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@Thestarguitarist14 well in that case I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with that woman. I don’t want to maintain a fake front just to please her. I’m willing to bend my self a little bit but being able to be vulnerable is too important.

@intotheblack Honest? Tell her what?

@Thestarguitarist14 Amazing! I’ll give it a go.

I am aware that if i don’t fix the source of neediness (not hide it) it will eventually creep out, and it just makes things toxic. I am interested in real change.

Father disappeared on my family (but i was too little to remember) and my mother is very toxic and neurotic (she was middle child, never taken into account and probably taking that out on me). I honestly don’t feel any baggage from this but your not supposed to be conscious of this things. So it may be that. Any ideas?

@RendHeaven totally agree. I know that to fix the neediness I need to keep self actualizing. But regarding my girlfriend, should I try save the relationship and if so, how?

according to my experience and research chasing after her is very unattractive and that would make the situation worse. Plus if that’s the only way i’m not really interested, so it has to work any other way besides neediness and chasing.

@Javfly33 Got to needy with my girlfriend so she pulled back. Then i tried to make her jealous and the situation got even worse. So i’m asking for advice. better? haha

@Javfly33 xd

@aurum I don’t wanna go chasing after her. SonI would need a bit of help solving and figuring stuff out without being needy.

ok I see now, but what do you mean by detach with love exactly?

I know, two totally different things but i think equally as possible here, and what I do depends on which one. And because I like her and I feel like I really messed up, but it should be easy to fix. I would usually just leave and stop waisting my time, but this is so simple that to leave abandon the relationship it’s a bit to rash.

@Thestarguitarist14 She’s my girlfriend. I’m not sure that’s the best move. Could you elaborate more?

@Thestarguitarist14 and on the mean time? Just ignore her unless she writes first?

where on the bible can I find this?

Can you help me make a list of non-dual teachings and examples en christianity, the Bible, and from other religious materials from any culture. thanks! i’m trying to understand how non-duality got lost in religion

I’m looking for diet recommendations or some preferably natural treatments or washing routine or something that’s worked for you. Please don’t mention any drugs commonly used for acne as I don’t plan on using them

@lmfao by Helen Schucman?

Do we experience the world the same way? Can other life forms self actualizar, grow, enlighten?

I thought about it and it seems that I’m attached to the people I want to change and i feel like the difference in beliefs could generate too much conflict and pull us apart (which a to this date hasn’t ). And of course because I believe that what I believe is the right thing, but I feel the bees sure comes more from the fear to loose them rather than to want people to suscribe to my beliefs. I don’t think i’m conscious enough to realize that they are perfect as they are (or anything for that matter) and to love and accept. It is simply not possible to me right now, although I wish it was as evident to me as it is to someone in higher consciousness .

If someone is so deceived, thinks actually knows the Truth, and are closed to many of the growing tools (like psychedelics), how can someone break out, or how someone can help a religious break out?

@Byun Sean I’m being specially cardio to not push too hard. I’m ready tu pull back at the slightest sign of resistance or backlash. How can I let them see the limitations of their current perspective? I’ve being trying some questioning/open mind exercises to start too loosen them up a little. I’m also trying not to accidentally sprinkle my own paradigms into the “teachings” when trying to communicate all this abstract new stuff.

How can someone get this desire? If one doesn’t get it your doomed? Make some think of what a privileged situation we are. And how out of control.

Yeah, I’m aware that there’s a really big chance for things going south. But i think it’s worth. First of all, form my perspective i’m helping someone detach and be open minded (more), and I think I needed to get rid of some residual paradigms and toxic stereotypes from religious and stage blue people. But a very important thing i’ve learned is that i’ve gotta let my self be more vulnerable.

What could go wrong?