Yali

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  1. Urine therapy, sungazing, and other pseudo science like technologies
    Urine therapy, sungazing, and other pseudo science like technologies
    Urine is a waste product and contains toxins excreted from the body like heavy metals. Most of your heavy metals will be detoxed through the urine.

  2. Eating Honey As A Main Food Source
    Eating Honey As A Main Food Source
    I eat quite a lot of raw honey. Probably 1 jar per week.
    Not sure how healthy it is. I like to believe it's healthy. Of course 1 jar/week is nowhere near enough to live off of. It would be quite gross to only eat honey all day. Makes me want to vomit just thinking about it.
    And I would also worry about pesticides when eating that much.
    Good honey is also expensive.
    But it makes for a nice quick energy-boosting snack.

  3. Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    If you go deep into psychedelics they will undermine your rat race materialistic pursuits and goals, as those goals will start to seem irrelevant and meaningless -- which of course they are, but that's not what you wanna hear.
    Psychedelics can strip your entire life of meaning, so watch out. But they also lead to Truth.

  4. Full god realization on lsd?
    Full god realization on lsd?
    It's def possible. One of my first realizations of myself as God was on one tab of LSD.

  5. Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    @Bob Seeker
    Psychedelics will help with becoming an emotionally and spiritually healthy attractive man. They will help you see that life is your creation. They will help break patterns that were limiting you. They will help with opening your heart to intimacy, romance and healthier relationships. All of which can certainly lead to success with dating.
    It is extremely unlikely psychedelics will help you become some sort of pua master. Not because you couldn’t per say, but because it likely won’t be of much interest to you at that point. You’ll crave depth and quality, not just quantity.
    Being a pua master does not equal being a healthy, attractive man. It is quite possible to be very good at pua and have very little consciousness. In fact, in some cases you could argue low consciousnesses helps you.
    The good news though is that psychedelics do not “destroy ambition”. Such a thing is not possible nor healthy to desire. What they do is simply reveal what you actually want.
    When that happens, old delusional things you wanted may, or may not, fall away. Either way, it’s only a byproduct of awareness. So you don’t have to worry about psychedelics ultimately ruining your fun or getting rid of something you want. 

  6. Artificial Sweeteners are Healthy
    Artificial Sweeteners are Healthy
    I just read a new study last week which said that artificial sweeteners have been linked to increase cancer rates.
    They are definitely not healthy.
    If you want a sweetener, just use raw honey and take the calorie hit.
    There is no need for artificial sweeteners when you have a solid whole foods diet.

  7. Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    @Baul IQ tests are such a tiny tiny piece of information.   Think about it this way, if you had a kid and rather than put him in school or offer any personal development, all you did was teach him the questions and answers to that IQ test. Then when he's around 12 years old he takes the test and scores higher than anyone ever has. Would he be any more intelligent then anyone else?
    I would suggest pursuing connection rather than IQ. 
    Also, IQ is not a predictor of success at all. Just a reminder, Donald Trump is currently the president of the US. We all have our own connotation on what success means but I think being the president falls somewhere in the success zone, not to mention being a billionaire, and you're more intelligent than he is. 
     

  8. Three principles for the problem of describing God
    Three principles for the problem of describing God
    Except you can make very precise and accurate statements about God.
    All the following is true and accurate:
    You are God God is Love God is Intelligence God is Eternal God is Infinity God is an Infinite Mind God is dreaming reality God is Total God is omniscient God is omnipotent God is Will God is selfless God is One God is Good God is Absolute Truth God is Consciousness Etc. So this notion that you cannot speak about God is silly. Meaningful things can be said about God. You don't have to speak in Zen riddles.

  9. The core of the Universe is not love???
    The core of the Universe is not love???
    It's not the that Universe is about love. The Universe IS Love -- metaphysically. This doesn't mean you won't get shot in the head by someone.
    Love is just a much more profound thing than being treated well or feeling emotions of love.
    Yes, the Universe is Intelligence doing whatever it wishes. But what Sadhguru isn't telling you is that the highest intelligence is identical to Love. And this Love looks very radical to from the POV of a human. The Universe is doing Love, but it's doing it at the universal level, not at the human level.

  10. I hit on other woman while in a serious relationship
    I hit on other woman while in a serious relationship
    I know  I just feel like a total scumbag. If I didn't love her I would not care not feel anything about it. But I do, we've been together for 2 years now, and our relationship gets stronger by the day. For me, I've always seen pickup as a tool for social/personal development, and a way to tackle my social anxieties. It's just that she's in nursing school now, and we've pretty much been doing long distance. While most of my social anxiety has been tackled over the past five years since I started college, I still have an urge to develop myself socially. In a way, saying such things allows me to build my own confidence and social intelligence to new levels. I know its scummy, and I would feel deeply hurt if my girlfriend did such a thing too. So I that's why I've been controlling that urge. It doesn't come from a place of wanting to fuck her, but putting myself in a position of high tension. In a way, I like the adrenaline that comes from that, not the result.  

  11. Biases of females
    Biases of females
    Of course.
    But "handsome" is super relative. It's not about being handsome, it's about whether she is attracted.

  12. Why evolution
    Why evolution
    @Highest From the absolute's perspective there is no evolution. Everything exists eternally, simultaneously as an infinite singularity.
    From the relative perspective, human beings perceive time and linear cause/effect. So in this sense there is evolution. Evolution appears to occur inside the dream.
    This explanation makes no logical sense. And yet it is true.

