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Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?I rank it as irrelevant. Looks are important to gain her approval to sleep with you, but once she has decided to sleep with you, from then on looks don't matter. Looks are not determining whether she sees you as boyfriend material because if she has already decided to sleep with you, she already finds your looks acceptable. And that's enough. Women are not looking to maximize a guy's looks. They just need him to clear a basic bar. Looks is more like a pass/fail test.
Girls are not saying to themselves: "Well, his looks were good enough for me to sleep with him, but not good enough to make him my boyfriend."
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Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?@Yali A cool, developed guy with a great sense of humor, who makes her feel strong emotions, who has a cool lifestyle, and has his life put together. Has a good career, is comfortable financially, is passionate about life, is very experienced, confident, and comfortable with himself. Who is emotionally stable and treats a girl well.
That is the perfect boyfriend.
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A Bit Jealous Of Girls
A Bit Jealous Of GirlsI would say they are as rotten as the average person. But then money, power, sex, and fame corrupt them even further.
I have experienced a small bit of fame. It's extremely toxic and corrupting.
This is the exception. And this tends to be older celebrities who have matured after a rather degenerate past.
Look at Russell Brand. He used to be heroin addict, now he has found God. Or look at Mike Tyson.
No, your view is badly skewed. First off all, most girls are not cute. Cute is rare. Cute is top 20% at least.
Girls have it easier to get laid, but that doesn't mean they find good guys who don't just use them and move on.
You are biased because all you can think of is getting laid, but if you were a girl getting laid would not mean much to you, your need would be to find a stable guy who sticks around and doesn't just pump and dumb you, or makes you his side bitch.
Even as a hot girl many guys would just pump and dumb you.
Most women struggle to find quality guys. And as a girl, you would too. Even if you were hot. I promise you. You would get lots of sex but you would not be fulfilled and you certainly wouldn't be loved. And then all your beauty would fade and you would hate yourself.
You have a cartoon idea of what it's like to a woman. You couldn't even walk down a street at night without worrying about being raped.
You are envying a cartoon fantasy. Like, why wasn't I born Batman?
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Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?Sounds to me like you're not offering enough value. Like you're not a high value guy. The girl is not that impressed by you and feels she has more value than you.
It sounds like you're fairly physical attractive, but then once the girl sleeps with you she sobers up and realizes that this guy isn't offering me very much. The other possibility is that you're physically attractive but you don't have much charm, humor, or charisma. You're not stimulating her emotionally enough to fall in love with you. This basically means your game is weak.
To really hook a girl you gotta sweep her off her feet by making her feel strong emotions and a deep rapport with you.
Of course online dating is not gonna be as great as approaching.
I've basically never had a girl end a relationship with me. Because she knows she found a rare gem. So the ultimate solution is to make yourself into a rare gem.
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The beginnings of pickup
The beginnings of pickupYes, your first 500 approaches will be pretty cringe. Just get them out of the way as smoothly as you're able.
Your vibe is like 90% of your results. So the reason you're getting these bad reactions is because your vibe is off, your subcommunication is off, you're tense, you're afraid, you're insecure, you're not smiling, you don't feel good in your body, your verbals are awkward, you're not smooth, and you don't know how to lead the conversation well.
All of that improves with practice. Don't beat yourself up.
One of the best ways to improve is watch as much in-field hidden video as possible. Or get a wingman who can demo it for you. You need to see what a smooth approach looks like and sounds like.
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The beginnings of pickup
The beginnings of pickupI have literally paid my wingmen to record their approaches and give me the audio files. So I can study them.
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Girlfriend doesn't know how to police her shit
Girlfriend doesn't know how to police her shitMost girls who cheat do not want to cheat, it happens by accident because they are just being girls and not thinking ahead.
So it does help to set rules for her. She needs leadership. Without proper rules a girl like that will cheat. In the end a girl like that will end up with a guy who has the balls to lead her properly. She will keep floating around like a butterfly until a serious man catches her. That's how highly feminine women are. In a sense it's a test of how much you want her and how much of a man you. If you want a highly feminine girl, you must claim her as yourself. You literally have to tell her, "Your pussy belongs to me." This will drive her nuts with excitement. That's what she wants. The more feminine she is the more she wants it.
