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Scrubs go to bars. In Vegas you gotta hit the clubs. That's where all the honies be at.

Women can be fickle creatures. They run on moods and sometimes when the mood is right but you don't close the deal, she will feel weird about it the next day and lose her mood and change her mind about you.
In general you gotta strike when the iron is hot. One of the principles is: don't get a girl turned on unless your logistics are good enough to close the deal. Otherwise she is likely to feel slutty the next day and have a change of heart.
It's not necessarily that you did anything wrong. Sometimes you just can't close for practical reasons and you lose her. That is common. Sounds like you took plenty of action, which is great. You just didn't consider the logistics well enough. That's probably your only place for improvement. Failure to account for logistics is a killer.
Or, if you plan on dating her over multiple dates then don't escalate so hot and heavy. Be more subtle about it. So either go harder and close quickly or go slower and subtler. If you do it half-way it can feel awkward for her.
One thing you should learn from this experience is asking about her work schedule and plans early on, so you can factor that into your plans. Don't go into a late night date clueless about her work situation tomorrow. You should also not set your dates too late into the night. These little details add up. And the only way to learn them is to fail a lot.
Then again, if this girl truly liked you, she should have agreed to more future dates. Maybe you just sorta pressured her to go along with you in the moment but you didn't catch that she wasn't really that into you. If a girl is really into you, she should want more dates. There needs to be certain chemistry there. If the chemistry isn't clicking then that's the problem. And sometimes you just won't have the right chemistry with a girl. It's never guaranteed.
In the end, she has to want you. There is no trick around that other than rape. If you sense that she doesn't want you, you have to be willing to let her go. And then frame it to yourself as, "Oh well, she lost a great guy. She couldn't appreciate what I was offering therefore she didn't really deserve what I was offering." This whole thing doesn't really work unless she respects you as a man and values what you're offering. Many girls are clueless and will just overlook a great man. Or maybe you're not such a great man, in which case raise your value.
The bottom line is this: when she is with you, she has to say to herself, "OMG! This guy is awesome! I will never find one like him in 20 years." Build yourself into that kind of guy.

What he means is they don't increase consciousness in a permanent way. It's clear from the next sentence.
They take you to higher states by affecting your neurochemistry, whereas spiritual practice takes you there by clearing the gunk that's in the way.
Having a pump at the gym is useless if your muscles don't grow bigger and stronger as a result of it.

1) Baseline is not the same as "don't increase consciousness". Baseline is important but it is not the only factor in this work. To boil everything down to baseline and poo-poo all peaks is wrong.
2) Trips affect your mind in powerful ways that stays with you for the rest of your life.
I am not high 24/7, but after all my trips I can look at my body and recognize it as God. And many other insights. Too many to list.

Actually I do.
If Shinzen Young cannot do it after 40 years of professional practice, your chances are basically zero.
Stop giving people bullshit ideas. You are not going to reach 5-MeO-DMT levels of consciousness via meditation. This is a joke. It's like telling a dwarf that he can play in the NBA.

State is everything.
Now the work begins to raise your baseline state. LSD showed you what's possible with serious spiritual work. It didn't do the work for you.

I've got myself 1g of 5-MeO-DMT Freebase. I don't fancy vaping it, so I'll convert it to salt and plug it. I've read so much and watched so many videos related to 5-MeO-DMT (But still have questions). I guess my main questions are related to dosage and a rough idea of what to expect at each dosage ramp up. I believe it's very powerful stuff, so I want to take this nice and slowly. Am I best starting at 10mg (or less, maybe 5mg?) and ramping up in + 2mg amounts? I'd like to start with a little tastier (if that is possible), rather than getting blasted to infinity from the get-go. 
I'm sure it's a difficult question to answer but what can I roughly expect at 10mg? e.g. body load, I generally get a very heavy body on psychedelics and feel nauseous. Even on 2g of mushrooms (lemon tek), I can't move a great deal. What about headspace? and then the same when I ramp it up. From what I've read there can be great differences between very small amounts. e.g. 10mg - 15mg.
I've had mushrooms / nn DMT / LSD (although a long time ago), so I'm not new to psychedelics. But again I'm sure 5-MeO is a different animal altogether. 
Any help is greatly appreciated.

Nothing but love actually exists. God is Love and you are God. Integrate and reflect, find love in the subtle things, Meditation for sure. Psychedelics are awesome and lead to as you say, peak bliss experiences. But all states are equally awesome. Psychedelics should be improving your quality of sober, mundane life and if they aren't, why are you doing them?
It sounds like you're stuck in negative thought loops. Meditation. Walking. Driving. Working out. Find joy in the little things and go from there(I was once where you were at).

That's not awakening. That's speculation and thought.
Awakening requires a 100% absolute consciousness that your consciousness is all there could ever be.
You don't understand yet that nothing can exist outside of you. Once you get it, it's so fucking obvious. More obvious than 1 = 1.

Now you're just making excuses. It's creepy because you think it's creepy and because you probably are creepy.
Every girl is approachable. I have gotten dates and lays from girls on headphones and even in the middle of phone calls. First time I ever got laid was from stopping a girl walking in the mall talking to her mom on the phone. She was 25, fyi. I once approached a girl at the gym who was running on a treadmill with headphones on. It resulted in a date.
Street approaching is no harder than any other kind. It's a very common approach style in cities like NY, London, and Vegas. I got wings who pull girls walking outside on the Vegas Strip on a weekly basis. Like 60 min pulls from street to sex.
Stop making excuses and train yourself to approach.
Of course you can approach in a library. Although who the hell uses libraries these days??

