Danioover9000

@zurew Not everyone benefits from some types of criticism, and no one is above criticism...except me The type of criticism you have as an ideal, the good faith, constructive criticism, while it's relatively a higher quality of critic, is a good type of critic. The main issue, is, what does this good faith constructive criticism cost the one doing the critic? Not only does this person has to have the necessary qualities, like critical thinking, and intrapersonal intelligence to be aware of self bias and preferences that distorts their reality projected onto the reality of that teacher, but also the critic, to give a constructive statement, has to have spent time and energy, physical, mental and emotional energy, to be able to design an advice that's tailored to the teacher's point of view and vision. That, plus other qualities needed to be good faith, and constructive, require more time and energy spent in training mid to long term to actually be willing to even steelman the teacher. This already creates differences in the commons, of what percentage of people can give this type of criticism, versus those who give another type. So, because of the high cost of time and energy needed for good faith constructive criticism, creates a demand for lower costing forms of criticism, which then makes those types of criticism, the bad faith and the less constructive and more emotional criticism more cimmon and favourable than the higher one. This is largely why criticism is untenable, because of the inverse proportionality of cost to benefits of giving higher quality criticism, versus lower quality criticism. On top of that, there's plenty of generalizations, distortions and deletions that a mind does to reconcile differences of view points, so that the differences of stage of development, cognitive and moral development, personality typing, stares of being and life experiences in different domains of life, are reconciled by the tier 1's cognitive ability to distort those differences to suit their views. That and the highly contextual nature of reality makes criticism aleady a difficult task to be good faith at, and constructive at.

This has to be said again, as it's a really good rule of thumb:

@zurew While it's a 'fair' criticism, keep in mind that all criticism is ultimately untenable. Even the most constructive good faith critic.

Entire delusion. All of this is just stage green person/group being misunderstood by stage orange value systems individual, cherry picking in support of their own distorted view. The sad thing about all of this, is this is part of the transformational dilemma of trying to go through to stage green, which fuels many of the culture wars today. It always depends on what stage, cognitive and moral development, personality traits, states of consciousness and life experiences so far, at the end of it all.

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@zurew Whoops, was thinking of something uwu when typing that

It is extremely disingenuous and distorts what a cult actually is. Go watch some documentaries on Charles Manson first, and a few other cult leaders that fit the mold of a classic cult leader and cult first, and then compare that to Teal Swan, Leo Guru and others. Charles Manson is the poster child of a true cult leader. Worth studying. Of course, nothing compares to the exploitations , web of lies and manipulations of YOU, the ego mind, could do to cult itself to believe whatever it wants to, but that's a very deep topic.

@Consept Hell yes! He's good with his freestyle rap. And I'm still struggling to rap like that off the top of my head.

@Fernanda Confession of your romantic feelings to a potential mate depends on their value system, cognitive and moral development, personality types and ego structure, and life experiences wo far, and what determines compatibility is the degree to how similar you are to him. For me a confession is useful if the person in question is too autistic to get the hint that you like him, love him or else. Obviously don't in public, that's where you see videos of wedding proposals in public go wrong.

@flyingguitarist That's why you need to schedule a time ti view this video. Of course not in one go, but an hour or 30 minutes at a time, taking notes and contemplating. If this has to be said, you are doing it wrong.

Really good video, recommended to watch the whole thing. What are your thoughts?

@Philipp I mostly agree with you on when adolescents and even younger are exposed to advanced spirituality, non-duality, mysticism, supernatural/paranormal, and psychedelics, that if too early can be dangerous as that can take the basicsbof life and make it more mundane in comparison. However, I disagree that we shouldn't be teaching spiral dynamics and integral theory in the education system. However you plan to teach those modals in the curriculum, it's essential that it's taught, no matter if those modals would be misused, misunderstood and misapplied by students as a way to stereotype or caricature other groups of people or persons, because the alternative would be ignorance and perpetuating tier 1 cognition, value systems, moral frameworks, psychology that in turn has negative effects kn one's state of mind and being, and further limits one's life experiences.

I bet there's bound to be a Leo Gura love channel at some pojnt.

This one's another interesting video: https://youtu.be/TR7n1sHB2xo If this was me and not Erudite, I would just get straight to the pojnt and own the main frame of this debate: 1. This is not about Reckfull, or Dr. K, but your projection of your daddy issues firstly. 2. Your are taking advantage of Dr. K's fuck up, to disguise another deeper issue with you: your insecurities that his internet legacy will out value yours. 3. You are jealous that his relationship with his spouse is healthier than your current one. 4. You are not Reckfull despite Destiny's remark about your similarities. (Nice opportunity to subtly attack Destiny as well). 5. You claim to be too naive, and have claimed that a psychological evaluation determined this as part of your psyche. Since you are highly naive, what right do you have of complaining against Dr. K? That's about it, and probably other ways to undermine and make Mr. Girl look stupid. Any thoughts or other points of attacks?

Mr. Girl has started an analysis video, probably will make a number of these, about Dr. K and Reckfull. He's not going to quit. Here's the video: What are you thoughts, after watching the whole video?

Jesus Christ, it has to be either Vegan diet this, or Carnivore diet that, or keto diet this, or frutarian diet that, or Atkins diet this, or rae vegan that, or seafood diet this, or insect diet that, or intermittent fasting this, or grassing that. What happened to a balanced diet plan? Be flexible, listen to your body needs, and get the necessary nutrients for your survival, get good sleep and rest and exercise when necessary. Is it that hard? Maybe, maybe too complicated, which is why you have to be flexible with your health and nutrition. C'mon!

I swear, Leo's too redundant with his examples. From coffee tables, to imagination, to Trump. What's next? Trumpets? Turnips? Eminem?

@eTorro Doesn't sound compatible to me. It seems like you're personality traits are more leaning to being an introvert while she's more extroverted than you in the relationship, so you'll have to do a bit of a mental gymnastics with yourself to tell her convincing stories about you or parts of your life you want to share. However, by doing that you're gonna have to be comfortable being an extrovert for that time frame. How are you when speaking? If I was you here, I'd consider this a short term relationship as the compatibility is a bit hard between introverted/extroverted personalities.

@Yarco I see. Seems like I should've been more mindful of my state to help with feeling this 'vide'. Still gotta keep on practicing my socials then.

Can I be disrespectful but in a humorous way? Some guy was I don't know jocking about christmas to me, and it didn't vibe with me cuz he clearly was dissing christianity and a bit at pagans too, I laughed it off and cut the small talk. Should I have tried to vibe back and be sarcastic too?

@BenG But it's still such a mystery to me, what really is a woman? Or a man for that matter?

Makes you rethink what an artist really is: https://youtu.be/hzQGRtP2bAQ

What is a woman?

@SQAAD I've found it useful to, when I start to feel like what you're feeling, take it out on a heavy bag, weights, exercises and martial arts. WAY better than to beat up the person on the spot, even if it's not satisfying to avenge yourself, you get to channel that extra energy into tasks that require more labour, physically and mentally.

@Neorez Very nice share, thank you!