BlessedLion

Always love your takes and explanations on things, you truly have a gift in explaining and putting language to complex things that most can't explain. I can sort of grasp what you are saying but since (as you mentioned) my sexuality is different, i am sure i am only getting a fraction or "wiff" of it. I just watched that movie "Click" and that was the scenerio there, the woman was a model dating Adam Sandler a pretty Shmoe kinda guy and she was totally in love with him. I guess i'm just curious about how that works, if it's something that can be optimized or just has to happen naturally through a numbers game. It's definitely a great feeling when a woman sees you like that, i've had it a handful of times in my life, it's like they see something in me that i don't even see. But i do wonder about the longevity of that- being this Godlike figure- as it seems to fade for most relationships, like is that just chemicals and survival?

That's tough, I think any time our autonomy is challenged like that ("you can't do this thing or i'll leave you) it's almost more confronting and challenging than dropping the actual thing itself. However, it's worth questioning if the drug use is actually worth losing her. Does she demand other things about you change or is this it? It's hard to find someone you vibe with and sometimes relationships do require compromise, especially if she is genuinely uncomfortable with it. Also consider that maybe there is wisdom in her request, why do you need psychedelics and weed? What are they giving you that you can't find within through solitude, meditation, yoga, reading, etc? It's not like she is degrading you for not making enough money or something trivial like that, psychedelics and drugs can ruin your mind and life and it sounds like she is wanting to protect you and it is coming from love. If this is a woman you are considering starting a family with and truly love her, it could be worth it for her, also you may end up thanking her for this years down the line. Drugs aren't that important mate. But ultimately this is up to, you gotta decide on this.

who falls for this shit?

This guy is interesting, because a lot of what he says actually lines up with non-duality and awakening, but it also has this tinge of "vibrational law" "law of attraction" kinda tricks that i find quite misleading. But i'm not sure i can just lump him into the same category as like Aubrey Marcus:

couldn't you say the same thing about joining an authentic yogic community? I don't mean any of these kinda cults and aubrey marcus type groups, I mean like a real community that is devoted to awakening- like a yoga school SRF community or something. I know anything will people will have it's drama and corruption but it's better than the norm

Great post, love your wording around this experience

https://en.royanews.tv/news/63345

When mystics say “there are no Others” they don’t mean that others aren’t having an experience or perspective. They mean on the highest level you are the same One Awareness in different form and perspectives. There is only One Being but that doesn’t mean there aren’t others relatively

This is why the “psychedelic path” is retarded. It disconnects people from reality and Love. Oh also ITS NOT TRUTH!

That makes sense, but I do feel most women don’t have that many great options. They have options for sure, I’m sure most decently attractive women have their DMs flooded with horny dudes but they are probably quite burnt out and disenchanted by the quality of their options

Would they care if all the “chads” were sleeping with only 4s and below? Fat chicks only? Or would they still be pist?

Love how you put this with the example of real world materials. I feel like when you lie and manipulate you crack your own internal character and this changes your self concept. To me this is a much more costly thing than a hit of pleasure or a “goody” I had the opportunity the other day to save some money because the waiter forgot to put my drink on the bill, but I pointed out their mistake and paid that money so I could hold my head high knowing I’m not a scummy fuck. I also was having a great night out the other night and wanted to surpass my 3 drink rule with myself and instead of breaking the word with myself for some more fun or potential sex I went home. Just some simple examples but they stack up. Nothing like a clear conscious. It’s also not about perfection , but being a solid trustable character with integrity

Ralston is the King on this topic. So confronting.

Agreed. If you’re pursuing Truth of reality but then living in a deceitful way what’s the point? You haven’t learned shit

I get that it’s annoying. I don’t love it either, weed is my least favorite drug- but still calling the cops is kinda wack.

Probably similar to how most men aren’t REALLY turned on by average women unless she really knows what she’s doing in bed- they both kinda settle in that sense but if they are wise they will focus on reasons to love each other beyond just looks. Most people don’t actually understand Love- mating is just serving survival needs- which is why people like Sadia, Orion and Chris Williamson are famous - they teach survival relating not Love

@pablo_aka_god Thanks, man honestly it took so many rejections, awkward moments, flakiness but all of that was worth the lovers or girlfriends that came of it. I’m glad I pushed through but these days I don’t put much energy into it because it does take time, energy, etc. But if you want a girlfriend it’s a great way to go about it- much better than online dating apps. No girlfriend right now, I travel a lot so it’s tough to maintain something solid/consistent which is fine for me now. Have you done many approaches?

Damn you really nailed this, that’s spot on

Congrats, that’s no small feat. I also think because of your family situation you had extra drive and motivation to make money. Have other aspects of your life suffered from this pursuit of money? Like meditation, dating, rest, adventure, creativity? I would imagine working 12-14h a day you don’t have much time for other areas of life. Have you developed in areas outside of making money? Now that you have financial independence will you continue to pursue money or balance it out? Im curious because similar to you I was making stacks in my early 20s and it was fun but after a certain point it was kinda boring and more money didn’t really equal more satisfaction or happiness. I was able to retire (humbly) at 28 and now my days are spent reading, meditating, pursuing God, making love, traveling. I feel like money is really important if you don’t have it, but then once you get enough it’s a tool to actually just do what you want

Same. She pushes way too far on the “alpha male/beta male” dynamic and I think plays off men’s insecurities to get views and follows. I picked up on her toxicity and manipulation quite early and cut her out. Similar to Orion- the guy she did multiple podcasts with and Chris Williamson. They push really wack ideas that feed fear and insecurity around relationships and masculinity

Thats a great explanation and so true. It’s like the guys doing this are only accounting for the most attractive women thus being the ultimate hypocrites and doing exactly what they are complaining about. It’s like women below high levels of attraction are invisible in their model. This whole obsession with alpha males sleeping with all the women is kinda gay honestly- and cringe.

I’ve had so many lovers and girlfriends as a result of cold approach I can’t even fit the stories and examples into a book, it’s def worth it.

I feel like Andrew Tate kinda guys would push the idea of “holding eye contact to assert dominance no matter what” gag

Yeah I agree. I think staring someone down or being neurotic about holding eye contact is actually a sign of neurosis and insecurity. I break eye contact all the time who gives a shit