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Messed up on date (too friendly vibe)?
Messed up on date (too friendly vibe)?Nothing is necessary. Do whatever you want but I date to fuck.
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Do you drink coffee?
Do you drink coffee?1/4th
The rest of the nootropics are unnecessary with modafinil.
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Nootropics Recommendations
Nootropics RecommendationsSure
Although do you even need them?
It all varies by person.
EXPERIMENT! The only way to learn is through experimentation.
For me, even 1/4th of a pill is too stimulating.
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Why do people bully?
Why do people bully?Putting people down makes me feel better about myself. I feed off the pain and sadness I inflict like an energetic vampire, it's hard to explain. When I feel bad, it makes me feel happy again to make other people feel bad. Like I'm shifting my own misery off onto them.
When you are suffering yourself, you'll do anything to end or reduce the suffering. Even if it means making other people suffer to accomplish it. It's a coping mechanism.
Usually when I bully people, it's for things I don't like about myself. I'm projecting my hatred of myself onto them. It's less painful to attack your weaknesses in someone else, than to keep attacking yourself. My mind is constantly filled with negative self-talk, and it's a temporary relief to offload that onto someone else sometimes.
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Wasting my (early) 20s away.
Wasting my (early) 20s away.They will tend to have an ideological veneer of Green but the nuts and bolts of their lifestyle is very much Orange. The whole worshiping of celebrity is an Orange thing.
Celebrities are a terrible example because all of them have exceptional genetics. Which is what allowed them to become celebrities in the first place. And then they add plastic surgery on top of that.
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Is this too little calories?
Is this too little calories?Counting calories is silly. Just eat less than you normally would.
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How to “integrally” daygame?
How to “integrally” daygame?The function of game is to scramble the logical mind.
There will not be sex when the logical mind is active.
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Jordan Peterson
Jordan Peterson@CreamCat Wilber criticizes Green from above. Peterson criticizes Green from below.
It's very important to distinguish where the criticism is coming from and what the proposed solutions are.
It's possible to criticize Trump, for example, for not being conservative enough -- the way a Nazi might criticize him. That does not make the Nazi a good guy to listen to.
P.S. I don't find Wilber an astute political analyst. At this point in time the moderate right wing is a far greater threat than any potential radical left. What goes on in universities should not be compared to what is going on at the national level. There are no serious radical leftist voices in mainstream politics at all. You do not see socialism being seriously discussed in mainstream American politics AT ALL. No one is talking about elimination of private property.
When you start seeing serious political pundits on CNN advocating for abolition of private property, THEN you might have a point to worry about some sort of radical leftism movement. Until then, it's a tempest in a teapot.
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Jordan Peterson
Jordan Peterson@Kosmos Yes, I've seen JP's mystical experience video.
So what of it? He got a tiny glimpse but not deep enough to understand what it really was.
Stage Blue people commonly have mystical experiences which they misinterpret in a dualistic, ethnocentric manner. Plenty of Evangelicals see Jesus.
The fact that it takes JP 20 minutes to mumble his way through a conversation about God clears shows he does not know what God is.
JP's intuition is right: God is real. But God is not anything JP thinks it is. God is total nihilism. Zero.
The tragedy of JP's situation is that his entire philosophy is denying him access to God.
If you follow JP, you will almost certainly never find God.
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Jordan Peterson
Jordan PetersonHe ain't worried about his fan army of alt-right trolls and incels. The most virulent ideology of our time.
He ain't worried about how rampant capitalism kills tens of thousands of people every year. At least 100,000 deaths in the US every year from capitalism.
He ain't worried about wars started by the military industrial complex.
He ain't worried about Big Pharma selling opioids.
He ain't worried about environmental destruction and cancer.
He ain't worried about drone strikes killing thousands of innocent civilians every year.
None of that makes his list of gripes. Nope. It's the fucking post-modernist professors and college kids who are gonna destroy the world.
What he's worried about is defending the status quo. That's what conservatism is about. Fear of change. Fear of "chaos". Fear of "other".
The rest is just egoic rationalizations to deny this obvious impulse.
Ego, ego, ego! That's it. Just various clever manifestations of ego.
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Jordan Peterson
Jordan Peterson@Shroomdoctor Lol, nobody wants anyone to suffer. That's such a naive worldview! Nazi's don't want Jews to suffer. They just want them eliminated. White Southerners don't want black slaves to suffer, they just want them to pick cotton for free.
All evil is done in the name of good. Because "evil" is merely that which is threatening to the ego! But JP is so moralistic he cannot see this.
What JP is doing is the classic battle of good vs evil, order vs chaos, without acknowledging that those terms are always defined relative to the ego doing the defining.
What JP is doing is acting out his ego-mind's survival agenda. Nothing more. And he shows no awareness of it.
His entire philosophy is thoroughly dualistic and fear-based: down with the evil ones before they destroy the world.