  13. Do you take the boyfriend objection seriously?
    Do you take the boyfriend objection seriously?
    In my experience usually they are not lying. You can ask for his name or even to see a pic of him if you are so skeptical / cynical.
    Eventually you learn to just move on. Either way she isn't into you if she gives you that excuse. Although many of my wings sleep with girls with bfs on the regular. I would not advise that though. Bad karma.

  14. This girl broke up with her bf
    This girl broke up with her bf
    Def go for the kiss. Stop worrying about rejection.

  15. When to put on a condom?
    When to put on a condom?
    I will wash it before sex. Just go to the bathroom and wash it using the sink. Takes 2 mins.
    It's easier for guys to wash than for girls.

  16. Is there value in traveling?
    Is there value in traveling?
    It depends on the type of traveling. If someone goes to Vegas for blow and call girls, there probably won’t be a lot of growth and self actualization. Yet if someone does solo traveling without a lot of distractions, it’s a great for growth. As well, I’ve experienced a lot of growth immersing myself in foreign cultures. 

  17. My boyfriend is being too cheap
    My boyfriend is being too cheap
    It's simple really: you sit him down and communicate everything you wrote here to us, but to him, and do so in a sweet, non-blaming way.
    Like this: "Baby, I really love you and want a future with you, but this one issue is bothering me and getting between us. I want us to discuss and address it to clear the air so we can continue our great relationship."
    Work with him to help him see that his being cheap is actually holding him back in life.
    P.S. If you cannot communicate about something as minor as this, just kiss your relationship goodbye. It will never last.

  18. The problem with leos pick up advice
    The problem with leos pick up advice
    Stop this masturbating and go talk to girls.
    You don't need to be in the top 10%. You just need to hook ONE girl.

  19. Criteria for hookups for women?
    Criteria for hookups for women?
    Lol, dude, hooking up has the lowest requirements. All you need is a dick and to be in the right place at the right time.
    When a girl is ovulating, horny, and looking for fun, basically anyone with a dick and sense of humor will do.
    I see girls in the club who will sleep with the first guy who has the balls to approach her and pull her home.

  20. What Can I Actually Do To Not Feel Like Shit Because Of Not Getting Laid?
    What Can I Actually Do To Not Feel Like Shit Because Of Not Getting Laid?
    Why didn't you succeed at pickup? How many girls did you approach?
    Also, pickup isn't the only way to attract girls you know. 99% of men do not know pickup, and yet they still manage to get laid.
    What is the crux of your problem with attracting girls? Are you highly introverted and anti-social? Do you have social anxiety? Do you have confidence problems? Speaking problems? Appearance problems?
    The single most important factor for attracting girls is simply being near them. If you sit at home all the time reading books and playing video games, then yeah, it's very hard to get laid. You need to find ways to bump into girls your age. Try to brainstorm ways to get more involved in social activities like yoga class, dance class, workshops, seminars, music festivals, parties, networking events, Toastmasters, events on college campuses, etc.
    What city do you live in? It helps a lot to move to a hip city like Austin, LA, NY, Miami, Vegas, London, etc. It's much easier to find girls in those kinds of cities than in someplace like Kentucky.

  21. What Can I Actually Do To Not Feel Like Shit Because Of Not Getting Laid?
    What Can I Actually Do To Not Feel Like Shit Because Of Not Getting Laid?
    @MM1988 You're missing the obvious: Go get laid.
    Learn to attract girls.
    Not every problem in life is meant to be meditated away. Meditation is an advanced tool, for mature people who've already taken care of the basics of life. It is not a crutch to avoid the basics of life like food, money, shelter, health, relationships, work, family, etc.
    You wouldn't tell a starving child to meditate his hunger away. You would tell him to go make a sandwich. If you don't know how to make a sandwich << that's the first-order problem right there. Learning to make a sandwich is a lot easier than learning to meditate.

  22. Number of girls to approach on a night
    Number of girls to approach on a night
    1) Then maybe raise your standards.
    2) If you can find the girls outside the club, then why do you need the club? What is the problem?
    3) Or you can just wait till you're inside the club to start approaching. Talking to girls on the street is often not logistically sound, which is why it's better to do it inside the club where the girls are actually standing around and not running off somewhere else.
    4) When you approach you must take into account logistical soundness. It is pointless to approach a girl who is running off somewhere. You gotta approach in a way where you have a reasonable chance of hooking her and getting her to stop and talk to you. Don't just be a mindless approach machine. You must consider which logistical situations lead to success and which ones do not.
    5) Although of course you can pick girls up off the street, so don't let that stop you. Usually the best thing is to wait till you're in the club to hit on girls, then once the night is dying down, you can hit on girls outside the club as they go home. It tends to be a waste of time hitting on girls outside the club as they walk into the club -- you are better off hitting on them in the club.

  23. So I did pickup for the first time
    So I did pickup for the first time
    Going out and approaching consistently is like 80% of what pickup is. The rest is fine-tuning.
    It can be a lot of fun if you're doing it with friends.
    Solo tends to be really hard tough.

  24. The problem with leos pick up advice
    The problem with leos pick up advice
    There are no guarantees when it comes to girls. But if you approach 1000 girls you should be seeing some very promising things.
    1000 is actually a pretty conservative number. For most guys they will get laid sooner. It took me about 450 approaches, and I was really bad when I started.

  25. My logistical situation
    My logistical situation
    How about getting a car?
    Day game in Paris should be amazing too.
    You can often pull to the girl's place.
    Paying for a motel or cheap hotel if you're pulling a girl is also doable and reasonable. See if you can find a cheap hotel in Paris that will let you book rooms late at night.
    If you got a car, you can also fuck in your car. Get a car that has room to fuck.