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Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.
Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.Yup. And apparently there’s something like a two year waitlist, so you better start applying now.
For all the poor peasants who can’t afford that, you can join his “inner circle” platinum group for around 100k a year. Includes I believe a couple vacations and a stay at Tony’s hotel in Fiji.
For those who think I’m bullshitting:
https://www.inc.com/magazine/201610/most-confident-man-tony-robbins.html
So now here’s the relevant question to this thread: Does that mean Tony Robbins is a grifty cult leader?
I’d say it depends on how we’re going to make the distinction of what a “cult” is or isn’t.
I mean clearly he’s not running a suicide cult. I went to UPW and I think I could argue it helped me make some changes I wanted to make.
But then again, there’s clearly an inner circle that pays to be close to the guru. And they all believe pretty much the same things and have a group narrative that keeps them in paradigm lock.
But then again, all groups have that. And Tony has a tremendous record of apparently being ethical. In his 40+ years of working with thousands of people, only a few allegations have been levied against him, and even those have been largely dismissed. He seems to genuinely love his family and want to do good in the world.
But then again again, isn’t he just exploiting emotionally vulnerable people who will pay to hear an uplifting message? He says he wants the money to be President, but does he really need a hotel in Fiji to be President?
I hope anyone reading this is appreciating how difficult these questions are. It’s just not a simple as EVIL CULT LEADER or HEROIC GOOD GUY. Nope. In fact, sometimes they might even be the same person.
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Girlfriend is Very Attracted to Rock Star. Concert this Month
Girlfriend is Very Attracted to Rock Star. Concert this MonthJust fuck her real good and don't worry about it.
Focus your mind on that which you can control.
When you are fucking her, make her say, "My pussy belongs to you. Nobody will ever fuck my pussy like you."
Pull out of her and don't fuck her until she says it. Then fuck her brains out after she says it.
Keep doing that. She will fall in love with you real hard.
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Should you only approach off of ioi's
Should you only approach off of ioi'sI've found with cold approach you have the best success when you approach off an indicator of interest. When girls like you like in a club they will hold eye contact or you will look at eachother look away, then make eye contact again. It's like women signal for you to approach them implicitly.
Whereas if you just go up to a random girl who didn't give you an ioi even after seeing you then it hardly ever works. So should we only approach girls who give an ioi?
I went to a club for the first time a few days ago. I just kept staring at every girl and they'd look away except for two , I went up and closed , even got a lay from one later that night. Then I tried approaching one who didn't give me an ioi and got rejected.
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Leo your getting laid series inspired me to go out for the first time, I was shocked when those girls gave me their numbers and insta. It was my first time in a club and it really opened up my worldview , I still think looks matter, but not to the extent I used to think. I saw guys pulling who if they ever went on a forum would get told "It's over for you, don't even try you're too short or ugly or ethnic" and there they were making out. So thankyou for that series I think it is really helping out a lot of guys, I was getting cold footed I didn't wanna go out alone but then I remembered you said "just be social" and the night went great.
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Share Your Morning Routine
Share Your Morning Routine@Michael569
I deviate from this from time to time. But generally speaking this is how it goes:
First thing I do is meditate for an hour. This ensures that I get my most important habit done first and gets me grounded for the day. Next thing I do is what Tony Robbins calls Priming. It's a rapid succession of deep breathing, practicing gratitude, metta meditation, encantations and goal visualization. All in all, takes about 20 minutes. Fucking amazing, everyone needs to get on that. By this point, even if I felt shitty when I woke up, I'm rocking now. I'll then make a quick all-vegatable breakfast or some green juice while listening to some music or an inspirational YouTube video. Whatever I feel is going to keep that high-vibration mood going. If I have to drive somewhere, I'll throw on Audible while driving. So that's it. Takes almost two hours by the time it's all done. But whenever I start my day this way, the rest usually goes so smoothly it's crazy. That good mood I spent two hours consciously creating in the morning can carry all the way through.
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What The Fuck Are Healthy Ways To Have Fun?
What The Fuck Are Healthy Ways To Have Fun?@Mrkvn8
Wait till you feel on track with your life purpose. Your whole definition of "fun" changes.