Here's a good vid on JP's dualism.
For a professor of symbolism, Peterson does not know what a symbol is, or what the yin-yang actually means. For a guy who wrote a book called "Maps of Meaning", he is conscious neither of what a map is, nor what meaning is.
This whole discussion is utter absurdity. The only reason we are talking about JP is because he's done a great job marketing himself by exploiting the culture wars. There is no spiritual depth to his understanding of reality. It is orthodox dualistic religion 2.0 dressed in psychological academic language.
All of this bullshit is just a clever trick of the devil to distract from nondual realization. It's just that simple. This is devilry 101. The devil cloaks himself in the garb of Christian values, "order", "good", "meaning", "objectivity", and "God".
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Jordan Peterson
Jordan PetersonJP is serving a valuable function for young college-aged males.
He is giving them a sense of stage Blue discipline and direction which their culture never gave them.
Basically, at his best, what JP is proposes is having a sense of Life Purpose. Which is basically what my LP course is all about.
The only thing I would stress about that is that it's very important to realize that Life Purpose is a conceptual construction. It is not objectively true in any way. It's something one creates for oneself to live a good life and have a sense of focus. And to develop mastery in some field.
And that there is a higher level beyond life purpose, which is awakening.
One of the excesses of stage Green relativism is that it can leave people feeling lost, directionless, nihilistic, unwilling to engage in building a passionate life. JP seized on this Green excess and is building a public identity around it.
But reacting against excess tends to produce more excess of another kind.
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Is personal development just the next hamster wheel?
Is personal development just the next hamster wheel?If you are building a family consciously, have at it. That's a valid path of development.
Most people just fuck and have kids like animals.
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Daygame infield session
Daygame infield sessionI went out today for a few hours to practice some day game infield & here is a summary of how my day went. Previously I did a post of me saying hi to 100 different strangers which caused some minor anxiety in me. Today I told myself I am going to approach girls & simply say to them "hey hows it going". Surprisingly the first girl I said that to was immediatly receptive to me & started asking questions about how my day was ect.. We were talking for a few minutes, there was a lot of anxiety in me at the time so it did not really feel that much of a fluent conversation but at the end I just decided to say "we should go get drinks sometime" & she just gave me her number so I will text her later.
Here is what what went well: I had a fluent 40 minute conversation with my hairdresser today, approached 2 random guys sitting on a bench at the beach and had around a 30 minute conversation with them, they were around my age. Approached 11 women. I said hi to 36 strangers, but saying hi does not really seem to provoke any anxiety in me anymore so I felt like it was a waste of my time to do that. Another great thing I have been practicing, is whenever I am out in public I maintain eye contact with everyone, forcing them to break it off with me. It seems to be improvining my confidence, instead of just looking at the ground, at my feet the whole time.
Here is what did not go so well: I found a majority of the women I approached just blanked me, they were just plugged in with their earphones & would walk past me. some of them did not even have earphones in but I would say hey hows it going & they would just walk past me looking disinterested, I did not know if I was trying hard enough. Maybe I should walk alongside them in the future. One crucial thing I learnt today though that I would bring up in the conversation is that I could tell the girls were so happy that I gave them a compliment of calling them cute, even if they rejected you by having a boyfriend ect... I would just say "I thought you looked really cute so I had to approach you" after they said they had a boyfriend & they seemed really happy by that.
Probably the worst thing that happened I think is the 3 or 4 girls who seemed initially interested in me, I would blow it because after the hows it going, I could not think of anything to sau so I would resort to just saying what have you been up to ect.. You know when your mind gets totally blanked out.. I think my main hurdle will be knowing how to keep the convo going initially untill I reach hook point. I could tell some of the girls were attracted to me but my poor verbals just ruined it. I know they could sense the awkwardness & that is why they just said have a nice day and left.
Other than that I am happy with how my day went because I grew in some way, the girls negative reactions I found did not really affect my self worth as a man which I am happy about. I just wanted to know what should I do to try & overcome of saying the same things after the approach, almost like my mind has a robotic script in it. I can't seem to enjoy the interaction. I'm like wtf do I talk about to a complete stranger who is an attractive women?! Maintaining the convo is defo going to be the hardest for me I think since most girls expect you to lead the convo.
Going to attempt to go out Fri & Sat night this week, hopefully it will go well
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My day of saying hi to 100 strangers
My day of saying hi to 100 strangersI decided to go out today to just say high to 100 strangers, working on eye contact, vocal tonality & confidence.
I would just say 'hi, hope you have a good day' or something along those lines. Unfortunately my vocabulary feels very scripted. It feels that like that alot.Lacks spontaneity. Honestly I found this whole situation incredibly socially & emotionally draining. I did not get to much anxiety though. What is the next step from here? I really want to sort this area of my life out.
