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Yes, I agree. Social skills are very important. But a 6ft3 autist can get laid, a 5ft2 autist is not playing the same game.

I think this video points to the underlying flaw in the psychology of a PUA. Not all of course. Many of them have autistic tendencies, and rather than learn to cure the underlying autism, they develop systems to try and compensate and you end up with the modern pua scene. Creepy guys can get laid if they have sufficient SMV. A 6t 3 guy with large shoulders can afford to be a akward and creepy, woman will give him a pass. A 5ft2 guy cannot afford those same mistakes.

Knowing is not enough, we must apply Willing is not enough, we must do -Bruce Lee

@FlyingLotus I took a mind valley course on energy work, but I didn't take full responsibility for the progress so I didn't get much out of it. I didn't like how many lost people were in the FB group, and the main guy did not post in the group anymore, it kind of rubbed me the wrong way. I think if you are seeking a specific skill, or want to learn more about a certain topic, then you could find value because there are many videos. Were you looking for anything specific?

There is only one path. There is only one truth. All else is delusion, the socio-PATH.

Why don't you enjoy working your ass off as much the hammock and seagulls? Joy is prior to the experience

Why do you think psychedelic's are necessary at all? How come life isn't just one great island trip?

So we just count ourselves lucky we weren't being during the holocaust?

Do you live this understanding? Or does it only make sense on psychedelic's?

@Fearless_Bum No i don't

If it's so free, manifest me 1 million dollars this moment in my hand? Or change your height to be 10 ft tall with perfect proportions. There are understood laws of the universe, is there not some order? How else would there be any of this solid reality?

https://johnelite.com/2021/11/01/why-it-is-all-outside-in-not-inside-out-how-the-new-indian-student-finished-the-elite-secret-playlist-to-unlock-his-mind-how-you-do-anything-is-how-you-do-everything-tips/ This guy is the greatest life coach I've ever seen. 3 days I feel like a different person.

Do you view psychedelic's as neutral, or inherently negative?

This is a great video on how to raise self esteem, and the relationship between our ego and our self esteem. It's great if you're into pick up, or you just want to learn how to raise your self esteem.

@The0Self What do you think about the effectiveness/validity of transmissions?

@FlyingLotus No problem, thank you for recommending Everette. I was amazed at how quickly things unfolded. It was an incredible experience. Yeah I felt like I was right at the cliff's edge. I have the IFS workbooks and I'm going to do some work on my own too. I already have some ideas about the core traumas I faced as a child, so hopefully the workbooks can provide some additional insight.

I just had my first session with Everette Considine after @FlyingLotus posted his link in another IFS thread. I must say I am blown away. I managed to get in touch with my inner child, and I had some emotions come up as I went along with the process. I was not able to unburden myself from the traumas of my child yet, but I am going to do more sessions and I am confident that after more sessions I will be able to fully let go of my childhood emotional trauma. If you are ready for this kind of work I highly recommend it. I'm also going to start working through some IFS workbooks on my own after seeing how powerful this technique can be

Imagine a dystopian society where the government has taken control over the dating process because of societal unrest caused by a break down of relationships and families. This is actually possible, if you consider single rates in countries like Japan and Korea, maybe a utopian regime will come (think Pol Pot) and force people into the relationship for the betterment of society. How would you respond to this? Is it possible to just make it work with a person if both people simply accept their fate?

This is a recording of our session. If you want a sense of what the session is like this can be helpful. https://meetings.dialpad.com/getmp3/AMIfv959B6ayM0aAOQCjYSYFhs_Fhp59fdpAIaILB9bw9yVYMdMdKwf6TsyKBocyVigXbe60QVvyUtszNeEENCxQaKQWmLbFR90eLdJXy9slRdKBEaSu_ObSTa9sn0NRPIdd4NddZGqw6kWxwwmvLEauPx8DNDfLZQ.mp3 @UnbornTao I think this is a great resource as well

@soos_mite_ah I'm not really interested in going back and forth. I think we are talking past each other. Enough has been said for anyone who is interested in learning more. If you want to learn more about this perspective, watch john elite. He has a bunch of videos on YouTube https://youtu.be/knHcUE4aD6k

I am not saying that anyone should delve into self hatred, apathy, or low self esteem. I am just speaking the truth about dating realities that many people like to ignore or are not aware of. And you just proved my point. There will always be a FEW people of any culture who are open to dating out, but there will not be enough to balance the dating scales. Given current trends there will be winners and losers, and my message is for asian men who do not want to end up as losers in the dating arena. If a man is a 5ft3 asian with poor social skills and he refuses to assimilate imagine giving him your advice. Just remain authentic to who you are bro, don't worry about all these woman who reject you, just be yourself you are enough and you will find someone. That is poison. You probably will. You are smart and good looking, but what works for you will not work everyone. I am speaking the truth. It just triggers you because 99% of people are dishonest and don't know what it means to be or speak the truth.

