Because you are too busy willing your dream.
Whatever is occuring is what you wanted.

@hoodrow trillson Value is whatever you feel helps you survive as a finite self.
If you feel that getting your dick sucked by a donkey helps your survival, then that's value for you.

They consciously want to be loyal but they are easily manipulated by pumping their emotional state. So she may have no intention to cheat but if she's out having fun at the club and some guy pumps up her state, she can be seduced pretty easily.
Of course these are just generalizations. You have assess your girl specifically.

Reality is the imagination of distinctions. Imagination is absolute. So if you imagine a distinction you absolutely create it then and there.
You are mistaken in assuming that distinctions are "unreal". That itself is a distinction you created.

I expect her to fall in love with me so deeply that she wouldn't want to cheat. And the reason I expect that is because I have a lot of love to give her. She's not going to find a higher love than mine. And what she wants is love, not dick.
Of course I would also select a high quality and relatively conscious girl. If you are selecting low quality, low consciousness girls then you will have more to worry about.

It would be wise to avoid getting involved with low consciousness people, period.

To me career and LP is more important. Dating is like the dessert for getting your life together. But don't wait too long. You can still socialize a bit on the weekends just so that you're not stuck at zero on that front for years.

It's a silly idea.
Just go have sex. A strong bond is developed over time and sex is a crucial part of that development process.
You need to look at the brainwashing you received which is sourcing your resistance to sex. Because it is brainwashing. You didn't come up with that idea by yourself. Someone lodged it into your mind and now you're running that mind virus. It's going to kill your results with girls and your ability to find a quality partner. No girl worth dating these days is gonna wait until marriage to have sex with you. She will just move on to a guy who knows how to fuck her properly.
Quality sex requires experience and training. It's gonna be very lame for you to dating girls who have way more sexual experience than you. And dating a girl with zero sexual experience is nothing good either.
The bottom line is that you want lots of experience, you have none right now, and your strategy is to keep your experience at zero. This is not a smart strategy.
If you don't fuck a girl within a few weeks of dating her, she's just gonna lose interest and leave you. You will actually deeply disappoint her because she will think, "What's wrong with me? Why doesn't we want me?" Eventually she's figure out that you're not man enough to fuck her and she will lose all attraction for you. A girl gives you a relatively short window of time to close her. If you hesitate to pull the trigger, the window will close and you will lose the girl. She wants a man who's clear about what he wants, and clear that he wants her, and willing to act boldly to take her.
It's actually healthy for you to stop putting sex up on a pedestal. Sex can be special but it doesn't have to be and shouldn't always be. If you treat it as something so special you will actually become way too needy and it will become dysfunctional.
Sex doesn't start off very special. It becomes special as you have it more and more with the same girl.

No.
It must be done with skill. It's not a function of some number. It's a function of developing skill.
Stop expecting some kind of guarantees for mediocrity.
Not so. Do not underestimate the power that slut-shaming has over girls. It's baked into her mind even if no one ever calls her a slut.
Even in Vegas, even party girls, even slutty girls, will not sleep with you if they catch of whiff that she will be perceived as slutty.
The power this holds over girls is insane. This is why girls will sleep with you one night, and then pretend they don't even know you the next. It's like they erase you from their minds.

Awakenings are a subset of mystical experience. Mystical experience is a more broad term which covers all sorts of trans-materialistic experiences like visions, aliens, angels, devils, religious experiences, out of body, astral, etc.
All awakenings are mystical experiences but not all mystical experiences are awakenings.
Many religious people have mystical experiences but they do not awaken from the dream nor realize themselves as God. It's easy to get lost in the content of mystical experiences (like seeing an angel), whereas awakening cuts through all content (the angel is realized to be one's own Mind).
Awakening is the trump card. It answers EVERYTHING.

In practice many people kill themselves each year thanks to low self-esteem and lack of self-love. Or they suffer depression, anger, and other issues.
But also don't kid yourself. You have not approached nearly that many girls. If you did, you would be getting laid. And most girls have no problem getting laid.

