You basically have no idea what spirituality is until you do your first full dose of psychedelic.
It's like discovering another universe.
So if you're interested in spirituality and philosophy, it's a crucial move.
If you're more interested in chasing sex, money, and success, then it will be distraction from that.

"Hey, I thought I'd meet you."
Ask for her number towards the end. But if it's a very long interaction, over 30 mins, then somewhere in the middle.

Of course if you press them on it they will be forced to admit it, but most of them keep it unsaid.
Most of them don't even make the connection in their own mind that they started on the path because the culture changed to allow it because psychedelics became widely used.
The only reason stuff like yoga and Zen and Buddhism and TM became popular in the West is because minds were opened thanks to psychedelics in the 60's. Psychedelics made the myths tangible. All of this gets taken for granted and unacknowledged.
You think it's an accident, for example, that Ralston and Shinzen Young both lived in San Fransisco during the 60's??? They didn't do it on their own. Their culture led them to it.

@Rob06 Raising kid is tough because it forces you to confront with the part of your shadow which you haven't integrated yet, and teaches you empathy, patience, how to set and enforce boundaries, how to be vulnerables, how to consciously deal with another vulnerable person, and so on. It will be tough, especially if you had a dysfunctional childhood, because all your traumas will be triggered by your children (you are in the parent role now).
If you value psychological healing and integration, then yes, raising children is a valuable road. You also need the right partner

1) Yes, the louder it is, the more physical game is necessary and effective.
2) But you can also train yourself to just speak louder and hear better.
3) Practice your verbal game and not running out of things to say in quieter environments. So then you can transfer that skill to loud places. Running out of things to say is not a loudness problem, it's a verbal game problem. I bet you'll run out of things to say even in a library. So don't blame that on the loudness.
4) If you open on the dance floor, open physically with great eye contact etc, dance for a bit, and then pull her off the floor to a quieter area to talk and build a connection. It's just the inverse of a typical approach, where you talk first and then pull to dance floor after you've built a connection.

What you have to do is:
1) Learn to socialize
2) Develop solid inner game
That's really all there is to it.

You cannot learn socializing through a book.
Stop thinking of this issue as even pickup-related.
It's not really about pickup, it's about the fact that you are fundamentally insecure with yourself around other human beings. You lack core socialization skills. This is not about manipulating women into bed, it's about the fact that you are incapable of walking up to a stranger and holding a fun conversation.
Yes, and the only way you'll develop that is by socializing with 1000s of people. So get out there and get started. You don't fix this sitting at home thinking about it. Go out, approach, socialize. You don't even need to do it with girls. You could learn it by talking to guys.
As you develop those skills, you will get a girlfriend along the way. You don't need to stress about that. What you need to do is start developing the social skills like going to the gym.
I've gone through this process. From zero. Nothing you're describing is in any way original or unique to you. Tens of thousands of guys have gone through it. You can too. It's not easy, but it's worth the effort.

@d0ornokey It's very challenging. Western philosophers are masters at weaving together genius and bullshit.
Best to stick to modern nonduality teachers for the most of you. So you don't waste your time.
The books on my book list are what you should be focused on reading and mastering. You'll notice, I don't put a lot of philosophy books on there.

Those things count. Especially status. Raw success, like money in your bank account, does not count.
Yes, that counts as emotional stimulation. Not that I endorse it.
No, don't be so extreme. We are speaking in generalities.
1) Of course most of the manipulation men do is unconscious. Although some guys can also do it very deliberately, with pure calculation.
2) You can always gets some girls through pure random luck without doing anything, just being at the right place at the right time.
3) Good looking guys and high status guys require a lot less manipulation. Also, it's a question of the quality and quantity of girls the guy wants. If you are happy with low quality girls then you don't need to manipulate as much.
4) I'm not saying that you can't get laid without manipulation. You can. You'll just get laid a lot less and with a different kind of girl. It's a bit like sales. You can still sell stuff without being a used car salesman about it. But there is also a good reason why used car salesmen are the way they are, and why you shouldn't sleep with one.

You need more leads in your funnel. Socialize more so you have more fodder to screen through. Then screen based on values and actual important points, not superficial and shallow ones.
Go on many more dates, but screen harder. Don't judge a guy too much before the date. Use the date to actually get to know him and then you can judge once you have some material to work with.
I feel that a big mistake girls make is that they judge way too early on way too little information and in superficial ways, not really giving the best guys a chance, while falling quickly for the wrong guys. A great guy's qualities take time to see. Your intuition is not good at picking it up. So be careful with that intuitive approach. Your intuition is often wrong because it has too little information. If your intuition was so good, you wouldn't be sleeping with so many wrong guys. So the problem is that your intuition gets you into trouble. It's very easy for a player to fool your intuition because it's easy to trigger attraction in a girl just by doing the things girls are attracted to. You must realize that you are very robotic in what you are attracted to, like a fly to shit.