Aside from my work, here is the list of things I find "fun" at this point in my life:
1) Meditation, i.e doing nothing
2) Yoga, i.e doing nothing while on a mat
3) Eating Vegetables, i.e eating what tastes like nothing
4) Hot Saunas and cold showers
5) Watching documentaries
6) Attending self-actualization workshops
7) Answering people's questions on Leo's forum
8) Sex
9) Walking in nature
10) Swimming / surfing
11) Making music
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What's Your Meditation Time Highscore?
What's Your Meditation Time Highscore?I just bumped up my daily practice to 1.5 hours straight, so that's a record. I've been slowly working up to that number though so it's not difficult.
Also, it's not necessarily about the time. I did 30 minutes outside the other day in the blazing hot Florida sun and was crying on the inside for most of it. That was hell.
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How To Choose A Girlfriend
How To Choose A GirlfriendClubs, bars, shopping malls, restaurants, street corners, whatever. It's going to depend on your personality and unique situation.
For many guys, they want a place where they have some anonymity because they are going to face a lot of rejections. Plus, I don't consider meeting one woman a week at your job "a lot". So clubs and bars are great because you're going to meet a lot of people but none of them are going to remember you unless you make the effort. This is more of the "hardcore" route, which is mostly what I did. Benefits also include massive social experience and having a ton of fun. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED, especially if you're a shy person. Trial by fire.
However, that may be something you're genuinely not interested in. Don't rationalize not doing it out of fear, but if you HONESTLY feel like your time would be spent better elsewhere, go for it. You don't have to listen to me.
As far as books, @reez pretty much nailed the classics. You can go MUCH deeper than that though if you wish.
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Missed A Day
Missed A DayNo. Meditation is a habit that you'll probably be doing for years. One day won't matter much in the gram scheme.
That being said, there's something to be said for momentum. I've found that if I rationalize not meditating one day, you'll tend to miss more. And then the next thing you know, it's been weeks or even months and you haven't done any meditation. So just keep that in mind.
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Shouldn’t Blue meditation move you up SP?
Shouldn’t Blue meditation move you up SP?I don't know anything about the monks from Mount Hiei.
But Blue stage has glimpses of infinity and turns it into dogma.
So it's not that they don't have glimpses. It's how they "react" to the glimpses.
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Shouldn’t Blue meditation move you up SP?
Shouldn’t Blue meditation move you up SP?When done in a rigid Blue ecosystem like a monastery, mediation can keep you Blue.
In practice Zen monks evolve to Turquoise on the spiritual/metaphysical line but remain underdeveloped on the other lines because meditation alone will not develop all lines.
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Zen Monks -- Stage Blue???
Zen Monks -- Stage Blue???then why are many Zen monks at Stage Blue? @Leo Gura
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Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.
Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.What’s the point if it doesn’t stabilise into some kind of a (permanent - not literally, you know what I mean) shift in consciousness.
You can’t keep tripping on 5-Meo forever
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Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.
Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.Being like Tony Robbins is not a good thing. The dude is obsessively Orange. Like a carton caricature of Orange.
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Socially awkward guys
Socially awkward guysOf course guys with autism/Aspergers tend to struggle especially much in this area, however, today there are so many guys who are not autistic who are socially awkward simply due to lack of experience -- because they spend so much time online or playing video games. I used to be very socially awkward, but not because I was autistic, simply because I lacked experience.
The solution is to go gain massive experience in this area.
Owen from RSD is autistic. He is an example of how a struggling abused autistic kid can turn his life around. His videos show you the effort and principles it takes to do that.
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Why I want to awaken
Why I want to awakenNo, it doesn't.
You cannot maintain life at the highest levels. Which is why your baseline state is so much lower than the peaks that are possible. It's like living on top of Mt Everest, you can only do it for a short amount of time.
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If other people are you…
If other people are you…@AMTO You can use thought to change your life. But thought is very limited. You can't use it to change the speed of light.
Changing how you think about yourself will slowly change how people think about you. But indirectly.
For example, if you think you're not attractive, others will think the same. If you change that to feel you are very attractive, others will start to get attracted to you. This is inner game 101, and it works.
