essentially you need to find out what makes women tick. They are very different than guys in the realm of emotion and mentalization.

@Leo Gura I think if one is a nice guy one has to learn to love itself, be ok with being selfish and when we get ours we can truly become more spiritual and a better partner. Girls don’t like nice guys because they haven’t incorporated the inner warrior (the go-getter) and that is very repulsive because it is a huge aspect of survival of her and her possible kids. The problem is that developing this inner warrior can’t be done without causing damage. One can’t develop it without overcompensating somehow; let’s be honest. I’ve had to learn to break hearts and break pussy with minimal damage done to the other party. Once the inner warrior is developed and integrated one can become more heart centered but it is easy to become heart centered if one already got the bacon many times. And girls don’t feed bacon to thirsty guys.

It is an emotional signature that everybody can sense. Women are more in tune with emotions so it really sticks out for them.

Was it awkward after you rejected her? Or was she chill about it?

Stop porn and that hentai shit. A healthy guy should be able to do it even though the girl is not your type.

Bro you are going way to fast. Girls are like cats. If you hold your hand out the first time and she doesn’t come have some patience. Perhaps she needs some time. What you did was just project your own pain onto her and scared her off with your hissy fit. Also if you are so into a girl and are so invested while she is not, it is a huge red flag for girls. Emotional investment has to be done gradually and calibrated to her emotional investment.

For example if I’m competing for a girl and I see the other guy being sad, I can be heavily influenced by that and stop pursuing her. This is a question about competition. In competition the eye is on the prize, not on your opponents feelings. I really have a hard time developing this ruthlessness that is needed to get mine. I think it comes down to emotional mastery? Not being identified with feelings of compassion? Obviously I want to be a compassionate person but I think it should be in balance with my own survival needs. At this moment I feel I’m too soft. I want to have the ability to be hard or soft according to own wishes. I don’t think there is a magic formula for this. Just be selfish by not listening to my beta feelings? I’m not happy with being this soft.

Don’t resist being needy. Just be yourself and be needy and look for girls that put up with that. You can’t just throw away parts of yourself and don’t listen to people who say you can. Just see yourself as a vessel and currently there is neediness energy within you. flush it out by recognizing it and live it out. Don’t be ashamed by being needy. Resistance to neediness will only make it worse. So put your dick on the line and just have congruency. Your inner and outer should match. The worst is if it doesn’t match. You will be labeled creepy. So just own who you are.

Yesterday I was taking a dance class. This girl with whom I danced one time just left her own partner out of nowhere and started standing besides me and started smiling to me. This was so socially uncalibrated and abrupt that the dance coach and me just stood there flabbergasted. I bursted out in laughing because I was charmed but also I didn’t know what to do or what to say because everybody was looking for my reaction. Omg, when becoming more alpha one gets shit tested. Not by girls but by whole groups of people. And I’m not ready for it. Also girls with boyfriends started giving me eye fucks. It is so weird because I have respect for their boyfriends and don’t look at them while they don’t give a fuck about their boyfriends and eye fucking me. Perviously I didn’t get this mucha attention. This change in my vibe happened after a break up and letting go of seeking validation of girls. Major point for letting go is this; letting go is not a conception but an experience!!!! so a lot of things in game one has to experience on self to truly understand it. Metaphorically it is about reading about the moon versus going to the moon. Men fall for the flesh. Females fall beyond the flesh.

@Fleetinglife I think next target of Russia is to create upheaval in former Yugoslavia. Serbia is a time bomb filled with extremists that are waiting for their opportunity. It doesn’t matter if Serbia is a sovereign state. Extremism like Serbian extermism or Kurdish extremism is difficult to be dealt with because they are not a state actor. That is what you don’t understand. YPG PYD is not a state but a terrorist organization so there is no threspassing. NATO is allowed to create buffer zone in north Syria. That is why nobody is making a fuss about it other than far right extemists. Serbia should tread softly because Russia will soon be poking the Balkan and I believe Turkey should move its army to Bosnia and Albania to make preparations.

This is a very old thread and I can’t recognize myself in this thread anymore. But thanks for bumping this thread up I guess. ?

Recently a really hot single hot blonde slim mom was interested in me. I was confused. Now I understand the situation and I feel kind of insulted but I'm not hurt. I will use these feelings for my self development.

@Fleetinglife Serbia lost Kosovo with having that mindset. And you have learned nothing. I hope Serbian government is smarter because playing with borders is playing with fire.

@Fleetinglife Adana agreement. Look it up. Stop watching stupid far right videos. They are not giving you an accurate view of the situation. I know you are Serbian and shit but that doesn’t change anything. These far right politicians only care about themselves. Try looking into stage green sources to understand geopolitics.

It will feel like reffing your car engine at high speeds while standing still.

And rightfully so.. US forces need to move out of the region. They are playing a dangerous game by supporting YPG terrorists to destabilize the region.

@ShardMare https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_a_GFWs-Is

Is 5-MeO-MALT hella expensive or is it me? The only source that I could find is 300 euro for 10g. I remember 5-MeO-DMT being much cheaper.

Find the physical manifestation of apathy in your body, it is very subtle but it is there. You will need to find the trigger of apathy, remember it and meditate on that sensation to release it. The body is the doorway to the emotions and inner world.

@Roy you don’t even send the day of the meet a confirmation message that the date is going as planned?