Yali

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  1. Best cities
    Best cities
    If you want an abundance of girls that are cute, feminine and stylish I think Paris is the place to be. Paris is pick-up heaven, no better place in my opinion. French girls are very cute as well as all the foreign ones there. 

    Eastern Europe seems like a good option because of the cheap prices and abundance of some very feminine girls. Serbians, Hungarians and Baltics are a pretty bunch. Normally I would also mention Russia and Ukraine... but yeah...

    Though make sure you have your game down before moving to such a place otherwise, you'll be in for a rude awakening when even supposedly "easy" girls flake on you one after the other, and then you'll have to return home without having had the experience you hoped for. 

    From my experience, nationalities such as Spanish and Brazilians love being approached the most. They really appreciate that polarity. They will for example play with their hair and are easy to strike up a conversation with. In contrast, I noticed that more masculine Germanic girls can have more often shitty reactions such as being skeptical, unimpressed, and even outright bored.

  2. Queen Elizabeth II has passed away
    Queen Elizabeth II has passed away
    What's silly is that this royal cosplay still takes place in the 21st century.
    Chimps wearing crowns.

  3. What is ego-death?
    What is ego-death?
    In the very moment of ego-death it is realized that your biological birth was just a story. It is realized that you are not a physical or a biological object, but an idea. This idea is eliminated, as though it never existed. Not only that, it becomes almost impossible to imagine how you ever thought you existed.
    Imagine life minus you.
    That's ego death. Everything stays the same. But you are missing!
    In other words, absolutely nothing changes! Just its always been, and how is right now!
    There is no you reading this sentence. The sense that there is a you reading this sentence is a fantasy. The end of this fantasy is ego-death.
    Ego-death is not an idea or a belief, it is state of consciousness. Accessing this state of consciousness requires intense concentration and stillness of the conceptualize mind. The conceptualizing mind is what is sustaining the fantasy of a you in the same way that a video game console sustains the appearance of Super Mario. If the console is unplugged, Mario disappears.

  4. Is 26 too late for college?
    Is 26 too late for college?
    You're still super young and no one will care about your age. What employers care about is your demonstrable skill set and portfolio.
    If you want to get hired as an artist, all you need is a great portfolio. You don't even need a degree and your age is irrelevant.
    All of your attention should be focused on building your skills and putting together a jaw-dropping portfolio.
    Artists get hired solely on their portfolios.

  5. What if you are old?
    What if you are old?
    @Samantha If you really feel called to serve the world, by all means go for it. The point is simply a very practical one: the older you get the less time you have to build a foundation from scratch and the less energy you will have to work with. This is not meant to be a limiting belief, but a factual statement. If this statement wasn't factual the question of age wouldn't even arise at all.
    It's not that you can't do it, it's just that maybe there's an even bigger game you could play! Which is spirituality.
    One of the best benefits of being older and retired is that you can really focus on spiritual work in a way that people who are building careers cannot. Starting a new business or career takes a lot of time and energy which could be used for spiritual work.
    But it all depends on your priorities. The best you can do is follow your heart.
    You know in Hinduism they have a pretty nice model for how to structure one's life:
    Phase 1 of life: Growing up to adulthood, education
    Phase 2 of life: Getting a job, having a family, taking care of them
    Phase 3 of life: After the kids are grown and out of the house, and your finances are stabilized, you retire and pursue enlightenment full time. This is really supposed to be the pinnacle of life. Not a downer.
    Then you after your enlightenment you can become a guru and contribute wisdom back to the young.
    It's a pretty good model. Of course you can break all the rules and do whatever you want.

  6. What if you are old?
    What if you are old?
    That's definitely more challenging.
    At your age I would spend more time on awakening and spiritual practice.
    Of course you can work on some books and so forth, or start a community, but also your priorities should be different at your age. It's less about impacting the world and more about deepening your spiritual connection with yourself.
    Awakening is more satisfying than meeting any career objectives anyhow. You don't want to be filling the last quarter of your life with a busy work schedule at the cost of your spirituality.

  7. I rejected myself when I approached her. I want to know why this happens?
    I rejected myself when I approached her. I want to know why this happens?
    Because you have not trained yourself for months to be a closer.
    After feeling the pain of losing 100 more girls even better than her, you will learn to close.

  8. Massive GREEN Step for Reddit
    Massive GREEN Step for Reddit
    I wouldn't say that half agrees with his exact detailed justifications of white superiority. I'd say half leans right-wing. And I think plenty of right-wingers have a vague sense that white western civilization is better than the rest because it has historically been so dominant and successful -- regardless of how you explain it. I think at least half the country is ethnocentric, feeling like their race and culture is the best.
    Ethnocentrism is a more nuanced thing than racism. Stage Green SJW types would benefit from making that distinction. It's easy to call people racist when really they are stuck in ethnocentrism. They are unable to see beyond their bias towards their culture and ethnicity. Such people are not nazis, facists, or explicit racists.
    I would say, for example, that my mother is ethnocentric. She def has biases against blacks and others simply given her upbringing, but not in an openly racist way. It's subtle. I think A LOT of people are like that. At least 50% of the world population. You can call such people racist but you are going to turn them against you and make them stubbornly defensive. They will never admit they are racist.
    For example, if I married a black girl, that would def disturb her. I think that is super common in the boomer generation.