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Suicidal. I had an idea
Suicidal. I had an ideaIf you feel suicidal please get some help as the others have suggested. I actually did have a suicide attempt 13 years ago. Put myself into a coma for 5 days on life support. There were complications and I messed myself up a bit. I had pneumonia from fluid draining into my lungs while being vented, then they couldn't get me off the oxygen for 2 1/2 weeks. I'm lucky I didn't get brain damage.
My point is things go wrong during suicide attempts and you can mess yourself up. Like jumping off a bridge and becoming a quadriplegic, instead of dying.
Here I am 13 yrs later and everything is fine. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Don't do it.
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How to take things seriously?
How to take things seriously?You need both, to be serious and detached from outcome at the same time. Be passionate with the pursuits you engage in, but not attached to what may come from them.
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For Anyone Struggling To Stay Consistent With Their Daily Mediation Routine I Have A Couple Of Personal Truths That May Help.
For Anyone Struggling To Stay Consistent With Their Daily Mediation Routine I Have A Couple Of Personal Truths That May Help.I have been mediating for years but not consistently until now and I understand all too well how the monkey mind tries to talk you out of your routine. I have realized the following:
1)The less I feel like meditating the more I need to.
2)I have never finished meditating and thought "That was a waste of time.". On the contrary, I always feel exponentially better: refreshed, positive and energetic.
I am not claiming these are original, but they are what do the trick for me when my lying monkey mind tries to tell to skip my meditation.
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My greatest insight
My greatest insightHey guys how is it going ? I just came across this insight few days ago and I would like to share this with you, I think about this and it is very helpfull in all aspects of life.
Work on your goal delegently and you will achieve it sooner or later.
So why be frustrated, angry, anxious and envious during the process ?
Just enjoy life the way it comes.
Even if you don't achieve your goals, Why be frustrated, angry, anxious and envious ?
Just enjoy life, follow the mastery process and accept drudgery.
I would like to hear your most powerful insights too, please share them down below.
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Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.
Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.The fundamental problem is that Benny is still very young and immature.
A horny 30 year old guy is in no position to lead a spiritual community. It is foolish that anyone thinks he could.
Why do you think I never started one? I knew it would obviously turn into a shitshow that distracts from serious work.
It's like herding a bunch of horny cats.
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Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.
Bentinho Massaro & His Shadows - He could be in some serious shit this time.Many red flags that I explained in my Cult Psychology video.
"Awaken the world", "demonic entities", getting girls naked in front of a group, traveling around the world together, expensive hotels, asking to borrow followers money, sleeping around with multiple girls, partying together, an elite group of spiritual seekers, trying to control girls behaviors, hijacking a girls Instagram account -- haha, what a load of shit. None of this will lead to awakening.
People are not interested in awakening, they are interested in playing spiritual games within a spiritual community. It's like a country club/nightclub for New Agers. Of course girls get drawn into that and end up fucked because girls are such social creatures. It's a combination of status game, social circle game, and spiritual games. This is a hot spiritual girl's wet dream. She gets lured.
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Thoughts On "How To Get Laid" From a Young Guy
Thoughts On "How To Get Laid" From a Young GuyYes, basically be a lot more social and you will get laid. How exactly you do that is up to you and depends on your lifestyle and location.
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Thoughts On "How To Get Laid" From a Young Guy
Thoughts On "How To Get Laid" From a Young GuyI wanted to give some thoughts on Leo's "How To Get Laid" series. Overall, it was incredibly insightful to watch, as someone who struggles with this aspect of personal development the most (Dating and Relationships, hookups aren't my thing).
To give some background, I am 23 years old, and haven't had much success with dating in recent years. A year ago, I read Models by Mark Manson, after getting ghosted by someone I had strong feelings for. The first few chapters of Models made me cry, however, as I progressed through the book I started to realize that these were "Models" I could start to observe and practice, such as having a low investment strategy (having the confidence to ask someone out when you feel a connection, not being a pen pal for a century) showing interest, social cues, where to meet people you like, etc.
