Yali

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  1. Fleshlight for masturbation
    Fleshlight for masturbation
    I tried several.
    The problem is the material they use it not good and the design of the entire device sucks.
    A Fleshlight is a Ford F-150 and a Tenga Fliphole is like a Lexus.

  2. How to stop the lust for women?
    How to stop the lust for women?
    Dude, just learn to handle rejection well. Thousands of girls will reject you. So what? Stop caring. Focus on the girls who like you.
    Nothing wrong with sexual craving. Stop demonizing it and learn to indulge it in healthy ways. You're not the first guy born with a dick.
    If you talk to more girls you will be much less desperate to need any one of them to like you.

  3. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Last year for my first time i went out at night with some 'wings' to open sets or approaching single Girls >>>> one of the hardest emotionally things I've done as a Guy ever, yeah Leo is so right. Its good we stop making It pick Up as something easy as some marketers and PUAS like to do. Its though as fuck. At Least at the beggining. 
    Nightgame Will make you super strong and super social skills if you master It well. Imo It has an even steeper curve of learning than daygame 

  4. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Not 8hrs.
    More like 3 hrs.
    I'd show up at 11pm-2am in most US cities. In Vegas it would be from 12 or 1am to 4am.
    What you do is hang out with your friends (hopefully you find some wings) and approach girls. Not 100 approaches but more like 10-20. Your goal is to hook a set and spend a lot of time in set with the girl. So ideally you spend most of your time engaged in conversation with a girl and having fun with her, then bouncing her out of the club. The point is not to be in the club till closing time, the point is to find a girl to bounce out with as soon as you can. If you can find one by 12am, then you leave at 12am. Otherwise you stay till it closes.
    Also, the point is not to approach many girls, the point is to hook one girl. You approach until something hooks well. Then you work that set all night long. In the end you're just looking for one girl who likes you and is down for fun.
    Alternatively you can collect a bunch of phone numbers. Then your sets will be pretty short and you will do more approaching.

  5. Sleep schedule during nightgame
    Sleep schedule during nightgame
    The process is going to be so emotionally challenging for you even with great friends and wings. Without friends and wings you will quit very quickly.
    The first time I went out to a club, I cried myself back home.
    The point is to develop yourself into the kind of guy who can quickly befriend anyone and enjoy the process.
    Exactly.
    You are trying to become a social person. This means you must learn to relate to normies.
    Yes it will.
    Your disdain is part of the problem that needs correcting.
    It will be so difficult for you that you'll need an emotional support system of peers.
    I could not have done it without peers. I would go so far as to say it's impossible. And even if it were possible, it would not be desirable. Making cool guy friends is a huge part of this journey. I've met so many interesting guys who have opened my mind to what's possible.

  6. Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy > Spirituality
    No, intellect is an aspect of consciousness. Consciousness is intelligent.
    I have a video called What Is Intelligence?
    It's hard to define. But intellect is that aspect of conscious which is understanding and making sense of this communication right now. Right now you are understanding me. You might be tempted to dismiss that as "just concepts", but something way more profound is happening than that. The Universe is literally understanding itself as you listen to me talk. This requires extraordinary intelligence.
    We might say that intelligence is a holistic, high-level self-comprehension which transcends concepts & symbols, but also makes use of concepts and symbols.
    Without intelligence you couldn't open a can of Coke.
    God-realization is similar to opening a can of Coke, but it's a can that requires infinite intelligence to open. The only one who can open this can is God itself, because only God posses sufficient intelligence to do it. You can't understand what you are without intelligence. Which is why just sitting in meditation is not God-realization. When a dog sits in silence it is not grasping what it is or what reality is. It may have a perfectly still mind, but it has no clue what's going on in the metaphysical sense. It doesn't understand where it came from or why it exists. Nor does it even have enough intelligence to care about such things.
    Just to ask existential questions like "Why is there something rather than nothing?" or "Where did I come from?" requires extraordinary intelligence which even many scientists lack. The depth of these matters is not being understood by most human minds.
    So what I teach is how to access the highest levels of intelligence which are necessary to fully grasp the nature of reality and self.

  7. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    Then text her this: "??"
    BTW, one mistake you made is trying to set a date on the weekend. Girls will flake the most on Fri & Sat when they are busy hanging out with friends & family. You should try to set dates for Mon, Tue, Wed -- the slowest nights of the week. Then there is less chance that her friends will grab her attention away from you.
    She will always prioritize her friends over you until you have sex with her.
    So the reason she's not texting you back and the reason why you won't get a date this weekend is because she is busy with her friends and you didn't think through the logistics of that properly. You should have been eyeing Mon-Wed from the beginning. And what's more, you should not set dates for Fri & Sat because those are the days you always go out to talk to more girls! Don't sacrifice your best nights out (Fri & Sat) for a date that will flake anyway. This is a rookie mistake. Thurs, Fri, Sat is for getting numbers. Mon-Wed is for doing dates.

