Yali

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  1. What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    You can dial in the dose plugged or vaped to whatever you want.
    I have little problem using electronics on 5-MeO. Not that I usually do. But actually using electronics on 5-MeO is super profound because otherwise you have no clue what electronics actually are: which is consciousness.
    Usually if I watch porn it will be at the tail end of a trip, not the peak. The peak is too intense for such trivial games.
    In fact it's good to jerk off before you do 5-MeO just so your mind doesn't get distracted by sex during the trip, so you can focus on the serious work.
    The porn is mostly just a cool treat after the serious work has been done.

  2. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    Aunt and uncle brought him over, like the nice-guy chump they thought she wanted to date.
    "Here's a nice boy for you."
    But she didn't want a nice boy, she wanted a player.

  3. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    I had a girl legit complain to me that she gets hit on by so many guys each night that she is sick of being nice to them in turning them all down.
    She was complaining to me about this minutes before she got in my bed.

  4. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    I'm not saying you got out-competed per se. I'm just saying that attractive girls can afford to act nonchalant, picky, and flaky. They often don't need a good reason to ignore or reject you because they know some new guy will come along soon.
    I slept with a girl who was brand new in town once. She barely knew anybody expect her aunt and uncle. The night after I slept with her, I drove her home, and in her house was already sitting her aunt and uncle with some random dude they found for this girl to date. He was sitting there patiently waiting for her as I drove her up. Unfortunately for him, in the car I told my girl that she should suck this dude's dick. Which basically blew him out with her. That poor dude had no idea that his sweetheart had already fucked a player on 1st date from a random approach at the mall.

  5. Fleshlight for masturbation
    Fleshlight for masturbation
    It is what you make of it.
    But of course fucking a plastic object will lack soul.
    If the Tenga lacks soul then the Fleshlight is Satan himself.
    I dunno. It feels about as close to sex as you can get with a plastic device.
    You can modify the inside with scissors to make it less tight and stimulating. I used scissors to cut out a large part of the stimulating rubber texture so it's more smooth and loose. This makes it a lot better and more realistic.
    You gotta lube it up properly too.
    But like I said before, the biggest problem is that it feels too good.

  6. Fleshlight for masturbation
    Fleshlight for masturbation
    I ended up getting the Tenga Fliphole, plus a 6-pack of the eggs (which I've tried one of so far.)
    The Tenga Fliphole is... very efficient at what it does, it gets you off really fast. But it's not necessarily that pleasurable, if that makes sense?
    Like if you were making a factory where you had to milk 1000 dudes of their semen per day for some kind of breeding program or something, the Fliphole would be my go-to tool. It's literally a tool designed to get dudes off as fast as possible.
    That's not necessarily the reason that I masturbate though, just to get off. It actually takes the pleasure out of masturbation and treats it more like a problem to be solved. Like if you asked AI how to make masturbation as efficient as possible... it'd come up with the Tenga Fliphole. It does the job but completely lacks soul.
    It's nothing like pussy and that's fine. From the reviews I didn't expect it to be realistic. Nothing can be as good as the real thing. But it's so different from the real thing that it's just a bit of a bizarre experience. I don't want my toy to be THAT GOOD, I want to get more than 10-20 thrusts out of the process. The buildup of masturbating is arguably the better part than the actual orgasm.
    Just 3-4 Kleenexes is probably still going to be my go-to going forward. Optimal softness with no lube required, no messy cleanup. 
    I guess the Fliphole is the ideal tool if you wanted to stop watching porn while still fulfilling the urge of getting off without any imagery required, if you think porn causes negative effects on the brain. Or if you're masturbating to porn for hours per day and you just want to force yourself to get off quickly so you can stop wasting so much time.
    It's a great way to make yourself no longer enjoy jacking off.

  7. Fleshlight for masturbation
    Fleshlight for masturbation
    I tried several.
    The problem is the material they use it not good and the design of the entire device sucks.
    A Fleshlight is a Ford F-150 and a Tenga Fliphole is like a Lexus.

  8. How to stop the lust for women?
    How to stop the lust for women?
    Dude, just learn to handle rejection well. Thousands of girls will reject you. So what? Stop caring. Focus on the girls who like you.
    Nothing wrong with sexual craving. Stop demonizing it and learn to indulge it in healthy ways. You're not the first guy born with a dick.
    If you talk to more girls you will be much less desperate to need any one of them to like you.