I started going out to meet people as regularly as I could afford to, with varying results, which I have to admit was frustrating at times given the pandemic (now that things are opening up a bit, I recommend taking advantage of that as much as you can, depending on your circumstances). I took dancing classes, yoga, went to artsy events, and shows of local bands. Dancing was tough because I didn't really connect with anyone, it felt weird being the only guy in class. There was one time in yoga I had the guts to go up and talk to this cute redhead, but I assumed she would be in the next class, so I didn't ask for her info (which bit me in the ass). It might be worth trying to meet people through a yoga class, but if you decide to do this, you have to go consistently (weekly or biweekly) which can get a little pricy if you do it every week (roughly 20 USD a class), and show up early to have a chance to have a conversation with someone. Another problem I found with yoga was I would rarely see people my age. Classes mostly had people in their 30s or above, so you have to be a bit strategic with this, go to all the classes, and figure out which ones have the age group you fit in. I've noticed early mornings on weekends tend to have people closer to my age (this is my experience, it could be different for you). If you want to meet someone this way, you have to be consistent and strategic (don't just blatantly hit on someone and make them uncomfortable, also, be sure to stare at everyone's ass for an equal amount of time to "just learn the pose" ).
Personally, I found that events and local music shows are the best way to meet someone. You're already in a place with people of similar taste, so it's really easy to connect with them. You can just ask who's playing tonight, what genre of music they like, etc. (if you ever wonder what to say next just use mirroring and repeat 1 to 3 words they just said). Local shows are also a great opportunity because in between bands it's a good time to socialize. If you're early, it's a good time to socialize when the doors open as well. Local shows are also cheap! 10, 15, 20 bucks a show tops, usually 10 or 15 though. Hippy type events can also be a great way to meet spiritual people as well (though the access to these varies depending on where you live, I had to drive from CT to NY and NJ to go to these).
This is where I would like to offer some feedback on the "How to Get Laid" series. Leo has a background in Pickup, where men "cold call" women essentially. From my perspective, there's nothing wrong with this per se, it can even be a good way to build confidence and overcome fear of rejection. I did something similar last year, if I saw someone I thought was really attractive, I would just ask her out and give my card (with my number on it). This helped me overcome fears of rejection (that I would get #metoo'd and my life would be ruined). Although I didn't get any dates this way, I was pleasantly surprised to discover they would blush instead. The problem with talking to any random, beautiful woman on the street is that it is not precise. How do you know you have anything in common? Or that you have similar values and life goals? You just find her attractive. I admire that Leo did this so many times, it must have been extremely tedious and demoralizing. However, doing this hundreds of times seems like a large time investment (counter to Manson's low investment strategy).
The biggest takeaway I got from this series, was that I need to intentionally go out and be more social, on a consistent basis. When I plan my week every Sunday, I deliberately make going out a priority, finding out what's going on that week. Leo even mentioned that throwing events and parties is a really good way to meet someone. Even though naturally you could say I'm an introverted person, which is the case for a lot of intellectually minded people (and a bit of a curse at times). We still have this yearning for social connection. In my experience, going somewhere with intention is a way better strategy for meeting someone to date. Over the course of the last year, I asked out a dozen girls, and went on 2 dates in the winter (It didn't work out for personal reasons I won't go into, but it's progress from 0 dates over 2 years previous LOL). Finding places where you find people you like will make this process easier, and more fun as well.
I just wanted to provide some thoughts on this subject because it's one that I struggle with, and am quite passionate about (I even made a documentary about it last summer). To anyone reading this (especially if you're a young guy like me) I have a great deal of compassion for your circumstance. It can be quite painful, and even embarrassing to put yourself out there at times, but it sure beats staring at a screen for hours a week, hoping that someone will finally swipe right on you.
To close, I recommend giving meetup.com a try and seeing what's near you, spend a few hours one weekend finding what's closest, and what you are most passionate about. If you have any thoughts on this subject I'd love to hear any of your suggestions, and to share your journey as well, especially if you're trying to navigate dating in your 20s.
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BREAKING NEWS: PUTIN HAS GIVEN THE GO FOR THE UKRAINE INVASION
BREAKING NEWS: PUTIN HAS GIVEN THE GO FOR THE UKRAINE INVASIONI'm sorry to disappoint you, but evil does not exist.