Angelo D

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  1. Also, I read your LSD report. I noticed that part about feeling neglected. I have never done psychedelics, but have had that same experience when high off my ass on weed. I would suggest considering the idea that your fear of neglect and your neediness may be stemming from the same place as your troubles with women
  2. Hey man, I have been in a similar situation, funny, I'm an INTP also. pretty good looking myself, some sparse, unfulfilling success just like you. 22 years old, done a year of pickup, mostly in vain. Good news: there's hope. What has worked for me was actually going to a therapist at my college (something that never really crossed my mind as a good idea). I was lucky enough to randomly be assigned to a therapist who was formerly a pickup artist. what I found is that even though I wouldn't have told you before that I had any major trauma around dating, what came up surprised me, but not my therapist. I recommend you give it a try. It seems to have made me much less stuck than I was. I don't think you will be disappointed. My major breakthrough came at the realization that even though I thought I was being vulnerable in talking to girls, I really wasn't. I had blocks to vulnerability because of hurt in the past. Clearing that up is likely to be the next step for you, judging from my experience. I felt a large weight lifted off my shoulders. If you decide to give it a try, follow up and let me know how it goes. if you have any questions about my experience, my email is aderosa2@lion.lmu.edu
  3. Like most of you, I'm sure, none of my family is into personal development and therefor do not understand my lifestyle. For example, moving to Las Vegas to do pickup and continue actualizing will jeopardize my relationship with my father who is religious. Why is Personal Development unable to reach or appeal to the majority of people? What could be done?
  4. In thinking of my life purpose and after hearing of Leo's launch on Patreon and watching his video on the 35+ subfields of self-help, I have a few questions: What is wrong with the personal development industry, literally, and in the eyes of people who are not into it? How does the Personal development industry fail us? Why do so few people know about personal development? If people want a better life and they know that they do, why don't they take to serious personal development? Are certain kinds of personal development (like Leo's style) better than others or is it just that we all have different preferences for style? You don't have to answer all of them, but feel free to choose 1 or 2 to take up... Thanks!
  5. What to say/do if you are getting along with a girl at a bar/club and then she asks if you are alone or with friends? When I tell girls I’m alone (because I can’t find a wing) they usually lose interest very quickly. Also, what’s the best way to find a wing in your city, seems like every decent pickup forum has been dead since 2009
  6. I’m a relatively new PUA, looking for a wing or PUA meetup group in Boston. Anyone around?