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Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girlsLol
If you get married you will stop having sex altogether.
The best reason to get married is if you want children and you found the perfect partner. Other than that marriage doesn't make much sense.
You can have unlimited sex with a girlfriend. And even that will get boring after a while.
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Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girlsDivorce rate is about 45%.
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A Bit Jealous Of Girls
A Bit Jealous Of GirlsYou don't appreciate that most women are NOT loved for who they are. Only the hottest girls. That leaves the other 90% unloved.
What you are saying is you wish you were a hot girl in the top 10%. Yeah, well, I wish I was born in the top 10% too.
These are silly things to wish for. The lives of most hot girls are actually miserable, because they are not forced to develop any character. It is foolish to wish for an easy life. Being loved for your beauty is not a good thing, it is actually a curse.
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Casual Date & Getting Laid & Talking Points
Casual Date & Getting Laid & Talking PointsI like to do dates in large outdoor shopping centers, where there is endless little shops and the whole date is basically a stroll. I don't like to sit at a restuarant. You want to bounce around without having to drive.
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Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.Be careful with your sampling bias. Plenty of girls don't have many partners, you just don't care about that because it doesn't fit your narrative.
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Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.Are you kidding?? Of course you do!
Of course women are impulsive with sex, they only have sex when the mood is right. The feminine is spontaneous, it goes with the flow, or wherever it is lead. Every woman is open to sex given the guy creates the right mood for it.
But even so, many women aren't your typical party girl club slut.
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HUGE doses of psilocybin— 30 to 40g
HUGE doses of psilocybin— 30 to 40gI was chatting with one of my DMT friends & he shared this video on HUGE psilocybin trips:
LARGE doses of 30-40g psilocybin ? this guy says induces a more intense trip into infinity & beyond. It’s more of a “psilocybin is where it’s at” kinda video.
Shrooms are the easiest (and cheapest) for me to get, more so than any other psychedelic SO, I’m intrigued. He said that LARGE doses of mushies won’t kill you unlike other substances but “you”/ your identity will most certainly die.
Eating 3g or more of shrooms always makes me pretty sick the next day so I can’t imagine what would happen with this amount.
I thought it was pretty interesting overall so wanted to share. If anyone has done a huge dose, PLEASE share!
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How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)You could probably get far on a 3 day dry fast with 16+ hours of meditation every day.
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How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)@Leo Gura
And it causes suffering when you don't live up to it?
At the moment I'm viewing my life as a process of setting up an infrastructure that will allow me to do more and more spiritual work. That includes satisfying my cravings, building solid skills & career, buying a small house to reduce my expenses to not have to pay the rent indefinitely, etc. Having relationships and social life kinda handled and stuff like that. But in my mind, I do all that because I'm leading my life to have a lifestyle that allows solitude, full-time contemplative days, psychedelics, more practices, and stuff like that.
But the thing is, I haven't had any direct experiences of the things you talk about, or other spiritual folks talk about. But I kinda intuit that that's what life is about, understanding (philosophy) and embodiment.
But still, that's a bit of brainwashing (in a good way I guess) that I got from you and other people like you, but I think it leads to a good place, and since I'm 27 years old, I still have (hopefully) some time to figure all that out myself.
Did you also view your life and daily routines and habits and all that as a ladder to higher and higher realizations when you were my age?
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How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)This work is not something you really have a choice about if you value metaphysical depth. You just follow the metaphysical depth and it takes you wherever it takes you.
Of course.
My life would be easy if I did not put so much pressure to improve myself.
Yes, I get it. That's important to do.
That's okay. It all starts by following that intuition -- love of philosophy and metaphysical depth.
Well, I suggest you do at least one psychedelic trip to pop your cherry and get a preview of where this work leads. That will be very exciting and inspiring for you. You want fuel for you vision.