FAST FOOD + Lack of experience + Abusive Traumatized Narcissistic Parents + too much stimulation + drugs and alcohol available everywhere to everyone + Media that make mental illness problems seem ordinary (Mr.Robot) + subliminal messages in movies and songs? + Sexual Frustration 

Honestly, if I had the chance, I would just go straight for smoking it, I feel like shoving and plugging it would be too difficult. I'd just smoke on it. Lol, maybe one day, we can smoke on 5-Meo Together. I wonder what I would experience, what kinds of stuff did you guys see and experience on it?

I'm in Austin. Just like the man said--great Thurs-Sat. Summer is amazing.
Young adults actually voted Austin the best U.S. city for dating and I agree. Hmu if you come.

The real danger you should be concerned about is staying under-developed.
I know folks who got enlightened in their early 20s. So if anything, you're behind the ball.
If our society had any decency, everyone would be fully enlightened before they finished high school.

Plugged DPT gives a 3 hr+ trip.
And I've found other chemicals as well.

How many times must we say that freebase can be plugged or snorted without conversion?

It is super euphoric for me. But high body load. Feels like the body is drugged numb. Not how I like to feel. I prefer a cleaner high.
Then again, the euphoria I get on 5-Meo or DMT is literally infinite. A higher pleasure cannot be imagined. It's so much pleasure it's frightening and nearly suicidal. No higher pleasure can exist.
Imagine a pleasure so great it warps your field of consciousness into an impossible hyperbolic 4D geometry. You experience pleasure in new dimensions you didn't even know exist.

@Enlightenment Convert it to freebase first, it's safer and way easier to vape that way. Here's the tek: Fumarates to Freebase Conversion TEK, I have used the first method with a sucess on a one gram of DPT.
Yes, electric vaporizer is a great idea, the best I would say. It's addicting though to be able to smoke at any time in no time, haha. Use the emesh method, here's what you will need:
Mesh Pro RDA from Aliexpress Aegis Solo or iStick Pico S mod box Quality 18650 battery, buy one from a vape shop VandyVape 316L mesh 810 drip tip, I recommend long and clear so you can see the vapor and know when you can stop inhaling When it comes to a mod box, Aegis Mini should work too, it doesn't need a battery as it has one already built-in, so it's cheaper in that way. Normal iStick Pico, no the S version, is also proven to work, it's what I have, but it needs a 510 to Ego adapter or a heat sink from Ali to work, due to so little space.

Def yes. Sex is inversely proportional to wisdom.
However, the deeper you are the less friends and romantic options you need. Quality over quantity.
You should still learn to relate to people on a basic level and learn to have some shallow fun.
Not everything needs to be Einstein level.

That distance should not undermine seriousness. You can still be very serious. Just don't see each other too often.

Way too little.
Become more secure -- that's game in a nutshell.
I've approached a lot of girls and they almost never ask me that.
It's your vibe.
Yes

I don't really have a solution for it.
One way is to not see each other too often.
Living together is bound to turn into stagnation I think. It's like eating ice cream for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. It will lose its charm.
It's actually nice if you don't live too close to each other so that seeing each other feels special. Dating a girl from another town can actually be great. Just not too far. You want it close enough that it's cheap and easy to travel.

It works great. Just keep your dose low and don't mix it with anything.
It's hard to trip balls with a DMT pen because the vapor is mostly inert e-liquid, not DMT.
To trip balls on it you will need to do 3-5 huge hits in a row. Not easy to do. So there's little risk of overdosing. And worst case scenario you just go sit in the corner for 5 mins.
It's no more intoxicating than alcohol. But only lasts 10 min.

Yes, I usually know with 3 secs if it will hook.
But it's still good to train the skill of gaming a brick wall. Sometimes it takes a few mins for a girl to open up to you.
It also depends on how many girls there are out. If it's a slow night you don't have the luxury of burning through a bunch of girls. If there is a horde of girls, then you can screen for openness much harder cause all you're looking for is 1.

@Karmadhi Funny enough, attracting a non-hot girl can be more difficult or just as difficult as a hot one.
You shouldn't expect average girls to give you eye contact more than once in a blue moon. Girls are not wired that way. It takes time for a girl to warm up to you and get sexually interested. She is not scanning the room the way a guy scans a room for hot girls. Girls are passive creatures. They don't bother themselves with approaching or initiating. It will happen once in a blue moon. Capitalize on it when you see it, but don't go out hoping for it.