To be honest, plenty of so-called awake people do not know what God is. Because they are not conscious enough.
Not using the word God or Love is problematic because it shows me they still don't get it. Many Buddhist and Neo-Avaita types are guilty of this.
But Spira is not one of them.

1) Google the best bars/clubs in your city.
2) Make a commitment to visit them every Fri/Sat at least.
3) Approach people and talk.
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No girls likes you because you haven't even presented yourself to a girl. How can she like you when you sit at home all day???
This isn't rocket science.

Yes, I understand that method.
I have heard that some very advanced guys boil their game down to this: you basically go to a club and quickly compliance test every girl until you find one who is very compliant and down. You spend most of your time just screening for logistics rather than getting all fancy with your verbals. You don't waste time running long sets for 30+ mins. Instead you quickly test girls out for 5 mins to see how down they are. If she isn't down, you eject and move to the next. This may be the most efficient mechanical way of getting laid.
I think there is some truth to this, but it's not entirely true.
I think attraction is a factor. But of course attraction can be generated with solid game.
I think if you limit your game to just pure compliance testing that's too mechanical.
Then again, I am not some master at game. It can also be hard to know which PUA coach to trust. They're not exactly trust-worthy or objective people. They tend tend to be scummy and dishonest.
Yes, it is hard to test stuff like that.
In practice, most guys who are really good with game also have fairly good looks, which creates a killer combo. And then it become very difficult to know which is doing the heavy lifting in the interaction.
Looks are certainly a factor. Online game proves this conclusively. Now in-person game is very different, but still you would be a fool to assume that the #1 factor in online is completely nullified with game. Game can get you far, but you cannot game your way into a girl's pants if she is simply not attracted to you physically at all.
Sometimes you run very solid game but the girl is just not interested. This is pretty common actually. The key is just to move on to another girl who is.
It's hard to say. I would say he's got a pretty dashing look. But he's not some jacked, tall, muscular, big-jawed dude. He does not fit the classic jock or Chad stereotype. But I would say he's well above average.
He is extremely charismatic and charming, and has insane verbal game.
He's a lesser known pickup coach. I'm not going to name him.
To be fair, his theory is that girls do not have a type. He believes if his game is good enough any girl will sleep with him regardless of type. Be believes the girl will backwards-rationalize that he is her type after she sleeps with him.
I'm not sure if that's true. I'm just telling you his mindset. It's hard to measure these things objectively.
I'm open to the idea that girls don't really have a type. But I think some girls simply won't be attracted to you physically, and you should therefore move on to other girls.
In my own experience I've noticed that Asian girls are more easily attracted to me than other kinds of girls. This suggests that type does play a factor. Then again, it's hard to measure this objectively.
No, his game is a lot more charming, charismatic, and verbal. It's not so mechanical as just compliance testing.

Even those girls are still going to get attracted at an emotional not a logical level.
And obviously we are generalizing. Not even all girls like dick. The exceptions demonstrate the rule.
Even the emotional guys are still logical relative to girls. Consider that gender is more fundamental than personality type. Female cats still go into heat and want to be fucked. This dynamic is way more primal than personality type or even humanness.

When I take my stack, it is certainly no mere placedo. It's VERY noticable. Modafinil is especially very noticable.
Armodafinil is nuts for me.
And sulbutiamine seems to be the second most noticable for me.
It can be hard to notice each supplement in isolation but easier when they are stacked and synergize.

The deepest consciousness I've reached is that there is only you. No on else.

Lol
Your sweet little angel is sucking some dude's dick in the car while you are daydreaming of being her BF.

One of my wings has been doing game for 10+ years and slept with 500+ girls.
He says compliance ladder game can be so effective it can be it's own style of game. Personally he doesn't use it that much.
Do I recommend you adopt that as your sole strategy? No.
Will it get you laid a lot? Probably.
You have to be extremely pushy for that compliance ladder to work. And still, girls will give you plenty of last minute resistance because you're basically herding them along down your sex funnel without building much connection. Yes, you can get results by being extremely persistent and manipulative. I would equate it with high pressure sales tactics. Which is why John Anthony has a rape charge. His style of game is extremely pushy and sociopathic. I don't want you guys going down that road.
But still, learning to lead is an important aspect of game.

