I went out tonight and meet this girl that I actually liked. I really wanted to fuck her but the problem was that she couldn't come with me becuase she had work in the morning and needed to sleep at her friend's place. I'm sure I could have gotten her home otherwise.  We made out and she was into me and I also made raport.
Should I have tried fucking her in the bathroom at the bar/club? Is that a viable strategy or is it too risky? How do I suggest that if that's the case? 
Do I just say like " hey, wanna do it (; "
Would love to hear some inspiration of what's possible.
@Leo Gura
 

Well, it will depend on how deep your awakening and spiritual work goes. If it goes deep enough you will probably transcend and outgrow everything in normal human life. However I have not reached that point. I am still motivated by many aspects of life, including sex, intimate relationships, some forms of business, creative and artistic pursuits, and I still have intellectual pursuits although they are more grounded in my own personal contemplations rather than listening to humans. I still have a lot of spiritual work to do. I haven't gone full monk mode.

Girls rarely get attracted in the first second, they get attracted more slowly as they sense the guy's vibe and energy.
But of course not all girls will be attracted to what you got to offer. In such cases no amount of confidence will help you. But she's also not rejecting you purely based off looks. Girls give guys much more leeway in terms of looks. It's not 100% leeway but much more leeway than a guy gives a girl.
A lot of times the girl rejects you simply because she's not in the right mood. It's not even about you in most cases but about the bullshit going on in her own life which is distracting her from being fully open to dating. Most of the time she's not even thinking of dating or sex.

You can vape DMT without any juice at all. You just need the proper rig.
That is the safest. Otherwise use organic terpenes.

Took me ~450.
Learning pickup is a lot harder than it sounds/looks.
If you want to be successful in life stop looking at the odds and stop quitting. If you want to get good with girls you shouldn't mind doing 1000 approaches and still not getting laid.

No
I still plan to do some solo retreats.
Yes, and so I view it as one tool in my toolbox.
There is value to retreats and I recommend you guys do more of them. They are just not a replacement for psychedelics.

You must prioritize.
I have no idea what your priorities are. Sit down and figure it out.
If you are going to be a cold approach machine on a school campus word will definitely get around.
You have to be more careful and calibrated about how you approach on a campus.
But a campus offers a lot of socialization events and activities, so your game can be more indirect social-circle than direct cold approach. Sign up to social events and chat up girls.
Frat parties is where it's at.

I wouldn't do it more than once per week.
If you want daily tripping you need 5-MeO substances or DMT. 4-AcOs and 4-HOs should be done no more than weekly. 5-MeO / DMT you can blast all day long. But be careful what you wish for.
Too much tripping will destabilize your mind and life.

It's not purity. 5-MeO molecules simply work differently in the brain than 4-HO and 4-AcO molecules.
Actually the novelty wearing off has never been an issue for me. I did 28 days straight of 5-MeO-DMT and the novelty only increased each day. It didn't wear off at all.
If I was hooked up to a 24/7 IV drip of 5-MeO, I don't think I would ever get bored of it. I'm hoping in the future someone will invent a device that can be implanted in the body like a pacemaker which will just manufacture chronic mild doses of 5-MeO and drip it into the bloodstream. This would solve all of mankind's problems with spiritual practice and the majority of the population would awaken.

@Vision Sorry i misunderstood what you where asking, i thought you where asking about cloud services as a business model. I know a few guys who slowly built up there own over time, for every new client they would add a service to there infustructure and in a few years they had a entire package of cloud services to quickly build any app and keep there customers tied financially to them lol. But the services are no different from using google or amazon cloud services, so they basically remade what has already been done a million times, but now they own it and can charge for it. 
Excellent.
Yes but are they profitable? There are so many alternatives/competition. Most of the work people do goes to open source or ends up freely accessible to people. 
Im constantly learning new technologies for different jobs, so ive done a few things like, Full stack web development, Smart Contracts, Game development, IOT and Hardware modeling/programming, Mobile apps, Chrome extensions, Trading bots... ++
I worked in a company for a few years 9-5, its definitely less enjoyable then working with startups, but the pay is good + benefits. Working with other people is a pain and a distraction, its takes a lot of effort coordinating, tracking tasks, meetings, bug management...
I work for people and have side projects. Ideally i would of done things differently and started a company or various services but life doesn't always give you the opportunities.
22, i would of started sooner if i new coding existed, i had no idea what it was. But before any of that i was addicted to problem solving and games like chess, so programming was a immediate addiction that suited me. 

Software Developer

Got my hands on a bag of 5MEO-DMT HCl for the first time. (Only managed to source freebase before.)
I have had a few experiences smoking it and breaking through. 30mg was the sweet-spot when smoking it.

Now with the HCl (plugging), I wonder how much I should use to get on the same wavelength as a 30mg smoked dose?
As plugging makes psychedelics much more intense for me. 2CB can for example get very intense (In a good way) when plugging.
 
Any tips? @Leo Gura

Good work. Especially that last trip.
For me 20mg would be a breakthrough dose. 30mg would be intense enough to be physically harmful. 25mg is my sweet spot.

