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@Zeroguy I'm not a fan of either of those. Make a channel talking about what it's like to experience tears of bliss/joy and how to open your heart and experience love. If you are an effective teacher people will watch. Who doesn't want love and bliss?

I definitely understand not wanting to sell out to make money and get a bunch of delusional seekers to worship you lol. But don't you think if you could be a good/effective teacher then it would be worth it? Imagine... You could be such a good teacher that it would be like "Hey Rap snap your finger 4 times and breath in and out and boom you're enlightened and full of bliss"

@Zeroguy That sounds pretty cool. Are there any popular serbian non-duality teachers? Yeah Connor Murphy is pathetic imo. The guy is a liar and has serious character issues. I think if you are an effective and practical teacher/speaker then it is one of the highest callings. If you are actually improving the quality of people's lives that is priceless. So many non-dual speakers I don't think are caring about how effective their teachings are.

@Parththakkar12 The rejection is partially based on the person's character, looks, attitude etc. All different factors that a person can take responsibility for, all of which come together and impact whether a woman chooses you or not.

No problem man my journal is open. I disagree. Twitch is such a large platform that it makes your job much easier as a content creator to find an audience because they come partially built. For example, you can choose a very popular game to stream and that increases your reach. But i agree that no matter what it's going to be difficult. I think there a few ways to make in on twitch... being very good at a popular game(like challenger in league of legends) or being a very attractive woman are huge assets and can be leveraged very powerfully if done right. Yeah this is so true, It reflects my own experience. I have a noticeably more positive view on female users who I found attractive, either in their photos or just in their writing style in some cases. I say use your looks to some extent, I find overtly sexual streamers very off putting and it's kinda pathetic imo, but then use that advantage to help spark your brand/content awareness by releasing quality stuff as well. Talent+Looks+Strategy will find a way to work, especially in this online celeb culture.

If you find a partner who's open-minded but also similarly damaged then you can both use your relationship to grow and heal together. I think it's a trap to assume you will be fully healed before entering into a relationship. As long as both people have their eyes open in this respect I think relationships can be one of the best healing practices out there

Have you thought about streaming on twitch or something like that as a way to gain traction for your blog/writing? I think the biggest issue you will face is attracting the eyes that you think would be interested in your content. You could be the greatest writer in the world but if you have no way of effectively bringing your content to people on a large scale then it will be very difficult to gain a following. Also if there was a way to utilize your looks, in a non-overtly sexual way, then I would think of ways to incorporate that as well. I think our generation is also bias towards videos/audio because it allows for more multitasking and people have low attention spans, so maybe you could do a blog and a podcast or something. The audio/video would allow you to reach a larger audience, and then your writing could appeal to a % of your audience who is already hooked.

@Leo Gura Haha I know it's pretty insane. I wonder what % of these woman will snap out and evolve. They reinforce each others beliefs, and I think they believe if they adjust their mindset its settling and they are too high value to settle.

Just bought myself diamonds for the first time QUEEN SH*T I dumped him yesterday. I deserve better than that. So, I am giving myself better than that. I’ve never splurged on jewelry before and I feel like royalty right now. He had bought me a cheap necklace with a few diamonds (and an ugly topaz in it), so I wanted to buy myself better. I spent quite a lot more on a necklace, and that’s my standard. If you want to be with me, you need to treat me better than I treat myself to be worth it for me. And this is how I treat myself. I bought a ring, to make that promise to myself. I feel free. I feel strong. I love this. This is an actual post by someone one the subreddit. I'm torn between laughing at their stupidity and feeling sorry for them thinking that this is a wise philosophy to approach dating. It's been a pretty eye opening experience reading this subreddit.

At least for Punjabi woman, they are still very loyal to their own culture. Punjabi is north western part of Indian(closest to middle east). Punjabi people in Canada/Vancouver are very successful and so they are starting to date out more, but not the woman. Sikhs/Punjabis are kinda like Jews here lol

This is true of most woman right? Woman like darker men than themselves. I've never woman say they wanted a very pale man, but men do like fair skin woman. Tall, dark, and handsome is ingrained in many woman's minds I think.

Are you doing inner child work? If so what resources are you using? I've been meaning to start doing inner child work for a while now but i'm not sure where to start. Someone recommended this channel it seems pretty good from what i've seen.

Do you have an idea of what kind of career you want to do? Writing, acting, doctor etc? I would look at people working jobs/careers that you are interested in and ask them how they got started and what their job consists of etc. I don't know how much value you will get out of a life purpose coach unless you have a strong sense of what you are planning to do, otherwise you're basically mentally ruminating with another person about potential careers. If you're dead set on a singular purpose then I think this quote is the best answer to your search. “The only useful purpose of the present birth is to turn within and realize the Self.” ― Ramana Maharshi

@Zeroguy No problem man, I appreciate the apology. Honestly I was kind mad at the disrespect but I know sometimes I am annoying so i was bound to get some reprisal. Had a call with this non-dual speaker today, it was a pretty interesting convo. She doesn't like rupert spira lol

@electroBeam Welcome back man

stage red reality meets stage green ideals

Ohm chant into the chakras seems to be the best practice i've come across. Saying it out loud is best it seems. I can feel deeply into the third eye and sensations in my head. This is great stuff.

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@Harlen Kelly What's funny is I bet some guys reading this will think that how you are acting isn't attractive to woman lol

How would you moderate this particular discussion? Ban people because they stuff that you don't like lol?

Is this general insecure feeling woman deal with the main reason they find height and size so attractive?

@OctagonOctopus What did you do to heal your being

What is considered a high body count? If a woman I was interested in had a very high body count I would be very suspicious and it would be a turn off. It wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker depending on how the person has changed, but if a woman sees no issue with a very high body count (like way over 10-15) I wouldn't take her seriously I don't think. @Vzdoh Do you judge your male partners according to their body count? Do you expect men to judge you based on your body count?

I was wondering if anyone here does not judge someone according to how they look when looking for a partner? Looks are one of the first things I notice when judging a person's attractiveness, and I've heard many men express this opinion, but I wonder if maybe there is a significant amount of people who don't judge primarily according to looks. And if so, why is this?

Awesome journal man.