I got a good reaction from most, I did not really feel that anxiety provoking as I am working on desensitising myself in social interactions.
I could feel myself sweating & heart pumping though, sometimes I would get into conversations with cute girls working at the store.
Eventually when I got up to number 85 I started experiencing a very bad panic attack, my legs got incredibly tense & stiff so I had to struggle my way home. I thought these panic attacks have stopped because I have not had them in months.... It felt like the energies were connected to my brain, somtimes when I would take a step with my stiff legs I could feel jolts of uncordinated energy throughout my whole body, I was sure I was gunna fall over & hurt myself.. I struggled with these exact panic attacks most of my life, it even lead me to dropping out of school to escape by playing computer games.
They would always occur.. I would often question if something is wrong with me. I don't know how to stop them. I am pretty sure they have traumatized me in some way.
I don;t like living in my social comfort zone all the time numbing myself to existence, I think I did good doing the first step today, just not sure what to do next & I don't know how to cope with this anxiety/panic attacks.
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Is it bad to pursue low consciousness Life purpose while doing spirituality
Is it bad to pursue low consciousness Life purpose while doing spirituality@universe
Yeah, I want to get nice muscle mass & become good at dancing at raves because I view that as an artform & beauty. Especially the edm/techno music. With dating, I want to eventually find a a compatible partner that I can go really intimate with & do spiritual practices together, have amazing sex ect. The dating is a stepping stone for that.
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Daygame infield session
Daygame infield sessionYou did good.
Yes, keeping a convo going, and keeping it emotional vs logical is the core of game skills. It's not easy to learn that. Takes massive practice.
Also, when you approach a walking girl, you have to approach very assertively, forcing her to stop and commanding her attention. No meek, half-assed, gay approaches. Stop her like you are the police. And be clear about your intent.
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Is personal development just the next hamster wheel?
Is personal development just the next hamster wheel?Varies greatly depending on how busy I am with survival and business.
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I love Leo in Vegas
I love Leo in VegasMost people at a club are not going there every week. They are there for a special social occasion. Girls are social creatures and go out in groups. This is normal and healthy. You can meet almost any kind of girl in the club. I have met doctors, lawyers, engineers, professors, spiritual girls, etc.
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Why do some sexual jokes work on women and other sexual jokes don't?
Why do some sexual jokes work on women and other sexual jokes don't?I'm always looking for relationship. Whether it happens or not is not really up to me. Often the girl doesn't want it. But also many girls are not relationship material and it takes some time to figure that out.
I don't make a distinction between a fling and something serious. Everything serious starts out unserious. Just talk to girls without expectations and see where things lead. Sometimes it will lead somewhere serious, often times not. Both are okay.
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My day of saying hi to 100 strangers
My day of saying hi to 100 strangersGood work. Keep going out and socializing. And remember, quality over quantity.
Next time do 5 deeper converasations with strangers. This will grow your skills more than 100 hellos. Gradually you will get better and better at conversation and they will become easier, more natural, and more enjoyable.
The key is to start enjoying it. Otherwise you won't be able to sustain it. If you enjoy it there won't be any anxiety either.
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I love Leo in Vegas
I love Leo in VegasAoki engages the crowd more, which is a nice touch. Most DJs don't acknowledge the crowd much. I felt more love from Aoki. His passion is contagious and impressive.
I never drink.
Never enjoyed clubbing. If it was up to me I would be at home chilling.
I'm not above anything, since I am everything.
Not inside the club.
No vax pass.
If you don't like the risk, stay out of the club. The rest of Vegas is under mask mandate.
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Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escort
Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escortOf course do it! Get yourself a 3-week vacation to Thailand. Pattaya or Phuket. You can find yourself a pretty girlfriend that you can have with you for the entire vacation. You'll have the complete girl-friend experience. It didn't fuck me up at all & I never regretted doing it. No STDs. Nothing. Just fond memories. You can then come home and try again. If it doesn't work out that year, go back to where your success is 100%. Try again next year.
If I didn't have a gf, I'd be going to Thailand twice a year and probably wouldn't bother with a local gf unless she was an absolute knock-out.
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Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escort
Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escort@flhugoboss I be fucking hoes in Pattaya every 2nd weekend and haven't had sex where I haven't payed. Anything wrong with me. Not that I can see. Everything okay. Game is for people who don't have money to pay for hoes. They need to always try to get it for free.
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Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escort
Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escortActually, I kind of support this idea. As long as you can do it safely and the girl is cool and nice as to be positive to your self-esteem. It will show you that sex isn't that big of a deal and you will stop thinking about it as much as you currently do. You will not stop thinking about it though lol. But, ironically sex will come much easier after you don't care as much about it. Just don't get addicted to hookers, dawg.
Don't listen to all these goody two shoe, flacid weenars in here. Just do it, trust me, mang. I never give bad advice.