  9. Massive GREEN Step for Reddit
    Massive GREEN Step for Reddit
    The thing about how worldviews and ideology works is that one is a true believer. One feels entitled and fully justified to one's worldview by definition.
    I don't think he was corrupted by money in this case. He's just a true believer in his ideology. He does not recognize it as an ideology.
    He doesn't see his worldview as useless or racist. He sees it as crucial and scientific/realistic.
    All this just boils down to a difference in worldview. And all worldviews are relative.
    The whole problem of racism is that racists never see themselves as racists, they see themselves as realists. It takes deep self-reflection to recognize one's own racists justifications as self-biased. This requires radical openmindedness and painful self-honesty.
    Being a philosopher, Molyneux fell into the trap of turning his philosophy into an identity which he is now committed to surviving and reproducing. It's not about money for him, it's about his pride and his identity. He's a very idealistic guy. Personally I wish him well. I think he has a good heart, although of course I don't agree with his ideas on race, IQ, and the superiority of Western European culture. He simply does not understand development psychology or how consciousness evolves.
    Banning someone like Molyneux might end up backfiring moreso than banning someone like Alex Jones. Molyneux is someone who could be debated and reasoned with. Driving this stuff underground could be like sweeping food under the kitchen rug.

  10. n,n-DMT is not reliable
    n,n-DMT is not reliable
    I tripped on this substance around 100 times or more, many combinations as well including with LSD, 4-ACO-DMT, 4-HO-MET, Ketamine, MDMA, benzodiazepines.
    Out of around 100 trips, only about 4 or 5 induced a "mystical state".
    For me, it was reliable when combined with higher doses of LSD. The sense of total unity was repeated twice in a row on two attempts with 4 and 5 tabs respectively.
    On its own, vaporized DMT is very similar to Salvia. And sends you through a nonsensical railgun shooter type landscape at high speeds, with nonsensical bizarre apparitions of blob aliens, jesters, hallways, cartoon characters, and so on. Within that is no insight at all...
    Combined with mushroom analogues, a visual masterpiece was produced with 4-AcO. I think the 4-HO-MET combination might be dangerous as I experienced depressed breathing. The manufactured "dream" was like a fever dream and made no sense.
    LSD ego death is closer to ego replacement or some kind of fracturing. You can believe you are other people or things. LSD can also reveal the subconscious elements of the mind which disagree and argue with each other. That is certainly the most insightful experience with LSD (taken on its own) that I recall.
    Changa was like a mushroomy version of DMT, it felt to have more of a classical psychedelic feel.
    Vaporized 5-MeO-DMT by the sounds of it, is the only way to reliably put someone into a "nondual" state.

  11. Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
    Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
    YES! Of-fucking-course you are. We all are. I was hugely insecure about my looks. I didn't believe I could ever attract a hot girl. When I first started it seemed impossible, like a fantasy.
    It certainly plays a role, but most guys seriously overestimate its importance. You will be shocked how hot of girls you will attract if you approach enough.
    One of the coolest things I learned is that I can attract the hottest girl in the club. You can attract porn star hotness level girls. Because girls are primarily attracted to strong personality, not looks.
    If you have above average looks, that certainly helps. It will be easier.
    That's enough get to hot girls.
    Girls don't judge your looks as much as you judge theirs. See? That's your problem. You're projecting.

  12. Best cities
    Best cities
    One of my friends moved to Warsaw just for the girls. He lives in the city center in the best condo for $3k/mo and just approaches girls outside his building all week long. He says it's like paradise if you're into Eastern European girls.
    Just an example of what's possible.

  13. Threesome
    Threesome
    A few years ago I somehow ended up in a threesome with a girl I've been hooking up with back then and a really good buddy of mine. It was great... But maybe a bit awkward, too, since it was my first and only time being around another man's fully erected penis lol. We tried our best to avoid any physical contact... Except when we high-fived over that chick haha. Epic times.
    Then, some time after that, I did it again, with two girls. And it was even more awesome. It almost seems like a dream. Like it didn't actually happen lol. It was quite a while ago.
    So yeah, I'd really like to have another experience like that now... and it looks like I might just pull it off.
    I've been hooking up with these two girls not that long ago, and it was great. And I learned that they're both bisexual. They even know of each-other and hang out together sometimes. If I make the right moves, I can totally see it happening. 
    But here's the thing... 
    I might be dealing with some performance anxiety, or you know, whatever.
    I remember back then, when I hooked up with those two girls, I was struggling to rise to the occasion lol. I had to put in extra effort to stay hard. I was having trouble concentrating. Which is very unfortunate because it's not every day that stuff like this happens. At least not for me lol.
    So I'm thinking now, am I man enough to handle two girls at once haha...? If I was to pull it off again, should I maybe consider a pill or something? 
    Maybe I should let them play with each-other more, perhaps introduce some toys into the act, etc. That might take some pressure off.
    Idk.
    I'm a bit anxious but also excited about the idea. Not sure if it's truly relevant, or I just want it for some other weird reason. 
    Any of you guys here with experience in this area? Suggestions?