Yeah, well, selfishness ain't free either. The devil pays an even higher cost for ruling over hell than God pays for surrendering to heaven.
Integrity will cost you quantity of sex but gain you depth and quality of sex. If you go the integrity route, get good at jerking off.

Well, your only other options are:
Day game Social circle Build up a public career where you meet lots of new people If you often see 4-5 girls worth approaching then why are you asking? There it is! Now fucking approach.
I prefer gaming outside the clubs. But you need good locations for that. I am way better at hitting on a girl in the lobby of a casino or shopping mall vs inside a club.

Yes, the key to learning to socialize is standing up for yourself and your values. If you try to please everyone or be a doormat then socialize will be very painful.

You have to dig deep and really own your sexuality. Be sexual. Don't try to hide it. You're a man, man has cravings. Let's not pretend otherwise.
People and women especially will respect you more when you are honest about your sexuality. Game will teach you that gotta be as authentic as possible and fully in love with yourself.
If you try to hide your sexual desires and intentions you will come off creepy and women will punish you for it ruthlessly.
If you desire a woman, make your intention obvious. If she rejects you, fine, no problem. But make it clear. Some will reject you, others will love you. The worst thing is to pretend like you don't desire her. This is the definition of beta. Alphas know when they wanna fuck and aren't embarrassed or guilty about it.
Of course this does not mean that you explicitly talk about sex with women you're hitting on. You still gotta be subtle about it most of the time.

The good news is that you're super young and you got time to turn all that around.
Be careful not to overwhelm yourself with this task of developing your life. You need to pick one or two things to focus in for now and take baby steps on them. You will build up a lot momentum over the years as you take action towards your ideal life. Think of this as a 5-10 year project and pace it out.

It's how you survive as yourself. You (the ego) is a bundle of thoughts.

Even in Vegas finding 10 girls worth approaching is not always easy.

Update: Second day game cold approach.
Saw a cute girl behind a counter in a shop at the mall and hesitated. Went to get my groceries instead, then on the way decided that I just had to go and approach. Walked into the store. It wasn't too busy. Maybe 3 customers. 
Walked up to counter:
Her: "Hey, good afternoon, how are you?" (typical sales talk)
Me: "Hey, good thanks. Hey this is a bit out of the blue.... but I was walking out there [main mall foot traffic corridor] and saw you and thought you were really cute and wanted to say Hi"
"omg! thank you (smiling and good eye contact).... what's your name?
Me" my name's xxxxx... yours?
her: xxxxx
Me: I don't want to distract you from your important work (half joking) but would you be keen to grab a coffee sometime?
Her: yeah! that would be great, I'd love to. I can't now cause Im at work but I would like to do that"
Me: Cool, well do you wanna grab my number (I was holding a big box with groceries so taking my phone out would be a pain).
Her: sure....[contact exhange]
Me; Cool, I'll see you around....bye
 
Overall, I'm happy she was receptive because I do know that lots of people can get some harsh rejections like 20 times in a row, which massively discourages them from pursuing cold approach. But this interaction made me more confident to just approach, because good outcomes can happen.
In terms of after-approach: my main goal was just to approach and push through approach anxiety. If I was more advanced I would make sure that our contact exchange was solid in terms of her actually texting me to confirm her number or vice versa if she had given it to me. 
I don't actually expect her to text me because of the theory of behaviour state untethering. (see Mike Mehlman article about it). Essentially, even those girls who are receptive of the surface will ghost the majority of the time. Also, I dotn think she got my number right when I said it so even if she does text me I wont get the text. 
Basically, I succeeded because I approached. During the day, sober, direct. I don't actually care whether we go on a date because now I have a palpable sense that approaches can result in receptive/positive conversations (i.e not all approaches by me are creepy). This is reinforced by approaches I made years and years ago at the start of uni, but its good to get this reinforcement in the present day. 
The result is that I am now more confident to approach because I can envision a positive outcome. 
Additionally, The honest, direct approach is one of the easiest to make because you dont have to make up a story or some indirect bullshit. WHat I said to her was the truth. I was walking past, I saw her at the counter, thought she was cute, and wanted to talk to her. I don't have to make up some bullshit about what kind fo clothes they sell or whatever the fuck. 
This interaction has solidified the notion of the direct, masculine, man-to-woman-frame approach. 

Because if we select 1 human out of 8 billion at random, chances are much more likely that you will be born in a shitty part of the world than in a good part.
And we haven't even considered animals. If you reincarnate as a random animal, most animals have it pretty hard. Chances you are you will reincarnate as a chicken in a factory farm or a bug that goes SPLAT on a car window shield.
Actually pain is conceptual and something your mind is doing. If you become conscious enough you can literally stop feeling pain as painful.

Definitely BS
His advice is not bad for getting laid, but you're still gonna have to do 1000s of approaches to get good at it. There is no magic pill for getting good with girls. It requires years of training.

I drink sometimes like 0-2x a month or so. It's not always worth it. I prefer to drink only with people I am already familiar with so I don't make friends with people I don't care when sober
If I had friends that I hang out with only to use drugs I'd cut them off. It doesn't matter how harmful the drug of choice is
For the health part, less is more. I don't drink caffeine so I can't just get drunk and get myself up the next day with a stimulant like people do so I need to moderate.

It's called tinnitus. Fairly common on this forum. Meditation, spiritual work, and psychedelics can certainly cause it.

Austin is awesome.
Dating = awesome
Food = awesome
Activities = awesome
Culture = awesome
Cost of living = high but worth it
Worst part of Austin is the horrible traffic.