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@Shiva99 Just re-commit to Nofap, get clear about what you want from Nofap, meaning be intentional about the journey. Do research on porn, endocrine system, sexuality. Try to learn about what you masturbate to, how you masturbate, and how you can combine that with the feelings of love, because the more you can bring love into your fapping sessions, the less you feel like a piece of shit for fapping. Also work on a vision for your life, as it works for me. Personally, I've done long streaks of Nofap, and when I've relapsed I noticed that my body is not satisfied with relapsing once, and sex binged 4 hours more than my normal sleeping time, relapsing about 4 times, a few times to a porn vid and comic, the next 2 I imagined in my mind, brought more love into the sex. The following day, despite feeling groggy, I visualized my life, and specifically about fitness and martial arts, and later that day I worked out for about 3 hours, doing isometrics, body weight exercises, and martial arts training. I'm still amazed that I could pull this off, because the day before I've sessions. So for me I've found that a vision and dream is what can pull you out of feeling like garbage. Also, basic self-help techs and overall health is also good to research and explore too. Also, grit yourself, A.K.A never give up! Good luck on your journey!
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Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Blackhawk Which ever came first, the system the collective designs, or the psyche that exists in each person, doesn't matter. I'm pointing out that Trump's psyche, because parts of it have similar elements that make up the pardoned individuals, is also why he wants and has acted on pardoning them. If Donald Trump's stage of development, cognitive, moral, and other aspects of development are different, you'd have an entirely different Donald Trump, with different desires and habitual acts much more different than the Donald Trump in America today. Literally, this means that a different Donald Trump would have a different roles and possibilities. You can actually have a Donald Trump whose career is a movie actor, in Hollywood, whose hobbies include martial arts and drawing, whose sexuality is bi-sexual, whose, family is a split between conservatives and liberal socialism, whose experience with women are mostly rejections, whose more of a nice guy, whose home environment is clean and tidy, -
Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Also, by some users' logic here, the man above that decides to leave his country and live in a different country, is a coward. Why? Because other users on a different thread called such people cowards below: and I'll tell you that cowardice is relative, because we don't know and have a universal standard for cowardice. Is the contractor, hired to work for 1-2 years in a different country, living in that time period of 1-2 years, a coward in his home country? Is the immigrant that's seeking asylum, or is migrating for a better working life, leaving his/her home country, a coward? Is the person on vacation for a week-a month, on a foreign country, a coward? Is the person whose doing a retreat/solo retreat for a week, a few weeks or a month, a coward? Is the person whose a permanent staff, who refuses to take a vacation, or to live on a different country, a coward? I don't know what will happen to the UK, post-Brexit for 5-10 years give or take, but I will say that I don't have enough information to assume that the UK will bankrupt itself and go down a spiral, or that the UK will be much better off being more independent as a sovereign nation onto itdself, with a different trade deal between it and the EU. I will certainly say that I'm aware of how and when my ego projects it's fear and insecurities around this socio-political shift, desiring that the UK needs to remain in the EU just for security sake, and desiring that the UK should be more independent, and establish new trade deals with other countries that is between the UK and those other countries, and not have the EU act as a middle-man between the new trade deals. -
@Sempiternity But how do I research psychedelics when most of this stuff is illegal online??