I spent 5 years building a business just to allow me to have time to do personal development stuff. And I invested years building up infrastructure to allow me to have to freedoms that I have now. Without that no spirituality would have been possible for me. But I didn't even know about spirituality back then. All I knew is that I need complete control over my life and schedule. Max freedom. So I grinded to create it.
At your age you know more about spirituality than I did.
There is truth in that perspective too.
But there is a big difference between casually washing some dishes vs having to grind through a bunch of business chores that clog up your mind ans distract you entirely from being conscious.
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How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)My pleasure.
Well, it was a somewhat gradual process, not just a single event. It was an accumlation of breakthroughs.
One was my first awakening ever at a meditation retreat which was sober. That made me realize the Divine. It was so short. But it was awesome.
Another was my first mushroom trip.
Another was my first huge 5-MeO breakthrough where I realized reality is Absolute Infinity.
Another was my first LSD trip where I first realized I'm God.
It's hard to even pinpoint where I began a proper spiritual path.
The first time I read about enlightenment in a book, about 11 years ago, I immediately knew it was the most important thing in the world. But I didn't act on it until years later because I was busy with building a business and learn pickup. And I had no idea it meant I was God. If I understood that back then I would have begun immediately.
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About Ketamine therapy
About Ketamine therapyI just don't think it would be helpful to most people. My experience of THC is radically unique. I don't know of anyone who trips on THC like me.
I had a 12+ hr long trip one bong hit of weed. It was the most radical trip of my life. I couldn't walk straight for 2 days after that.
I am anti weed for most people because it doesn't work on them like it works on me.
Find what works for you.
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Andrew Tate Arrested
Andrew Tate ArrestedFind better wings.
Almost all my wings were far better than me, which equates to tons of free coaching for me.
That doesn't sound good for Tate....
I'm sure there must be some good coaches.
It really depends on your income. Usually coaches are hired by pretty successful guys who make good money so it's a minor expense to them.
I won't spend your life savings on it.
It's just gonna vary a lot depending on your skill level, sticking points, etc.
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Are You A Narcissist? - Take The Test
Are You A Narcissist? - Take The TestI used to have a wingman who was a short, little Pakistani guy. But he came from some royal lineage family. He told me that because of that he had such massive entitlement that he believed every girl on the planet was his personal property.
Did he get laid a lot? Oh yeah.
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How can I convince my brother that tap water is not good enough?
How can I convince my brother that tap water is not good enough?Look man, you're not gonna feel the effects of clean or dirty water. The bad effects just accumulate over the decades. It's a subtle thing. In 20 years you might get cancer and not even know why.
RO is simply the cleansest water there practically is, so why risk drinking anything else. How cheap must you be not to pay $20/mo for clean water?
It's one of those things you just do because it is right, not because it makes you feel better the next day.
Tell your brother than RO tastes way better and just to imagine 10-20-30 years of gradual accumulation of toxins. There is no doubt that tap water has some tiny level of heavy metals and toxins in it. And you drink 20 gallons of it each month! For 50 years. Think what that will do to your body. Remeber, tap water is what is in your toilet.
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Does Modafinil Affect Your Sleep?
Does Modafinil Affect Your Sleep?Hard to recall now. I rarely use it. I took 1/4th of a 200mg pill.
I don't use it much. But it may be helpful to some.
Don't use it every day. Or you will develop tolerance. Twice a week would be ideal. Save it for when you are ready to get a lot of work done.
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Modern women are selfish?
Modern women are selfish?Dude, what you don't understand is that having pussy on tap was never a thing unless you were a king.
Most guys who lose a girlfriend will need years to replace her. Guys struggling to get sex is the norm even if they are moderately social.
If you want an abundance of sexual options there is nothing natural about that. That is a highly artifical scenario which requires special design and effort. It's not enough to just be social, you must be insanely social, out every night hunting for girls. That or become a celebrity.
Getting laid was never easy. Which is why guys found one girl and got married for life.