arlin

@Bulgarianspirit :)

Beware that the power of letting go must be aknowledged and appreciated. By the way, who says that if you don't chase enlightenment you lost in life? Who says that it's the best goal to persue? Of course im not talking about letting go of goals, life purpose, and aspirations. Pain, when it comes to this, if managed and not severely extreme that takes you to suicide, can be great so later on you can live a good life. You start you life shitty as hell but in the end you conquer it like most people don't.

@Bulgarianspirit Im so happy for you!!! Wish you good luck!

Why do people often so lightly make the mistake of comparing lives toghether? Living a life is a so unique and complicated experience. This really frustrates me. There are NO ANSWERS that work for everybody.

First of all... i am so sorry. I also can understand the feelings of being victimized (even though in the self help field its not right to say so but its true) from life. The unfairness, the resentment.... the pain. And i have lots of compassion for you my friend. I also grew up without a father and an abusive toxic mother. Everybody would suffer under those conditions. So this was the first thing that had to be said. Second of all: Please, don't mess your life up with those spiritual things anymore. If you have suffered like this, please seek help... work on basic self improvement. Doesn't mean that you lost in life if you don't persue enlightenment or DOES NOT MEAN YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY. Or content, and fulfilled with you life, on purpose, etc.. leo said that too. I would say ultimately don't take advice from people who had not gone through what you had.

Well it's ok. you know, the important thing is to validate it in your experience. I don't think it's healthy to persue enlightenment at an early age before sorting things out btw

This is really interesting. Can you talk more about past lives please? Do we choose the body into which to incarnate before coming here? IS it that the soul is doing a journay and when 1 level is complete let's go to the other? Does it work like this? and where can i find more info about this because im fascinated and leo does not talk a lot about it thanks.

@Javfly33 where did he say that? is it in a video?

Well cmon leo, don't be pessimistic. I might incarnate in an alien in an alian sociaty who lives in more unconditional love. By the way, if by your belief im god, i also can choose to incarnate in whatever i want. Right? If you incarnate in an animal. you would not be self conscious of your suffering. right?

it's better to give this guy a honest answer. Otherwise he will waste years of his life. Have the courage to do that.

@bazera leo is good looking. My ex girlfriend always said i was ugly and even told me she didn't want to have sex cause of that. (My photo is taken from the best angle and covers many flaws such as big nose etc). Physicall attraction is huge. That's why you hear girls always commenting on a guys looks on the streets or at schoo. Deep down you know that looks matter, that's why when you read this your response will be fear. I tryied to approach and had girls loughing at my appearence. Accept what you can't change. I would suggest working on your groundedness and masculinity. But, if you are ugly... i don't know. The face matters much more than hight. I have to say that i approached enough and if i speak girls listen, i will try to get better of course, but i occasionally i heard comments on my looks. It's not that i repell girls, but im trying to give honest response. Just don't be delusional and accept things you can't change. Find other ways to be happy and not get obsessed with sex or validation to be happy.

i find him to be very convinced of what he says and don't agree with the "no emotion" fact. If you had seen his vids you know how much he cries. Sometimes a lot sometimes less, he gets emotional when talking about his experiences in his path. Is he right or wrong is another topic to discuss.

Yes, this is exactly what i meant! Thank you leo for your beautifull work.

hi guys, im too busy working on myself so im not very active in this forum, however. I have come to discover insights about myself and my suffering which are going to help me expand on the next level of my life. I love the direction leo is going with his work!!! So, basically, what i have discovered is how to be more gentle, more loving with myself (Coincidently, leo started doing content about this too, lately.). So im working to give myself the love that other's have denied me. I always was very lonely, and i felt wothless all my life. I lived in apathy and depression, didn't know what my value was in this world and suicidal. So, since my life was always about "Either i live a full life, passionate, deep and fulfilling, or i don't want it.", so i never wanted to settle for less, i begin this self improvement journey and you know, as leo says it was hard... i procastinated and i did all this shit. It was hard more than i thought. I discovered about traumas... and i discovered that i always was very lonely, and my need for connection was buried deep down... i had (still have) deep emotional block around that. Here is where i don't agree with leo: I know now, that i need help. I know have worked enough to solve some blockages regarding being weak and i accept the hurt part of me more. Leo says that since you are love, you don't need external sources to fill you. I disagree. I figured out that, the most loving thing i can do for myself is open up to somebody else. Somebody who is willing to stay and not afraid of my pain. To let them see it, to be vulnerable. To form connections with others who treat me gently. I had shame around this, 1 year ago when i started, i did not even know how much lonely i was. I did not know i feared those part of me, and i avoided them, when i saw somebody who is a "nice guy" i was disgusted because they are not "strong". I am really curious about the next videos of leo where he talks about practical exercises, but i guess they will not involve making connection with others and seeking help. Instead as i said, sometimes the most loving thing to do for yourself is this. Is paradoxical, but this is it. Especially if you had a traumatic upbringing.

@JayG84 This was an amazing answer of yours, thank you for everything. I feel something inside. I wish you a beautifull journey on this planet. The " im depressed, lonely etc..." it's not a story. It always has been my experience. This is exactly where i need to be and im going in the right direction. I respect your answer, But, this is my direction. You didn't understand. Im not doing this out of weakness. I don't see my pain as something that is there because i am defective and weak and somebody else has to save me or rescue me. Im doing it out of strength. You and leo are not fully correct about the subject. I don't know if it's worth it that i explain it to you, but, the most important thing is that you are happy. And. I don't know you, but thank you! Thank you for the nice words, i really appreciate it. I wish you the best. -Arlin

Thank you leo.

You can't describe it. even saying it's an appearance in no thing is misleading because it presumes there are 2. appearance and nothing

@Osaid Ahm,ok

Isn't there experience all there is here?

I don't think you understand, but as long as you are convinced of it. That's ok.

@Meta-Man everything is god, right? So even the most dumbest unconscious person is god. Right?

@Arzack I don't know if he was talking with you or with me or else

I just don't understand where the part with the love and fun comes in. Isn't that just an ego story?

this is very interesting. Keep going!

There is no way out to life