Yali

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  1. What to say or to do if a girl asks financial favors
    What to say or to do if a girl asks financial favors
    If you buy a girl a coat before she has sex with you I am banning you from this forum.

  2. I'm confused: is pickup high or low consciousness?
    I'm confused: is pickup high or low consciousness?
    Because rather than believing stuff, I test stuff. I was running an experiment.
    Love is brutal sometimes.

  3. Ramana Maharshi
    Ramana Maharshi
    I'm not the only one. Spiritual teachers have told you from the dawn of the time that Self is all there is. You just aren't comprehending what they're saying.
    Read what Ramana said in this thread.
    So when Ramana tells you there is no other, you are happy and have no objections. But when Leo tells you that, you are defensive, surprised, and confused.
    Countless gurus and teachers have told you that you are God. You accept that. You just aren't appreciating the full consequences of what it means to be God. I am making those consequence very explicit to you. And you don't like it. That's all that's happening here.

  4. Ramana Maharshi
    Ramana Maharshi
    Actually if you read McKenna carefully he leaves open the possibility of other minds. This is not technically correct. There is no such possibility. It cannot be left open if you become sufficiently conscious since your consciousness is Absolute.
    As God you must have Absolute sovereignty over your Creation. Your Will must be Absolute and final. If you aren't willing it, if you aren't imagining it, it cannot exist.

  5. Taking Down Solipsism Video
    Taking Down Solipsism Video
    @Leo Gura Post it on your Patreon. Please, Leo I've been waiting for this video for a long time. Fuck those who don't get it.

  6. A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    Yes

  7. Taking Down Solipsism Video
    Taking Down Solipsism Video
    I have decided to take down my latest Solipsism video because people are not mature enough to handle it.
    Don't ask me questions about solipsism any more. I will not be teaching it because people cannot handle it. I will no longer publicly teach my deepest awakenings.
    If you want the highest truth, you will have to discover it on your own, not via my explanations.
    Warning: Those sharing the video via PM or elsewhere will be banned.

  8. A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    I always had high standards for women. Which is why I didn't date much.
    Pickup taught me to lower my standards. I deliberately had sex with girls I wasn't into just to lower my standards.

  9. Jordan Peterson supports psychedelics
    Jordan Peterson supports psychedelics
    That does not speak well for kundalini yoga.
    What does it tell you about a spiritual practice that if you do it diligently for 20 years you will still have no idea that you are God?

  10. Will you tell your future girlfriend/wife you were a pickup artist?
    Will you tell your future girlfriend/wife you were a pickup artist?
    Don't frame it as "I do pickup". Girls will not understand this, it sounds creepy to them. Instead she should just sense that you are a highly social guy who goes out a lot, talks to everyone, and is in high demand socially. She should just sense that you are the kind of guy who has no problem getting laid or talking to new girls.
    Do not try to explain the technical details of pickup to her. She will not underastand it nor does she care to.
    If she asks why you go out so much, tell her you work on your social skills as part of your personal development as a man. I will sometimes just tell girls I approach that I used to be very introverted and work a lot on my social skills.

  11. What to say or to do if a girl asks financial favors
    What to say or to do if a girl asks financial favors
    Just look at her like she is stupid and laugh.

  12. A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    You got it backwards. Girls are not hot because they are arrogant, they get arrogant because they are hot and have enormous sexual options from a young age. So then they get spoiled because guys throw themselves at these girls and these girls learn from a young age they can use their looks to skate by in life. It gets them all sorts of free shit and access they would never otherwise get.
    A striper in Vegas can earn several thousand per night.
    Hot girls have it so easy in life they tend to become shallow, spoiled, and weak.
    Of course this is a gross generalization, but there is truth to it.

  13. Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Realistically it would be a long shot of pulling her.
    I've pulled a few drunk girls when I first started game 10 years ago. They end up throwing up everywhere before sex can even happen. Waste of time. And gross too.
    First girl I ever pulled threw up while I was trying to go down on her. It was so gross I lost my interest in having sex with her. Funny enough she came to visit me the next day sober. But I was too grossed out by her.
    Never doing that again. Drunk girls are gross and a waste of time. High girls too. They seem easy but they are just a pain in the ass to wrangle. It's fool's gold.
    The best kind of girl is one who is sober but really hot for you.
    If you're smart you will not allow girls to drink too much. It's just part of good logistics game. The more they drink the worse it gets. 1-2 drinks is okay.

  14. Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Once you discover the DMT vape pen you will never drink again.