As I said many times, it's not about the sex. It's about developing oneself into a strong man and building skills and charisma.
A good escort in Vegas will cost $1000+. And she will not be as hot or nice as a girl you develop a genuine connection with.
It's not just a night of sex. These girls can be converted to a girlfriend, wife, whatever.
Think of what it does to a guy's self-esteem if the only way he knows how to get sex is through prostitutes.
How would you feel if the only guys who wanted to fuck you, you had to pay them? You would want to kill yourself.
Most nights I get into the best clubs for free. If pay cover I see it as an investment into a life-long skill set. A good self-help or biz seminar might cost $2000-$5000. Investing $10,000 into building game is a great investment for a guy.

Why does rape mess people up but not sex?

Women are not attracted by logical facts! Age is a logical fact. It doesn't matter. Just make her feel good and she will get attracted.

Female attraction basically boils down to status and power within the tribe.
All the other signals are proxies for tribal position.
If you have zero social standing, you get laid the least.

You've been given all the theory. If you really want to learn it you have to actually grow through the Spiral stages yourself. That's where the real learning of it is.

Of course your first approaches will be awful.
Dude, the embarrassment is all in your head. She forgot about you 60 seconds after you left and on one else knows. She will never think of you again.
This line/frame is too needy and clingy.
A better frame would be: "Good, you can dance for me."
Or if this was a nighttime conversation you could make it more sexual and flirty by saying something like: "I hope at least 1 of those years they taught you how to give a good lap dance ;)"
And rather then telling her she must be really good, you flip it around and say, "You must really suck then".
Just think of communicating with girls as opposite-land. Everything is the opposite of what it seems. Often times saying the opposite of your gut instinct is the best move.
If she tells you she's a dancer, take the opportunity to misinterpret that she is a stripper and tease her on it.
And when she says, "I'm not a stripper!" you could tell her something like, "I will teach you and then your dancing will pay for our mortgage ;)"
You have to learn to flirt.
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But don't worry about it. For a first approach you did fine. Learning to flirt will take 1000s of approaches.

Dude, you don't get it. The reputation is what draws the girls in! Hot girls love sex.
When they come to Vegas they don't feel judged. So they let loose.
I've gamed in Dallas, Austin, LA, Phoenix. Some of those are great. Austin is fantastic. LA is killer for day game. Phoenix has lots of hot girls. Dallas is challenging, very social circley.
Wings tell me Miami is amazing. Incredible quality of girls.
There is no place in the world better for hardcore game than Vegas. Dating is better elsewhere.

Actually they literally are special because they are like 0.1% of the population.
Don't fool yourself that a really hot girl doesn't have massive social value. She does, and everyone knows it, except maybe for you.

$150 cover for Vegas club is not unusual on Fri/Sat with a good DJ.
DJs here are worldclass.
Sometimes the cover will be $250+ for top-notch DJ like Calvin Harris. I saw Calvin Harris last week. Steve Aoki last night was $180.
Cover for Drake was $500.
Most nights I get in free as a local or with girls. Lesser DJs are usually $60-80.
Clubs in Vegas are the best in the world. So many hot girls it's like paradise, and many of them are looking for dick same-night. Easiest place in the world to pull. Girls here are wild and insanely hot by the hundreds.
Drinks here cost $25 plus tip. Tables cost $3k-$10k
Vegas also has killer street game on the Strip and during summer time we have day clubs, which are identical to the nightclubs but all the girls are in bikinis.
You can game in Vegas 24/7 during the summer: dayclub, steet, nightclub. Repeat. Vegas will burn you out fast. I have a wing who pulled 25 days in a row. It's insane how much sex happens in this town. Crazy threesomes and other wild stuff. People cannot fathom it.

