Yali

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  1. Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    You can screen out tall girls just by looking at them, so this is moot.
    And furthermore, if you stop being so weak, you can date tall girls too. One of the best pickup friends I had was 5'4". He got laid more than me at 6'2". So spare me your BS excuses.

  2. How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    Stage a fucking coup and corrupted faith in our election system for decades to come.
    And that's just one out of 100 other shitty things like deregulating EPA protections, massively cutting corporate taxes, and filling the Supreme Court with religious ideologues for the next 30 years. Oklahoma just passed a total ban on abortions without exception for rape or incest.
    The list of damage the Trump admin did is staggering. You don't even know 10% of it.
    A lot happened. You just aren't paying attention to actual policy as you get lost in Trump's stupid antics. Beneath all the antics and drama is a very dangerous and toxic set of policies.

  3. I have to go out, oh no...
    I have to go out, oh no...
    Don't make it about hot chicks, make it about something deeper: human connection and personal development.
    You can form deep connections with people. It doesn't just have to be about chasing pussy.
    You're not gonna grow from watching Netflix. You will regress.

  4. Fear or cops while approaching girls
    Fear or cops while approaching girls
    One of the RSD instructors said that if you go out long enough eventually you'll get stabbed.
    But it will be worth it.
    So stop being a pussy and approach
    I have a 2-inch scar on my neck from when a drunk girl clawed me. Wounds of love
    You're a man, you're not as fragile as you think.
    It's not that there are no risks, it's that part of becoming a man is learning to tolerate and handle risk. That in itself is an attractive quality. When you can walk up to a table of dudes and hit on their girl, that takes balls and girls want that kind of man.

  5. Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    You are overthinking it. Just talk to every girl you are attracted to.

  6. Is Ben Shapiro a blue sociopath.
    Is Ben Shapiro a blue sociopath.
    I don't think so.
    He's just a typical conservative American Jewish white boy who was indoctrinated from birth to be an obedient boy.
    He's not a sociopath, he's an ideologue/fundamentalist.

  7. Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Don't pussyfoot around. A man must be comfortable doing a direct approach.
    When you hide your genuine intention and sexual desire for her, you're losing your attractiveness and power.
    Stop inventing false reasons for talking to a girl you like. This is unbecoming of a real man. You should feel entitled to talk to any girl you like with no pretense or justification.
    "If my dick likes you, I'm gonna talk to you." << That's the proper frame.

  8. Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    That's what I've heard as well.
    In my experience attracting Asian girls as a tall white dude works quite well, even in America. It would work even better in a 3rd world Asian country.
    In general it should be easier to get laid in 3rd world countries as a Westerner because you are perceived as having way more value than a local 3rd world dude. Girls are attracted to value.

  9. Questions for hardcore meditators and psychedellic users.
    Questions for hardcore meditators and psychedellic users.
    They are pretty different for most people.
    For me there is a lot of overlap.
    DMT is terrifying at higher doses. Then again, so is 5-MeO or any psychedelic at high enough doses.
    The dose is crucial. You have to find your sweet spot.

  10. Shunyamurti and Bentinho Massaro - Cult leaders?
    Shunyamurti and Bentinho Massaro - Cult leaders?
    I have always told you that awakening says nothing about what actions you take or how "good" you are.
    I could go murder someone tomorrow. And it would not diminish my realizations of God one bit. Might even enhance it.

  11. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Even with a hot girl, jerking off is often just better.
    Quality of your orgasm is a function of mind, not body. My best orgasms were via text message or imagination.
    Your mind can imagine things which no physical girl can give you. You can't fuck a girl in every hole at once within physical reality. But you can in your mind. And you can make her feel any way about you that you want in your mind. A real girl can't compete with that. But she can offer you a sense of "other".

  12. Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Great!
    Now do that 5000 times and you'll be solid 

  13. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Such people usually have sex with lots of new partners.
    And also I'd question how much they really "enjoy" it.
    I know a lot of guys who sleep with a lot of new girls, but I don't think they really enjoy sex at a deep level because their sex seems rather shallow. Just like eating a bunch of different fast food isn't really the best way to enjoy food. It's a low consciousness kind of enjoyment.