  15. Simply explaining my idea of spirituality using philosophical jargon :)
    Simply explaining my idea of spirituality using philosophical jargon :)
    Self means no other.
    Whatever you think is other, is you.

  16. A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    Beauty is literally infinite, but our minds are biased by survival towards somethings and away from others. You are never going to get a full and precise explication of what causes you to feel beauty. You can't turn beauty into an algorithm.

  17. A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    A rant against the whole rating culture of women
    Personally I don't like the whole number system. I mostly use it because other guys use it, in order to communicate with them.
    There are actually practical reasons to use a number system. It's not done for ego. Hot girls require adjustments to ones game. A hot girl can be teased much harder than an average girl who is insecure about her looks. I can call a 10 fat. I cannot call a normal girl fat, she would lose her shit. Hot girls also tend to have a lot more sexual experience so this needs to be taken into account. These are stereotypes but there is some truth in them and making such distinctions helps guys get laid, which is why these distinctions are made by guys.
    I am not endorsing this system. I am just explaining why guys use it.
    I can often predict whether a girl is a stripper, model, go-go dancer, instagram model, or cocktail waitress just by looking at her body and face.
    Also for example if my wing goes to a club and tells me: "This place mostly has 6s and below" I roughly know what he means and then I know it's not worthwhile for me to go to that club. It's gonna be a waste of my time. On the other hand if a wing tells me, "Bro, this place is full of 9s!" I have a reason to go. I could have reached these conclusions myself, but having a reliable wing saves me time. So it becomes a communication tool among guys. It's not totally accurate but it gives guys a general sense of things.
    Yeah, a 10 is only a 10 in the eyes of the guy doing the assessment. Obviously it's subjective and guys have a wide range of types.
    I have one wing who loves THICK girls with huge asses. I don't find that attractive at all personally.
    I have another wing who will only sleep with small, anorexic Asian girls who are not FOB. He thinks that 95% of girls are too fat, even when they aren't. I personally think he's crazy because he passes on a ton of otherwise stunning girls. But that's what he likes. He will only approach skinny Asians. I don't find girls that skinny to be 10s, but that is his 10.
    But despite those subjective disagreements, there is wide agreement among people as to what counts as a hot girl. That is why strippers and models get paid for their bodies very consistently. Everyone recognizes a beautiful face or body instantly. Girls recognize it too. Don't pretend like you don't know which of your girlfriends are bombshells. And don't pretend like you don't recognize male-model looking dudes. Our brains are wired to recognize beauty, even if there are subjective quirks in taste.
    If I show a photo of a 10 to a group of guys, they will unanimously say, "God damn! You slept with her??? No way!" Plenty of guys will even struggle to believe that is possible. It can shatter a guy's reality to know such things are possible.
    From a guy's subjective POV there is a huge difference between having sex with a 6 vs a 10. Many guys might simply be too intimidated to fuck a 10 even if she is begging him for it. Even approaching a 10 is hard for most guys.
    You might say this is all shallow and none of this matters. Yeah, for a girl none of this matters. But for a guy it matters very much.

  18. Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
    Being drunk actually makes one's game sloppy and ruins odds of pulling.
    Maybe 1 drink is okay, but anything beyond that will actually ruin your game if you got good game.
    And pulling drunk girls is a huge pain in the ass. Girls who are too drunk become impossible to pull and have sex with. Which is why guys who got good game avoid the most drunk girls. It's hard to pull a girl who cannot walk straight. Let alone the ethical and legal problems that could come with that.
    Not to mention that drunk girls are gross.

  19. Jordan Peterson supports psychedelics
    Jordan Peterson supports psychedelics
    I very much doubt he has taken much of them.
    And in the end psychedelics will not work unless you are serious about deconstructing your mind/reality -- which he obviously is not. If anything him taking psychedelics will just drive him deeper into this stubborn Christian worldview. It will tend to mirror back to him his deepest beliefs.
    The key is not the psychedelics, it's the deconstruction.

  20. Night out report
    Night out report
    Classic newbie mistake.
    Your own mind will trick you like that and get you to believe that having fun with your friend is accomplishing something. It isn't. Fun is fun. But it's not enough to get you the skill set you want.
    You must force yourself to approach 10-20 sets each night. No excuses. It's best to start approaching immediately upon walking into the club. The first girl you see, you approach.
    Which is why when you get a bit more experience and comfort, you should hit the clubs solo. Solo you can really do some damage in the club. Hanging to your friends too tightly will not allow you to get laid. You must be ready to break off from your friend to approach girls, and bounce them to new locations. It is not enough to just approach a girl and stand with her in the same spot the entire night. Once she's attracted to you, you've got to bounce her as much as possible around the place and then outside the place to other places and ultimately to your apartment. Pickup does not work without leading and bouncing.
    Solo is highly efficient. But it's emotionally hard, because when you're out of set you feel very alone.

