BlessedLion

yeah i take that one back, wasn't really well formed

I have no problem with integrating your feminine side , I do it, I love my inner Goddess. At the same time, when I am dealing with a woman I understand the sexual dynamics going on and my role as the man. It's not some macho bullshit game, it's about regulating her nervous system and letting her be the woman in the dynamic. I have no interest in being buddies with women. The moment i started focusing on polarity i started getting more sex than i ever have in my life. The amount of sexual success I am having these days in absurd, Call it bad advice, but results are results and I am learning more and more the truth about women and what actually works, versus what they say or what we've been programmed with.

Recently i've been meeting so many women (btw who have husbands and boyfriends) and complain to ME, sometimes only a few hours after meeting them about how there is no polarity or attraction in their relationship because the men are too emotional and clingy. The irony of course is that they pressure men to be emotional and vulnerable (not in a malicious way it's just how they connect) but this slowly turns them into mommy and dries up their attraction to him. Next thing you know they are talking to me about it.

Women in general are pretty conformist, they seem to base value solely on what other people value. (Not all women just in general this seems to be the case, maybe because they are so socially wired)

It's true, it really does get you less sex. Women are brutal about "feminine men" and find it wildly unattractive. So to continue getting laid you can't act feminie. Personally I'll pay that price to keep getting sex, I also enjoy being masculine. I think if you find a partner who is feminine you can actually stay in your masculine and she balances you out. Then you don't have to be feminine.

never heard this take on ACIM before, are you sure about this?

You think infinite consciousness is so limited?

With all due respect when will you admit you might be wrong on this one? Literally no teacher, mystic or consciousness Titan is in agreement with solopsism in the definition that others are not conscious and the way of framing it is unfalsifiable, how do YOU know that you’re not just firewalled into your own consciousness and don’t have access to other minds? Why can't multiple consciousnesses exist at once and just be closed off from each other?

Good post. I find the difference between teachers like Ralston and Leo is what they will speak about. Leo has helped to give me a framework/map of what's possible and i actually appreciate that he "gives all the answers", but Ralston, who i've worked with directly for a while now and read all his books, really rips you down to the bare bones of your direct experience. And this has led me to what i would call genuine awakening, otherwise i was lost in concepts and beliefs about the truth and there is a difference there. Ralstons approach is quite unique, it takes longer and is less comforting, but is extremely powerful and makes it "yours". In the end though, even he needs to go, there should be no authority outside your consciousness when it comes to Truth. I agree with you about psychedelics, personally i think they are garbage for serious consciousness work, life is already the psychedelic and to me they are cheap glimpses that are sometimes even innacurate. I don't think solopsism is the case, if you mean it in the sense that others are not having a conscious expereince, i think that is delusional

Totally agree, even though it is a bit delusional, it's still a more powerful way of living and will bear more fruits than being nihilstic or a victim simply because people who "manifest" are open minded, optimistic, and creating the possibility of something profound to happen. Victims and bitter people are closed off to any "magic" appearing.

Strong writing! I agree, this is essentially the essence of Mastery. Mastery is much more potent than Manifestation

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Wow, i must say i thought i was going to get a lot of push back on this, but the level of nuance and insight in these responses is inspiring. Thank you all <3

After long and deep thought on this topic, I have come to the conclusion that "manifesting" is utter, egoic, bullshit. My argument is multi faceted: On the one hand, you have people who have literally nothing, they barely make $1/day and live in horrible conditions. They were born into this. Are you seriously going to gaslight them into thinking "You're just stuck there because you aren't vibrating high enough" (ironically most of these people are actually emotionally vibrating higher than someone in a city with money, I live in Indonesia and i have seen people living on the street with nothing with some of the lightest, happiest, grateful energy i have ever seen) Are you going to tell these people that they have some subconscious desire to be living like that otherwise it wouldn't be their reality? What a psychological mind rape... Further, when i listen to people explain manifestation it's clearly just an elaborate belief system which loops back onto itself. You can't reject it because the way it is set up is unfalsifiable. Then the people who teach it , obviously preach that it is real because they were the lucky few who things actually worked out for. Enough people try to blow up on social media through manifesting, then it happens for one, and they attribute it to manifestation skills. It's like Bruno Mars saying "just follow your dreams" , or "find your talent", it's easy to give that advice when you are 1 in a billion talent wise which is non replicable for 99.99999% of people. Many of the theories in manifestation advice do work but it's not because of some universal vibrational energy you are calling in. It all comes down to the mind and self concept, so i will give them that. In attraction for example if you already have an adubndance of lovers and success with women you literally hold and carry yourself in a way that other women subconsciously pick up on as "this guy is high value because he has success with other women". So if you "act as if it's already true" then yes you will show up in a way that is more succesful than being a nervous mess. But it's not because you are manifesting things into reality through magic it's a very real and measurable way of acting in reality. I think a lot of this magic stuff is just people's way of trying to explain the subconscious dynamics that we don't consciously register. I think there is a quote that says something like "The master might look like they are producing magic, but they know that there is nothing magic about what they are doing at all" Much more powerful than manifestation is understanding how things work and then mastering the process behind success. Fuck magic take responsibility for your experience and results. This video is proof of my arguement, can you see that she is just blindly preaching a belief system (she is one of the lucky few that things fell in place for, don't underestimate luck in life as well) :