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This quest came many times on my mind this week. Intuition is like a higher self, correct? I was contemplating reality yesterday at 2am, and sort of thoughts and insights came. One of them, was thoughts and energy of fear, negative emotions, and one strong feeling saying that i need to stay away to one group of friends, this thoughts and energy looking inside had an idea of wasting time when with these people, that i would not grow spiritualy and financially. The other side of spectrum, moments after this i moved to energy of courage and love, and something that i cannot explain, was saying to me that i can be with this friends, understand that they have defects, issues but are good person, can share great things to me. Both energy looks strong in feeling, but second looked more deep, in love. Can the first be an Intuition? even with a more serious energy? Looks strange to me

Ooh thanks joker! I really agree with you, its kind of crazy because ego try to distort this Intuition Idea, looking really similar to the real one.

The energy come in a strange feeling, idk

Most of them like to do some social parties, we call or close friends and play some snooker, sometimes drink whisky, nothing to go Crazy. But when i'm with this boys, i feel love, like in home, everybody treat me like a person they respect a lot.

Why ego distortion of Intuition looks so real? Is it possible that arguments come before the fake intuition? (Like thoughts saying to dont stay with this friends, and then this fake Intuition come, like if the argument appears before the main idea).

I'm asking this because i'll wrote in a note what i want for my life and put this plans to always remember and follow the path. I'm finishing graduation in Sports now, when i started i was thinking in be a good Gymnastics Coach, plans changed and started my love to Circus, currently training to be a Handbalance, probably ready to perform in 3 years At the same time, i'm very good in programming and i love this, here in Brazil they pay A LOT of money for specialists in this. This can give me a better quality of life to travel world and do all i want. My question is, can i work to do this 2 plans(Circus and Programming) happen? Or should i do only one? I know it looks like i'm lost, but i have 22 years old and i see a lot of opportunities and abundance in universe.

I know it's my fault in this case, i grew up with a meaning i create that she was right all the time, that she had all the answers for life. I didn't go out because i had fear to disappoint her, to be like my uncle with vicious in cocaine and other stuffs. But i realized this is a neurosis.

Well, in my case this is a little problem for me haha, i see that every time i'm going out my mother look at me disappointed, she says that i dont need to go outside of home, because we have a good relationship and i dont need more friends(friends are shit in her opinion), i lost a lot of friendships in this. I have fear to be a guy with 0 friends in some years hahaha, so i decided to put love in the way she see things, but dont take her opinion seriously. For me the best way to resolve this is a good conversation or Just accept and do different, your own way.

As long as you are trying to become, trying to get somewhere, trying to attain something, you are quite literally moving away from Truth itself. ~ Adyashanti This quote blew my mind haha, it is talking about that Idea that truth is the now, whey you try something, means you are not being the pure consciousness of present moment? More ideas of this?

Haha would a little cool if it was, this has been going on for like 5 years. In this 5 years i lost tons of good friends, had little neurosis of this. I'm really thinking in go to another country or City, living by myself i can lead my life to whatever i want.

Yeah! She have a lot of things in her life, Friends, a job with lot of responsability, she go out to parties, have a boyfriend. Sounds funny, cuz she dont want me to have this things, with my young brother is different, he have freedom.

Incredible! Thinking about this in this week and i agree completely

You all had this problem too? I'm living with my mom and brother and sometimes sucks. In my house, she work to do all and pay accounts, my brother Just play videogames all day long, the problem is that i'm doing all here, and nobody gives the fuck to me, they want all in their way, on their time, i cannot do my things because in their idea "I need to live to my Family, Always in first place, fuck others", but it's fuck. Sometimes my mother try to manipulate me saying that i need to work on her way, my bro is always sarcastic and never admit his shit. I feel better because i'm currently working, so i dont need to stay all time on house. But i'm thinking in travel to other city after graduate( final of next year). I woke up very well, but they just started the day trying to cheat on me, i feeled a little bit sad.

Thanks Thestarguitarist! I'm really going to focus more on myself, i have some things to build first, like a good job, communication, a good time to "level up" hahaha. When things back, i'll start more cold approach, see what will happen. Any good YT channel recomendation to watch?

Before quarantine start i was on presencial college, some fridays i was chillin on Club with friends and some girls would come, talk to us and magically i got number, a date, Kiss hahaha. Seems like Tinder and bumble is a little bit harder, some girls can just talk and get off(i understand this because some guys can be dirty af). This happen to u all?

