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Everything posted by Danioover9000
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@Tyler Robinson Honestly, I have mixed feelings about slut shaming, it'll have to depend very much on the context, because I don't think there's a fixed fairness to shaming, some situations it'll look quite unfair, others, sometimes the woman brought the slut shaming onto herself. Yes, I have also seen my girlfriends and their friend's slut shame slightly more than men, it's just the shaming is more subtle. The boundary is a bit tricky. To me, my boundary, is when the person that's slut shaming me, doing it in public, too demeaning of a way when I already gave the person a warning shot, and this parts a bit tricky, when I feel more angry or more frustrated than normal to me. That's when I become confrontational or axe the person out of my life. I think the two types of slut shame, the same sex and opposite sex slut shaming mainly, is going to look different depending on the stage of development, cognitive and moral development, psychology, personality, and psychography of the masses, general state of being for each in and out group, life experiences and other lines of development, from individual to collectives in societies. For example, among women, same sex slut shaming is a way of enforcing social norms of traditional female gender roles, to guard against too much sexual liberation. Why? In a stage blue society were religion and nationalism are the predominant values, they value marriage and raising families, in mostly monogamous relationship of husband and wife, in order for that group in power to leverage the sex drive of the male, and to condition men to either start playing more complex societal games for mates, or risk losing in the selection of potential mates to partner up with. In turn, women are then coerced by their family, in groups, and traditional, patriarchic and/or religious groups to look a certain acceptable way, to guard against the some who are way more expressive with their sexuality. At either end, it functions to weed out jackass behavior from men and women, as a necessity back then, until post Victorian era, industrial era, and people started getting more fed up with living so stoic and super resistant to their feelings and thoughts. For example, to show briefly areas where slut shaming is appropriate or not, I'm half naked, and at the store a stone's throw away from the beach. Appropriate? Very not likely, as most men and women in that public setting, say this is Miami beach, are majority half naked. Okay, if I travelled out 30 minutes walking inward to another store, is it appropriate? 50/50, depending also on what store I got in, and what type of people happen to be in the store. By car, I travel even more, hours away from the beach, walk in a store, most people are fully clothed, mostly likely awkward looks, maybe elicit cat calls and slurs of me being slutty. At this point, if I was not as self-aware and not as sensitive to my own feelings, I would be feeling much more insecure and definitely have to do something, or else if continue showing myself off thigs can go from bad to worse. I think by following your feeling, of when or when not to dress correctly, behave correctly, you could avoid most situations of people slut shaming you, cuz most people are cowards and won't make a big scene of your inappropriate rack placement. Ultimately, nobody should feel self-awkward or shameful of their bodies, best place has always been bathrooms and bedrooms, in the privacy of your own home, where only walls bask in your nakedness.
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Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Harsh Bagdia Everything is explained in this video: -
Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Danioover9000 Obviously, the guy getting triggered is the human, and the game and the other guy trolling him is GOD, for those wondering. -
Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Scholar I'll take your word for it then. But it's like you are so desperate to disprove and save Leo, you're kinda like this guy: Just ley Leo go, he is so focused on that mouse, either he's ultimately right and you just need more growing up, or he's too deluded, so much you can't convince him anymore. Jesus Christ I just realized the thumbnail BRO!!???????????????? -
Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Scholar CHILL SCHOLAR! Save your breath! Thy Collar is scarring your throat out, turning your face blue, pumping down the Jazz blues. -
Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Danioover9000 I have a bias, and I don't care, bring back black mystical cat, or Imma be like Midas, turn you to gold. -
I guarantee you; soul mates exist in this world! Only thing to contemplate further, is how to grow yourself to the kind of person that can connect and reflect and carry his/her flame together.
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This is a good example of what happens, when growing up, you receive not enough love:
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A bit on the soft, melodic side of music:
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Danioover9000 replied to Majed's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Of course, his masculine and feminine polarity are a bit out of whack, he is clearly emphasizing too much on the masculine. -
Danioover9000 replied to Majed's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Majed He seems to me that he has values mostly at stage orange, the next chunk at stage red/blue. His cognitive and moral development, to me, is that he is able to speak and reason well enough to be persuasive and convincing, and due to his speed of speech I assume his cognition is more streamlined and, in a series, rather than episodic or either in words or images or a bit of both. His morality, is similar to that of red pillars people who parrot around masculinity too much, is that he's way more egocentric, his circle of concern mainly is towards him, and to some extent his family, but that's it. I think his psychology and personality types are more towards extroverted and orderly, close minded and disagreeable. I think he has led an interesting life so far, how many Andrew Tates are out there, that have had a father that plays chess as a champion? Or has won some belts in kickboxing and maybe boxing? How many even own Maserati? His other lines of development, which are: 1. Finance 9 out of 10. 2. Career, 5 out of 10. 3. family and social circles, 7 out of 10. 4. sex life, 9 out of 10. 5. Health and fitness, 8 out of 10. 6. Leisure, a 2 out of 10. 7. Spirituality, a 0 out of 10. -
Is it that hard to comprehend that a person can attain pleasure from intellectual pursuits, and having a back and forth at a higher level? I mean, it's a similar feeling, to when you experience an orgasm solving a complex puzzle, the pleasant headache, or even the moment of intense happiness.
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FOR REAL???!!!?Here we are, most of us users, respecting and trying to not break guidelines, maybe bend them, but you are outright just posted a pornographic photo, and have the nerve to justify that as a challenge of whether or not we see absolute beauty. Absolutely dopey behavior, dude, double standards much? What happened to not post graphic sexual and or violent content?
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@Leo Gura That's fine if you wish or wish not to justify your blog posts, I'm just pointing out the potential contradiction about this blog post, if a beautiful naked woman, when in the forum all users cannot post nakedness or nudity. I'm looking forward to when you post your video on justifications, I hope you include this bit as it is illuminating.
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@Gesundheit2 I am willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, of clarifying this contradiction, and I will assume it's some kind of mindfulness test or something.
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@OBEler I am shocked, that the discipline and integrity in this website is cracking around the edges. And no, II am not Jelly. 'Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.' quote by @Leo Gura.
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@Sincerity Why is it not a double standard?
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Maybe, the point of the nudity picture, was to see that in a state of full mindfulness, and detachment to almost all concepts, mental images, mental sounds, feelings and such that the mind projects onto the picture? If so, then it's just pixels. But please spoiler alert me beforehand before destroying my self-esteem thank-you-very-much.
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@Sincerity Don't you agree it's hypocritical?
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Danioover9000 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Joyboy Yeah, that can get a bit confusing. Like if you upper case, is that at the absolute level, or when you lower case, is that at the relative level? -
@Sincerity The main problem is that few days prior, Leo locked a thread that contained a link to a porn website, and the user already gave spoilers beforehand and wanted to talk about pornography, because there were threads that discussed pornography, and he wanted to talk about higher quality porn. However, OUT OF LEFT FIELD, Leo posted a nude pic of a chick, no warning. C'mon man!
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@Gabith I'll start loving it when it's convenient and delivered with consistency and structure. I got no warning or heads up when I was looking through Leo's blog, but that nude pic got my head up when it was inconvenient. Not cool.
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@UpperMaster Agreed.
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@Jannes That makes sense.
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Good documentary on the whole Biggie and Two Pac and Wu Tang situation: