You need both, to be serious and detached from outcome at the same time. Be passionate with the pursuits you engage in, but not attached to what may come from them.

I have been mediating for years but not consistently until now and I understand all too well how the monkey mind tries  to talk you out of your routine. I have realized the following:
1)The less I feel like meditating the more I need to.
2)I have never finished meditating and thought "That was a waste of time.". On the contrary, I always feel exponentially better: refreshed, positive and energetic. 
I am not claiming these are original, but they are what do the trick for me when my lying monkey mind tries to tell to skip my meditation. 

Hey guys how is it going ? I just came across this insight few days ago and I would like to share this with you, I think about this and it is very helpfull in all aspects of life.
Work on your goal delegently and you will achieve it sooner or later.
So why be frustrated, angry, anxious and envious during the process ? 
Just enjoy life the way it comes.
Even if you don't achieve your goals, Why be frustrated, angry, anxious and envious ?
Just enjoy life, follow the mastery process and accept drudgery.
I would like to hear your most powerful insights too, please share them down below.

The fundamental problem is that Benny is still very young and immature.
A horny 30 year old guy is in no position to lead a spiritual community. It is foolish that anyone thinks he could.
Why do you think I never started one? I knew it would obviously turn into a shitshow that distracts from serious work.
It's like herding a bunch of horny cats.

Many red flags that I explained in my Cult Psychology video.
"Awaken the world", "demonic entities", getting girls naked in front of a group, traveling around the world together, expensive hotels, asking to borrow followers money, sleeping around with multiple girls, partying together, an elite group of spiritual seekers, trying to control girls behaviors, hijacking a girls Instagram account -- haha, what a load of shit. None of this will lead to awakening.
People are not interested in awakening, they are interested in playing spiritual games within a spiritual community. It's like a country club/nightclub for New Agers. Of course girls get drawn into that and end up fucked because girls are such social creatures. It's a combination of status game, social circle game, and spiritual games. This is a hot spiritual girl's wet dream. She gets lured.

Yes, basically be a lot more social and you will get laid. How exactly you do that is up to you and depends on your lifestyle and location.

I wanted to give some thoughts on Leo's "How To Get Laid" series. Overall, it was incredibly insightful to watch, as someone who struggles with this aspect of personal development the most (Dating and Relationships, hookups aren't my thing). 
To give some background, I am 23 years old, and haven't had much success with dating in recent years. A year ago, I read Models by Mark Manson, after getting ghosted by someone I had strong feelings for. The first few chapters of Models made me cry, however, as I progressed through the book I started to realize that these were "Models" I could start to observe and practice, such as having a low investment strategy (having the confidence to ask someone out when you feel a connection, not being a pen pal for a century) showing interest, social cues, where to meet people you like, etc.
I started going out to meet people as regularly as I could afford to, with varying results, which I have to admit was frustrating at times given the pandemic (now that things are opening up a bit, I recommend taking advantage of that as much as you can, depending on your circumstances). I took dancing classes, yoga, went to artsy events, and shows of local bands. Dancing was tough because I didn't really connect with anyone, it felt weird being the only guy in class. There was one time in yoga I had the guts to go up and talk to this cute redhead, but I assumed she would be in the next class, so I didn't ask for her info (which bit me in the ass). It might be worth trying to meet people through a yoga class, but if you decide to do this, you have to go consistently (weekly or biweekly) which can get a little pricy if you do it every week (roughly 20 USD a class), and show up early to have a chance to have a conversation with someone. Another problem I found with yoga was I would rarely see people my age. Classes mostly had people in their 30s or above, so you have to be a bit strategic with this, go to all the classes, and figure out which ones have the age group you fit in. I've noticed early mornings on weekends tend to have people closer to my age (this is my experience, it could be different for you). If you want to meet someone this way, you have to be consistent and strategic (don't just blatantly hit on someone and make them uncomfortable, also, be sure to stare at everyone's ass for an equal amount of time to "just learn the pose" ). 
Personally, I found that events and local music shows are the best way to meet someone. You're already in a place with people of similar taste, so it's really easy to connect with them. You can just ask who's playing tonight, what genre of music they like, etc. (if you ever wonder what to say next just use mirroring and repeat 1 to 3 words they just said). Local shows are also a great opportunity because in between bands it's a good time to socialize. If you're early, it's a good time to socialize when the doors open as well. Local shows are also cheap! 10, 15, 20 bucks a show tops, usually 10 or 15 though. Hippy type events can also be a great way to meet spiritual people as well (though the access to these varies depending on where you live, I had to drive from CT to NY and NJ to go to these). 
This is where I would like to offer some feedback on the "How to Get Laid" series. Leo has a background in Pickup, where men "cold call" women essentially. From my perspective, there's nothing wrong with this per se, it can even be a good way to build confidence and overcome fear of rejection. I did something similar last year, if I saw someone I thought was really attractive, I would just ask her out and give my card (with my number on it). This helped me overcome fears of rejection (that I would get #metoo'd and my life would be ruined). Although I didn't get any dates this way, I was pleasantly surprised to discover they would blush instead. The problem with talking to any random, beautiful woman on the street is that it is not precise. How do you know you have anything in common? Or that you have similar values and life goals? You just find her attractive. I admire that Leo did this so many times, it must have been extremely tedious and demoralizing. However, doing this hundreds of times seems like a large time investment (counter to Manson's low investment strategy). 
The biggest takeaway I got from this series, was that I need to intentionally go out and be more social, on a consistent basis. When I plan my week every Sunday, I deliberately make going out a priority, finding out what's going on that week. Leo even mentioned that throwing events and parties is a really good way to meet someone. Even though naturally you could say I'm an introverted person, which is the case for a lot of intellectually minded people (and a bit of a curse at times). We still have this yearning for social connection. In my experience, going somewhere with intention is a way better strategy for meeting someone to date. Over the course of the last year, I asked out a dozen girls, and went on 2 dates in the winter (It didn't work out for personal reasons I won't go into, but it's progress from 0 dates over 2 years previous LOL). Finding places where you find people you like will make this process easier, and more fun as well.  
I just wanted to provide some thoughts on this subject because it's one that I struggle with, and am quite passionate about (I even made a documentary about it last summer). To anyone reading this (especially if you're a young guy like me) I have a great deal of compassion for your circumstance. It can be quite painful, and even embarrassing to put yourself out there at times, but it sure beats staring at a screen for hours a week, hoping that someone will finally swipe right on you. 
To close, I recommend giving meetup.com a try and seeing what's near you, spend a few hours one weekend finding what's closest, and what you are most passionate about. If you have any thoughts on this subject I'd love to hear any of your suggestions, and to share your journey as well, especially if you're trying to navigate dating in your 20s. 
 
