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Best cities
Best citiesOne of my friends moved to Warsaw just for the girls. He lives in the city center in the best condo for $3k/mo and just approaches girls outside his building all week long. He says it's like paradise if you're into Eastern European girls.
Just an example of what's possible.
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Threesome
ThreesomeA few years ago I somehow ended up in a threesome with a girl I've been hooking up with back then and a really good buddy of mine. It was great... But maybe a bit awkward, too, since it was my first and only time being around another man's fully erected penis lol. We tried our best to avoid any physical contact... Except when we high-fived over that chick haha. Epic times.
Then, some time after that, I did it again, with two girls. And it was even more awesome. It almost seems like a dream. Like it didn't actually happen lol. It was quite a while ago.
So yeah, I'd really like to have another experience like that now... and it looks like I might just pull it off.
I've been hooking up with these two girls not that long ago, and it was great. And I learned that they're both bisexual. They even know of each-other and hang out together sometimes. If I make the right moves, I can totally see it happening.
But here's the thing...
I might be dealing with some performance anxiety, or you know, whatever.
I remember back then, when I hooked up with those two girls, I was struggling to rise to the occasion lol. I had to put in extra effort to stay hard. I was having trouble concentrating. Which is very unfortunate because it's not every day that stuff like this happens. At least not for me lol.
So I'm thinking now, am I man enough to handle two girls at once haha...? If I was to pull it off again, should I maybe consider a pill or something?
Maybe I should let them play with each-other more, perhaps introduce some toys into the act, etc. That might take some pressure off.
Idk.
I'm a bit anxious but also excited about the idea. Not sure if it's truly relevant, or I just want it for some other weird reason.
Any of you guys here with experience in this area? Suggestions?
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A book better than GEB
A book better than GEBThat's fine. But I almost never read fiction. I got better things to do.
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Got scammed for almost 1k dollars while trying to buy edibles online
Got scammed for almost 1k dollars while trying to buy edibles onlineDon't buy from anyone without reviews. That's how that problem is solved. And don't place large orders.
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How to get started with Pickup?
How to get started with Pickup?Dude, my How To Get Laid series gave you all the starting steps. Drop the Mystery bullshit, move to where the clubs are, start going out every night club is open.
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The heartbreaking story of Martin Ball's relationship
The heartbreaking story of Martin Ball's relationshipThen again, it's just a divorce. Happens to people all the time. There's no need to make a giant narrative out of it. People grow apart from each other frequently. It's okay. You move on and meet new people and keep growing.
50 years old is still very young.
Ralston just got newly married and he's almost 70! Martin will find a new girl.
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why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?
why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?God is just a concept to you until you have some awakenings. So you can focus on the concept but it won't actually get you closer to God.
What you're missing is a shift in your state of consciousness.
Also, what's stopping you is that you think you're a human.
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Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?
Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?Contemplation, visualization, meditation.
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Transitioning Soon
Transitioning Soon@Jake Chambers Very sorry to hear that man. You're in a sad situation and I get why saying death isn't real would only add insult to injury.
Death appears real from unawake states of consciousness. But saying that doesn't help you. What would help is accessing those states in which death is realized to be imaginary.
Psychedelics have been shown to be very helpful and effective for helping people in terminally ill situations.
If it makes you feel any better, you're not really gonna die, you will simply change forms.
I would recommend psychedelics to help you gain hope. Not fake hope, but genuine hope, cause your consciousness truly is immortal. It's a question of what shape you take.
Basically, with "death", you melt into Infinity, then you can dream anything you want.
If you would like to discuss further, PM me.
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5-MeO-MALT Mega-Thread
5-MeO-MALT Mega-ThreadThe much teased substance is finally here, 5-MEO-MALT.
Has anyone ever tried this? If so, what are your thoughts on it?
Does anyone have any further knowledge on 5-MEO-MALT that could be useful for any psychonaut?
Thoughts on information LEO shared in his video?
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Is marriage a scam?
Is marriage a scam?JP actually has a pretty good take on marriage: it's a commitment. The commitment is the most important part. It's like tying yourself to a sinking ship. You don't do it for the fun. You only do it if you're a serious sailor. If you treat it like that, it's not a scam, it's a test of your resolve and it matures you.
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Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?1) You actually don't know that. Grifters like him can manipulate social media to construct whatever image of themselves they want. Case in point, Tai Lopez. Tate is exactly following the Tai Lopez formula. Nothing new here.
Also, you have to wonder how he got his millions, his mansion, and his supercars. Was it doing something ethical? Highly doubtful. It was some kind of prior grift. You don't make that kind of money with that kind of personality by doing honest work. You get it through grifting, manipulation, and exploitation of people. People like Lopez and Tate are classic manipulators and exploiters -- which is the true secret to how they make their money which they won't teach you.
2) Even if he was a millionaire, his grift now is making himself even wealthier by exploiting young fools. He's not helping you out of the kindness of his heart. No serious millionaire is trying to make others millionaires. A real millionaire is too busy making money from his business to care about teaching you how to make money. The ones who teach you how to make money are doing it because they don't actually have any solid business otherwise. Hence it's a classic pyramid scheme.
Millionaires like Tate are a joke.
He's not the fool, you are for following him.
It shouldn't take you more than 3 minutes of listening to him to smell that he is a grifter. He will fuck you the same way he fucks his women. As is the case with almost every PUA coach, he exploits his male clients worse than he exploits his women. You think he's teaching you how to fuck women, when actually he's mostly just fucking you. This is the classic PUA grift. He didn't invent it.
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How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?
How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?Ignore and go about your day.
If you talk to 1000s of people you will occasionally get some very negative reactions that have nothing to do with you.
Then again, if you're being particularly awkward and creepy, then stop doing that. Basically you need better social calibration.