  21. Night out report
    Night out report
    @Dorotheus Great work!
    Now just do that a couple hundred more times.
    Don't worry, you will be amazed at how fast your skills improve.
    Do not be detered by rejection or awkard moments. Those are all totally normal and they don't matter. Get very used to girls rejecting you or ignoring you.
    Work on your body language, strong eye contact, commanding vocal tone, flirty smile, and plowing conservations without ejecting from set.
    Your conversations should be slightly sexually charged. Don't be talking to her like a gay friend. She needs to register within 5 minutes that if she gets in a room alone with you, you're gonna bang her. But do not verbalize sex. This is something she must pick up from your flirty manner and the way you look at her.
    Practice looking at her like you are a lion looking at a juicy gazelle. Get that chemistry going immediately upon approach. Don't be talking to her about work.
    Your goal should be to reach the hook-point in the set, where it is clear that she's attracted to you. It usually takes 0-5 minutes to hit the attraction hook-point. Attraction happens surprisingly fast.

  22. AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
    AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
    Yes it does. Because that's how God's Goodness works. The "bad" is precisely there because it creates a higher Good.
    It doesn't matter if he does or does not reconcile with her. Her work is to forgive him and his work is forgive himself.
    No justice is needed.
    Notice how you are projecting your personal standards of morals and justice on the world. This is holding you back from LOVE.
    That's good too, but that is your judgment. You are looking for people to act in ways that makes your ego feel comfortable. But the universe has no such obligation and so in this way you will cause your own suffering and until you realize the error of your ways.
    I stand by my points not only if all of them are rapists, but also murders. The judgment is your projection. That's the deep realization you must see if you want to reach the highest levels of consciousness.
    Or don't. It's fine either way.
    I'm not going to force you to love.

  23. Night out report
    Night out report
    After watching just the pathetic bad attitude of many on this forum about girls, i decided to go out and approach as many girls as possible to see what they are like. This is something which i never do, so relax a bit because this is going to be fun for you, lol. The rules before i went out:
    - no drinking;
    - approaching alone, no wingman;
    - try to spend as much time as possible with strangers;
    - no pickup lines, authentic conversations.
    When i was in the bar, the most difficult thing to do when looking back was the first approach. I just went to do it annyway, which quite surprised me. The conversation was pretty sollid and she laughed a lot, but she had a boyfriend. The following 5 approaches where just like this, everybody had a boyfriend, lol. What also was verry funny to me was when i did the approaches, almost always, the girlfriends of the girl i approach in that instant grap there phone. The girls i approached thus far, where all nice and enjoyed my company. But i wanted to go to another bar to change things. 
    The following two approaches in the line-up before the entrance i can just say where the most awkward social experiences i ever had. I asked a girl if she was enjoing her night, she looked me straight into the eyes and then turned away her body. I just didnt experience for her anymore. I was just dumpstruck. The girlfriend of the girl then turned arround and said that i was to nice and must be a fucking dickhead in order to be more attractive. The guys in the line-up just laughed me out, but i didnt give a damn fuck. Went in the bar and approached 2-3 girls, 2 of them where blowouts. The third was a pretty sollid approach but she had a lot of social value so after a while she just ignored me because there where also other guys. What i also found funny was the effect my approaches had on other guys. When you see me rocking it there are no excuses left i gues.
    Then i switched bars again and approached 4-5 girls, 2 of them went pretty good and there was physical contact. But one of the girls i approached was 15, so then i stoped. But the other girl liked me untill i said that i went out alone, lol. From that point on the conversation went downhills and the stoped touching me. 
    This was my night out, much learned here. In conclusion i can say that my objective was met, but i suck shit in flirting. Like really. If i didnt do a lot of spiritual practices i would have been depressed now because there is much work to do. But im happy i did it annyway, and i will go out at least 1 time a weak to practise this. 
    You will here from me in the future, more epic rapports comming?.

  24. AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
    AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
    I would never visit one if not for the pickup.

  25. AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
    AMAZING speech by Owen Cook (RSD)
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    I don't like being in a club. That's not how I blow off steam.