I don't sleep with wasted girls.
Most girls have one or two drinks before having sex. This is normal social convention. I would rather girls were totally sober if it was up to me. If I'm pulling a girl I actually discourage her from drinking more because I don't like her drunk.
When you got game, having girls drunk is not an advantage. It often creates needless problems.
But most people are not good at building their own state while sober. They drink to let loose and get playful. This is how most people have sex. They use alcohol because they haven't taken the time to master inner game.

Hallucinogenics mimic one aspect of liberation, the “reward” from the perspective of desire and craving…  The fleeting sensory experiences that aren’t even valued that highly , let alone stressed as an end in itself.    When legitimate schools use the term enlightenment, it is/was more like a bench mark than an experience to strive for. 
when *they didn’t  need food or sleep because they had insulated  the body and mind from those core needs, or were able to build up a physical and mental strength that allowed for these needs to be disregarded for long periods of time.  “ they then have enlightenment experiences.”   IT IS THE BUILDING UP OF THIS STRENGTH WHERE YOU “DO” EVERYTHING THAT IS POTENTIALLY VALUABLE.  Learning about your mind and body , and how they function against the constraints of nature in a very deliberately intense fashion.   It’s honestly not even like taking a helicopter to the top of the mountain. That’s a really poor analogy that people like to use. Doing drugs is like doing drugs. Accept it. 
 
  I don’t even think most people realize how crazy it is to consider yourself enlightened without some sort of ascetic practice. Or really any discipline whatsoever.   LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS, is a literal physical phenomenon, it’s not some trite little thing to contemplate when you are high out of your mind.   when you are high, you feel transcendent because you have manipulated your neurotransmitters to mimic a state of complete comfort /ecstasy / joy and liberation from yourself and the world. This is the exact opposite of a “ spiritual practice , and it is literally having the exact opposite effect of becoming liberated.   It almost guarantees you will never undertake a legitimate effort at any true practice. 
 
people really need to accept the world as it is, and stop pretending that they have a way around thousand year old eastern truth.  You aren’t God. You are in a decaying body.  Unless you ACTUALLY discipline yourself to lose attachment , you aren’t doing anything.    The suffering will come raining down in buckets because not only do you have all the same fears and desires as everyone else , the drugs are shielding you from very fundamental realization , and causing a delusion that you have Already transcended everything.    
 
people still do legitimate shit, honestly do you think they are they wrong? to fast and constantly meditate and abstain from earthly comforts for years at a time? Are they misguided while Leo has this life hack in a pill or tab that grants you easy access into that experience? It’s a joke.  They haven’t heard of the new variant of dmt at the ashram or something lol
Why even use words like enlightenment and “ god realization.” Why aren’t you all talking about Terrence McKenna. Leo is really a *version of him more than a conventional spiritual teacher.   Stop with all the talk about enlightenment long enough to realize how laughable it is from a grounded “ traditional “ perspective. 

I recently lost a girl that was quite into me because i did not kiss her on the first date. Do not repeat my mistake. Just try to sit somehow near her, that is key.@Something Funny

As I said, God is everywhere so suicide or not you got God. So it's irrelevant.
Don't drag God's good name into your twisted suicidal ideas. If you're considering suicide it's safe to assume you are not connected to God.

I took 200 mcg a few minutes ago and my memory hit me like a truck! 
Suddenly there's clarity and improved memory! 
Just wanted to share my excitement, this really works.

I'm speculating here, but I think what was really going on was that Jerry was cheating on his wife for years and as a way to compensate they came to this arrangement of an open marriage where each would sleep around with whoever they wanted, but maintain the appearance of a traditional marriage because, hey, gotta keep up those good ol Christian family values.
I get the sense that their marriage became stale and died long ago, and they just never got divorced because it was too convenient to officially be together.
I'm sure we'll hear more stories in the future about who Jerry was banging behind the scenes while all this was going on.

