This is such a bad take I don't even know where to begin correcting it.
You clearly don't understand pickup.
There is no higher odds place to get laid than a nightclub. That's why they were invented. Private parties are great, but there's just not enough of them.

Visualizing proper inner game, and then going out consistently, approaching, and analyzing all your sets at the end of the night to iron out every sticking point and learn every micro lesson.
It will take a year or more of constant game to start to dial in your inner game. You have to be ruthless about identifying and squashing every micro sticking point.
Also observe how you are sabotaging yourself.
Mostly it just sounds like you're not approaching enough nor sticking in set long enough. You gotta force yourself to do like 20 approach per night, and go out at least 3 nights a week for a year.
You are not going to cure approach anxiety via some magic bullet. The cure is approaching. Do 5000 approaches.

Definitely important if it's important to you.
I find that most girls are pretty open to it and can be guided into it, even if they are pretty clueless about it.
So you just want to avoid the ones who are totally materialistic or dogmatically closedminded.
I usually ask a girl within the first 5 mins, "Are you spiritual?" and "How are you spiritual?" This tells you a lot.
I once found a prostitute who was into DMT and she had some God-realizations. Didn't sleep with her but we had a blast on DMT. Also found another stripper/prostitute who was super into New Age spirituality and started her own church. She has also done 5-MeO. You'll be amazed at how many spiritual girls are out there.

Well, at the bare minimum just physical appearance. But of course you can start to layer all sorts of other factors on top of that which makes the girl harder and harder to find.
It's not like a girl with lesser physical appearance will meet all your other criteria. She could easily be a jobless, neurotic, alcoholic, nutcase.

Calculate how many hours of cold approach it would take you to sleep with 1000 girls.
You don't think this guy has built insane social skills in those 7 years? It's not like he doesn't have game. Game and social circle are not mutually exclusive. They synergize.
The bottom line is that he designed exactly his ideal lifestyle and now he's living it. I'm not telling you to copy him. I'm just sharing an anecdote of how one guy set up his life in a way that's conducive to getting laid. This will certainly not be suitable for many people. For example, if you want to move around a lot then social circle isn't for you.
If sleeping with 1000 girls is something that appeals to you (it doesn't appeal to me personally), then investing 7 years to get that is not unreasonable.
You are also completely discounting all other benefits that come with having such a powerful social circle. A powerful social circle yields: job opportunities, sales opportunities, business opportunities, investment opportunities, exclusive events, all sorts of freebies, insider knowledge, and amazing friends. Girls are only half the equation.
For this guy it's not just about the girls, it's the lifestyle he wanted.

You should be happy to pull twice a month when you first start learning game.
I told you it's a lot harder than you think.
I am telling you the results of the best guys in the world. They are the Michael Jordans of their sport.

Sleeping with 1000 girls is a lot of work for sure. That's like a career, Lol.
He has a much easier time pulling than from cold approach.
It's not that easy to pull consistently, regardless of quality. It takes serious skill. Both guys and girls underestimate the skill necessary.
Go try pulling consistently and see how hard it is.

Become Zedd.
Or get really good at cold approach. I met a 21 year old at the club last month who slept with 700 girls from cold approach. He pulls every day.

It's not technically necessary, but cold approach is not best for the hottest girls because they get approached so often. For them, it helps a lot to offer social value and to stack the logistics in your favor.
For example, I know a guy in Vegas who's slept with over 1000 girls. How did he do it? Not from cold approach. He did by building an elite social circle such that he's able to get free tables at any nightclub in Vegas. He can get a $5000 table for free any night. Then he just pulls girls into the table. Plus he gets invited to all the elite after parties. For example, he is friends with Zedd, so after Zedd performs at the club, Zedd invites 100 of the hottest girls to a private $20,000 hotel suite. He also invites 10 guys. That's where the real game happens. Imagine how easy it is to get laid when you are sitting in a $20,000 suite with a private pool next to Zedd with 100 of the hottest girls and a tray of cocaine.
That's elite level social circle game. That's how you get the hottest girls consistently.
It took this guy 7 years of 4 hours per day building his social circle to reach this elite level.
A lot of getting laid is simply social position and favorable logistics.
But you don't need anything like this to get laid with cute girls. I am just telling you what the pinnacle of game looks like. The pinnacle of game is that your social position is so good all you have to do is say Hi and the girl goes home with you. If you want that, YES, you'll have to work your ass off to build it.
Then again, I pulled an Instagram model thru cold approach dressed as a homeless guy outside the club at 4:30am. It's just not consistent. That Instagram model told me she was at Zedd's afterparty. Fortunately Zedd only has one dick