  8. Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy > Spirituality
    Philosophy, in my opinion, is the incorrect approach. The mind is a question creating factory, and each answer only brings about more questions. Philosophers go on and on chasing their own tails, trapped in their intellect. Spirituality does not require your intellect, rather the opposite. 

  9. Leo saying the N word in a video
    Leo saying the N word in a video
    I'm black and I have no problem with this. 

  10. Reading Skills - How To Be A Book Devourer
    Reading Skills - How To Be A Book Devourer
    I am a pretty lazy and slow reader. For me it's not about some fancy reading skills, it's just a life-long commitment to learning. Over a decade, the books add up.
    And lately I mostly just listen to audio-books. Far more efficient.

  11. I wish I had never discovered spirituality
    I wish I had never discovered spirituality
    @Husseinisdoingfine Don't get ahead of your skiis buddy. Give yourself a good 10 years to figure out spirituality. You don't need the highest fucking teaching at 19.
    Relax and enjoy learning about life. Enjoy building a good life for yourself.

  12. $1000 isn't really a paywall, Leo
    $1000 isn't really a paywall, Leo
    Honestly I don't even want to charge $1k. I woud prefer to price it lower. I don't like overpriced courses.
    $1k is a lot for many people around the world. And one's income isn't necessarily a good indicator of one's readiness of serious awakening.

  13. She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    Lol
    Same as any other girl.

  14. Threesome
    Threesome
    In Vegas it's very possible.
    Other towns probably harder. Usually guys who do threesome consistently do it by first landing a bi girlfriend. Then she serves as the winggirl and learns to seduce girls.
    It's gonna be very rare to pull two rando girls for a threesome. Much easier if one is already your gf.

  15. She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    She rejected to have sex after looking at my picture
    Dude, I get rejected by 10 girls a night.

  16. What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    What psychedelics should I have sex on?
    Watching porn on 5-MeO is a religious experience.

  17. Threesome
    Threesome
    Definitely get toys involved.
    And always carry some Viagra or Cialis in your pocket when you go out. It's an essential tool of the trade. You'll never know when you might need it.
    The worst thing is having a hot girl in your bed begging for your dick but you can't get hard for whatever reason. Don't use it all the time, just when you need it. Threesomes especially will give performance anxiety.

  18. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Yes, I had to resort to it because that is what's realistically required to get laid.
    The idea that you can "just be yourself" and hot women will sleep with you is childish. That's not how it works.
    It's not so much that I have had to resort to games, it's that I taught myself the games that everyone else was already playing but I wasn't.
    I'm not distrustful of women. I have a very positive view of women and I have no problem trusting a girl after sex. I just understand the games they play until sex.
    Gaining confidence is the technique.
    Haha
    You frame it as though I use some kind of secret tricks to trick women into bed. That's not what I do. I just understand how to approach, how to flirt, how to be humorous, how to have fun, how to deal with loud and chaotic environments, how to deal with bitchy friends, how to deal with guys stealing my girls, how to lead, how to handle logistics, how not to get used by girls, where to take girls, how to text girls, how to escalate, how to make her feel comfortable with me, how to get her horny, how to deal with her bullshit, and how to give her great sex. These are practical skills that any guys who's serious about women needs to develop regardless of how lovable he is.
    It doesn't matter how lovable you are if you don't know how to touch a girl without creeping her out.
    Being lovable and worthy of affection does not get a guy laid any more than it gets a guy a house to live in. Women will not fuck a guy just because he is lovable.
    You don't know how I perceive relationships. You assume a lot about me.
    I talk about attraction here, not relationships.
    I would not distrust my girlfriend.
    Obviously.
    That's from your female POV.
    Yes, there is no need from your POV as a female to close fast when you got 10 dudes orbiting you, wanting your pussy.
    No, the real reason is because attracting women costs a lot of time and energy for guys, and until sex women are completely flakey, uninvested, disloyal, and unreliable. I don't want to waste my time investing in women who are flakey. I got better things to do. Women don't weaponize sex, they just act so flakey it wastes a lot of time.
    Dealing with that flakiness is 50% of game.
    Well, that guy seem kinda weird. I'm not saying what he did was right. There's definitely the possibility of being too pushy or taking advantage of a girl. I'm all about making sure the girl is satisfied with the sex and there is proper foreplay and all that good stuff. I love foreplay.
    I know guys who take advantage of women in ways like that and much worse. I definitely don't endorse such behavior from men. The bottom line is the girl needs to be satisfied with the sex. That's my rule of thumb. Make it so she doesn't regret sleeping with you. It all boils down to that.

