Yali

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  1. Should women avoid getting involved with low consciousness men?
    Should women avoid getting involved with low consciousness men?
    It would be wise to avoid getting involved with low consciousness people, period.

  2. Escaping wage slavery vs getting into dating and relationships
    Escaping wage slavery vs getting into dating and relationships
    To me career and LP is more important. Dating is like the dessert for getting your life together. But don't wait too long. You can still socialize a bit on the weekends just so that you're not stuck at zero on that front for years.

  3. Game whithout premarital sex.
    Game whithout premarital sex.
    It's a silly idea.
    Just go have sex. A strong bond is developed over time and sex is a crucial part of that development process.
    You need to look at the brainwashing you received which is sourcing your resistance to sex. Because it is brainwashing. You didn't come up with that idea by yourself. Someone lodged it into your mind and now you're running that mind virus. It's going to kill your results with girls and your ability to find a quality partner. No girl worth dating these days is gonna wait until marriage to have sex with you. She will just move on to a guy who knows how to fuck her properly.
    Quality sex requires experience and training. It's gonna be very lame for you to dating girls who have way more sexual experience than you. And dating a girl with zero sexual experience is nothing good either.
    The bottom line is that you want lots of experience, you have none right now, and your strategy is to keep your experience at zero. This is not a smart strategy.
    If you don't fuck a girl within a few weeks of dating her, she's just gonna lose interest and leave you. You will actually deeply disappoint her because she will think, "What's wrong with me? Why doesn't we want me?" Eventually she's figure out that you're not man enough to fuck her and she will lose all attraction for you. A girl gives you a relatively short window of time to close her. If you hesitate to pull the trigger, the window will close and you will lose the girl. She wants a man who's clear about what he wants, and clear that he wants her, and willing to act boldly to take her.
    It's actually healthy for you to stop putting sex up on a pedestal. Sex can be special but it doesn't have to be and shouldn't always be. If you treat it as something so special you will actually become way too needy and it will become dysfunctional.
    Sex doesn't start off very special. It becomes special as you have it more and more with the same girl.

  4. How to let go of ex gf
    How to let go of ex gf
    No.
    It must be done with skill. It's not a function of some number. It's a function of developing skill.
    Stop expecting some kind of guarantees for mediocrity.
    Not so. Do not underestimate the power that slut-shaming has over girls. It's baked into her mind even if no one ever calls her a slut.
    Even in Vegas, even party girls, even slutty girls, will not sleep with you if they catch of whiff that she will be perceived as slutty.
    The power this holds over girls is insane. This is why girls will sleep with you one night, and then pretend they don't even know you the next. It's like they erase you from their minds.

  5. Define "breakthrough".
    Define "breakthrough".
    Awakenings are a subset of mystical experience. Mystical experience is a more broad term which covers all sorts of trans-materialistic experiences like visions, aliens, angels, devils, religious experiences, out of body, astral, etc.
    All awakenings are mystical experiences but not all mystical experiences are awakenings.
    Many religious people have mystical experiences but they do not awaken from the dream nor realize themselves as God. It's easy to get lost in the content of mystical experiences (like seeing an angel), whereas awakening cuts through all content (the angel is realized to be one's own Mind).
    Awakening is the trump card. It answers EVERYTHING.

  6. How to let go of ex gf
    How to let go of ex gf
    In practice many people kill themselves each year thanks to low self-esteem and lack of self-love. Or they suffer depression, anger, and other issues.
    But also don't kid yourself. You have not approached nearly that many girls. If you did, you would be getting laid. And most girls have no problem getting laid.

  7. Doing shrooms with someone that’s never done them
    Doing shrooms with someone that’s never done them
    I don't sleep with wasted girls.
    Most girls have one or two drinks before having sex. This is normal social convention. I would rather girls were totally sober if it was up to me. If I'm pulling a girl I actually discourage her from drinking more because I don't like her drunk.
    When you got game, having girls drunk is not an advantage. It often creates needless problems.
    But most people are not good at building their own state while sober. They drink to let loose and get playful. This is how most people have sex. They use alcohol because they haven't taken the time to master inner game.