  9. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Last year for my first time i went out at night with some 'wings' to open sets or approaching single Girls >>>> one of the hardest emotionally things I've done as a Guy ever, yeah Leo is so right. Its good we stop making It pick Up as something easy as some marketers and PUAS like to do. Its though as fuck. At Least at the beggining. 
    Nightgame Will make you super strong and super social skills if you master It well. Imo It has an even steeper curve of learning than daygame 

  10. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Not 8hrs.
    More like 3 hrs.
    I'd show up at 11pm-2am in most US cities. In Vegas it would be from 12 or 1am to 4am.
    What you do is hang out with your friends (hopefully you find some wings) and approach girls. Not 100 approaches but more like 10-20. Your goal is to hook a set and spend a lot of time in set with the girl. So ideally you spend most of your time engaged in conversation with a girl and having fun with her, then bouncing her out of the club. The point is not to be in the club till closing time, the point is to find a girl to bounce out with as soon as you can. If you can find one by 12am, then you leave at 12am. Otherwise you stay till it closes.
    Also, the point is not to approach many girls, the point is to hook one girl. You approach until something hooks well. Then you work that set all night long. In the end you're just looking for one girl who likes you and is down for fun.
    Alternatively you can collect a bunch of phone numbers. Then your sets will be pretty short and you will do more approaching.

  11. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    The process is going to be so emotionally challenging for you even with great friends and wings. Without friends and wings you will quit very quickly.
    The first time I went out to a club, I cried myself back home.
    The point is to develop yourself into the kind of guy who can quickly befriend anyone and enjoy the process.
    Exactly.
    You are trying to become a social person. This means you must learn to relate to normies.
    Yes it will.
    Your disdain is part of the problem that needs correcting.
    It will be so difficult for you that you'll need an emotional support system of peers.
    I could not have done it without peers. I would go so far as to say it's impossible. And even if it were possible, it would not be desirable. Making cool guy friends is a huge part of this journey. I've met so many interesting guys who have opened my mind to what's possible.

  12. Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy > Spirituality
    No, intellect is an aspect of consciousness. Consciousness is intelligent.
    I have a video called What Is Intelligence?
    It's hard to define. But intellect is that aspect of conscious which is understanding and making sense of this communication right now. Right now you are understanding me. You might be tempted to dismiss that as "just concepts", but something way more profound is happening than that. The Universe is literally understanding itself as you listen to me talk. This requires extraordinary intelligence.
    We might say that intelligence is a holistic, high-level self-comprehension which transcends concepts & symbols, but also makes use of concepts and symbols.
    Without intelligence you couldn't open a can of Coke.
    God-realization is similar to opening a can of Coke, but it's a can that requires infinite intelligence to open. The only one who can open this can is God itself, because only God posses sufficient intelligence to do it. You can't understand what you are without intelligence. Which is why just sitting in meditation is not God-realization. When a dog sits in silence it is not grasping what it is or what reality is. It may have a perfectly still mind, but it has no clue what's going on in the metaphysical sense. It doesn't understand where it came from or why it exists. Nor does it even have enough intelligence to care about such things.
    Just to ask existential questions like "Why is there something rather than nothing?" or "Where did I come from?" requires extraordinary intelligence which even many scientists lack. The depth of these matters is not being understood by most human minds.
    So what I teach is how to access the highest levels of intelligence which are necessary to fully grasp the nature of reality and self.

  13. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    Then text her this: "??"
    BTW, one mistake you made is trying to set a date on the weekend. Girls will flake the most on Fri & Sat when they are busy hanging out with friends & family. You should try to set dates for Mon, Tue, Wed -- the slowest nights of the week. Then there is less chance that her friends will grab her attention away from you.
    She will always prioritize her friends over you until you have sex with her.
    So the reason she's not texting you back and the reason why you won't get a date this weekend is because she is busy with her friends and you didn't think through the logistics of that properly. You should have been eyeing Mon-Wed from the beginning. And what's more, you should not set dates for Fri & Sat because those are the days you always go out to talk to more girls! Don't sacrifice your best nights out (Fri & Sat) for a date that will flake anyway. This is a rookie mistake. Thurs, Fri, Sat is for getting numbers. Mon-Wed is for doing dates.

  14. Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy, in my opinion, is the incorrect approach. The mind is a question creating factory, and each answer only brings about more questions. Philosophers go on and on chasing their own tails, trapped in their intellect. Spirituality does not require your intellect, rather the opposite. 

