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@Leo Gura How much easier is it pulling in Vegas due to the mindset of sincity, partying, etc. It seems like there's a collective belief that Vegas is the place to be your devil self, so I could see woman being much easier to pull etc

@Lyubov Where are you from? And what separates good club cities from bad ones?

Yeah I understand that. But I don't place as much as importance on it so it doesn't distress bother me that I'm not in a relationship. You do not need a partner to get your life going in a positive direction. There's also more to life than just having a partner. But I agree that it's something many people, myself included, do/should strive towards. I agree it can be a problem, but i'm asking for you why is it a problem. Loneliness is just a word, it has no meaning outside of what it means to you and how you are using it. What is about being lonely that's such an issue. And how will that get resolved with a partner? How do you feel when you think about having a loving partner? Can you picture yourself in a happy relationship? If you can get a clear vision of your life with a partner, it can inspire you take action and move your life in that direction. That's awesome. Have you thought about getting into a relationship on second life? Maybe you can develop relationships on their and use that as fuel to help improve your life.

Both are very odd. But sure, murder would be less likely

Isn't it odd that she would leave her 7 year old daughter? And why do you assume that Sadghuru is 1000x more loving than you? I don't doubt that he has wisdom to share, but I do not see the next Budhha in sadhguru. What was the reason he gave in that exclusive video?

how does it work

I don't know. According to Sadhgurus wiki, he had an awakening around 25 years old, and then spent the next few decades teaching and furthering his understanding. But how did his wife all of a sudden develop to a point where conscious suicide was a wise move for her? She left behind a 7 year old daughter as well. Sadhguru gave an explanation but he did provide any reason for her decision. He just said it like it's some normal thing that people do, and we are all just too low conscious to understand the wisdom behind it. I want to know how his wife all of a sudden became an Arhat, when it Sadhguru a spontaneous awakening and decades of insight to grow into spirituality. I don't know anything for certain, it's just something that has been on my mind and I'm curious if others have thought about it as well, given he's such a popular spiritual figure.

Why is loneliness a problem? What do you think will happen when you get a partner or close friends? What do you value about having a partner? Why do you believe it will never improve? Thanks. I'll try my best

Have you tried St John's wort? I've had great success with it for depression. What do you think is your biggest problem. If you had to describe it, long story short version

@Blackhawk Have you ever taken any supplements or anything like that? You need something to dramatically shake your experience so you can get a new perspective on life. It's hard when life has just been miserable for so long you have no idea what better looks like, or where to go. Can you book a trip or something? Have you ever done any solo travelling? Would you be interested in a meditation retreat?

@Harlen Kelly No it had 0 negative consequences. What kind of question is that Maybe just maybe, personal responsibility is very important and there should be a greater emphasis on that dimension, as opposed to blame and victim mindsets. Just maybe

I was going to post this in the rittenhouse thread but I don't want to get banned, yet. The number of fools on this forum who are trying argue that rittenhouse is guilty of anything, when theres a video showing how the entire thing unfolded is incredible. Funny thing is, lots of people like to talk about criticsm crim below with respect to sd. I read the profiles of every person who argued rittenhouse is guilty, and what a surprise none of them understand or live from conscious presence. They are dabbles in true spirituality at best. Luckily, those kinds of people can never have a real impact on the world. These fools don't get it, and until they let go of ideological blinders they never will. God is great, and consciousness is the way. But these retards deserve their fate.

@Consept Well said.

I was introduced to this guy a while back by @Wilhelm44 and I've recently gotten back into his content and it looks incredibly promising. I'm going to buy the book and try his process, I think this can be really groundbreaking for people who have closed hearts, and struggle with judgment and a lack of gratitude.

@Consept I never said it's going to be easy or simple. My point was that the entire narrative around what's going on with disenfranchised communities completely absolves the people of responsibility, and instead you have politicians and community leaders who point fingers and blame. No one in popular leftist media or thought is emphasizing personal responsibility. It's like trying to build a house without setting a foundation. The rampant nature of single mother hood and woman minimizing the importance of men are two huge problems in the black community, but no one talks about it. These are the kinds of the issues that will yield real results for people. But again, there is silence on these issues from virtually everyone. They blame white supremacy, the economic structure etc. But no one wants to hold up a mirror and say how you are responsible for where you are in life. The real problem is this space is entire covered by stupid people quite frankly. It's the blind the leading the blind, and so we have the results we have. You and I probably agree on a lot when it comes how to address the problems.

Doesn't really matter imo. You have to address it all the same. Personal responsibility is the answer. But you can do it your way and see how that works out.

@DocWatts I would say the biggest issue is a dysfunctional culture and poor values. You can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. You can spend as much money as you want, but until you address the mindsets and individual decision making in the community you will never make progress. But we can agree to disagree.

@Wilhelm44 I have been loving his videos man. Thank you so much for introducing him to me.

@DocWatts What in your view is the biggest issue(s) facing black America? If you were in charge how would you address it? Social responsibility can only go so far unless you have strong personal responsibility and accountability Go watch Kevin Samuels. There is a massive issue in black America with personal responsibility and decision making, but people like yourself continue to obfuscate and defer responsibility themselves I also agree that some form of collective responsibility and action is necessary. Like collective responsibility was necessary to abolish slavery. But it's a matter of degree and focus. Someone like Colin Kaeapernick would have you think that black america is still struggling primarily due to systematic factors like the slaves were. but in my view this is foolish nonsense that does nothing to further the black community. He just gets to grandstand, and polarize the country in the process

lol okay. That's all great. But my pain point is until someone points to out to disenfranchised communities the path to success is personal responsibility, accountability, and self empowerment they will stay at the bottom.

Totally agree. People have lost their minds. They are somehow okay with senseless violence, destruction of property, and poorly thought out political movements, but when someone takes responsibility for the safety and order of their community they try to condemn him.

Can you show me an example of a leftist program that has inclusive personal responsibility with the social responsibility? Lol. This is not taking responsibility. In my view there is a collective shadow of people who do not take responsibility for their lives. So they seek utopian ideals and solutions, and absolve themselves of personal responsibility by blaming vast systems and historic causes. Your entire narrative is about blame and absolving black communities of responsibility for their own living conditions. It's like you wearing and reinforcing a lens of victimhood and powerlessness.

I got sick of listening to Rupert Spira tell me to be aware of being aware. Started asking myself for guidance, and poof he appeared

Hasan piker. An argument cannot be racist because those who use it are using it for racist purpose. If I said science is awesome, but then all the racists started saying science is awesome, we wouldn't then say that science is awesome is a racist statement. I'd say almost all of black people's most pressing problems right now can be solved with personal responsibility first and foremost. Imagine having the mindset that the reason you are where you are in life is because of the system and white folk in power. I wonder how said person would succeed. Go watch Kevin Samuels for a few hours and then tell me that the main issue in the black community is systemic racism It's about responsibility, not blaming ( but i'll grant that many people do blame). You know what's weird. No one on the left ever talks about the role of personal responsibility in improving the lives of POC. The only people who do it are on the right, so it gets dismissed.