Yali

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  1. Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Great!
    Now do that 5000 times and you'll be solid 

  2. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Such people usually have sex with lots of new partners.
    And also I'd question how much they really "enjoy" it.
    I know a lot of guys who sleep with a lot of new girls, but I don't think they really enjoy sex at a deep level because their sex seems rather shallow. Just like eating a bunch of different fast food isn't really the best way to enjoy food. It's a low consciousness kind of enjoyment.

  3. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    You think I'm going to be bragging about my girlfriends here with you? To prove something to you?
    You've lost your mind.

  4. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    Even that is not so easy to find in most places during the day.
    You are going to waste more time looking for the girl than talking to her. It is much more efficient to just to the mall for 3 hours on the weekend and do all your approaches back to back. You will also build up a nice momentum that way.
    You have to be pretty skilled to just cold-open a random girl you see walking past you as you're going about your day. Most guys will never muster the balls to seize that opportunity. They will just talk themselves out of it. It takes a lot of approaching to get confident enough to the point where you can seize such a spontaneous occurrence. It will take you 30 minutes just to psych yourself up do it unless you are experienced.
    It's much easier to talk about approaching than actually doing it.

  5. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    If you live in NYC that can work. That does not work in most places.
    The biggest problem is the lack of hot women during the day on the streets. You need very special streets for effective day game.

  6. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    That's cause you are putting out shitty energy and/or not talking to enough women.
    If you are approaching 1 girl per day you will never feel abundance and you will be forced to settle with the bottom of the barrel.
    The whole point of pickup is that it teaches you how to put out better energy. It's not only about numbers. You become much more charming. But for that to happen you gotta be serious about it and hit the streets hard.
    When you go out you should aim to approach 5-10 girls at least per day/night. And you should go out at least 3 nights a week.

  7. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    That's your whole problem.
    You need to break that limiting belief to pieces.
    You will never be good with girls so long as you subscribe to such silly beliefs. You need to not give a fuck how others perceive you, without becoming a devil.

  8. Would you move from a stage blue dominant area?
    Would you move from a stage blue dominant area?
    That will depend on many factors, including your Spiral Dynamics level and what kind of lifestyle you want.
    My fave places are: Washington state, Nevada, Austin, Dallas, Oregon, California, Hawaii, Florida.
    I haven't explored the East coast much.

  9. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    None of your business.
    FYI, getting lots of girls has never been my interest.

  10. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Congrats!
    The reality is that most one nights stands are pretty lame. The sex isn't good because it feels awkward with a stranger and it can be hard to relax and enjoy it. Plus condoms.
    But the biggest problem is when you pull a girl you're not attracted to. The lesson for you here is: pull hotter girls who actually turn you on. And then have sex with her multiple times. Sex starts shallow and get deeper with time.
    But also, next to proper jerking off, sex isn't actually as good in most cases. It's hard for a girl to please you better than you can please yourself. The best part isn't the sex itself, it's the human connection before and afterwards.
    Sex is sorta overrated. The anticipation of it is better than the act itself.
    Don't get bummed out. Find hotter girls and keep trying. You'll have some amazing experiences at some point. Also, some girls are way better at sex than others. Many girls aren't good at it.

  11. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    I’d recommend by actually becoming a man of value.
    It’s not really a limiting belief if you’re say, a 20 year old kid with nothing to offer, that a model “10” likely won’t be interested in you. She probably won’t, and that’s how it should be.
    But you CAN develop yourself over the years to where you are bringing a ton of value to the table.
    And part of the value includes working on your inner confidence and self-esteem. That itself is value. But the tangibles don’t hurt either. 

  12. How can I deal with a bad environment? - I fear that I'll give in to peer pressure
    How can I deal with a bad environment? - I fear that I'll give in to peer pressure
    I've been to bars and nightclubs 100s of times where everyone was drinking and never bought a single drink.
    I've been offered weed for sex several times and turned it down.
    It's easy to say no.
    Just focus on your education and work and you will be out of high school before you know it.

  13. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    What matters is not how hot the girl is, but how you think she percieves you!
    I will give you a personal example. I might be decent looking (5.75-6/10) max and when i interact with attractive caucasian girls i tend to be like you, i feel like they re out of my league etc. 
    However, when it comes to Asian girls i am much more confident and entitled. Why? Because i have noticed due to my appearance (i got baby face), a lot of them find me cute. This has lead to me having this delusional confidence with them and whenever i talk with one, no matter how attractive she is, i feel like she wants me, like i can easily get her if my game is on point. Why i feel this way? Because a lot of them have showed interest in the past.
    I got this based on my appeanrace but you can also get it based on your game or other stuff. As long as u get positive experience you ll start becoming more entitled.
    How you get more positive exprience? By talking to a lot of hot girls.

  14. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    The more experience you get talking to girls, the more hot girls you sleep with, the less their looks will faze you. Eventually you become entitled to the hottest girls.

  15. I took shrooms and it had no effect on me
    I took shrooms and it had no effect on me
    Your dose was pretty low, especially if you got natural tolerance or the strain was weak.
    Mushroom potency naturally varies.