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NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT
NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT@Leo Gura
That’s actually nutter butters. It’s a shame said substance has been so difficult for me to acquire. Going straight into that state reliably sounds nice. It would also be nice not needing to compensate with a higher dose of another psychedelic. Looks like I’m going to Canada. Its hard for me to grasp the idea of something stronger than dmt?
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When women make excuses not to date you are they true or false?
When women make excuses not to date you are they true or false?Pretty common excuse. It's not worth your time analyzing whether it is true. Most girls are so confused about life they themselves don't know why they do what they do. Just move on to other girls.
Do not try hard to win girls over. If she's not down, next. And don't waste time trying to figure it out. Girls will waste a ton of your time with their drama, real or imagined. Do not indulge their drama, go about your life.
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🍄 Actualized.org on Psychedelics 🍄
🍄 Actualized.org on Psychedelics 🍄@tedens That’s a good tip. Pick a good tip!
A 1 ml syringe is your best bet. They’re only 6 mm or 0.24 inches in diameter.
Coconut oil is your friend
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Question about 5 meo toxicity
Question about 5 meo toxicityHow toxic is the 5 meo DMT? if its toxicity were zero I would smoke a small dose every day, which would make my meditation much cleaner, and a dose of 15 mg every two weeks to make a foray into infinity. But I suppose that could have dire effects on my health. I feel that smoking 5 meo is aggressive for the lungs, for the brain I do not know, I have tried to investigate and I only found the case of a guy who said that after smoking about 3 grams in a year and a half (I think I remember) he had had serious problems respiratory symptoms during sleep, which the doctors told him was asthma but he was sure it was something neurological, after stopping consuming the problem disappeared. I've read that Martin Ball suffers from severe insomnia, but he says it's not caused by 5 meo. is there scientific evidence about its toxicity? Long term consumers?
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Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?Are you kidding me?
Bet-David runs an MLM pyramid scheme himself. Of course he will love Tate. They are two apples from the same tree.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.You should replace the concept of "nice guy" with "weak guy", then it will make sense.
A nice/weak guy is incapable of protecting her when shit hits the fan. So she isn't attracted to that.
Being a good provider does not hit her on a visceral level, does not give her the masculine containment she craves.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.Unless you plan to stay a virgin, you will have to reach hook-point with any girl you intend to date and marry.
You are acting as though the girl you marry will be attracted via some alternative way. No. She will get attracted in exactly the same way as a girl who sucks your dick in the club bathroom.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.@mr_engineer Girls are not attracted to love. They are attracted to SURVIVAL VALUE.
Love comes long after sex.
She's not gonna fall in love with you until you fuck her properly. And she's not gonna let you fuck her unless she sees value in you.
So if you want love, start with offering social value.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.Your mind is just making bullshit excuses to avoid approaching.
Go do 1000 approaches.
Why should any woman love you when you are being such a pussy?
A man who cannot approach does not deserve a woman's love.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.All women are attracted to the same stuff. Nothing is stopping you from falling in love with her after she sleeps with you.
Pickup easily converts to genuine dating. You can set up many dates. You don't have to do one night stands, you can collects dozens of numbers and instagrams.
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Supplements to help with energy and focus
Supplements to help with energy and focusI would suggest doing a lot more testing to discover the root of your health issues. Health issues are usually NOT an accident, especially at age 23. They are often the direct outgrowth of diet and lifestyle choices. So you gotta discover which of your lifestyle choices are screwing up your sleep and your brain and your energy levels.
Things like supplements can be like band-aids on a broken leg. Your body might actually be sending you valuable signals that something is wrong and needs to be fixed rather than masked over.
I'm a night owl myself and find it hard to go to bed early consistently. I actually saw a study that came out the other week which found a link between your genes and whether you are an early bird or a night owl. Now, I'm sure that doesn't mean you can't change. But there might also be some value in being honest with yourself about who you naturally are and go with the flow. Maybe. Even though I'm a night owl, I do find I'm much more productive if I wake up early.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-ThreadIt's a tricky topic because in the ultimate big picture, EVERYTHING serves its purpose. Cenk's demonizing the right has its purpose. White people lynching black people has its purpose. Nazis killing Jews had its purpose. Racism, war, genocide, slavery, anti-Semitism, rape, murder, theft, corruption, harassment, abuse, tribalism, etc. It ALL serves a purpose. It's all totally inevitable and part of Infinity. This is the bitter pill that no ego wants to swallow because the ego loves to judge and be self-righteous and to create an environment which aids the ego's survival.
So if you're gonna say that demonization is moving us forward. Okay. But also realize, so did Nazi concentration camps.
It will take some deep enlightenment experiences to accept that. It will not make sense to the ego-mind. The ego-mind is too selfish to see it. And the ego-mind will try to use this fact to further its agenda by saying things like, "Well, I robbed that person, but it was totally inevitable, like Leo said. So I didn't do anything wrong."
Of course this is just ego being a sneaky manipulative snake. Which is also inevitable.
Reality cannot be other than exactly how it is. The challenge for ego is to surrender to what is.
By definition, anything that happens within reality, servers the ultimate purpose. There is nothing within reality which is "wrong" or "should be otherwise". You cannot optimize reality beyond what it is. It is already 100% optimal and anything that occurs is part of that opitmality unfolding. It just unfolds in counter-intuitive ways. Most people would not think that murder is optimal, but that's because they are not seeing the biggest picture. They are not thinking infinite moves ahead the way God does. So to them, stuff looks sub-optimal. But that is just ignorance. At higher levels of consciousness that will fall away and there will be total acceptance.
This is the #1 reason why nonduality cannot go mainstream. This truth is too brutal for people to accept.