BlessedLion

it's also challenging because it's literally at your fingertips. I could have high speed porn pulled up in 5 seconds at almost every moment of the day. It's like having a crack dealer in your pocket. And yes, like you said, the sex drive is as tied to us as the lungs are to breathing, you can't opt out of that. That's why sexual mastery is essential

good food for thought, thanks for sharing

It's all subconcious, on like a lizard brain level. The lizard brain knows nothing about sperm banks, condoms, or the pill.

These are really good points. The author of Red Queen goes into this in detail, but basically they find that women who do this want the support and security of a provider male while getting the genetics of a lover male. I'm sure there is some factor of excitement or thrill that leads to the orgasm, but what's interesting is that it is the type of orgasm that increases the chance of pregnancy. The also saw a very similar trend in birds and that 40% of the male sparrows were raising chicks that weren't actually theirs. The female sparrows were "having affairs" with the most dominant male sparrows, while using the "lower value" sparrows to be the providers and protectors of those children. Pretty fucked.

Sure, i don't disagree with you that women need to be discerning and sort men out. But I would argue that women already do this "disgust factoring" with their laundry list of red flags and ick factors, which is why they are so picky and why so few men actually get sex, a problem that is only getting worse and leaving more women and men lonely, bitter, and frustrated. I also don't think women shouldn't have a life purpose, something they are excited about, their own independence, etc. I for one do not want to be anyone's fucking charity case and pay for all their meals etc, or they have no intelligence, independence, art.

Yeah, that checks out. It's a brutal cut-throat dating system and definitely not a place I would look for love or a commited girlfriend. That's just for Rio though, girls in Sao Paulo can be way more "homey" and I had a girlfriend in Pipa who was solid as fuck and also hot as fuck. The sex with Brazilians is the best i've had in my life, they are on another level

Man, Brazil is absolutely epic. I've dated and slept with the hottest girl of my life there. If Rio wasn't so dangerous I would potentially live there, hottest baddest chicks by far. I am in Bali now and can say it absolutely full of beautiful women who are open to dating and sex. The only thing is a lot of them seem interested in serious dating, like long term comittment, which is kinda confusing to me. But nonetheless the ratio here is wild and the women are top tier.

Just some general pick up advice, always include the friend and do not isolate her like that. It is a surefire way to fail

Again i don't see how any of this is negative at all. It sounds like you are growing a spine and not putting up with disrespectful bullshit or being too much of a people pleaser

There is clearly a better one to be here.

i don't know if these are neccesarily negative things

Bc Orgrasm and pregnancy are related

Thanks man! Ralston is amazing, and you have to realize as a student of his, his main goal is to raise your consciousness and face your own bs, not be your friend. Which is why lots of people might see him as a "dick", but in reality he is a MASSIVE SAINT, just doesn't act like one. I like that about him, he doesn't coddle or pander. Still active on YouTube, thanks for asking, but been slowing down. I love writing and making videos, but find the low view counts and algorithm competition to be kinda draining. I might move more towards 1 on 1 coaching, courses, or retreat type stuff. Hope your good brother!

I'd argue this is 2 sides of the same coin. Fun fact, woman are 40-50% more likely to orgasm with their lover than their secure partner. Therefore proving the theory that they cheat like this to secure what they percieve as better genes. The book "Red Queen" goes into this in depth

I kinda feel for women in this regard, becuase we live in a society where being feminine isn't really rewarded, certainly lot financially (unless your in some niche, or a prostitute or porn star) so women are in a bit of this pickle of "do i make money, take care of my shit and lead my own life?" (risking their attractiveness) or "do i stay in my feminine energy but sacrifice my own autonomy and financial independence?" The problem is that on an evolutionary level, men will not find a woman who is leading her own life and ship a certain way to be very attractive, because there can only be one captain of a ship, the direction of their relationship and lives need to be lead by someone, the idea of steering the ship "together" is cute but will inevitably reach power struggles and head-butting. Ideally, you want a woman who finds your ship and where it is going to be very powerful and inspiring and she hops on board. But i can see why woman would find this to be bullshit.