The irony is that stage Blue is the type to hit a woman.
Patriarchy explained by 007.

That's why you must be careful with your stereotypes and categories.
For some people, the idea of a smart black man also does not compute. Which is the very source of racism.
An overly simplistic mind is a dangerous and ugly thing.
The devil you see in others is the devil inside your self.

That's one way to look at it. But are you really sure that's the proper way to look at it? Where did you get this perspective? From TYT? And you just blindly accept it as unbiased?
Calling him a racist is pretty silly.
Racism is a complex and nuanced issue. There is personal racism and systemic racism, which is much more subtle. Someone can have no personally racists attitude and yet still be part of upholding a systemically racist institution for many complex reasons, chiefly, his own survival.
He's not some open racist. You're saying it as though he's a KKK member. This is absurd.
The accusation is that he inappropriately fired a black police chief due to political influence. But even this requires serious proof. There are many reasons why he could have fired him. Maybe you should listen to Pete's version of the story before jumping to conclusions.
One can have biases and blindspots without being explicitly racist. In fact, most of us have such biases. If I put you into a position where you had to fire a black police chief to feed your family, you'd probably do it without blinking an eye. And you would never ever consider yourself a racist for doing so.
Of course being gay does not automatically make one a champion for African American rights or justice. Mostly likely Pete just grew up in a white bubble where African American rights were not even a topic of conversation or concern. He would have to go out of his way to care about that.
I grew up in such a white and affluent part of the US that I didn't even know racism was a thing until well after college. When you live in a great part of the country, you don't even know what injustice is. The notion that a cop would treat a black person different than a white person was impossible to even imagine where I grew up. It would be like worrying about people eating dogs.

@Mondsee That's like saying, "My parents molested me as a child, but now I've overcome it and I'm grateful for who its made me."
Good for you, but most molested kids don't get over it so easily.
This is not a matter of judgment but a matter of creating paradigm lock in a child's mind. Which is as big a problem as molesting a child.

Blue vs Green again:
The conservative girl is unable to wrap her mind around the idea that gender is a relative mental construct. So to her the idea of something other than the traditional, black & white man/woman roles does not compute and seems absurd.
Blue REALLY struggles with issues of relativity. They just don't stomach relativity because to them the world is absolutely as their beliefs say.
This is also a good example of how the mind projects. The conservative girl's mind thinks that it can make others look foolish when really it is projecting its own foolishness as a denial mechanism so that she doesn't have to deeply question the groundless distinctions that make up her worldview.
But also notice how stage Green (the TYT hosts) are also unable to understand where this conservative girl is coming from. They just think she's a fool, when really, her mind is simply not yet fathoming the relative nature of reality.

My inner game has improved a lot after 6 years of spiritual work. But I still get approach anxiety at times. All mental thoughts do not disappear, especially when it comes time to approach a smoking hot girl with a bunch of her friends cockblocking.

@Kensho Ugh... Ben Shaprio is the worst of Blue.
It's like Blue cancer, lol.

I had such bad social anxiety that I used to pay my friends to go buy me food because I was too scared to talk to a cashier.
My story is that of the typical introverted video game nerd who rarely left his room growing up.
You simply need more exposure. Start to look people in the eyes. Once you’re comfortable there then start to smile at people. Next, ask strangers how they’re doing. Continue progressing until you develop your social skill to your desired level.
Today, I literally work with people for 8+ hours a day. I’m still an introvert and this can be a bit draining and even anxiety provoking at times but it’s about 1% of what it used to be. I’m quite confident approaching stranger and striking up a conversation with new people now.
It’s just putting the reps in bro. You got this. 
Side Note: some of my favorite books that helped with this field are...
How to win friends & influence people (Dale Carnegie) The way of the superior man (David Dieda) Cant hurt me (David Goggins) Social (Matthew Lieberman) That said, books won’t do shit for you if you don’t go out and talk to people on a regular basis.
Go figure.