@diamondpenguin Wherever you are, whoever you are, you are always floating around as a figment in the eternal mind of God.

The truth is that Tinder works entirely off your photos. If your photos are good all you need to do is open with "Hey". And if your photos are bad nothing you say will work.
Spend less time perfecting your opener and more time perfecting your photos. And if you don't have good looks don't bother with Tinder at all.

That's what game is.
Guys who don't know game are, ironically, unable to create rapid emotional connection. Which is why they struggle to get laid.
Emotional connection has little to do with love.

I have seen multiple comments against starch specifically lentils, beans, and oats. This interests me because legumes and grains are actually higher in vitamins and especially in minerals per gram compared to vegetables. In general, vegetables are lower in micronutrients compared to most other foods including meats. And of course, the reasons for eating more or less of something should be backed up by science. Eating more vegetables is associated with better health at least in general medicine, but the same can be said about legumes and oats.
I feel like this whole thing is about high-calorie foods being bad in general, lentils are high-calorie IMO. I don't like the idea of eating less than 2500 calories a day though, some of us have very fast metabolisms, which means if we ate only vegetables we would look like children. You can poke fun at that idea all you want but you are ignorant of the fact that people Gen Z and forward have the opposite problem their parents had, we don't have balanced hormones, especially male ones. Testosterone isn't just a muscle-building hormone, It's also an essential hormone to be and remain a happy male in many other areas.
Consuming 2100-3000 calories a day is necessary for most men.
Written with open-mindedness.

That is a great quote.

It's no different than how men are attracted to women.
It doesn't matter to you that a girl is hardworking, logical, and successful -- you care about tits and ass.
Nothing profound or suprising in any of this. Sexual attraction is never about character. So the fuck what? Go talk to girls.

You don't need all this elaborate theory.
Just go out, be social, and talk to girls. The rest is BS.

Sounds like you're just a weirdo.

Real game is about becoming more charismatic and extroverted. And learning how to deal with the feminine. Which changes how you interact with people.
Once you develop a sense of humor, for example, that skill stays with you into all your relationship.
I don't even worry about keeping her. If you want a relationship you will natutally want to have fun together.
Obviously you need to make time for any relationship to be successful.

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Going on a date does not equal commitment to an exclusive relationship.
It also matters how you frame your dates. Don't make them too involved and romantic. Keep things light and fun and she won't expect so much.

It's very important to figure out how you are going to offer value to the world.
Your mistake is thinking of this as "work" or "making money". That's super shallow. You need to think of it as: "What is my art? What do I want to contribute to mankind?" The money follows from your passion.
You will have to make a living in the world no matter what, so might as well do it on your terms.
I make a living by doing what I love most. This was by deep design, not luck.

I do, unless you're doing long term investing.
Many of you here are not really investing, you are trading. You are trying to buy low and sell high, over and over again.

Recognize that fundmentalist women are not for you, no matter how hot they are.

Depends on how much money you make.
RSD bootcamps can be bad because they get so overcrowded and you don't get much 1-on-1 supervision as it's more like an all-around RSD party than a proper bootcamp. But this can vary by location and time of year.
You'd probably be better off taking a bootcamp with a less well-known coach. That way you get lots of 1-on-1 supervision and his full attention. Owen is too popular do that. You have to understand that because RSD instructors are so popular they can be very lazy with their bootcamps. And they also over-charge.
I would never do a bootcamp in the middle of RSD world summits. It's total chaos and you won't get any serious instruction. It's important to select the right time and location of your bootcamp if it's to be productive.
But if you're a total Owen fanboy and you must have Owen, then that's what you're really paying for. It's fan-service.

Most of my nights out were with wingmen. Maybe 90-95%.
Solo gaming is real hard when you start. But it grows you the most if you can muster the balls to do it.
If you want to seriously learn game, you must look for experienced wingmen who you can learn from.

What do you mean by results? Sleeping with one girl? That is so random it could happen anywhere from 1 to 500 approaches.
The only result you should be interested in is building a solid skillset. Which takes 2-5 years of constant approaching.
If you're not gonna do 1000 approaches you shouldn't even start pickup.

Stop comparing yourself to others. They are not you.
If your looks are really good or you are highly extroverted then getting girls is much much easier.
You have to work with the cards you've been dealt.
You just have to accept that some guys will get girls way easier than you, and such guys will never understand your struggles. So don't listen to them.

Stop thinking about it, stop worrying about it, and just commit to going out and approaching people. Their reactions are irrelevant.
There is no mental trick here. The only trick is to force yourself to go out and approach every week, whether you want to or not. If you try to be too clever here, you will end up not taking any action. So the solution is not more thinking, it's action.
YOU CANNOT THINK YOUR WAY INTO SKILLS WITH GIRLS. You must go in the field and take the blows. All the shit that will arise, you will deal with as it arises.
Pickup requires courage.

@Rishabh R Just the discipline you will need to go out every weekend for 2 years straight will grow hair on your balls.
And much more will come along the way.
For example, most of guys have zero sense of humor. You don't know how to crack to hilarious joke. That will take you 2 years to learn.

I'm not. Because I already went through that.
I spent 2 decades building my life. Many of you guys haven't.
If you are 18, you need to spend at least 10 years grinding to build up a decent life. But realistically more like 20 years.

@Asia P You must be careful not to turn spirituality into a bypass or form of escape from managing your survival and life.
If you struggle to get dressed, what good is your spirituality?
Spirituality is good, but at your age you need to put a lot of time and energy into just mastering survival. Build a decent life for yourself. Don't just sit around hoping that your life will get great all by itself. It won't. You have to put work into it.
Be careful about neglecting core areas of your life like family, relationships, career, building skills, sex, friendship, finances, diet, fitness, health, etc. You have to invest energy into all these in addition to whatever spiritual work you do.
It's very hard to be happy if you neglect all those areas and only do spirituality. You can get yourself trapped that way.

Means nothing.
Smoke it yourself and that's all you need to know.
Why are you asking some naked man in the jungle to validate God for you? That's the mistake.
Also, comparing yourself to full time yogis is foolish. You are not that guy and probably never will be.

There is no substitute to cold approaching and interacting with 1000s of women. This process will grow you in so many ways.
You don't even understand what you're missing.

@IronFoot You are looking at this the wrong way.
Learning game is not about chasing for sex. It's about growing yourself into a powerful man and an adventure.
The main benefit is not the sex you have but how strong you become.