  8. Drugs are bad, mmmkay
    Drugs are bad, mmmkay
    Hallucinogenics mimic one aspect of liberation, the “reward” from the perspective of desire and craving…  The fleeting sensory experiences that aren’t even valued that highly , let alone stressed as an end in itself.    When legitimate schools use the term enlightenment, it is/was more like a bench mark than an experience to strive for. 
    when *they didn’t  need food or sleep because they had insulated  the body and mind from those core needs, or were able to build up a physical and mental strength that allowed for these needs to be disregarded for long periods of time.  “ they then have enlightenment experiences.”   IT IS THE BUILDING UP OF THIS STRENGTH WHERE YOU “DO” EVERYTHING THAT IS POTENTIALLY VALUABLE.  Learning about your mind and body , and how they function against the constraints of nature in a very deliberately intense fashion.   It’s honestly not even like taking a helicopter to the top of the mountain. That’s a really poor analogy that people like to use. Doing drugs is like doing drugs. Accept it. 
     
      I don’t even think most people realize how crazy it is to consider yourself enlightened without some sort of ascetic practice. Or really any discipline whatsoever.   LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS, is a literal physical phenomenon, it’s not some trite little thing to contemplate when you are high out of your mind.   when you are high, you feel transcendent because you have manipulated your neurotransmitters to mimic a state of complete comfort /ecstasy / joy and liberation from yourself and the world. This is the exact opposite of a “ spiritual practice , and it is literally having the exact opposite effect of becoming liberated.   It almost guarantees you will never undertake a legitimate effort at any true practice. 
     
    people really need to accept the world as it is, and stop pretending that they have a way around thousand year old eastern truth.  You aren’t God. You are in a decaying body.  Unless you ACTUALLY discipline yourself to lose attachment , you aren’t doing anything.    The suffering will come raining down in buckets because not only do you have all the same fears and desires as everyone else , the drugs are shielding you from very fundamental realization , and causing a delusion that you have Already transcended everything.    
     
    people still do legitimate shit, honestly do you think they are they wrong? to fast and constantly meditate and abstain from earthly comforts for years at a time? Are they misguided while Leo has this life hack in a pill or tab that grants you easy access into that experience? It’s a joke.  They haven’t heard of the new variant of dmt at the ashram or something lol
    Why even use words like enlightenment and “ god realization.” Why aren’t you all talking about Terrence McKenna. Leo is really a *version of him more than a conventional spiritual teacher.   Stop with all the talk about enlightenment long enough to realize how laughable it is from a grounded “ traditional “ perspective. 

  9. Approached the first girl ever in my life!
    Approached the first girl ever in my life!
    I recently lost a girl that was quite into me because i did not kiss her on the first date. Do not repeat my mistake. Just try to sit somehow near her, that is key.@Something Funny

  10. Suicide leads to god?
    Suicide leads to god?
    As I said, God is everywhere so suicide or not you got God. So it's irrelevant.
    Don't drag God's good name into your twisted suicidal ideas. If you're considering suicide it's safe to assume you are not connected to God.

  11. Huperzine A is Incredible!
    Huperzine A is Incredible!
    I took 200 mcg a few minutes ago and my memory hit me like a truck! 
    Suddenly there's clarity and improved memory! 
    Just wanted to share my excitement, this really works.

  12. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    I'm speculating here, but I think what was really going on was that Jerry was cheating on his wife for years and as a way to compensate they came to this arrangement of an open marriage where each would sleep around with whoever they wanted, but maintain the appearance of a traditional marriage because, hey, gotta keep up those good ol Christian family values.
    I get the sense that their marriage became stale and died long ago, and they just never got divorced because it was too convenient to officially be together.
    I'm sure we'll hear more stories in the future about who Jerry was banging behind the scenes while all this was going on.

  13. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    The irony is that stage Blue is the type to hit a woman.
    Patriarchy explained by 007.

  14. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    That's why you must be careful with your stereotypes and categories.
    For some people, the idea of a smart black man also does not compute. Which is the very source of racism.
    An overly simplistic mind is a dangerous and ugly thing.
    The devil you see in others is the devil inside your self.

  15. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    That's one way to look at it. But are you really sure that's the proper way to look at it? Where did you get this perspective? From TYT? And you just blindly accept it as unbiased?
    Calling him a racist is pretty silly.
    Racism is a complex and nuanced issue. There is personal racism and systemic racism, which is much more subtle. Someone can have no personally racists attitude and yet still be part of upholding a systemically racist institution for many complex reasons, chiefly, his own survival.
    He's not some open racist. You're saying it as though he's a KKK member. This is absurd.
    The accusation is that he inappropriately fired a black police chief due to political influence. But even this requires serious proof. There are many reasons why he could have fired him. Maybe you should listen to Pete's version of the story before jumping to conclusions.
    One can have biases and blindspots without being explicitly racist. In fact, most of us have such biases. If I put you into a position where you had to fire a black police chief to feed your family, you'd probably do it without blinking an eye. And you would never ever consider yourself a racist for doing so.
    Of course being gay does not automatically make one a champion for African American rights or justice. Mostly likely Pete just grew up in a white bubble where African American rights were not even a topic of conversation or concern. He would have to go out of his way to care about that.
    I grew up in such a white and affluent part of the US that I didn't even know racism was a thing until well after college. When you live in a great part of the country, you don't even know what injustice is. The notion that a cop would treat a black person different than a white person was impossible to even imagine where I grew up. It would be like worrying about people eating dogs.