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Danioover9000 replied to lmfao's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@lmfao This also has happened to me recently, when I'm applying mindfulness to my sex craving, then all of a sudden I'm shooting my load multiple times after a few weeks of abstaining from porn. I've maintain formal and informal mindfulness practices, the informal ones especially for triggers while I was abstaining. I might try out the brute forcing method or sedona methods, and distract and be busy doing whatever work, like art or exercising, despite the urges. -
Danioover9000 replied to James123's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Happy new year, but really just happiness is enough. -
Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
All of this because Trump's psyche that has stage red elements can relate to these other stage red criminals. -
Warning: Might be very offensive and negative, so don't read if you will get super upset thank you. I'm doing a shadow work procedure by Ken Wilber. This type of shadow work I'm intending for a part of me that deals with lust, so this work is for my lust part, and I hope in this year I integrate just this one part of my psyche. Anything else, like easier time exercising, meditating, relationships, depression, sadness, fear, greed, anger whatever, that's on the side. I'm aiming to get my pervert self from the shadows into the light, bit by bit. I'm using the Ken Wilber shadow work method. The meditation is my addition to prepare me for going deeper. After 20 mins of meditation: I bring to mind my pervy self, and I'm calling this self 'peter'. These are the qualities that he has: horniness, obsession, pleasure, greed. Me: What do you want from me? Peter: I want to feel the horniness, to feel that way like how I felt like in the past. Me: Why do you want to feel horniness? Peter: Because I want to feel pleasure from women. Me: What did you like in the past? Peter: I remember that sex scene you peeked at from a movie, and that was erotic. When you've masturbated multiple times to porn vids, comics and sex scenes in your memory, I was feeling more pleasure than ever. Me: What do you like in particular to get the most pleasure? Peter: From what I've felt so far in your past and recent masturbations, I like the erotica you've read in particular, and second to that is your sex imaginations. Me: What did you like from the erotica I read a long time ago? Peter: I like how that guy got his revenge on that woman who beat him up in the past. It was such a hot scene it felt like I sprinted for 5 minutes! Me: I'm leaving for now, so thanks for coming up and talking to me. Peter: Over already? Okay, I'll see you later! I'll later do a visualization session where I imagine taking on Peter's qualities and feeling how much resistance I have to peter's qualities. I'll edit how the experience gone for me. And future reference to a healthier ways of expression of Peter: masturbating at night, taking days to a week off, only after doing some work.
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Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Blackhawk Which one do you mean: Nationalists, civic nationalists, religious nationalists or ethnic nationalists? -
This is the current philosophy of red pill.
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Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Blackhawk Would you rather have authoritarianism instead of a democracy? -
Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Consept It's just not enough evidence from one video to show that the British public are stupid in voting to leave. The video caller happened to be for leave, yet how he answers the podcast person's questions is his use of his mind and his perspective only, not the perspective of all who voted to leave. I think we need a bigger sample size to actually determine if these people are stupid, not to only use one video as a voice representing all leavers. Of course, those that voted to remain are stupid too in their own ways, so I'm not picking a side. It's all a huge mess. -
Danioover9000 replied to Mr Being's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Raze He's definitely a healthier stage green person, seems to have integrated stage blue and orange. I think most stage green people that hate him are against his own way of using a bit of blue and orange and mixing it up with green. -
Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Consept I'm not sure how the video you provided connects with what your point is. Could you please explain? -
Danioover9000 replied to Mr Being's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Mr Being Post-modernism value people, expression and feelings highly, which is where green lives, but in doing so there is a selectiveness around which groups are viewed as "in-groups" that are respected, and others that are viewed as "out-groups" that are ignored or demonized. We see this manifest in many different ways, cancel culture is one of these where the views of the "out-group" is simply shut down, invalidated and ignored. Social media shutting down individuals and groups that are causing ripples that won't and can't be explore is another. Respecting all gender identities but demonizing white CIS men is another. Fighting for feministic values among Western men while ignoring the growing misogyny through immigration is yet another. The common denominator is that the values in themselves are sound, yet the predetermined split into groups that are deemed valid and those deemed invalid. Argumentation around these obvious flaws is fairy straight forward and staying in such argument will grossly reveile those flaws. That's why we don't usually see constructive discussion around highly relevant topics that need deep exploration. Argumentation is met with aggression, discussion wants safe spaces there ideas are not being challenged, polarization grows, opposition is cancelled out and so on. This will only hold up for so long before it all breaks down, and the trouble with this is that a lot of things will need to break before they can be rebuilt. Unfortunate collateral damage. See it as the youth of a green revolution. The 60's hippie revolution was too narrow and too isolated to make much of a dent, and it ebbed out eventually. Today there are a lot of green and green-aspiring politicians that fuels this revolution, and also the news-media and social-media along with internet phenomenon greatly changes the game. What we are seeing with people like Elliott Hulse, is a reaction against feminism taken too far. In the green we see there isn't just love, there is a lot of love, but there is a lot of deep hate as well. -
@ColeMC01 I just described all of what Red Pill is about. If you're not done with it, you can continue it. If you're hitting limitations to it, you can leave that ideology behind and move on to something else. And this forum belongs to Leo, up to him what's acceptable or not acceptable to discuss.
