If you are sleeping with her more than once a week, it's already started.
Obviously you already succeeded in attracting her. You don't need to work to attract her any more.
Less than once per week is fuckbuddy territory. More than once per week is girlfriend territory.

From Wikipedia:
If God is Infinite Mind, and you are God, there is nothing outside of You.
God is an Infinite Mind which imagines other minds within itself.

Spiritual work will make you more attractive in many ways:
You will be more present, more secure, more grounded, more confident You will be more authentic, your personality will project more clearly You will have stronger eye contact You will be happier and more positive You will be more clear on your own values, life purpose, and what you want out of life You will have more integrity You will be more loving You will be more honest and truthful You will appear higher value, you will be seen as "relationship material" You will be able to form deeper connections and intimacy You will be more conscious and observant You will be less needy and more detached, which is highly attractive Etc. It will be especially attractive to people who are themselves into spirituality, because that is so rare. You can form an instant connection based on that alone. If I ever bump into a spiritual girl, she will be really into me just because she rarely meets a guy at or above her level.

As I said in my video Part 1, the problem is deeper than just getting laid. Many guys are simply horrible as socializing. Pickup is the most direct way of addressing that.
And as I said, some people get laid easily simply from the kind of job or career they have where they are constantly talk to new girls.
If you don't have a problem socializing or getting laid, then obviously you don't need advice on this topic.

1) Most guys don't end up with hot girls at all.
2) Even if they get lucky and find a hot girl, they will likely lose her at some point and become very frustrated. You are not taking into account how these guys feel when they lose their one lucky girl.
3) Just being a social extrovert will get you girls.
4) Talk and jokes is game. Looking nice and being chill is game.
5) If you are good-looking you need way less game.
6) If you are extroverted you need way less game.

Just change the topic to something else if it comes up. No need to lie but also no need to show all your cards. Act chill and normal. She does not need to know your social/dating life.
Best date location is a cafe or bar in an outdoor shopping mall area near your house.
Your biggest problem will be not leading enough. You need to lead her throughout the whole date. Take her by the hand and walk her around. Tell her where you're going. Be decisive and clear.

Teflon is highly toxic. You must throw away all your nonstick pans. They are trash and this applies to all nonstick pans of any kind, even if they are "green". None of these coatings are healthy and they all flake off.
Buy all stainless steal cookware. It lasts a lifetime.

You guys need to find better girls. Most girls are loyal to a fault. If your girl is not falling in love with you you're doing something wrong. When you become a high value guy your problem will be that girls fall in love with you too hard.

It is hard to explain the difference. I far prefer -MALT now and I have had my most complete awakening on it.
They are similar but also different enough to have a fave.

Keep trying. You just gotta find the right girl.
Yes, women reward player behavior. They can't help it. It's what they are attracted to.

It's hard to avoid all powders. Just be cautious. Research the powders you're taking chronically.
The beauty of mastering chelation is that you don't need to eat as perfectly because you have a tool now for cleaning up your system every year.
Do maintainence chelation a few times a year for the rest of your life.

For me I need to have a completely clear schedule for at least two days.  No responsibilities to anyone or anything.  If I know I have to be able to perform at my job the next day it is just too distracting for me and that becomes part of the trip.  I also prefer having a clean environment.  No clutter or mess.  I have fixated on a dirty carpet once with a mind loop that wouldn't let go.  I have done LSD enough times now that I don't feel the need for a trip sitter.  Most of the time I'm fine, but having someone sober around to help ground you if you start going down a rabbit hole of crazy thoughts is quite helpful. 

I usually wait until I feel a calling to revisit the psychedelic space.  I use LSD 2 - 3 times a year now.  Every time I have taken psychedelics because of my ego, I get little to no insight or benefit from it.  Having a clear intent and my mind focused on specific issues or positive intentions helps direct the trip.  I do not use these substances as an escape or party drug.  It is for deep personal work and I always do them alone or with my wife.  If I'm in the frame of mind I want to be entertained vs. I want to self-realize it makes all the difference. 
That is what works for me.  Your mileage may very. 