  14. A book better than GEB
    A book better than GEB
    That's fine. But I almost never read fiction. I got better things to do.

  15. Got scammed for almost 1k dollars while trying to buy edibles online
    Got scammed for almost 1k dollars while trying to buy edibles online
    Don't buy from anyone without reviews. That's how that problem is solved. And don't place large orders.

  16. How to get started with Pickup?
    How to get started with Pickup?
    Dude, my How To Get Laid series gave you all the starting steps. Drop the Mystery bullshit, move to where the clubs are, start going out every night club is open.

  17. The heartbreaking story of Martin Ball's relationship
    The heartbreaking story of Martin Ball's relationship
    Then again, it's just a divorce. Happens to people all the time. There's no need to make a giant narrative out of it. People grow apart from each other frequently. It's okay. You move on and meet new people and keep growing.
    50 years old is still very young.
    Ralston just got newly married and he's almost 70! Martin will find a new girl.

  18. why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?
    why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?
    God is just a concept to you until you have some awakenings. So you can focus on the concept but it won't actually get you closer to God.
    What you're missing is a shift in your state of consciousness.
    Also, what's stopping you is that you think you're a human.

  19. Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?
    Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?
    Contemplation, visualization, meditation.

  20. Transitioning Soon
    Transitioning Soon
    @Jake Chambers Very sorry to hear that man. You're in a sad situation and I get why saying death isn't real would only add insult to injury.
    Death appears real from unawake states of consciousness. But saying that doesn't help you. What would help is accessing those states in which death is realized to be imaginary.
    Psychedelics have been shown to be very helpful and effective for helping people in terminally ill situations.
    If it makes you feel any better, you're not really gonna die, you will simply change forms.
    I would recommend psychedelics to help you gain hope. Not fake hope, but genuine hope, cause your consciousness truly is immortal. It's a question of what shape you take.
    Basically, with "death", you melt into Infinity, then you can dream anything you want.
    If you would like to discuss further, PM me.

  21. 5-MeO-MALT Mega-Thread
    5-MeO-MALT Mega-Thread
    The much teased substance is finally here, 5-MEO-MALT. 
    Has anyone ever tried this? If so, what are your thoughts on it?
    Does anyone have any further knowledge on 5-MEO-MALT that could be useful for any psychonaut?

    Thoughts on information LEO shared in his video? 

  22. Is marriage a scam?
    Is marriage a scam?
    JP actually has a pretty good take on marriage: it's a commitment. The commitment is the most important part. It's like tying yourself to a sinking ship. You don't do it for the fun. You only do it if you're a serious sailor. If you treat it like that, it's not a scam, it's a test of your resolve and it matures you.

  23. Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
    Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
    1) You actually don't know that. Grifters like him can manipulate social media to construct whatever image of themselves they want. Case in point, Tai Lopez. Tate is exactly following the Tai Lopez formula. Nothing new here.
    Also, you have to wonder how he got his millions, his mansion, and his supercars. Was it doing something ethical? Highly doubtful. It was some kind of prior grift. You don't make that kind of money with that kind of personality by doing honest work. You get it through grifting, manipulation, and exploitation of people. People like Lopez and Tate are classic manipulators and exploiters -- which is the true secret to how they make their money which they won't teach you.
    2) Even if he was a millionaire, his grift now is making himself even wealthier by exploiting young fools. He's not helping you out of the kindness of his heart. No serious millionaire is trying to make others millionaires. A real millionaire is too busy making money from his business to care about teaching you how to make money. The ones who teach you how to make money are doing it because they don't actually have any solid business otherwise. Hence it's a classic pyramid scheme.
    Millionaires like Tate are a joke.
    He's not the fool, you are for following him.
    It shouldn't take you more than 3 minutes of listening to him to smell that he is a grifter. He will fuck you the same way he fucks his women. As is the case with almost every PUA coach, he exploits his male clients worse than he exploits his women. You think he's teaching you how to fuck women, when actually he's mostly just fucking you. This is the classic PUA grift. He didn't invent it.

  24. How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?
    How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?
    Ignore and go about your day.
    If you talk to 1000s of people you will occasionally get some very negative reactions that have nothing to do with you.
    Then again, if you're being particularly awkward and creepy, then stop doing that. Basically you need better social calibration.

  25. NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT
    NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT
    @Leo Gura
    That’s actually nutter butters. It’s a shame said substance has been so difficult for me to acquire. Going straight into that state reliably sounds nice. It would also be nice not needing to compensate with a higher dose of another psychedelic. Looks like I’m going to Canada. Its hard for me to grasp the idea of something stronger than dmt?