  15. Leo saying the N word in a video
    Leo saying the N word in a video
    I'm black and I have no problem with this. 

  16. Reading Skills - How To Be A Book Devourer
    Reading Skills - How To Be A Book Devourer
    I am a pretty lazy and slow reader. For me it's not about some fancy reading skills, it's just a life-long commitment to learning. Over a decade, the books add up.
    And lately I mostly just listen to audio-books. Far more efficient.

  17. I wish I had never discovered spirituality
    I wish I had never discovered spirituality
    @Husseinisdoingfine Don't get ahead of your skiis buddy. Give yourself a good 10 years to figure out spirituality. You don't need the highest fucking teaching at 19.
    Relax and enjoy learning about life. Enjoy building a good life for yourself.

  18. $1000 isn't really a paywall, Leo
    $1000 isn't really a paywall, Leo
    Honestly I don't even want to charge $1k. I woud prefer to price it lower. I don't like overpriced courses.
    $1k is a lot for many people around the world. And one's income isn't necessarily a good indicator of one's readiness of serious awakening.

  19. She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    Lol
    Same as any other girl.

  20. Threesome
    Threesome
    In Vegas it's very possible.
    Other towns probably harder. Usually guys who do threesome consistently do it by first landing a bi girlfriend. Then she serves as the winggirl and learns to seduce girls.
    It's gonna be very rare to pull two rando girls for a threesome. Much easier if one is already your gf.

  21. She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    Dude, I get rejected by 10 girls a night.

  22. What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    Watching porn on 5-MeO is a religious experience.

  23. Threesome
    Threesome
    Definitely get toys involved.
    And always carry some Viagra or Cialis in your pocket when you go out. It's an essential tool of the trade. You'll never know when you might need it.
    The worst thing is having a hot girl in your bed begging for your dick but you can't get hard for whatever reason. Don't use it all the time, just when you need it. Threesomes especially will give performance anxiety.

  24. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Yes, I had to resort to it because that is what's realistically required to get laid.
    The idea that you can "just be yourself" and hot women will sleep with you is childish. That's not how it works.
    It's not so much that I have had to resort to games, it's that I taught myself the games that everyone else was already playing but I wasn't.
    I'm not distrustful of women. I have a very positive view of women and I have no problem trusting a girl after sex. I just understand the games they play until sex.
    Gaining confidence is the technique.
    Haha
    You frame it as though I use some kind of secret tricks to trick women into bed. That's not what I do. I just understand how to approach, how to flirt, how to be humorous, how to have fun, how to deal with loud and chaotic environments, how to deal with bitchy friends, how to deal with guys stealing my girls, how to lead, how to handle logistics, how not to get used by girls, where to take girls, how to text girls, how to escalate, how to make her feel comfortable with me, how to get her horny, how to deal with her bullshit, and how to give her great sex. These are practical skills that any guys who's serious about women needs to develop regardless of how lovable he is.
    It doesn't matter how lovable you are if you don't know how to touch a girl without creeping her out.
    Being lovable and worthy of affection does not get a guy laid any more than it gets a guy a house to live in. Women will not fuck a guy just because he is lovable.
    You don't know how I perceive relationships. You assume a lot about me.
    I talk about attraction here, not relationships.
    I would not distrust my girlfriend.
    Obviously.
    That's from your female POV.
    Yes, there is no need from your POV as a female to close fast when you got 10 dudes orbiting you, wanting your pussy.
    No, the real reason is because attracting women costs a lot of time and energy for guys, and until sex women are completely flakey, uninvested, disloyal, and unreliable. I don't want to waste my time investing in women who are flakey. I got better things to do. Women don't weaponize sex, they just act so flakey it wastes a lot of time.
    Dealing with that flakiness is 50% of game.
    Well, that guy seem kinda weird. I'm not saying what he did was right. There's definitely the possibility of being too pushy or taking advantage of a girl. I'm all about making sure the girl is satisfied with the sex and there is proper foreplay and all that good stuff. I love foreplay.
    I know guys who take advantage of women in ways like that and much worse. I definitely don't endorse such behavior from men. The bottom line is the girl needs to be satisfied with the sex. That's my rule of thumb. Make it so she doesn't regret sleeping with you. It all boils down to that.

  25. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    The education around the games women play when it comes to sex is also horrific.
    How is a guy supposed to know how to escalate? It's not like you ladies can be trusted to be truthful about that.
    You play games and then act surprised when guys play games to counter your games. Then you deny you play games.
    So here we are.
    I would love nothing more than to not have to play games about sex. Yet my hand is forced into it.
    I would love nothing more than to walk up to a woman and say, "Let's have sex" and her simply saying, "Cool. Let's go." But no, it has to involve a bunch of bullshit.