  16. Urine therapy, sungazing, and other pseudo science like technologies
    Urine therapy, sungazing, and other pseudo science like technologies
    Urine is a waste product and contains toxins excreted from the body like heavy metals. Most of your heavy metals will be detoxed through the urine.

  17. Eating Honey As A Main Food Source
    Eating Honey As A Main Food Source
    I eat quite a lot of raw honey. Probably 1 jar per week.
    Not sure how healthy it is. I like to believe it's healthy. Of course 1 jar/week is nowhere near enough to live off of. It would be quite gross to only eat honey all day. Makes me want to vomit just thinking about it.
    And I would also worry about pesticides when eating that much.
    Good honey is also expensive.
    But it makes for a nice quick energy-boosting snack.

  18. Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    If you go deep into psychedelics they will undermine your rat race materialistic pursuits and goals, as those goals will start to seem irrelevant and meaningless -- which of course they are, but that's not what you wanna hear.
    Psychedelics can strip your entire life of meaning, so watch out. But they also lead to Truth.

  19. Full god realization on lsd?
    Full god realization on lsd?
    It's def possible. One of my first realizations of myself as God was on one tab of LSD.

  20. Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    Do psychedelics hold value for someone doing pickup and career work?
    @Bob Seeker
    Psychedelics will help with becoming an emotionally and spiritually healthy attractive man. They will help you see that life is your creation. They will help break patterns that were limiting you. They will help with opening your heart to intimacy, romance and healthier relationships. All of which can certainly lead to success with dating.
    It is extremely unlikely psychedelics will help you become some sort of pua master. Not because you couldn’t per say, but because it likely won’t be of much interest to you at that point. You’ll crave depth and quality, not just quantity.
    Being a pua master does not equal being a healthy, attractive man. It is quite possible to be very good at pua and have very little consciousness. In fact, in some cases you could argue low consciousnesses helps you.
    The good news though is that psychedelics do not “destroy ambition”. Such a thing is not possible nor healthy to desire. What they do is simply reveal what you actually want.
    When that happens, old delusional things you wanted may, or may not, fall away. Either way, it’s only a byproduct of awareness. So you don’t have to worry about psychedelics ultimately ruining your fun or getting rid of something you want. 

  21. Artificial Sweeteners are Healthy
    Artificial Sweeteners are Healthy
    I just read a new study last week which said that artificial sweeteners have been linked to increase cancer rates.
    They are definitely not healthy.
    If you want a sweetener, just use raw honey and take the calorie hit.
    There is no need for artificial sweeteners when you have a solid whole foods diet.

  22. Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    @Baul IQ tests are such a tiny tiny piece of information.   Think about it this way, if you had a kid and rather than put him in school or offer any personal development, all you did was teach him the questions and answers to that IQ test. Then when he's around 12 years old he takes the test and scores higher than anyone ever has. Would he be any more intelligent then anyone else?
    I would suggest pursuing connection rather than IQ. 
    Also, IQ is not a predictor of success at all. Just a reminder, Donald Trump is currently the president of the US. We all have our own connotation on what success means but I think being the president falls somewhere in the success zone, not to mention being a billionaire, and you're more intelligent than he is. 
     

  23. Three principles for the problem of describing God
    Three principles for the problem of describing God
    Except you can make very precise and accurate statements about God.
    All the following is true and accurate:
    You are God God is Love God is Intelligence God is Eternal God is Infinity God is an Infinite Mind God is dreaming reality God is Total God is omniscient God is omnipotent God is Will God is selfless God is One God is Good God is Absolute Truth God is Consciousness Etc. So this notion that you cannot speak about God is silly. Meaningful things can be said about God. You don't have to speak in Zen riddles.

  24. The core of the Universe is not love???
    The core of the Universe is not love???
    It's not the that Universe is about love. The Universe IS Love -- metaphysically. This doesn't mean you won't get shot in the head by someone.
    Love is just a much more profound thing than being treated well or feeling emotions of love.
    Yes, the Universe is Intelligence doing whatever it wishes. But what Sadhguru isn't telling you is that the highest intelligence is identical to Love. And this Love looks very radical to from the POV of a human. The Universe is doing Love, but it's doing it at the universal level, not at the human level.

  25. I hit on other woman while in a serious relationship
    I hit on other woman while in a serious relationship
    I know  I just feel like a total scumbag. If I didn't love her I would not care not feel anything about it. But I do, we've been together for 2 years now, and our relationship gets stronger by the day. For me, I've always seen pickup as a tool for social/personal development, and a way to tackle my social anxieties. It's just that she's in nursing school now, and we've pretty much been doing long distance. While most of my social anxiety has been tackled over the past five years since I started college, I still have an urge to develop myself socially. In a way, saying such things allows me to build my own confidence and social intelligence to new levels. I know its scummy, and I would feel deeply hurt if my girlfriend did such a thing too. So I that's why I've been controlling that urge. It doesn't come from a place of wanting to fuck her, but putting myself in a position of high tension. In a way, I like the adrenaline that comes from that, not the result.