Redpill is toxic as fuck.

We don't have a good system for training men how to be men.
Since there is no good system, toxic systems are developed like redpill, blackpill, pickup, RSD, etc.

The longer you wait the harder it will get to learn.

Not much beyond running solid game in-person.
You are not going to build investment or attraction via text or online. Text is only for setting up date logistics.
You need solid in-person game. No way around this. And even then you will only close 1 in 10 phone numbers at best.
The solution is a high volume of new leads. You cannot squeeze blood from a stone.

If you want the craziest sex imaginable, have sex on 5-MeO-MALT or 5-MeO-MIPT.

I was the serious type who didn't put with human bullshit and games.
I told you, her friends cockblocked her.
Doesn't matter how hot you are or how good your game is when friends are committed to cockblocking.
A girl is not going to go fuck a guy against all her friends. This makes her the town slut.
If cockblocks didn't exist the human population would be 20 billion right now.

Sure
No! The Truth is that you actually are everything, including the body-mind-psyche. Technically speaking the problem isn't one of identification, it's a problem of partial identification. The problem is you identify with that body/mind but not Leo's body/mind and not a kangaroo's body/mind. The problem is you're cherrypicking.
Your true identity INFINITY, which means you are every body/mind/object that is held in consciousness.
Think of a TV. The TV is every image it depicts. The problem occurs when the TV starts to identify with only certain characters on the screen, while not others.
It is actually not correct to say that the TV is none of the characters because it literally is all the characters.
No! You will see that every partial identity is you! Like how the TV can see that every character is the TV.
Actually it's more like the opposite. The ego-mind becomes a child of God.
There is zero distance between God and its children. God IS its children.
There cannot be any distance between God and its creation. GOD IS CREATION!
CREATION = GOD
This is precisely the problem and trap of Buddhism. It's like elevating the dark half of the yin-yang over the meta-Unity of the entire yin-yang.
The goal is not a negative one but a positive one: total identification.
Your identity is INFINITY.
Unity is a meta feature that includes both white and black. It's not just white, and it's certainly not just black. But notice that this meta-Unity is an identity, not a disidentity.
Reality is an Absolute Positive. It is not a neutral mid-point between positive and negative. This is a common trap.
God is Absolute Goodness. Negativity never existed!
God is Absolute Unity. God is ONENESS.
ONE!
ONE cannot have disidentity as that creates two. So by trying to disidentify you actually create division and evil!
There is no we. There is only you.
Because if you weren't playing this trick, how could anything exist? Things only exists when God imagines them.
The problem is that you take the existence of things for granted. You assume things can just exist. Well, consider the possibility that nothing can exist unless you imagine it. But if you are conscious that you imagined it, then you cannot relate to it as "real". It's just imaginary. So literally the only way God can create "reality" is by imagining that it is not imagining reality.
Ta-daaaa!
Everything here boils down the problem of How could reality be created at all? By all rights nothing should exist. To make something appear requires a feat of trickery of the highest genius. Reality is literally a magic trick you're playing on yourself. Without this trick there would be nothing. But if there exists nothing, nothing prevents the trick from being played on nobody

I don't handle stimulation well. But I trained to expand my comfort zone.
Few people are as introverted as me.
Most girls I talk to don't believe I am an introvert. That's the training and building state.
Extroversion is actually a mode you can learn to turn on within yourself.
You are more flexible than you give yourself credit for. Going out a lot also desensitizes you, making you harder. Like tempered steel. Not going out makes you soft.

Sounds nice, but this is orthogonal to consciousness.
Just because you can train yourself to endure pain does not mean you are sufficiently consciousness to comprehend the nature of reality.
Don't confuse cool spiritual tricks for consciousness. There is no substitute for pure consciousness. There is also no test you can pass to prove you are conscious. I don't care how long you can sit still or if you can stick a hot poker up your ass without blinking. That doesn't mean you are conscious of God. Be careful assuming such tests prove anything.
He could not tell you what God is if you asked him.
You can work like a rented mule for 40 years and still never realize God because your neurochemistry sucks.
If you want to do the fucking work, take some DMT.
My method is very simple and scientific.
I have not seen any more direct or scientific method than mine.
The only problem is people don't want to do it. For good reason.
It's obvious he's doesn't understand what reality is.
What happened was I became omniscient and saw through all the spiritual bullshit that is taught. And I care not at all what you think of that.
With that said, I don't have a problem with the methods Shinzen teaches. They are useful and I use them. But they are not God-realization, that's all I'm saying.
You can use his methods in addition to mine. The noting method is very powerful. But DMT is 1000x more powerful.

Of course there is.
There is such higher consciousness that your current consciousness is not even capable of imagining it.
Yes it is. Just as orgasm is an attainment. There are those who have had orgasm and those who have not. And it's obvious when a teacher has never had an orgasm. They don't even know what God is. Because they have never awoken. They are playing in some Buddhist dream while still asleep.
Shinzen is not God-realized.
There is nothing higher than realizing you are God. Everything else is lower. All Buddhist states and attainments are lower. All of Buddhism is imaginary, including the Buddha and all states like cessation. You imagined all that shit to keep yourself from realizing you are God.
God-realization is not knowledge.

