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@dflores321 People who suffer som sort of accident that affect the nervous system have to relearn to move. Maybe moving something that’s not your body (like smoke is similar.

Why? What do you mean? I feel like anybody can achieve it

The lack of need doesn’t make it impossible does it? I just want to know how.

@Gesundheit I know not to trust the videos, of course those can be faked, however something like that should be able to be recreated. According to what i’ve learned at least.

@justfortoday exactly! However when I try something I consider “impossible “ like moving something that’s not my body I (ego) seems to lock me out of it or something like that. How do I get past that.

The relationship’s quite recent. I think I started to be a bit too open and easy, maybe even a little too needy. So I adjusted my game but maybe i went a bit too far and got her into auto-rejection (she pulls back to protect her ego). But i’m not sure if the main culprit was the neediness or being to aloof/making her jealous. I need to fix it quick. She’s in her hometown so she has the luxury of ignoring me. We take the same online classes if that’s any help. Thanks for the advice!

I’ll right so tomorrow I’ll call her, try to ease her trying to make her laugh a little and i’ll say something like what you’re suggesting. Seems mature and vulnerable without chasing her. I’ll tell you how it went.

@Thestarguitarist14 well in that case I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with that woman. I don’t want to maintain a fake front just to please her. I’m willing to bend my self a little bit but being able to be vulnerable is too important.

@intotheblack Honest? Tell her what?

@Thestarguitarist14 Amazing! I’ll give it a go.

I am aware that if i don’t fix the source of neediness (not hide it) it will eventually creep out, and it just makes things toxic. I am interested in real change.

Father disappeared on my family (but i was too little to remember) and my mother is very toxic and neurotic (she was middle child, never taken into account and probably taking that out on me). I honestly don’t feel any baggage from this but your not supposed to be conscious of this things. So it may be that. Any ideas?

@RendHeaven totally agree. I know that to fix the neediness I need to keep self actualizing. But regarding my girlfriend, should I try save the relationship and if so, how?

according to my experience and research chasing after her is very unattractive and that would make the situation worse. Plus if that’s the only way i’m not really interested, so it has to work any other way besides neediness and chasing.

@Javfly33 Got to needy with my girlfriend so she pulled back. Then i tried to make her jealous and the situation got even worse. So i’m asking for advice. better? haha

@Javfly33 xd

@aurum I don’t wanna go chasing after her. SonI would need a bit of help solving and figuring stuff out without being needy.

ok I see now, but what do you mean by detach with love exactly?

I know, two totally different things but i think equally as possible here, and what I do depends on which one. And because I like her and I feel like I really messed up, but it should be easy to fix. I would usually just leave and stop waisting my time, but this is so simple that to leave abandon the relationship it’s a bit to rash.

@Thestarguitarist14 She’s my girlfriend. I’m not sure that’s the best move. Could you elaborate more?

@Thestarguitarist14 and on the mean time? Just ignore her unless she writes first?

where on the bible can I find this?

Can you help me make a list of non-dual teachings and examples en christianity, the Bible, and from other religious materials from any culture. thanks! i’m trying to understand how non-duality got lost in religion

I’m looking for diet recommendations or some preferably natural treatments or washing routine or something that’s worked for you. Please don’t mention any drugs commonly used for acne as I don’t plan on using them

@lmfao by Helen Schucman?