  16. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    @Mondsee That's like saying, "My parents molested me as a child, but now I've overcome it and I'm grateful for who its made me."
    Good for you, but most molested kids don't get over it so easily.
    This is not a matter of judgment but a matter of creating paradigm lock in a child's mind. Which is as big a problem as molesting a child.

  17. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Blue vs Green again:
    The conservative girl is unable to wrap her mind around the idea that gender is a relative mental construct. So to her the idea of something other than the traditional, black & white man/woman roles does not compute and seems absurd.
    Blue REALLY struggles with issues of relativity. They just don't stomach relativity because to them the world is absolutely as their beliefs say.
    This is also a good example of how the mind projects. The conservative girl's mind thinks that it can make others look foolish when really it is projecting its own foolishness as a denial mechanism so that she doesn't have to deeply question the groundless distinctions that make up her worldview.
    But also notice how stage Green (the TYT hosts) are also unable to understand where this conservative girl is coming from. They just think she's a fool, when really, her mind is simply not yet fathoming the relative nature of reality.

  18. Leo's New Vegas Video
    Leo's New Vegas Video
    My inner game has improved a lot after 6 years of spiritual work. But I still get approach anxiety at times. All mental thoughts do not disappear, especially when it comes time to approach a smoking hot girl with a bunch of her friends cockblocking.

  19. Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
    @Kensho Ugh... Ben Shaprio is the worst of Blue.
    It's like Blue cancer, lol.

  20. Who sucked in social skills?
    Who sucked in social skills?
    I had such bad social anxiety that I used to pay my friends to go buy me food because I was too scared to talk to a cashier.
    My story is that of the typical introverted video game nerd who rarely left his room growing up.
    You simply need more exposure. Start to look people in the eyes. Once you’re comfortable there then start to smile at people. Next, ask strangers how they’re doing. Continue progressing until you develop your social skill to your desired level.
    Today, I literally work with people for 8+ hours a day. I’m still an introvert and this can be a bit draining and even anxiety provoking at times but it’s about 1% of what it used to be. I’m quite confident approaching stranger and striking up a conversation with new people now.
    It’s just putting the reps in bro. You got this. 
    Side Note: some of my favorite books that helped with this field are...
    How to win friends & influence people (Dale Carnegie) The way of the superior man (David Dieda) Cant hurt me (David Goggins) Social (Matthew Lieberman) That said, books won’t do shit for you if you don’t go out and talk to people on a regular basis.
    Go figure.

  21. Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator
    Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator
    INFJ
    I've found learning about my personality type to be tremendously beneficial. It’s kind of scary how accurate the test is. It also connected a lot of dots as to why I am the way I am naturally vs who I try to be because of cultural conditioning... great tool to help be your more authentic self. 

  22. Leo's New Vegas Video
    Leo's New Vegas Video
    Hahaha the funny thing is it wasn’t creepy at all because I owned it. 
    I was showing this one chick my set up (because I was mad proud of it) and she deadass pulled me into the back of my own van conversion.
    She crawled into the bed and said “well aren’t you going to come in here with me?”
    If that doesn’t bust limiting beliefs then idk what will. 

  23. When Should I start dating
    When Should I start dating
    Relationships (not just intimate) are the most important thing in life. 
    They are not about money, they are not about worshipping, they are not about trading goods. (Of course that doesn't mean unhealthy relationships don't exist)
    Find friends, guys and girls, people you love, people woth whom you can share, people who make your life worth living.
    The only way you could define what YOU are is through others. Don't be stupid and waste your life sololey on meaningless things such as money, career and status. However, don't ignore them either, find the middle way.
    Think about it, really be truthful and honest ablout it. Is there a better way to live?

  24. Leo's New Vegas Video
    Leo's New Vegas Video
    When I brought her home she told me she assumed I was homeless based on how I dressed and looked.
    #HomelessGame


  25. Leo's New Vegas Video
    Leo's New Vegas Video
    Russian girls are the easiest for me to attract. But I don't like them.
    I went on a date with 75th top ranked female tennis player in the world. She was a smoking hot Russian. But I didn't like her personality. Was not a good match.