Hey I want to do some of kind of retreat and I'm looking for recommendations or advice. I would strongly prefer some kind of meditation retreat because I think a structured practice would be really helpful, but I'd be open to some kind of breathwork retreat or something else if it was promising. I live in Canada, but I'd be open to anything in North America. I like Rupert Spira so I was thinking of looking into one of his retreats, but I've consumed so much of his content I don't how much new information i'd learn on a retreat like that

If you are an Indian guy in China for example, woman will not want to date you because they value light skin. You can change your limiting beliefs, but that will still be a reality on some level. This is burying your head in the sand and avoiding reality. 90% of humans, probably more, have fucked up beliefs and perceptions. You have to adapt to the way the world is, not retreat into a tiny corner with your 4 friends who want to judge the world and tell everyone why they are wrong and shouldn't partiticpate etc. Winning the game is getting sex and learning to date. And if you're an asian guy you have to deal with this stuff if you want to procreate and get into a relationship. Yeah I understand this, and I'm not happy about the way things are. I just want to deal with reality and understand the way things truly are. You can have this attitude, but what happens when you're done taking out the trash and there's no one left to date? A 5ft2 asian guy with poor social skills can say that he's better off without all these woman who rejected him etc, but where does that get him? I have a preference for non indian woman too, as an Indian guy, and I see how it hurts Indian woman to deal with that, but I am just being honest about my preferences and I am not going to lie to myself or others to save face or protect feelings. Welcome to reality. Woman like tall good looking men right? Isn't that fetishization for height and handomse faces? Do we say woman who are attracted to intelligent men are fetishizing intelligence? Black woman are the least desirable. Black men have certain physical advantages that can compensate for their lower percieved ethnic status. But a short, skinny black guy will have a different experience than a 6ft3 basketball player or something. I didn't invent the universe, nor did I engineer how things are. I will simply adapt and live in reality, and thrive based on the truth. If I could snap my fingers and make everyone's SMV equal and eliminate discrimination I would. In the meantime I will live according to what's real, and not get mad at the world for the ways things are.

It's an opinion, but in this space we dealing with subjective topics, so almost anything said on this topic will be an opinion and cannot be verified as a fact. Good luck trying to dismantle the world's biases and preconceptions. If you are a 5ft3 chinese guy you are playing an entire different dating game than a 6ft4 white guy. I grant that there are any many factors that will influence their success, but fundamentally height and race are incredibly important, and people are better off dealing with reality than trying to bury their heads in the sand, or ignore the realities. You can understand and dismantle all you want. It will not change how the fact that the vast majority of people in the world are choosing partners based on biases and preconceptions, and asian men just happen to be on the losing end of this fact at the moment. This is consistent with what I see, and I trust my own intuition to discern the truth. Asian men are shorter, smaller, more passive and beta and so they suffer in dating. Asian woman are sexualized by the media and men in general, and so they are desired by men of most races. Thus you get the result. Asian woman have high sexual value, so they get chosen by men of other races. And because asian men don't have the same value, they do no have the same prospects to date out and so you have a skewewd dating world. I do not consider Indians asian for the purpose of dating. I am talking about mongoloid asians. It's the truth. You can analyze and judge from whatever angle you choose, but what I'm saying is the truth about dating and sexual value. People can ignore this at their own peril. The world is full of racist, sexism, fatphobia, and eugenices. These things are part of reality. Imagine trying to understand the truth, but you can't accept the realities of racism, sexism, fatphobia, and eugenics. It won't work. I care about what's true about dating, and what's actually going in the world. Why do tall black guys with large muscles have high smv amongst most races? Because of racism, sexism, fatphobia, and eugenics. Feel free to bury your head in the sand about these realities

Thanks, yeah I'm really looking forward to this. I think I will create a journal to record what I'm doing. I think this guy might not want to me to share some specific things he showed me, but overall I don't think it will be an issue to describe my progress. Learning from this guy has opened my mind to what it means to be a mystic and speak the truth. I had one facebook convo with him where I was vulnerable and opened up my mind. And then that night I had a deep blissful experience come over my entire body while listening to music. That's real spirituality.