Of course.
But "handsome" is super relative. It's not about being handsome, it's about whether she is attracted.

@Highest From the absolute's perspective there is no evolution. Everything exists eternally, simultaneously as an infinite singularity.
From the relative perspective, human beings perceive time and linear cause/effect. So in this sense there is evolution. Evolution appears to occur inside the dream.
This explanation makes no logical sense. And yet it is true.

In my experience usually they are not lying. You can ask for his name or even to see a pic of him if you are so skeptical / cynical.
Eventually you learn to just move on. Either way she isn't into you if she gives you that excuse. Although many of my wings sleep with girls with bfs on the regular. I would not advise that though. Bad karma.

Def go for the kiss. Stop worrying about rejection.

I will wash it before sex. Just go to the bathroom and wash it using the sink. Takes 2 mins.
It's easier for guys to wash than for girls.

It depends on the type of traveling. If someone goes to Vegas for blow and call girls, there probably won’t be a lot of growth and self actualization. Yet if someone does solo traveling without a lot of distractions, it’s a great for growth. As well, I’ve experienced a lot of growth immersing myself in foreign cultures. 

It's simple really: you sit him down and communicate everything you wrote here to us, but to him, and do so in a sweet, non-blaming way.
Like this: "Baby, I really love you and want a future with you, but this one issue is bothering me and getting between us. I want us to discuss and address it to clear the air so we can continue our great relationship."
Work with him to help him see that his being cheap is actually holding him back in life.
P.S. If you cannot communicate about something as minor as this, just kiss your relationship goodbye. It will never last.

Stop this masturbating and go talk to girls.
You don't need to be in the top 10%. You just need to hook ONE girl.

Lol, dude, hooking up has the lowest requirements. All you need is a dick and to be in the right place at the right time.
When a girl is ovulating, horny, and looking for fun, basically anyone with a dick and sense of humor will do.
I see girls in the club who will sleep with the first guy who has the balls to approach her and pull her home.

Why didn't you succeed at pickup? How many girls did you approach?
Also, pickup isn't the only way to attract girls you know. 99% of men do not know pickup, and yet they still manage to get laid.
What is the crux of your problem with attracting girls? Are you highly introverted and anti-social? Do you have social anxiety? Do you have confidence problems? Speaking problems? Appearance problems?
The single most important factor for attracting girls is simply being near them. If you sit at home all the time reading books and playing video games, then yeah, it's very hard to get laid. You need to find ways to bump into girls your age. Try to brainstorm ways to get more involved in social activities like yoga class, dance class, workshops, seminars, music festivals, parties, networking events, Toastmasters, events on college campuses, etc.
What city do you live in? It helps a lot to move to a hip city like Austin, LA, NY, Miami, Vegas, London, etc. It's much easier to find girls in those kinds of cities than in someplace like Kentucky.

@MM1988 You're missing the obvious: Go get laid.
Learn to attract girls.
Not every problem in life is meant to be meditated away. Meditation is an advanced tool, for mature people who've already taken care of the basics of life. It is not a crutch to avoid the basics of life like food, money, shelter, health, relationships, work, family, etc.
You wouldn't tell a starving child to meditate his hunger away. You would tell him to go make a sandwich. If you don't know how to make a sandwich << that's the first-order problem right there. Learning to make a sandwich is a lot easier than learning to meditate.

1) Then maybe raise your standards.
2) If you can find the girls outside the club, then why do you need the club? What is the problem?
3) Or you can just wait till you're inside the club to start approaching. Talking to girls on the street is often not logistically sound, which is why it's better to do it inside the club where the girls are actually standing around and not running off somewhere else.
4) When you approach you must take into account logistical soundness. It is pointless to approach a girl who is running off somewhere. You gotta approach in a way where you have a reasonable chance of hooking her and getting her to stop and talk to you. Don't just be a mindless approach machine. You must consider which logistical situations lead to success and which ones do not.
5) Although of course you can pick girls up off the street, so don't let that stop you. Usually the best thing is to wait till you're in the club to hit on girls, then once the night is dying down, you can hit on girls outside the club as they go home. It tends to be a waste of time hitting on girls outside the club as they walk into the club -- you are better off hitting on them in the club.