He was an alcoholic, but he died of a heart condition.  While I may not agree with him completely on the use of psychedelics, he was one of the greatest spiritual minds of the 20th century.  Mozart was likely an alcoholic as well, but that doesn't change the fact he was one of the greatest composers of all time.  Who else should we cancel for their personal failings?  Van Gogh (psychotic)?  Thomas Jefferson (slave owner)?  Einstein (he married his cousin)? Steve Jobs (a megalomaniac who denied his own child)?
This "Woke" culture of canceling someone's genius because of their personal failings is perhaps the saddest thing about our current cultural zeitgeist.       

For me discernment includes separating the message from the messenger.   Carl Jung had insight into the human psyche like few other Europeans before him.  Yet he was prone to bursts of anger that made him difficult to be around.  I can separate his flaws from his genius.  Watts opened the minds of millions of people in the West to another perspective on spirituality.  I count him as one of my greatest teachers even though I never met him or saw him live.  I simply don't care about his alcoholism because his message was so well articulated and clear.  I'm open to learn from anyone who has wisdom to share.  I'm not going to be dissecting their lives to make sure they are perfect in every way before I listen and learn from them.

Anyone who claims to have transcended all human faults is lying.  Sometimes the most profound wisdom comes from those who are most broken and those who struggle the most with their demons.  The Shadow has much to teach us.  Our faults and where we are broken is often where the light shines through. 
 

@impulse9 I’ve done LSD about 30 times and mushrooms about a dozen times and just recently 5MeO DMT for my first time.  I totally agree with your assessment that using psychedelics won’t get you enlightened.  They are tools that can crack the ego temporarily to give insight into higher consciousness.  But they will not get you there, only point the way.  

This is a profound sign of growth.  Probably something to be celebrated.  
I don't consider Leo to be my spiritual teacher at all.  He is my 5MeO teacher and that is why I first came to Actualized.org.  It is a drug I had never taken but wanted to.  I was looking for someone who had a lot more experience and Leo sure fit that bill.   I was intrigued by him and what he had to say at first.  I have watched a few of his videos and have interacted with him here and frankly I'm not impressed.  I get that he has helped many people.  I guess I'm just in a different place.  I get the impression that most of his students are much younger.  I'm 55 years old and have been doing spiritual work since I was 15.  I have worked face to face with masters and Leo just isn't there yet.  He just simply lacks maturity, wisdom and integration.  The stuff that takes decades to really get.  There are reasons that most masters are 50 + years old.  His over confidence and narcissism are major liabilities to his future.  There are no shortcuts.  Not even 5MeO-DMT.  Beware of unearned wisdom folks. 

My advice is to NOT take 5MeO-DMT.  Your psyche is too unstable and the results could be catastrophic.  Don't look for a quick fix of your problems, but work on eating well, sleeping well and getting exercise.  Make your life as simple as possible.

@caelanb You will never find awakening.  It isn't lost.  It isn't some hidden truth.  It isn't a feeling or even a thought.  It is simply the realization of who you really are and by extension, what is really real.  As they say in Zen, "It is too clear, and so it is hard to see."  It is as close as your breath.  It is what is looking through your eyes and thinking your thoughts.  It isn't some new theory or belief system.  It is not some better version of you or some superhero.  You don't need psychedelics to discover it (although they can help in some cases if we are really hypnotized by ego).  I can only imagine how many people have chased their tail in looking for it.  Like Michelangelo said about sculpture, just remove everything that isn't you.  What you are left with is enlightenment / awakening / self-realization.  When it comes to you, you will think, "Damn!  It was right here all along... I just didn't recognize it".