You need to realize that girls will get attracted to you regardless of what you have materially in your life. Mostly what attracts the girl is how you express your personality. So you work on that and more girls will get attracted.
You can be homeless and jobless and hot girls will still get attracted to you if you express your personality properly. That means mostly all you have to worry about is improving your game. On the other hand, if your game sucks and you are too lazy to improve it, not much will help you.

At this point, God-realization is the only thing I recognize as worth pursuing or talking about. Everything else is inferior.
Yes, it's a particular state. But what a state!
I will take 5 minutes of God-realization vs 100 years of no-self.
P.S. No-self is also a state. Everything is a state. There is no escaping states.

Being normie doesn't maximize anything. It's just an easy path toward mediocre levels of happiness.

"Most men lead lives of quiet desperation."
The suffering and misery is there, but it's masked over with addictions, distractions, and rationalizations.

I’m making progress but my life could have been loved much wiser
current focus is getting out of debt, not killing myself and maybe one day living a sustainable life purpose 
im disillusioned that my life can be amazing or that I could be a musician or artist
26 years old, only getting older. Feeling a sense of hopelessness today. I’m not wise. 
I wish I was 20. 

@Hardkill 34 is the new 24
I met an Actualized fan at the club who was pulling 21 year olds and rocking life. He was 50. We had a blast hanging out and having fun. Youth is much about your attitude and lifestyle.
Most girls who I meet at the club think I'm under 30. When you're cool, people think you're younger and/or they don't care about your age.

@MrBON JP thinks there is a problem with women wearing makeup in the workplace and that we still haven't come to grips with women using birth control pills.
It's the same old conservative nonsense repackaged in psychological lingo and pseudo-intellectualism.
He's a conservative pretending to be something else. It's like he's gay, everyone around him knows it, but he won't admit it to himself. He's deeply confused about his own philosophy.

@Hardkill If you're socially uncalibrated there's more of a risk when it comes to daygame.
Daygame just be more normal. You're already unique in her eyes because you approach her in the day.

A lonely Wave is dreaming an ocean

He's on the right track, but still not realizing God.
There are no conscious agents. There is no interaction between units of consciousness. There is only you, God, dreaming them up.
 

That's very easy: because your culture has made it too easy and acceptable to eat garbage.
If you change your diet to cut out all junk food and all processed food, you will effortlessly maintain a healthy weight and feel great about yourself. You will be able to eat as much as you want and never get fat.
The problem is that you must reject all cultural norms for what you can put in your mouth. So when your friends all stuff their face with pizza, you sit there calmly and don't join in. Because you value yourself too highly to do that to yourself. This requires a radical rewiring of your attitude towards food. But if you complete this rewiring, you will never be fat no matter how much you eat.
The only way to be fat is to eat processed food.

Mostly Yellow/Turquoise these days.

Yes, academia is a gaint bureacracy and suffers from the problem of getting high on its own ivory tower farts.
Then again, people on YT are too dumb to read serious academic work. The attention span of social media cannot handle serious intellectual discourse. It has never been the work of academics to preach heady ideas to the mouth-breathing hordes. Academia is for serious nerds to nerd out among themselves. There are serious pros and cons to such a system.

You are so damn young, you are complaining like you just hit 40.

Love

@trenton It is not helping your situation when you frame it as "stealing from your family".
You are trying to get on your feet. As you do so you can then repay them in other ways. That's what family is about.
Focus on working to strengthen your career into something successful and enjoyable. As you do that, you will naturally become financially independent and you will even have enough left over to help your family out.
Your family will benefit from you having a stable, successful, and enjoyable career. Your career cannot be stable and successful unless it is enjoyable. So don't treat enjoyment as a luxury here. You need to move into a job that you enjoy.