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@kras The self serving biases in red pill that many can't see, those following the red pill, are that when they are done applying methods of the red pill, they don't know how to deepen the relationship with their new gfs, yet they think the red pill is all there is to life. The biases of those outside the red pill, including those victimized by the red pill, are that red pill is toxic garbage for demonizing women too much, and they project whatever lack of masculinity they failed to develop onto the red pill. Red pill is garbage, yet don't deny developing your masculinity and run away. The philosophy, if red pill actually has one, would be the study of young horny men dating young horny women, that all men can develop themselves to effectively attract women, and all women are too sexy for their own good.
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Danioover9000 replied to Mr Being's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@SgtPepper I've seen the entire video, and to be honest it's mostly a bit of a mess when it comes to talking about issues young men face. The first part of the video he's talking about incel types, the next part he brings up examples in Christianity that I don't think have good connection to young men's issues. The third part gets wonky, and it's mostly him conflating Marxism, Leninism, conspiracy theories and extreme feminism as causes for inceldom and effeminacy in young men. Fourth part goes deeper into crazy conspiracy theories involving the devil himself, Kabballah, and deep state reptilians, trying so hard to get the craziness into good examples for why effeminacy exists in men. However, while I don't vibe with his presentation of these issues and conflations, I do understand that these issues are real. Really good video you've shared by the way, definitely a stage green psyche I'm feeling from his way of presenting the boy's crisis. -
Danioover9000 replied to Danioover9000's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Update: I was contemplating abstraction for about a week and I've got some good answers. I still didn't hit the being level of what an abstraction is and felt my progress was slower than usual. I told Crysty in one of our imagination sessions about what I'm contemplating and she disappeared for a while. What felt like an hour she came back with this ball of complicated looking stuff. I asked her what it is and she says ask it to look prettier please. I then asked it to "look prettier please" and it became more apparent that it's a crystalized apple. I was about to question her wether she's pulling my leg here when I suddenly had a minor insight - my mind couldn't make sense of it at first so it simplified it from what it came to be and became an object that made sense, an apple. What are your thoughts on this? -
Danioover9000 replied to Danioover9000's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Talinn Yes, change is not only complex, but long term adjusting within the systems is needed. -
Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@ADVAIT It's bad only from the EU'S perspective. With enough time and adjustment, both sides will settle down. -
Danioover9000 replied to ADVAIT's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Hulia @RedLine Whether we want to or not, it is the will of God that decides the direction of where the future of the world is headed to, aka infinite intelligence. This time, division in this part of the world is probably better, for example the UK government can now enforce stricter bounderies on fishing channels, in Brittish waters that the EU trawlers traverse to, take fish closer to the UK and damage our coral reef ecosystems. Why? Because the EU has over fished in their territory, and nearly wiped out their majority of corals. -
An example of re-contextualization of a fiction character. KOL beforehand was following and reacting to One Punch Man, and one character he takes a liking to is called Dark Shine. Now, you can watch from the beginning, or skip to 18;30 for the re-contextualization. This is a good example of the reverse of shadow work: He was so bothered by the realization of Dark Shine's origin that he re-named him and tries his best not to give that level of likeness he had to Dark Shine.
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Danioover9000 replied to Mr Being's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Tim R It might still be possible for him to exit out the hole, but at what degree of difficulty? At this point, he seems to be stuck in a Chinese funnel trap, where the deeper you enter, the more the inward facing spikes will pierce you. If he does choose to exit, it won't be pleasant. -
Danioover9000 replied to Mr Being's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@mmKay Despite his current state, he's still one of the few in the fitness industry that was able to go deep with fitness, and broad with different perspectives within fitness and outside it including alternative practices involving the body and mind. It's a shame he regressed despite reading a lot of books.