  14. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    You think I'm going to be bragging about my girlfriends here with you? To prove something to you?
    You've lost your mind.

  15. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    Even that is not so easy to find in most places during the day.
    You are going to waste more time looking for the girl than talking to her. It is much more efficient to just to the mall for 3 hours on the weekend and do all your approaches back to back. You will also build up a nice momentum that way.
    You have to be pretty skilled to just cold-open a random girl you see walking past you as you're going about your day. Most guys will never muster the balls to seize that opportunity. They will just talk themselves out of it. It takes a lot of approaching to get confident enough to the point where you can seize such a spontaneous occurrence. It will take you 30 minutes just to psych yourself up do it unless you are experienced.
    It's much easier to talk about approaching than actually doing it.

  16. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    If you live in NYC that can work. That does not work in most places.
    The biggest problem is the lack of hot women during the day on the streets. You need very special streets for effective day game.

  17. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    That's cause you are putting out shitty energy and/or not talking to enough women.
    If you are approaching 1 girl per day you will never feel abundance and you will be forced to settle with the bottom of the barrel.
    The whole point of pickup is that it teaches you how to put out better energy. It's not only about numbers. You become much more charming. But for that to happen you gotta be serious about it and hit the streets hard.
    When you go out you should aim to approach 5-10 girls at least per day/night. And you should go out at least 3 nights a week.

  18. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    That's your whole problem.
    You need to break that limiting belief to pieces.
    You will never be good with girls so long as you subscribe to such silly beliefs. You need to not give a fuck how others perceive you, without becoming a devil.

  19. Would you move from a stage blue dominant area?
    Would you move from a stage blue dominant area?
    That will depend on many factors, including your Spiral Dynamics level and what kind of lifestyle you want.
    My fave places are: Washington state, Nevada, Austin, Dallas, Oregon, California, Hawaii, Florida.
    I haven't explored the East coast much.

  20. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    None of your business.
    FYI, getting lots of girls has never been my interest.

  21. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    I’d recommend by actually becoming a man of value.
    It’s not really a limiting belief if you’re say, a 20 year old kid with nothing to offer, that a model “10” likely won’t be interested in you. She probably won’t, and that’s how it should be.
    But you CAN develop yourself over the years to where you are bringing a ton of value to the table.
    And part of the value includes working on your inner confidence and self-esteem. That itself is value. But the tangibles don’t hurt either. 

  22. How can I deal with a bad environment? - I fear that I'll give in to peer pressure
    How can I deal with a bad environment? - I fear that I'll give in to peer pressure
    I've been to bars and nightclubs 100s of times where everyone was drinking and never bought a single drink.
    I've been offered weed for sex several times and turned it down.
    It's easy to say no.
    Just focus on your education and work and you will be out of high school before you know it.

  23. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    What matters is not how hot the girl is, but how you think she percieves you!
    I will give you a personal example. I might be decent looking (5.75-6/10) max and when i interact with attractive caucasian girls i tend to be like you, i feel like they re out of my league etc. 
    However, when it comes to Asian girls i am much more confident and entitled. Why? Because i have noticed due to my appearance (i got baby face), a lot of them find me cute. This has lead to me having this delusional confidence with them and whenever i talk with one, no matter how attractive she is, i feel like she wants me, like i can easily get her if my game is on point. Why i feel this way? Because a lot of them have showed interest in the past.
    I got this based on my appeanrace but you can also get it based on your game or other stuff. As long as u get positive experience you ll start becoming more entitled.
    How you get more positive exprience? By talking to a lot of hot girls.

  24. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    The more experience you get talking to girls, the more hot girls you sleep with, the less their looks will faze you. Eventually you become entitled to the hottest girls.

  25. I took shrooms and it had no effect on me
    I took shrooms and it had no effect on me
    Your dose was pretty low, especially if you got natural tolerance or the strain was weak.
    Mushroom potency naturally varies.