It's a cool state, but realizing you are God is way cooler.
To realize you are God means you are perfectly conscious of how you create all of reality in real-time, and there exists no one but yourself.
You become completely omniscient and your Will becomes reality manifest. Physical reality is your Will. Do you realize that? No. You are not conscious of this yet.
Are you conscious that every other being is your imagination? I doubt it.
You must become so conscious that nothing exists outside your consciousness. Absolute Consciousness. Total transparency into the structure and nature of reality. You must become so conscious that you gain telepathic connection with every conscious being you imagined, recognizing their minds as held within your One Mind.

Maybe it's possible for some genetic freaks. But not normal people, and not even serious Buddhist teachers like Shinzen and others I have talked to.
For example, Daniel Ingram does not know what God is. Why not? Are you gonna out-meditate Daniel Ingram or Shinzen? Hahaha
God-realization requires a very specific hyper-interconmected state of consciousness which I have not seen meditation producing much. Meditation is not really designed for that. It is designed to still the mind, which is not enough to realize God. God-realization requires an infinite comprehension of reality, not merely a stillness. This level of comprehension is basically impossible for a human mind to acheive without some special chemistry.
Funny enough, the problem is chemical. The bottom line is your neurotransmitters suck. Insufficient neuronal interconnections.

Do a month of 5-MeO and you'll see how deep Infinity goes
You'll never know it's depth from any sober state. Which is why all the sober teachings are so weak. Sober humans are not really awake, they are playing spiritual games.

You are too blind to see that you are the miracle.
None of that says anything about consciousness.
I have been more conscious than Shinzen.
I don't even consider what he teaches awakening. Buddhism is bullshit. It is not God-realization.

Well, the first step is to figure out how she knows the guy. Because guys will be sneaky and try to act as though they are already with the girl. You have to immediately catch if he is some rando by checking with the girl. And then you have to act immediately to blow him out. Physically get in between him and the girl, pull her in close so he is locked out from squaring up to her. Then try as best as possible to ignore him, plow the girl with verbals, and lead her away as best as possible.
It's all easier said than done because these guys will catch you off guard. It's tricky enough to be running a set, coming up with funny shit to say, calculating logistics, dealing with her cockblock friends -- and then on top of that some sneaky guy randomly comes in and tries to steal her away.
The most important thing is to act immediately. Do not give him even 5 seconds to talk to her. Rapid physical escalation is very helpful here because it lets you get so close to her that you can lock anyone else out. Usually the AMOG will only happen when you're not physically close enough with the girl. But sometimes that's not possible. Holding her hand is also important. Don't let her walk around without holding your hand, as guys can swoop in like vultures on a solo-seeming girl.
If you approach a lot, guys can get emboldened by seeing you approaching so confidently and effortlessly. But they are often too weak to approach a girl cold, so they will approach your girl. It's a sort of parasite behavior.

No, unless you're running serious long-term social circle game.
Instagram is too indirect otherwise. You need to be getting her number and setting up the date logistic right there in person as she is giving you the number. Do not get a number without date logistics cleared up.

Maps Of Meaning -- his life's work, a house of cards.
God help him.

Majority of my approaches are: "Hey, I just wanted to meet you real quick. I'm Leo."
That's the foundation for everything. The rest is spice throw into the pot to make things interesting.
If I'm saying obnoxious things it's to build up my own state and break myself out of hyper logical mode. That's my version of alcohol, since I only game sober. Well, I have gamed on DMT to be honest. It's way better than alcohol.

I got socially socially calibrated by saying goofy shit.
You don't need goofy lines. Just approach a hot girl and say, "Hey. You caught my eye. I wanted to meet you. My name is bloomer."
You need to build on foundation of just being totally fucking normal and straight.
If I am saying goofy shit, it's because I want to have fun. Not because it's necessary. I like to push myself to see how funny I can be. Sometimes my sets turn into full on comedy. It's funnier than watching an hour of standup, but I create it for myself. Why pay a comedian when you can create your own and hit on girls at the same time?

A lot longer than you imagine.
Being truly good at game takes serious work.
It's less a function of time and more a function of how many quality approaches you're doing.
But you don't have to be good to get some cool results. You don't have to be anywhere near good to land a hot girl. Luck eventually just skews in your favor if you approach enough. One day a girl will slip on a banana peel and fall on your dick if you approach enough.

Well, you see... You are Everything.
If you're hoping to find something other than you in existence, you're shit out of luck. All you will ever find are deeper aspects of Self.

You need to hit some loud clubs and go beast-mode with physical game for a few months. Every day just practice all kinds of physical escalation until you're totally comfortable with it and it becomes automatic. And also practice sexualizing every conversation.
Physical game is some of the easiest to learn. But it requires practice in the right environment. Once you reach hook-point you can escalate like crazy in many cases. It's eye-opening to see an experienced guy do it. It will blow your sense of what's possible. RSD HotSeat is especially good for showing you what's possible with physical game.

Yes. Looks are mostly in your face/hair.
Plenty of my shorter guy friends do well on Tinder cause they got the right face/hair for it.

Go out and approach.

It is for purposes of attracting girls.
I am not telling you empathy is bad or shouldn't be developed. You just set it aside when hitting on a girl.
You need to be able to turn it off and on contextually. If I am talking to a stripper I am going to turn off empathy because she is a psycho on cocaine with daddy issues.