  19. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    The education around the games women play when it comes to sex is also horrific.
    How is a guy supposed to know how to escalate? It's not like you ladies can be trusted to be truthful about that.
    You play games and then act surprised when guys play games to counter your games. Then you deny you play games.
    So here we are.
    I would love nothing more than to not have to play games about sex. Yet my hand is forced into it.
    I would love nothing more than to walk up to a woman and say, "Let's have sex" and her simply saying, "Cool. Let's go." But no, it has to involve a bunch of bullshit.

  20. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    No, it's leadership and persistence.
    What I said doesn't contradict that.
    No, it's simply me being a man and following through on my intent. If my intent is to sleep with someone I will work to make it happen. A few obstacles are not going to stop me.
    Getting laid is not about ego validation, it's about getting laid.

  21. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Yes, it seems that way because detachment from outcome is very counter-intuitive and paradoxical.
    It is a larger point than just dating or girls. In life the best results come when you have a very clear and strong intent to achieve something, but at the same time you're detached from outcome. Yet even though you are detached from outcome you will work like hell to make it happen. And if you should fail, you immediately let it go and move to the next thing.
    This isn't just the secret to getting girls. It's the secret to running a business and many other pursuits. So you would be well to learn this lesson.
    Guys shouldn't chase after girls. But once you got a girl in your bed, you should move mountains to close her. She didn't get in that bed to play patty-cakes. If it takes 5 hrs of foreplay to get her to open her legs, that's what it takes. If you want her, you do what is necessary to get her. This is not neediness. This is getting shit done.
    I gamed from 12am to 10am to get that girl. 10hrs! That's how you get shit done. Apply this attitude everywhere in life and you will see great results.

  22. Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex
    You're doing great. Don't logic with her about sex. Just seduce her and get her horny. She will clearly have sex with you, you just need to seriously seduce her into it with proper physical escalation and old fashioned romance.
    Took me 2hrs once to get a girl to let me fuck her once I got her into my bed. 2hrs of patiently escalating and slowly seducing her despite her token resistance and coyishness. I had to pull her pants off inch by inch. Every inch took work. 2 fucking hours in my bed till sex. The sun was already up! Finally she said: Go get a condom. This was the hottest girl I ever fucked. She played so many games with me.
    Girls will play silly games with you. Ignore all that and be persistent. Do not let her games throw you off your course.
    And if she's on her period, fuck her anyways. Use condoms well.
    Don't wait around. Lead and make it happen!

  23. Many incels are misunderstood
    Many incels are misunderstood
    I expect many incels are too far gone into toxic ideology to get good with girls. It's a damn shame.

  24. Does Sugar Affect Our Mood?
    Does Sugar Affect Our Mood?
    +sugar consumption raises your insulin level, a hormone produced by pancreas to help with sugar digestion. Which is a good and natural thing. The problem is that too much sugar causes insulin resistance and can result in Diabetes II. Over-consumption of sugar spikes your insulin level which results in following crash and more hunger, energy deficiency, sleepiness and mood swings.  Over long term can contribute to things like blindness
    + sugar is stored in your muscles as glycogen, short term fuel, if unused becomes a fat around your waistline, 
    + it decays your teeth unless you wash them after every sugary meal
    + it promotes a growth of cancer cells,
    + kills your libido
    + it is addictive, worse than heroine, coffee, alcohol and tobacco combined!!
    + contributes to accumulation of LDL cholesterol ( the bad one) in your arteries, resulting in increased pressure, heart disease and potential for heart attack. 
     
    Since it is not possible to avoid it, just make sure you cut as much of the white sugar as you can, dont overdo fruit and stay away from artificial sweeteners. 
     

  25. Date report, need advice please
    Date report, need advice please
    Spend 30 days going to nightclubs and opening every girl physical and do rapid physical escalation. Get lots of blowouts. This is just for practice.
    I have spent months practicing physical openers in loud ass clubs. You literally gently grab girls and pull them into you until you develop a magic touch. It takes a lot of practice to be able to do it without creeping girls out. You learn to get smooth so the girl doesn't bristle. You have to do it with rock solid confidence. If you hesitate it comes off creepy. That confidence comes with massive experience. Practice, practice, practice.