 
 

I'm sorry to disappoint you, but evil does not exist.

1) Hitler was not evil.
2) Putin is not Hitler.

Spiral Dynamics has nothing to do with spirituality, it's a model describing the evolution of values. Values are goals that people deem desirable, and norms are ways in which you can achieve these goals. Spiral Dynamics only describes values, not only does it have nothing to do with spirituality, but it also says nothing about how people ought to behave.

Indeed
Crucial distinction.
Of course it's possible to emotionally manipulate young girls into anything. You could probably brainwash them into sexual slavery for spiritual purposes.

Except Benny here has exception consciousness and his core teachings have substance and validity. So he's not just acting spiritual.
But of course charisma can take you far. People are suckers for being charmed.

It would be naive to believe word for word what an unhappy student said. Not saying it isn't true, but I'm pretty sure there'd be a lot of projecting going on as well. Will be interesting to hear his response to these allegations.

@Migue Lonas
These stories read as incredibely self-biased to me.
Which is NOT to say I don’t believe these women or that they weren’t legitimately harmed. But does that mean Ben is “a walking dementor”,“monster”, and “predator” who “couldn’t be more closer to the devil”?
We need more sides of the story.

I mean, the prices he charges tells you everything you need to know about his operation.

3 second rule. You see hot girl and you approach. Don't wait for any signals.
I once saw a girl at the gym running on the treadmill with earbuds on. I walked in front of her treadmill. Did a big wave at her. Signaled her to stop running and take out her earbuds. She complied with all that. Then I told her I found her cute. We exchanged numbers. We went on a date. She had a boyfriend. I made out with her. But she refused to come home with me. And that was that.
Don't let any minor obstacles stop you. If she's on her phone with her mom, you stop her and tell her to hang up on her mom. I've done that and gotten laid from it. Hot girls are attracted to leadership.

Hm, I know people say don't take advice from a girl but I'll say it anyway. You gotta give her almost a killer look, just long enough, don't move your head though, and then let it go see if she reciprocates something.  Have fun.

LoL You girls think WW2 started with 10 countries involved in it? It all started with Germany .
Countries start to take sides and this means getting involved at some point in the process.
I am not saying this will convert into another WW but just because right now there are only 2 countries (1vs1) involved by no means this means that will be it.

Do you think this is a hypothetical or a joke to me? It's not. I feel great, you should try it.
I didn't say that it's a solution to life. Just that you can optimize life for pleasure.

What surgery is a guy gonna get?
Boob job is easy and works well. Many other surgeries not as much. Hair transplant would be the guy-equivalent of a boob job, and if that makes you feel better about yourself, then get it.
The bottom line is: if you got ugly boobs that's a pretty easy fix.
Also, for girls looks are way more important to their survival than guys.

nope,... its way more fucked up LoL
Something fucked up sexually
i think its too powerful, This shit its like crack
 
Having said that guys, I´m not really concerned with the addiciton. I mean yeah it wastes me money AF but I know the main problem its other.
I´m probably droppping some psychedelic on saturday, need a wake up call/learn to let go a or im going to fuck up my life If I continue like this.

Solution here seems simple: buy yourself a pair of boobs you love.
Sometimes there is a simple solution. Plastic surgery can be overused for supercial reasons. However, when used correctly it can give someone their self-esteem back.
You deserve to feel confident when you're having sex.
Yes, obviously guys you sleep with will care and they will appreciate a nice pair of tits.

@TravisB I develop no toleramce to 5-MeO-DMT. If anything, each trips goes deeper.
I didn't increase dosage each day. I would increase each week or so. But even if the dose stays the same my trips go deeper with each one.

It was intense for sure.
But I had nearly 100 trips of experience prior to doing that. So don't get ahead of your skiis.
I tolerate 5-MeO-DMT pretty well. Some other psychedelics are more challenging. For me DMT is more challenging.

This is pure nonsense.
One trip will not be sufficient for any serious understanding.
If you're really serious about understanding consciousness, you'll need at least 100 trips.
This is nonsense. There is no evidence of this.
No such evidence exists at all.
I've done over 100 trips and feel no brain damage. My brain is working just fine. Better even, thanks to increased awareness and understanding of things.
Don't listen to people's opinions on psychedelics unless they've done at least 100 trips.