There's only one way to learn. You will never know until you try.
Kissing her is not optional. And it will only get harder the longer you wait. The easiest time to kiss is half-way into the date. Then it is least awkward. As you are walking with her, just stop her cold, face up to her, look in her eyes, run your finger down her cheek, and kiss her lightly. It's way easier than it seems. Practice visualizing it a few dozen times in your mind.
And don't you fucking dare bring flowers. Make the date as casual as possible. No formalities.

I've never seen a problem getting into a club solo. You just pay cover.
Not sure how clubs are in your area. All the clubs I've been to charge guys cover and they don't care about group size.
I would try to frame it as them joining you. If you get on the guest list using a promoter you can say, "Hey, ladies. I'm on the VIP guest list. Would you like to join me?"
Or just chat them up real good so they like your company. Then say, "Hey, let's walk in together as we're chatting." Try to approach girls not in line but further away. You can even find girls who were not planning to go to the club and invite them to join you. This is ideal.
I've done this frequently in Vegas.

First off, congrats on the moving plans. Where you live is actually super important for building the life you want to live. 
I’ve lived in a few flats in the center of the city, lived with parents, rented a house, lived alone and with roomies. Here are some tips.
I would recommend getting on Facebook or social media and finding a room in a flat with roommates you can tell you have a lot in common with. Don’t rent a room in a house with a grandma or people you clearly don’t have the same type of lifestyle as. If you want to meet women try to find other male roommates who seem like they like to party or hang out. It’s a great way to meet new people in your new city and make friends. Don’t make the mistake of renting a room with people who aren’t into the same stuff as you or just totally different altogether.
 
Also this way you can get a better place to stay as well. It’s gonna be expensive renting a one bedroom in the center of the city. It will be cheaper if you have roommates. Once you feel you are established in the city you can look for your own flat. 
 
also finally
1) good price 
2) good location 
3) good quality 
you can only pick 2 

I did one RSD bootcamp. While I did get a lot of practical experience that weekend, looking back I don't think it was worth it.
The best thing I ever did for my game was get a group of committed friends who were also into game. And then just approach relentlessly, day after day, for months on end.
I'm not saying there aren't benefits to getting a coach. Undoubtedly it has helped a lot of guys. It just wasn't my path. My path was me and a bunch of my friends all sucking and figuring it out together over time.
Also, when you have friends who are good at game, then you have a real solid foundation to start building a big social circle. That's when game really goes into easy mode.

@mmKay It's not even enough to smile, you need a flirty, sly, sexually-suggestive smirk and brightly glowing eyes when you approach a girl, and even while you're chatting her up. Really get up in her face with your powerful sexy smile.
Radiate passion and charisma with your face. This alone will get you laid if you nail it down solid. It's worth practicing for months on end. Really dial in your smirk and your eyes. You need to look at her very powerfully but cheekily.
Cut that dead-pan face. Never talk to a girl that way again. You need to be hypnotizing her with your smirk and eyes. She should feel shy looking in your eyes because it's too sexually intense. But not rapist eyes, your face has to be playful. Your face must exude sex and playfulness at the same time. Work on that. If you miss the playfulness you will come off as a rapist or serial killer and she will be scared and creeped out.
Radiate an easy-going, happy passion.

Sounds like you have some disorder. Perhaps ADD or heavy metal toxicity.
For me learning has always been easy. Especially when I was young. It got a bit harder as I aged and got heavy metal buildup. When I detoxed it, it got easier again.

1) Change your attitude about small-talk so you aren't hating it.
2) Observe people who are good at small-talk and notice what they talk about and how.
Much small-talk is just talking about yourself, and talking about minor details of your life.

MDMA is a very different animal than tryptamines. That's why I haven't done MDMA. It's not healthy long-term. I might do it a few times but that's it.