Going out and approaching consistently is like 80% of what pickup is. The rest is fine-tuning.
It can be a lot of fun if you're doing it with friends.
Solo tends to be really hard tough.

There are no guarantees when it comes to girls. But if you approach 1000 girls you should be seeing some very promising things.
1000 is actually a pretty conservative number. For most guys they will get laid sooner. It took me about 450 approaches, and I was really bad when I started.

How about getting a car?
Day game in Paris should be amazing too.
You can often pull to the girl's place.
Paying for a motel or cheap hotel if you're pulling a girl is also doable and reasonable. See if you can find a cheap hotel in Paris that will let you book rooms late at night.
If you got a car, you can also fuck in your car. Get a car that has room to fuck.

Organic is premium treatment of your food and you should pay premium for what you put in your body. 
You can even taste the richness of an organic fruit. 

I heard Leo say that cheap fruits and vegetables contain heavy metals which cloud your judgements by remaining in brain.
If you have heavy metals in your brain, your judgements and creativity decrease, and your ability to make money decreases.

It's not just about pesticides. All animals and plants need water, soil, and food to grow. If you feed them dirty water, food, or soil, they will absorb the bad stuff from it.
Do you really think giant farm companies are watering your apple tree with spring water? They use the cheapest sewage water they can find, probably from some toxic factory -- to save a few pennies.

Monsanto?
https://risk-monger.com/2016/04/13/the-risk-mongers-dirty-dozen-12-highly-toxic-pesticides-approved-for-use-in-organic-farming/
Here's one example of organic apple sauce tested by a lab:
https://www.puremarket.com/365-everyday-value-organic-apple-sauce-cinnamon-24-oz
Here's some organic peanut butter filled with heavy metals:
https://www.puremarket.com/365-everyday-value-organic-creamy-peanut-butter-unsweetened-no-salt-454-g
Here's some vegan organic plant protein powder filled will heavy metals:
https://www.puremarket.com/garden-of-life-meal-replacement-organic-raw-plant-based-protein-powder-chocolate-cacao-509-g
There is no perfect method.
But here's a decent place to start:
https://www.puremarket.com/search/food
Look, for example, at how many organic foods get F ratings on heavy metal toxicity:
https://www.puremarket.com/search/food?menu[facet_lab_grade]=F&refinementList[taxonomies.pm-product-diet][0]=Organic
You can even compare them to the non-organic versions which sometimes get A ratings.
It all depends. There's no simple formula here. Any product can be bad, no matter what the label or brand.

You'll be shocked to learn that organic products can have more toxic stuff them than inorganic.

Whey protein can cause lots of reactions given how much crap they put in it usually.
If you're gonna experiment with whey, you must buy the expensive, pure, organic, grass-fed, addictive-free stuff. But even so, you have to be very careful with any bulk powdered products you consume because they are likely to have heavy metals. And if you drink that stuff every day for months and years, it could make you very toxic without you even knowing it.

Buy organic and scrub it well with soap and brush/sponge.
Not much else you can do.
You can also do annual detox protocols to remove any accumulated junk in your system.

Massive practice approaching with built up state, and listening to lots of in-field verbals. Study good in-field to have example of good verbals for you to emulate.

It's odd that girls are going on dates with you but not sleeping with you or seeing you again. This is not an attraction problem because if the girl was not attracted she would never agree to a first date. Sounds like you just need to work on your date game. You should be closing like 50%-75% of your dates.
On dates you gotta be building deep rapport / romantic connection and escalating physically.
Don't give up yet. It sounds like you are close to decent success.
Can you describe your typical date, where and how it unfolds?

Lol.  Picture 6/10 (as ridiculous as that seems; rating; oh god I shudder). That’s my absolute lowest. Literally have never gone lower. Not even once. Feels ridiculous to even say this, but it’s usually over 7.5/10. I think I might just be handsome (not serious). And extremely vulnerable and honest — women pick up on that.