I agree with Adyashanti with this one.  He isn't claiming that the use of psychedelics can't facilitate a deep spiritual experience.  Just that for many people taking these substances, they just aren't ready for the experience. 
I can only speak for myself.  The first time I took psychedelics I was 51 years old and had done a shit ton of spiritual work.  If I had the same experiences when I was in my 20's I can honestly say that I was no where near ready to deal with what they can reveal.  It probably would have messed me up.  I had to wait until I was spiritually mature enough, grounded enough and understood life enough to go there.  I would perhaps disagree with Adyashanti in the fact that psychedelics CAN facilitate deep spiritual insights that can be VERY meaningful and positive.  But only if the person is ready to receive the teachings.  Based on what I see in my own life, most people just aren't there and hence the warning.  Life is NOT about just eliminating the ego, but living your life with a healthy relationship with the ego.  Immature people will get lost losing their ego once the drug wears off.  It can create major issues.

Not stupid, underdeveloped.

Yes, makeouts are easy to get.
You can go into a busy club and get 5 quick makeouts. But what good does that do you? It's only good for showing you how easy escalation can be and how bold you can be.
Closing is several orders of magnitude harder.
Still. If you've never done a few instant makeouts, it's worth doing just as a learning experience.
See how far you can push it in the club. I have a photo of me walking out of the club with white pussy juice soaking my pant legs.
You can go far

The biggest downside of Vegas is that most of the girls are tourists so it's hard to set up dates and meet local girls. It's not like a normal city.
Vegas is all about pulling same-night. Austin will be better if you are looking for girlfriends, dating, and learning how to game in a normal city.
Vegas is best if you want to go hardcore beast-mode. To get the most out of Vegas you gotta be prepared to club hard from 11pm to 4am. Vegas is also way more expensive. Drinks here cost $20+/each. Club covers are regularly $100+/night. Parking $15+. Vegas is not cheap to be close to the club. Condos on the Strip are gonna cost you $3000+/mo. But you can also get by in Vegas as a cheapskate. There are ways to get around most of the fees as an experienced local.
Austin nightlife ends around 2am, which is nice if you want to maintain a sane work schedule. In Vegas you will be going to sleep at sunrise. This is challenging for most people to swing.
Vegas is the most hardcore training ground. Not for everyone. But if you want hardcore, nothing beats the kind of rampages you can do in Vegas. From April to October you can game here 7 days a week, from 11pm - 4am plus day clubs from 11am to 4pm. You can also game the Strip 24/7. Vegas can quickly burn you out. Austin nightlife is only good Thur-Sat. Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed sucks.
Hotness and volume of girls in Vegas is unmatched. Girls here are also crazier and more wild. It's a higher energy game. The sex can be wilder. Threesomes, strippers, blowjobs in bathrooms, etc.
Still.... Austin nightlife is amazing in its unique way. I still miss gaming in Austin. Oh the memories....
For the average guy, Austin is more than enough. But if you want worldclass level pickup and girls -- nothing beats Vegas. But you'll only get out of it what you put into it. It only makes sense to move to Vegas if you are going to invest serious time and energy into clubbing. It's harder to game in Vegas because you need more skills. The clubs are insanely distracting, the hottest girls are locked into tables, and you must become a master at dealing with logistics and closing. As a newbie you will get more success in Austin because you can set up dates. Forget about dating in Vegas.
Miami is another option to consider. Amazing.

People aren't serious about life. That's the bottom line.
I will make a new video specifically for those new to personal development. Not that is will work on someone who isn't serious. Seriousness is a prerequisite for everything else.

You can set up a date without calling it that. But given how hard you escalated and didn't close, it's likely she will not meet up with you again. Still, give it a try.
If you do heavy escalation you must close. Burn it to the ground. Or, don't escalate so heavily.
The best game does not involve heavy making out in public because this tends to make girls defensive.
But if you're new, it's also good for you got get experience with make outs and heavy escalation. You must be able to do it effortlessly, but rarely deploy in public when running your best game.

Just random thoughts coming.
If there was a way to skip 40years of work to get to embodiment of god, no monk would waste his time grueling.
It's funny how people who meditate 20min a day, masturbate and watch youtube videos all night and do some drugs occasionally assume that they have a stronger desire to realize the truth then a monk who sacrifises his whole life and does nothing but tears of pain sadhana to attain to that truth.