I’m going to start Nofap from now on, no PMO for 90 days at least.
And im going to start talking to girls while out, Im going for 500 approaches this year at least.
what are some high quality/high consciousness dating gurus online? I really like Owen Cook aka rsdtyler, maybe you guys have more suggestions like him.
Gonna start a journal as well soon.
 

@kras That proves you don't know ALL the theory or applying bad theory. Unless you have terrible logistical issues (which I do have), the first date should be back to your place, which is the MOST ideal and is preferred, even without a lockdown.
@MrBON You obviously don't know women- there are many guys in a private group taking girls back to their place. Even with my bad logistics, I get invited to their house. 

@Dovahkiin Definitely agree with everything you wrote... It really resonates. And yes, happiness isn't insight, however happiness IS an insight haha. I use the techniques outlined in The Mind Illuminated, which is a book heavily focused around Samatha, but it's more accurately a samatha-vipassina hybrid as it combines elements of both in an integrated way. Feels like a SD stage yellow meditation book, with streaks of turquoise. Highly recommend it if you feel more pull towards traditional meditation vs. kriya. I've done some kriya yoga, but it feels a bit too active for me. There's something about the stillness and potential boredom that arises with meditation that attracts me. I think eventually I'll give Kriya another shot once I've developed the skills with meditation I want. 

My strategy with consciousness work is using meditation to transform my mind and use contemplation/psychedelics for insights. I don't really regard meditation as an insight generator (though I have had many insights while meditating), but rather a tool that works directly on reprogramming my mind and emotions, as well as a tool for integrating the insights I've gotten from both dry contemplation and contemplation under the influence of psychedelics. 

Edit: To give credit where credit is due, @ardacigin is the one who initially brought The Mind Illuminated on my radar. He has a lot of really great posts talking about facets of meditation and its utility. 

That is exactly what mediation is: worming your way up Mt Everest. If it sounds needlessly slow and painful, that's because it is.

Great sex is all about your mind, not your body. The physical mechanics are the least important part of sex.
Never had this need.
Get her and yourself so turned on that you won't even be thinking about lube.

Crack pipe is very wasteful of chemical and inconsistent.
Electronic rig is way more efficient, potent, effortless, and discrete. Makes breaking-through a breeze.

You just need to learn to have better sex.
Good sex requires training, skill, and experience. There are many ways to make your sex a lot hotter and deeper. But people are too lazy and uncreative to do it.
Don't form your opinions on sex based off one or two girls you've done it with or some lame ONS. Jerking off is not nearly as emotionally satisfying as sex well-executed.
Sex, like awakening, comes in many degrees. Don't expect girls to just give you great sex on their own. You must lead them into great sex. Train them to have hot sex.

Haha
In practice what most women do is this:
They spend their teens and 20s sleeping around with the hottest, most high-value guys they can find. But since these guys are high value, they tend to be players who leverage their value and won't commit, or are abusive narcissistic assholes. So eventually by the time you hit your 30s you learn your lesson and lower your standards to guys who are less players, but also less attractive and you find some comfortable compromise position with such a guy and you two settle down.
Then you get divorced.
This is a tale as old as mankind itself. Nothing at all surprising about it. This is the game. The game is happening whether you know it or not, whether you want it or not.
The only way out of the game is not be alone and not have sex. If you're going to play the game, you're gonna suffer its inherent limitations. There is no free lunch in the relative world. Sex and relationships have a high cost. Which is why monks and yogis avoid them entirely.

I've had multiple ex-girlfriends, so be careful with your assumptions.
It's best if you didn't concern yourself with my personal life.

This is not true.
And stop framing this as "tricks" to get in a girls panties. Proper game is about becoming a legitimately more attractive and higher value guy. It is not fake. It is real. The confidence and humor developed through pickup is REAL. And it will be respected and appreciated.
Today I am genuinely much more attractive than I used to be. Because of the development work I did. And any woman who sleeps with me will benefit from that. It's not some trick I'm running on her.

Like I said, it all depends upon your standards. If you have low standards you can go develop a deep intimate relationship with a crack whore or a hunchback. But who are we kidding? We want the best we can get.
You don't need to go crazy with maximizing sexual value. But your mind IS maximizing it to some degree, whether you know it or not. Feelings of attraction ARE the maximization process at work. It is not a logical process, it is all handled subconsciously by your mind and all you know about it is the feelings of attraction and arousal.
When you feel aroused by another person, that's your mind telling you:
"ALERT! ALERT! ALERT! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! CAPITALIZE ON THIS IMMEDIATELY! DO NOT IGNORE!"
And your ego-mind says, "I love that person for who they really are. I'm so loving. This is true love."
It's all self-biased bullshit. A delicious hallucination.

A supermodel is a lot more than just a hot girl. She has fame, status, and millions of dollars.
Yeah, I could bang a hot nobody girl. But landing an actual supermodel is a very different matter. She's not gonna date a guy who's not at least a millionaire.
Celebrity dating is a whole nother league, son.
BTW, I once went on a date with the 75th top ranked Russian pro tennis star. She was buying BMWs with cash and she was smoking hot. Her body was incredible. But we didn't get along so I never got the chance to sleep with her. But I got real close. If our personalities were more aligned it would have happened.
So yeah, even a guy with my looks can attract hot girls. But it requires game. It ain't gonna happen "naturally".