This week i decided to observe my emotions and thoughts through meditation. I'm Student of sports in Brasil, and some months back i started to do video edits, listening to music beats, and i'm loving this so muuuch. I'm with a desire to change my career . I Love sports, but my passion to motivate people, is through music and videofilms(this two things make my way of ser world change) , the problem is that i'm 1 year to finish university, and my father is paying, if a drop out, they will be mad of me, because i dont will have a graduation. I'm comitting me to this. What should i do???

In my personal experience, phisically you need to implement some time rest, train with More controlled reps. Find some schedule training based on activities that dont have that "IM SWEATING AND HAVING DIFFICULT TO BREATHE", i'm actually doing Strentgh Training, more explosive and intensity is high, but the things you feel after this exercises are fatigue and a little bit tried(I ALWAYS feel better). On the mind set, start to focus on the exercise, enjoy that feeling, when you do this, your mind is not worried about all happening on you, you'll feel calm and sereno with feelings and pain.

I Just had for a while, i see that in your case is cuz pressure on you is going high, your parents put this pressure, and after this you feel bad and with all this expectative on you. Understand this is a mind trick by your part, you're okay the way you are, and this are okay in the present. It's nothing wrong with being single, or have pref for polyamory, put this on your ideas and your parents will understand on time. All cheers and love.

After questioned about fear, read some topics here and have some insights, i realised i'm not a identity, i'm on a dark room, every time i look to my wall i feel infinite, i'm the One, always. It's strange, i'm feeling so calm and full that i never felt, all my ideas of what i was, beliefs of how i should dress, do with my life is going down. I can create multiple things, all the new or things are me, this is open all rocks on path. Rules of how live are now broken, all make sense, but in the same time dont have.I want to spread love, thats my purpose. A lot of things that i cannot describe.

One of my fears actually is really Weird. I have fear of passing through the bridge that is close to my home on 4 a.m with my girlfriend, after party or night , i have fear of being assaulted, somebody dangerous mess with her, i observed this fear is not to protect me, but her. At the same time i know this never happened, but idk what i would do if was 4 guys on that bridge on this hour. I should pass? I should get back to protective? This is awkward.

Hi, this is a question that is on my mind in 2 weeks and i dont know what to do. I realized that i was meeting girls to boost my ego, so i removed Tinder from my phone and started to think in wait for the real one girl(girl that the universo put on your road, like real love). But at the same time came ideas on my mind like why not approach girls, meet on bars, social media and have good moments, have so good and funny girls on this world, why Just wait? But in same time i dont want to create that type of profile on instagram that girls love, just to they find me hot or beautiful, or send messages for 40 girls and got answer of 10. What your thoughts about?

I know this dont have a how to guideline but for me is a quite difficult to do hahaha. Sometimes comes a sad emotion, i start to observe, in first thing come a idea and energy like "this world is boring af" in second when i not supress that emotion, come a Desire to cry(it's not too strong), the only thing i feel this hour is to lay on bed and stay there, but i dont see any thoughts. Ps: when the cry desire came, something was on my mind "its all shit, not is good on life. But my life is awesome, the way i see life is cool, my life purpose is fantastic. Wtf is this emotion bro? Hahahaha

Hey guys, last week i decided that in 2023 i'll travel to live in another city. I Always lived with my mom, it's awesome, but she have her way to see things, she thinks that she know the best for myself, the way i should live, ideas like stop dating girls, "you should get this job and not the enterprenour ideas you have" and i most of the time i have to stop what i'm doing to do what she want. In a certain way she tries to fit me in her way of thinking, on her dogmas and beliefs. So i decided watching vids and doing contemplation that i want to explore the world, expand my creator way of being and go on this huge and new experience of going live alone in another city. I'm from São Paulo, a city with buildings and good stuffs(looks like new york), and i'm going to other State that have a lot of Beaches, forest and nature. Im going after a get my college graduation from Sports. But the question is? Should i live these 2 years now with my mom? If i dont travel and stay here, probably i'll have more money on bank account to go live on Italy(a place i want to meet), but i know that in other state with my business and myself, i'm going to practice spirituality and self actualize more and more. What would you do in this case?

Feels better to live alone, i dont want to live on her wings like a little bird u know, i want to fly, i want the world. I live with her since i was born, if i had 2 years, some people would say "enjoy time with family" but i would go alone to my travel, see new people, new worlds.

Bro, you have a life in front of you, go enjoy now, use your time to create new things to you, it's better than complain about your past and young age 18 -20 yrs old. Life is about experience, try and error, enjoy all details.