Bridge to Infinity

update: Day 1 Feeling very horny, my mind is rationalising jerking off without porn. but no I will not give in I will acknowledge that im a horny fucker and remind myself that im doing this because I want to get rid of masturbation addiction and to get all the benefits from nofap Feeling very focused and energetic as well as calm. Idk if this is because I haven't masturbated for the past 25+hours

@OctagonOctopus Aerobic exercise. yep it helps

Its 10 AM right now and I haven't watched porn or masturbated for the past 20 hours, I was at the gym and was getting horny just by seeing girls working out. I will follow through on this no fap journey today. and I will think of it as one day at a time.

You deserve it. Its not like we are going to miss out on something, the videos you already covered could take someone a life time to wrap their mind around and live. So one or 2 weeks without videos isn't gonna dry us out. You making more videos is just adding gallons of water to an ocean. A note: Great work Leo. I was walking down the street the other day and saw a very old (in their 80's) couple walk past me and I thought "hmm I wonder what these individuals achieved in their life since pretty soon they were gonna pass away" and I was struck by the reality that one person could impact and develop the world. Steve Jobs. The Prophets of The Ebrahamic Religions. The Buddha. Peter Ralston. Eben Pagan. Nathaniel Branden. You.

@Leo Gura any recommendations for books?

@Leo Gura Take two people one ADD one NOT, feed them the same toxic diet (same amount of metal toxicity). The one with ADD will have more severe symptoms of ADD while the one without will start to exhibit some of the symptoms. The person without natural ADD will benefit a lot from a detox and so will the person with natural ADD. As a result of the detox, one will have their symptoms be lifted and the other still remain. im trying to say that ADD can be independent of diet. Is there an exercise you might know of that helps with ADHD?

I'm stumbled upon this technique called "Jelqing". This technique involves a man stretching his penis by gripping firmly the base of his penis and stroking it to the tip in a pulling fashion. I tried it and i could definitely tell that my penis grew, not by much but by a noticeable amount. (maybe 2 cm) and its only been 5 days. I'm going to try this for a couple of months where, everyday, during my shower i will spend 5 mins doing this technique "Jelqing"

@Bill W Interesting point. It does serve understanding and seeing in action the different stages but in my case I think I'm doing it just to do it. Kind of like how women like to talk about astrology and who has which sign.

Personally think he's yellow but idk he might be orange

@Leo Gura does this effect the validity of his work on self-esteem?

it seems like a bit of a scam just from the first glance. any thoughts?

This question isn't only for Leo. Has anyone who has read the book and done the exercises experience increased self esteem?

Time does not exist What does exist however is the movement of matter. You recognise the speed at which matter moves as time. Your whole existence is made of cycles, if you manage to slow the speed at which these cycles complete themselves then you have slowed down "time" for you. This is very practical... This is why if you took a human to a planet with stronger gravity, they age less (slower) because gravity causes cycles to slow down at the atomic level.

@whoareyou Thanks for the great advice!

@Raptorsin7 man u get me.

@Preety_India @Winter Seriously im annoyed by your unrealistic comments i don't want to go on responding to this bullshit. don't bother commenting anymore on this post.

@Winter Im obviously not there yet.

@Preety_India I obviously don't want to just fuck fuck fuck. If you read my original post i clearly state my intentions and those are wanting to achieve comfort to date and have sex and eventually after developing those skills i could find a high quality woman and stick with her. Im not a PUA sex nut. And no. Woman do pick and select men based on those parameters. Ofcourse women will eventually settle and marry lesser quality men (the term lesser is not based on wealth, although that can be the case but rather mostly personality) because the higher quality attractive men make up only 10% of the male population. And those men will take up roughly speaking 10% of the female population. so 90% are left menless as well as 90% of men are left woman less. People will settle for less. But believe you me if i woman could leave her low quality man for a higher quality man she would do it in a heart beat. Same for men. I don't like to be rude. But you're posts are rather unnecessary and irrelevant to my problem. My views on relationships wouldn't turn out to be skewed if i got good at sex and was able to please a woman i like in bed. nor will i have a massive craving for sex those are just assumptions you make.

@universe Yes girls do not expect me to be a sex god. But it is that "having sex and being good at it" that gives one comfort in their sexuality, it gives one comfort to know that he can fulfil a female's sexual drives. This comfort is not only limited to the bedroom, in my opinion it spreads its elements into the relationship itself as well as in totally unrelated aspects of life. B.T.W Good analysis there in the second paragraph. Useful stuff thanks!

@Preety_India First of all, you could have said what you did in just a couple of sentences. LOL (im saying this in a joking manner) Here is an example of how it could of went: Going after sex makes you objectify women. Wanting sex for sex's sake is bad because it creates selfish relationships. Being fat shouldn't get in the way of love. Bad sex between lovers leads to frustration and again wanting sex is bad because it makes people want aspects of a person and not the whole of the person. My judgement: You from a females perspective don't understand the frustration of not being picked by women to be their mates. For me, as a man, to be able to sustain love from a woman i cannot go about it by "having my dick shrink during sex" and not being able to make her orgasm. There are plenty of guys that can make her orgasm and make her feel ecstatic. You're ofcourse going to object to this and tell me that "No!! Women don't care about such things, they will teach you how to have sex and please them!" BULLSHIT. You don't understand the brutality of Nature. Women are selectors and they themselves do not choose whether to love a man or feel attraction for him, rather its her biology that does. If i, by social norms cannot convey a sense security, decisiveness, competence, confidence and high social status to a woman her attraction switch turns OFF. Why? its just survival. If females loved low status, incompetent losers that can't make them orgasm to save their life you and i wouldn't be having this discussion. Sex for the sake of pleasing that sexual urge you got is not "bad" it's like having the need to eat or shit or sleep. It's just biology running its course. I do however acknowledge that wanting sex independent of love and intimacy is something that can really damage a relationship. But then it isn't really a relationship to begin with. Being fat does hinder a mans ability to get into relationships and create attraction within a girl, especially if he does not have "Game" (this is a word that is code for a mans ability to flirt and tease and create emotions within a female). You also seem to have this idea that romance "should" and "shouldn't" be this way... Let me tell you this. Unless you're a very successful dating guru that is revolutionising the way people date, preaching "Should's" and "Should'nt's" does not help me nor does it help you. People will be people and you cannot moral them into not wanting to fuck without attachment

@Winter My opinion: Sex is just like shitting, sleeping, eating, socialising. All the things i named above are built in needs. Sure if you go without sex or socialisation you won't die but you can be assured you'll feel secluded and wrong. It's human nature to want those things. Even if you you took a bunch of new born babies and caged them on an island they would develop sexual habits after 13-14 years of growth and frustration if they lacked sexual activity. So its not so much a "following of the masses" rather its a "following of your Biology". b.t.w attaining enlightenment can be used to outgrow you of those needs but that's a goal for the future.

@Girzo HAH! you fucking virgin! I am of course kidding. I, just like you do not buy into the notion of losing your virginity just for the sake of "not being late relative to my friends". However Sexuality is in my opinion something that should be experimented with as soon as you feel mature enough. Safely Ofcourse. Taking too much time not expressing and experiencing sexuality can lead to resentment and frustration as well as feelings of abnormality and seclusion.

very curious as to how he makes these designs, or who makes them for him

How come? what is your opinion on this topic. What age do you think people should have sexual experiences. And wouldn't that be different for every person?

@Moreira Thanks, i'll fuck some more hookers. LOL Jokes aside, that's also how i think about it... that i should try it out with hookers and get comfortable with sex then i wouldn't mess up a connection i build with a woman just because i'm not comfortable with sex.